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nimmi123 |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jan 2012, 8:08am |
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 2nd marriage proposal: he has low sperm count
salaam bros n sisters, its nimra from gujranwala, i have found this website veryuseful and informative , i have a query, i need some suggestions from sensible bros n sisters , i ve taken separation <KHULA>from my exhusband coz of some serious problems of his character n relationships with other females <donnwanna discuss tht> , ia hve a baby girl of 6 years , now i have recieved a proposal froma very decent family , that person is highly educated n religious minded but his parents have told us in advance that the boy is having issue of lowsperm count and low motility , he is also divorced coz of the same reason, though those people r really nice n honest , i wanna ask , can i accept that proposal as i already have a daughter , i m extremly confused that what shoud i do , u ppl can also understand that n our culture its very difficult for a girl to get married second time with a baby girl. please give me sincere suggestions as true human beings,thanks in advance?
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 6910 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jan 2012, 9:35am |
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compromise or new baby nimra guy family seems very honest because they ask you and provide information low sperm count early..but it is ur choice that if u need next baby then you can face problems and difficulties in life again.but if u want to compromise and you do nt need new baby for your new husband then this marriage is good for you.. |
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nimmi123 |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jan 2012, 10:35am |
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goodman thanks bro for ur advice, i already have a baby and have enough responsibilities of her ,ALLAH has already blessed me with a child , i m making my mind to go for the proposal, agay ALLAH behtr karay , and besides that i have heard that now there are some techniques in medical like IVU /ICSI through which low sperm count can b treated , success rate is high, is it true?????please inform |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 6910 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jan 2012, 11:20pm |
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medically medically i do not know about that how much sucess rate .It is good that if you made your mind for this proposal then it is good.. |
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nimmi123 |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jan 2012, 2:25pm |
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goodman thanks for ur appreciation brother , anyone here who can tell me about these procedures,any doctor? thanks |
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WEHSHI |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 25 Post: 1959 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jan 2012, 3:25pm |
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nimmi123 ypu hav already a baby in that conection if this new guy has low sperm rate u hav no problem but if he is able to satisfy u physicaly i think this the best wt u can get
so go on with out hasitation |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 6910 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jan 2012, 3:38pm |
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wehshi is physcial satisfication is also necessary? |
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nimmi123 |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jan 2012, 2:29am |
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wehsi thanks for ur advice, ya his mom told my mom that hes physically alright only prob is with the sperm count , they r honest enough to reveal anything, so for the sake of information i was asking about the procedures of IUI /ICSI , in case if marriage takes place by the grace of ALLAH, we can get an authentic opinion.... |
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oldboy34 |
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2012, 11:05pm |
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hello nimmi how r u? i think u can marriage. Kya pta Allah koi behtri ki surat nikal day, aur yeh shadi ap ki bht si khushion ka bais bany. Allah ka naam lay kr Han ka dain. Its just suggestion. Thanx |
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Kooldude999 |
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2012, 4:37am |
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Agreed with oldboy Ya nimmi i too think dat it is right step to marry that person |
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usmani sah |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Jul, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2012, 2:14pm |
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inshallah
ASSALAM O ALAIKUM u shud go with that prposl. Allah give u a chance to spend ur life hapily with ur new huby. this is more helpful for ur 6 year baby. Allah behter karega aap k saath inshallah.
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usmani sah |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Jul, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2012, 2:16pm |
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.... baqi jo prob aap ne bataye us k bare me just wana say k allah kub us kamzori ko badal de. or jo prob un sahab ko h aane wale waqt me qudrati ya medicly us prob c chutkara mil jaye or shyd u wil spend a good n satisfy life. God bless i.
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nimmi123 |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Feb 2012, 2:18pm |
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old boy,cool dude, and usman sorry i checked ur messages now, thankyou so much for ur nice advises brothers, it has encouraged me to take a decision, ALHUMDULLILLAH mairee baat pakki gaee hey, they are wonderfull people , i m quite happy,please remember me in ur prayers,ALLAH bless u all with countless blessings :) |
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