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adqamar |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Jan, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 14 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Mar 2012, 4:14am |
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 main shadi shuda honkar dusri shadi ke haqq maiN hon
Aslam-o-Alaikum.
may married ho..Aor bache bhi han...lakin may aik larki ko chane laga hoo..aor us se shaadi krna chata hoo..us se foreplay krte hue 3 saal ho gaye han.(just foreplay ,not sex, intrcrs)..
chahta hoo k mazeed gunah na kroo..us say shaadi kr loo...
lakin prblm ye ha mere aik cousin ne mujhe bataya ,k wo jis tarha tum se relation rakhe hue ha,wo kisi aor se bhi aisa kr sakti ha.... aur is baat ka us ne mujhe saboot bhi de dya..
jiska mujhe bht dukh bhi hua.,.aor us larki se poochne pr us ne mujh se maafi mangi aor kaha k ye 1st time galti ho gai ,aainda aisa nahi hoga...may sirf tum se pyar krti hoo...aor apne kye pr sharminda hoo aor Allah se toaba krti hoo...
may us se shaadi krne ka soch chuka tha...lakin uski is harkat se bht dil dukha ha... shayad is lye k may ne apni biwi ka dil dhukana cha tha...us ko chorna chaha...
plz ,mujhe batayin k kya mujhe ab us larki se shaadi krni chaye , jis ki burai ka raaz merey doston aur cousins ko maloom ha...
ya phir uski galti ko maaf kr doo aor bhool jaoo.. k her insaan se galti hoti ha,us se bhi ho gai...
agr wo buri larki hoti to mujhe se aik baar zaroor intrcrs krti ... jab k wo foreplay ko bhi maana krti thi ..aor bura kehti thi...
plz mujhe batain may kya karoo..
plz,,bilkul sincere aor serious reply krna , thnx.
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aanab |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Dec, 2011 Topic: 6 Post: 45 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Mar 2012, 8:56am |
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adqamar , bahii ap ek shdi shuda hain aor MASHA ALLAH se ek beti b hai to kia ap apni wife se kush nahe ???
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yashfeen |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Nov, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 626 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Mar 2012, 10:18am |
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adqamar as frankly speaking apko ye sb fuzul ki harkate chod kr toba kr leni chahiye |
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nidaa |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Jan, 2010 Topic: 17 Post: 145 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Mar 2012, 12:15pm |
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adqamar agar us larki koaap k saath sachi muhabbat hoti.to kabhi bhi woh kisi aur k pass na jati..iss liye aap us ko bhol jain .aur apni wife aur apni family k bare mein soche..aap ke tu bache bhi hain.un k saath to aisa na karin.ALLAH ne aap ko itni bari neemat di hai..aur plz apni wife ko bhi dhoka na dein..
aisi larkiyan barose k kabil nahi hoti..aaj aap us se shadi ker bhi lete hain..to us k baad agar woh aap ko phir dhokha de .to phir aap kya karin gay? |
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WEHSHI |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 25 Post: 1951 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Mar 2012, 12:33pm |
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adqamar
aap shadi shuda aur ek beti k baap hain is k baad bhi islam ne merd ko 3 mazeed shadiyon ki ijazat di hai lekin BEGHERTI ek ki bhi nhn ijazat ap ne jo kiya aur kertay hain woh na piyar hai na kuch aur bas hawas hai aur yeh gunaah hai aap pani biwi aur beti ka haq talaf ker rahay hain jo k gunah hai is k ilawa aik bat aur ager ap ki samjh main aai woh lerki ap k sath khel rahai hai ap ka cazn sahi hai jis ne ap ko waqt per sab bata diya ap dekh lijiyay ga k jesay hi ap us lerki se shadi na kernay ka kahain gay woh roay dhoay gi lekin phir ap ko black mail kernay per aai ja gi aap bhi aik beti k baap hain ager kal ko khuda na khuwasta is lerki ki terah woh bhi behak gai to?????
