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mera saval ye hai k ky me is tarah ki ladki se shadi karsakta hu jo haiz se nahi hoti hai or aage b hone k koi ummeed nahi hai?to islam k hisab se istarah ki ladki se shadi karsakte hai k nahi plzzz mujhe achche or sahi reply dijiyega agar is par koi molana wagera b ho to plz jawab dijiyega.

myrizvi

Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 102 Post: 5481 Age: 53

Posted on:23rd Jan 2012, 10:43pm

shadi ka maqsad

1.shadi ka major maqsad naslay insaani ko nagay baRhana hai... aik hadees ka mafhoom hai k tum zeyadah bachay jannay wali say shadi karo... issi tarah naslay insaani ko roknay walay aamaal ko islam maiN discourage kia gaya hai.

2. shadi ka doosra maqsad opposite sex say jinsi pleasure haasil karna hai. opposite sex aik doosray main naturally attraction rakhtay haiN. lehaza society ko jinsi fasaad say bachaanay k liyeh nikah karkay joray banaanay aur hadooday nikaah k ander jinsi satisfaction ko limit kardia gaya hai.

3. shadi ka teesra maqsad "gharelu unit" ko complete karna hai... ghar, society ka aik aisaa unit hai, jiss main mard iss ghar ki moaashi zaroortouN ko poora karne k liyeh out door waork karta hai...aur ghar ka indoor work aurat karti hai...iss taarh pooray society ki donoun zarooriyaat poori hoti haiN.

aam taur say aik shadi main yeh teenoun requirement fulfil hoti haiN...lekin kaheeN kaheeN exceptions bhi hoti haiN /hosakti hain... jaisay kissi joray ki aulaad hi nah ho...yaa kaheen donoun life partener kamaatay houn yaa sirf female kamaati ho etc etc.

ab chouNkay hayaatyaati ilm etna taraqqi karchuka hai k shadi say pahlay male yaa female k medical check up say pataa chalaya jasakta hai k female mother ban sakti hai yaa nahi yaa male father bannay ka ahal hai yaa nahi.... chonaanchah agar yeh peshgi maloom hojaa.ay k aik female mother bannay ki ahliyat nahi rakhti (ossay haiz /menses nahi aataa aur ayandah bhi nahi aa sakta, it's one reason of female infertility) to aisi laRki say shadi karna bilkul jaiz aur allowed hai. balkay agar aisi laRki ka rishtah nah aataa ho, yaa oski shadi hokar talaaq hochuki ho to aisi laRki ki kifalaat ki niyyat say nikaah karne ka ajar o sawaab bhi milega

doosri baat yeh k aisi laRki say shadi karne k bawajood mard ko apni nasal aagay barhanay k liyeh normal larki say doosri shadi bhi karni chaahiyeh, agar woh aisaa afford karsakta ho to... taaham aisaa karnaa laazmi yaa zaroori nahi hai...yeh har fard apnay baray main khood faislah karsakta hai.

conclusion yeh k agar koi laRki jinsi etbaar say naa.mokammal ho (maan bannay ki ahliyat nah rakhti ho0 tab bhi oss say shadi ki jasakti hai...issi tarah agar koi mard jinsi taur par naa.mokammal ho tab bhi oss say shadi karna jaiz aur allowed hai... lekin aisi shadi ka payedaar honaa zara mushkil hota hai, bilkhasoos agar larka "naa.mard" ho, kiyoun aisi soorat main biwi ko jinsi satisfaction nahi milti.......iskay bar.aks agar larki naa.mokammal ho to laRka doosri shadi bhi kar sakta hai, apni aulaad k hasool k liyeh ...jabkay jinsi sakoon to aisi laRki say bhi haasil ho hi jati hai

useless

Group: Members Joined: 13th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age: 28

Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 1:47am

feroz ali

you want to marry for lust or want to use her as pros?

myrizvi said right the perpose of marriege

Diplomate

Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2009 Topic: 48 Post: 3154 Age: 35

Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 2:59am

shadi ka maqsad aur faida

questioner k swal par comments karny sy pehly main myrizvi k above comments par aitraaz karna chahon ga , ooper jo b tahreer kia geya hay wo basically shadi ka maqsad nahi balky shadi ka faida hay , jis trah taleem ka maqsad zehan ko hadayet lainy aur qabool karny k liye tyaar karna hota hay jab k taleem ka faida yeh k job mil jati hay , ghar ki guzar oqat ho jati hay , insan mu'ashry ka parrha likha rukan ban jata hay waghaira waghaira , magar hum sab ny fee zamana taleem k hasool ka maqsad mehaz job lainy ya business start karna samjh rakha hay aur issi waja sy taleem hasil karty hain

issi trah shadi ka asal maqsad jo islam ny define kiya hay wo yeh hay k aik mard aurat ki aur aik aurat mard ki Islamicaly takmeel kary , sexual desire ki halal fulfilling , ghar ki takmeel ho jana , olad ka hasool ya nasal-e-insani ki afzayesh yeh mehas shadi k faidy hain , maqsad nahi hain

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re "mera saval ye hai k ky me is tarah ki ladki se shadi karsakta hu jo haiz se nahi hoti hai or aage b hone k koi ummeed nahi hai?"

sab sy pehly to questioner sy hi yeh sawal hay k unhain kaisy pata chala k aurat ko haiz nahi hota aur aynda b na hony ki tuwaqqo hay ??

iss k baad , kisi b trah agar pata hay to swal ka answer yeh hay k aurat ko mehaz bacha dainy wali aik masheen , ya sexual desire ki takmeel k liye hi biyah kar ghar main nahi laya jata , yeh sab insan ki fitri khwahishaat hain jin ko insan shadi ka maqsad samjhta hay , main bar bar yeh arz kar chuka hon k yeh shadi k faidy hain , aur inn fowaiyed ka hasool har insan ko karna chahiye

laiken inn fowayed ko shadi ka maqsad na samjha jaye , jab insan shadi ka asal maqsad jo k islam k nazdeek hay ko samjh lay to phir iss sawal ki gunjaiesh hi khatam ho jaye gi , magar aysa hona na mumkin hay , lehaza questioner ko mashwara hay k agar wo halaq-e-khuda par reham ki niyat sy ya phir kisi ka sahara ban'na chahta hay to mazkoora khatoon sy shadi kar sakta hay , aur agar olad ka hasool , apny khandan ko expand karny ki khawahish hay to aik aurat k hoty howy dosri shadi b ki ja sakti hay

Ahetesham

Group: Members Joined: 24th Dec, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 21 Age: 29

Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 10:27am

Shadi ka maksad or faidy.

My Mr.myrizvi aur Mr.Diplomate ki bato se mutmain hu....App jis se pyaar karte hai to us se hone wale faide ya nuksan ke bare me nahi sochna chahiye....

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