|
tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 4 Post: 774 Age:
26
|
|
| Posted on:23rd Jan 2012, 10:40am |
|
| |
 dukhi dil
ye bhi apki bat sahi hai ese shareef insan ko dhoke me rakhna sahi nhi hota
mere khyl se ap shadi krlo khuda pak pe chordo rub razi to sb razi .
|
|
alirajput |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 13 Post: 4231 Age:
35
|
|
| Posted on:23rd Jan 2012, 7:43pm |
|
| |
Shadi dhoke se nahiN honi chahye tote)sapne and to thread owner dukh dil
Ye yaad rakhaiN ke Allah pak kabhi bhi insaano ka HAQ marna nahin sikhaata, jhoot bolna nahiN sikhaata, fareb dena ya kisi ko fareb maiN rakhna nahin sikhata. Jho kaam bhi aap Allah ki marzi se karengi, Allah ke pegham ke mutabiq Quran aur Sunnah ke mutabiq, wohi baat theek rahengi. Na aap uss raat koi acting kijiye, na aap apne shoher ko jhoot se rishta jorre, maiN iss baat par iss thread ke 2 ya 4 members se agreed hooN ke aap sach sach kahaiN aap ne hone wale shoher se aur usse darkhaast kare ke wo ye baat kisi no bataay aur aap se mukhlis rahe, agar wo Allah ko maane wala huwa, aur aap se waqaay mukhlis huwa, toh woh yahi karenga.
Thanks to all.
|
|
tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 4 Post: 774 Age:
26
|
|
| Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 1:17am |
|
| |
i agree wd u bhai pr mene suna hai ke khuda pak rishte bnata hai insano ke jis ki takdeer me yeh likhta hai ke kisi kis ke sth shadi hogi or sb kch uski hi marzi se hota hai .
ager wo apne hone wale shohar ko sb sch btati hai to kia use wo accept karega kia wo ye bt bardash kr payga for example agr usne shadi nhi ki sch bata kr
phr or dosra uske ly rshta aye phr uski ye sch btaye agr ese sb use accept na karn to iska kia hoga mjhe ye batye kia apne aib kisi ko btana theek hota hai kia kahta hai is bare me islam.
|
|
useless |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
28
|
|
| Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 1:45am |
|
| |
dukhi dil
my experience is saying that a man can not do sex with female untill she is not agree even its rape because the point of rape is coming when the female is alone and very close to the male she gave the apportunity to rape i am not talking about gangrape or revengiounce rape in your case this is also seems that you allow him to come close n thn all hapened be realistic its finished now there is hell of females did this and never feel guilt so be happy n make marriege |
|
alirajput |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 13 Post: 4231 Age:
35
|
|
| Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 2:36am |
|
| |
tote)sapne and further explanation to thread Owner, 4 correct decision reply : "kia apne aib kisi ko btana theek hota hai kia kahta hai is bare me islam."
Islam gunah ki tashree ke liye nahiN kehta, lekin jhooti buniyad pe shaadi ki ijazat bhi nahin deta.
reply: "ager wo apne hone wale shohar ko sb sch btati hai to kia use wo accept karega kia wo ye bt bardash kr payga"
Hamne insan ko bohot kamzor samajna sharu kar dya he. Agar insan ko Allah ne bardaasht, sikhaye haiN toh yakeenan wo As SAB'URR haiN. Uss ne insan ko apas maiN mukhlis hona aur pyar karna sikhaya haiN toh yakeenan wohi sab pyar ka MaliK haiN , wohi Al WADOOD he.
Tote)sapna ye jho rishta hota haiN na, meri behen, shaadi ka, shoher/bivi ka, toh ye, bohot ehaim aur mayne rakhne wala hota he. Iss maiN agar ek shaks dhokha karenga bhi, toh bohot mumkin haiN ke wo dhokha zindagi maiN kahin na kahin saamne aak kar kharaa hon jaay gaa.. Leehaza koy aisa faisla jiss maiN zindagi ka sharu ya zindagi ke khatam ka risk hooN, sahi faisla karna zaroori haiN. Issliye aap bhi ek behen hone ke naate unko wo behtereen mashwara de, jho aap ko, aap ke rishtey ki buniyad ke liye theek lagta haiN.