Don't insult a new member. Lend a helping hand but don't provoke a fight. You are a senior member of forum. Show seniority through your dialogue with other members. Moderator
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alirajput |
Group: Joined: 31st Dec, 1969 Topic: 0 Post: 1453 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Mar 2012, 3:11pm |
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Chahat gunah nahiN he Dear friend, ooper bayanat parne ke baad, mene ye faisala kia haiN ke aap ko thori guidance mujse bhi mile, beshak maiN shaadi ke rishte se hatt kar piyar wiyar maiN koi khaas ehmiyat nahiN deTaa.
Aap ne uss larki ke 3 saal, uske saath khaloos se foreplay kia haiN, aap ke beqaul wo ye bhi nahiN karna chahti thi.. Jho ke by me, ek achi larki ki ailamat he. Mere nasdeeq, aap ki cousin aap ki dusri shaadi hote, aur pehle ghar ke tootne se ghabraye wi haiN, aur uss ke paas ye advantage he ke woo aap ke qareeb haiN aur aap ke faisale ko influence kar sakti haiN, aap ne taur pe.
Mera mashwara: Aap pehli wife se, inko milwaye. Break the silence, aur inke ghar rishtaa bhijwaa de. Aur saath saath iss larki ke bhai se bhi baat kar bethaye just in case unke parents na maane, toh koi wali hon inko shaadi pe represent karne ke liye aur haath aap ke haath maiN dene ke liye.
Aap aap ne pehle nikaah ko mat thore. Insan shadia toh kartaa rehtaa haiN, aur dono ko sambhalnaa ek saath bilkul difficult nahiN he, yahan pe Senior Islamic Suggestors forum Members myrizvi, mufti, wehshi aap ko guide kar denge, jahan kahiN aap ko dushwaari hon.
thanks
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mayhooraaj |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2010 Topic: 11 Post: 147 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Mar 2012, 3:52am |
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to ad qamar... apko mohabat nahi ha,sirf aik sexual attraction ha...ap ne 3 saal tak sirf foreplay kya....jis ki waja se ap ki sex ki khawish mazeed barh gai...agar aap us se shaadi kr lete han,ya shaadi k bagair hi sex kr lete han to ye mohabat ka bhoot usi waqt uter jaye ga... ap un wajoohat ko dekhein jin ki waja se aap us larki ki taraf attract huey...
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alirajput |
Group: Joined: 31st Dec, 1969 Topic: 0 Post: 1453 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Mar 2012, 5:21am |
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mayhooraj kia aap illegal sex ko promote kar rahe haiN? Agar nahiN kar rahe toh shayd aap 2nd marriage, jiski ijazat islam detaa haiN, shayd aap iss qanoon ke khilaaf hon? |
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yashfeen |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Nov, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 626 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Mar 2012, 5:49am |
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agreed wid alirajput yes! Agr ap financialy aur physicaly dono wives ko sambhal sakte hai tu ap dusri shadi bhi kr skte hai. |
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Nahla |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Mar, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Mar 2012, 6:24am |
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:-/ Bhaiyya apko aik ghair aurat ki bewafai ka kitna dukh hai aur Jo dhoka ap apni biwi ko derae hain uska trust tor Rae hain uska kiya.. Sharam ani chahiye apko...!!! Touba karein aur apni biwi bacho pe dehan dein. |
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Nahla |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Mar, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Mar 2012, 6:31am |
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 Apni aulaad ka he khayal karlo
Bhai achi Larki hoti to woh yeh bhi na karti Jo kiya hai usne. Jo tum kar Rae ho apni biwi k sath kal kO tumhari beiti k sath koi aisa kare to tumhe Jo taklif hogi tumhe lag pata jaega..! Kabhi socha hai k tumhari aulaad Kis taklif se guzre he ussey agar yeh pata chale k uskey baap ne uski maa ko dhoka dis ya uskey baap k Kis se na jaiz taluqaat they... Zinna k after effects bohat burey hotay hain Mano ya nae Mano... ALLAH zina ka badla duniya Mei bhi death si aur akhrat Mei bhi touba karo daro Allah k qahar se... Logo ka dil nae kanpta aisi harkat kartay Huey ..? Tumhe biwi ka na sahe apni aulaad ka bhi kabhi khayal nae aya..? Chalo jo ghalti honi thee hogae touba karo aur apni zindagi Mei wapis ao.Jo rishta bana nae usko nibhaney se pehle jiskay nikah Mei ho uskay farz poorly karlo pehle. |
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alirajput |
Group: Joined: 31st Dec, 1969 Topic: 0 Post: 1453 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Mar 2012, 7:53pm |
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nahla aap ne bohot ghalat points uthaye haiN, najaiz taluqat??? Yashfina please inko bataiN ke islam haqq deta haiN shoher ko dusri, teesri aur chauthi shaadi ka. Na ye aap ni bivi ko dhoka de rahe hain aur na dhoke maiN rakh rahe haiN, kindly har baat aap wives, bivi aur bacho se na sharu kia kare, uss ne shaadi kar ke, aap ni sab desires par paani nahin pher dia, haan main maantaa hoon ke uske saath foreplay nahin karna chahye thaa, lekin aap aur WEHSHI bhai kaafi explicit detail mentions kar rahe jese ke aap ki beti hoti toh kia takleef hoti etc? Beti bhi hoti, toh inka farz bantaa haiN ke make sure kare uske shoher ko dusri ya teesri karne maiN dushwaari pesh naa aye. |
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yashfeen |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Nov, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 626 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Mar 2012, 8:12pm |
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nahla hum agr islamic pt of view se dekhe to pata chalega k agr koi shaks physicaly or financialy strong hai or wo apni dono biwiyon ko equaly sambhal skta h, or pehli biwi ko bhi agr aitraz nai hai tu wo dusri shadi kr skta hai.
dusri shadi behtr hai usse k aadmi gunah karta rahe kisi ghair k sath.
Hope u understnd |
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mayhooraaj |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2010 Topic: 11 Post: 147 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Mar 2012, 3:21am |
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to alirajput. may ne illegal sex ko jaaiz ya doosri shaadi koi galat nahi kaha...."adqamar" ko sirf ye batana chaha k aisi mohabat sirf kuch dino tak hi hoti ha... agar wo us larki se pehle se hi sex kr lete to, yaqeenan unka dil us se bhar jata... ab bhi yehi hoga k agar wo shaadi bhi kr lain ge,to kuch dino tak unka dil us larki se bhar jaye ga... acha yehi ha ,k pehli biwi aor bachoo k saath khoosh rahein... aor us larki se tamam taluqaat khatam kr dain.
aor ap ne jo point wehsi pe kya ha.wo meri bhi nazar may theek nahi.k aisi exmple dein..k beti hoti ha...etc...etc...
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airpak |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Oct, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Mar 2012, 3:22am |
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yea zaroor karein doosri kya 4 karsakte to 4 karein.... sahaba ki aksar taadad ne ek se zayad nikah kiya tha... ap k paaspaise hain to zaroor karo
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Jamil Shah |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Feb, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 15 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Mar 2012, 3:23am |
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Zindagi jahanaum mat banaw Maray bhi aap nay jo kuch batay hay is k baray ma may na or logon k raye bhi parha laikin ma aap ko ye bata do ki aisi larkhi kabi bi wafdar wife nahi ban sakti jo shadi say pehlay foreplay karti hay. yani najaiz taluqat rakti hay. Shadi k bad aisi larhki say shadi karni say app ki zindagi jahanum ban sakti hain keh os may na marayga or na aaram ayga. Ap apni wife ko zyada say zyada pyar dain. is may shak nahi ki tomari wife tum ko our zyada pyar da gi or app ki zindagi janat ban jaygi.
Aik our bat ye be yad rakhain keh aap shadi k bad bi larhkyon say forplay karta hay to iska matlab ye hay keh aap b apni bivi k sat wafadar nahi. tum nay kabi ye be such hay ki agar tumari wife kisi our mard k sat forplay karagi to aaya wo wafadar hogi???????? or tum osko maaf karogay????????????? |
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airpak |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Oct, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Mar 2012, 3:26am |
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yashfeen
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airpak |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Oct, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Mar 2012, 3:34am |
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yashfeen --irrelevant post deleted--
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airpak |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Oct, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Mar 2012, 3:34am |
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yashfeen --irrelevant post deleted--
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airpak |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Oct, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Mar 2012, 3:36am |
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yashfeen --irrelevant post deleted--
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