|
|
dukhi dil |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 9 Age:
24
|
|
| Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 4:07am |
|
| |
plz help me koi he meri is uljhan ko door karne wala k-- |
|
dukhi dil |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 9 Age:
24
|
|
| Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 9:44am |
|
| |
plz help me koi meri is uljhan ka jawab dega k H/dr Qasim sahab ne mujhe aesa kiu kaha k wedding night intercourse nahi karne dena kiya partner ko is pe koi aetraz nahi hoga ye to pareshani ka koi hal nahi or agar is bat se wo naraz hojaye to?yahan to sub apni apni kehte hain aakhir me kiya karoon?kis ki baat manu meto or confuse ho gayi hoon. |
|
koojamunda |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Nov, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 123 Age:
26
|
|
| Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 11:25pm |
|
| |
dukhi dil dukhi dil ap kissi married larkay say shadi ker loo...aur kissi kanwaray larkay kee life barbad na kerna |
|
sakali |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Jan, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 13 Age:
27
|
|
| Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 11:31pm |
|
| |
dukhi dil i think k apko chahye k usko sb sch btaden coz is me apki koi ghlti nhi hy, r wo waqae ap se scha pyaar krta hoga to kch time sochne k bad apko answer dedega,i know k ye bhtt mushkil kam hy apke lye but krlen qk agr usko bad mn pta lgega to ap pr koi trust nhe krega phr r usy us wqt pta chalne pr ziada dukh hoga,may be k wo phr koi bara qadqm na utha le against you. |
|
sakali |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Jan, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 13 Age:
27
|
|
| Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 11:31pm |
|
| |
dukhi dil i think k apko chahye k usko sb sch btaden coz is me apki koi ghlti nhi hy, r wo waqae ap se scha pyaar krta hoga to kch time sochne k bad apko answer dedega,i know k ye bhtt mushkil kam hy apke lye but krlen qk agr usko bad mn pta lgega to ap pr koi trust nhe krega phr r usy us wqt pta chalne pr ziada dukh hoga,may be k wo phr koi bara qadqm na utha le against you. |
|
hasna |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Apr, 2009 Topic: 39 Post: 1753 Age:
25
|
|
| Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 10:01pm |
|
| |
dukhi dil
kia ap 1st night per nahi hone wali bleedng ki waja se itna kuch krne aur sochne per mjboor horhi hein...:(
dear apse jane anjane ko bhi galat hua aur apkay sath galat kia gya aur apki niyyat saaf thi dil saaf tha tbhi apki us lurkay se jaan chut gai.wrna ap soch nahi sakti k agur wo lurka apka peecha nahi chorta to na wo apko apnata aur na hi apko kisi aur ka hone daita.
jis gunah per Allah pak ne perda dala hua hai ap usko hud kio utha rhi hein.yeh muashraa humesha aurat ko hi galat sumjhta hai chahy uski galti ho ya nahi ho.
agur Allah pak ne us waqat apki ezat apky ghur walo ki nazro me bchaye rkhi to uski waja apka saaf dil aur beqasoor hona hi hai wrna ghur walo ko maloom hojata to apki kia ezat rehti.......ap agur us lurkay ko sab kuch btao gi aur usne apky hi ghur walo se puch lia to...???? apky ghur wale jeety ji mar jayegy.kio k shadi ka muamlaa do insano ka nahi do handano ka hota hai.
apki ezat Allah ne mehfoooz rkhi hai apko us lurkay se nijaat dilai aur burai ko bura janne ki himmat di apky liye acha rishta bhaija aur uskay dil me apkay liye halooos aur pyar bhi hai to ap kio ALLAH ki raza mein razi nahi horhi?????
agur apko guilty ka itna ehsas hai to us lurky k samne apni aur apne ghur walo ki bezati krwane se acha apne ghur walo ko maa baap bhai behno ko suchai btao na k apni ezat hud hurab krne k sath sath unka sar shurram se jhukaao.ghur walo k pass inkar krne ki bht si wajah hongi aur wo apko behter mushwra hi dygy.....aur wohi kregy jo apkay liye sahi hoga.kio k jo phool pehlay hi bikhar chuka hai usy ab uski shaakh se juda nahi kre ap.yeh na ho k apky sath sath apkay ghur wale bhi ruswa hojaye.
laikin mera yehi mushwra hai k ap kay jis raaz per Allah ne perda dala hua hai aur ap apne sab faislay Allah per chor dy.
|
|
vikky singh |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Jan, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
26
|
|
| Posted on:25th Jan 2012, 2:43am |
|
| |
 for dukhi dil and rani
jankar bahut bura laga ki aap ke sath aisa hua.lekin me aapko ek bat ye kahana chahunga ki aap apne hone wale hamsafar se kuch na chupaye.me married hu.me jisase pyaar karta hu wo aaj meri hamsafar hai.thanks to god!lekin jo hadsa aapke sath hua wo hadsa usake sath bhi hua tha meri jindagi me aane se pahale.usane mujhe ye bat batai.dard to mujhe bhi bahut hua tha lekin mera pyaar us dard se bahut aage tha.mujhe ye pta nhi ki uske sath rap hua ya wo khud sexual desired thi kisi se.lekin mera pyaar hamesha isgham se upar rha.kabhi kabhi mujhe laga ki usane mujhse jhoot bola hai.phir bhi mera pyaar mere gusse par havi rha.so me apse yehi kahana chahunga ki shayad apke aas pas apko,apke dard ko samjhane wala koi ho.jise aap love karti ya jo apko love karta hai,usase aap apna dard byaa karo.agar kisi ko apse pyaar hoga,apke dil se pyaar hoga to wo apko jarur apnayega.khuda hafiz! |
|
tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 4 Post: 774 Age:
26
|
|
| Posted on:26th Jan 2012, 2:38am |
|
| |
dukhi dil dekho meri sis ye jo shohar/biwi ka rshta hota hai na boht hi pyra hota hai
is rshte ka basic sachai se hona chaye dekho sach kbhi bhi chupta nhi hai kbhi na kbhi samne aahi jata hai ek sch ko chupane ke boht se jhoot bol jate hai
pr apka esa sch hai jo chup to skta hi nhi bahter yehi ke ap apne hone wale shohar ko sb sch bata de phr shyd apko maf bhi krde apke pyr me ye bhi ho skta hai ke wo sochega ke ye bt mjhe shadi bahd bhi pata skti thi pr usne mjhe dhoka nhi diya or phr maaf kr de agr nhi batya or shdi krli to use ziada dukh or bura lagega ke mjhe andhere me rakha mjhe dhoka diya .
|
|