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Esha |
Group: Members Joined: 28th May, 2008 Topic: 6 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 7:31am |
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 I Love Him: What Should I Do?
Salam.im fm/25.meri prob ye ha k me ek larky se boht mohabbt krti hn n wo bhe mujhy us se ziada mohabt krta ha.wo mujh se 3 saal chota ha,me ne MBA kea hua ha, mery kafi rishty a bhe a rahy han, wo larka abi bba kr rha ha, us ne mjhy saal intezar ka kha ha, ham log out of caste shadi nei krty. wo meri caste ka bhe nei, mery parents nei manain ga kbi, ilove him alot.tell me wat we do?
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Tehseen |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Feb, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 385 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 7:36am |
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Replay salam
jab aap ki cast or hy aur ap ko is bat ka b yakeen hey k aap k ghar waley nhi mangey to aap phir kion is bat k pechey par rahi hooo , dyekhoo shareerf gharaney ki larkiyaa ghar wlaon ki marzi sey chatli hen mera yey hargiz matlab nhi k mein koie tana deyra hon ,
meri b Gf thi aus ney kisi or sey shadii kar li aus ki cast or thi , per kai huwa last mein gahr wlaon ney aus pe zoor dia aur wo shadii kar gaiee start mein problem hoti hey per phir life normal ho jati hey aur wo larka to wesy b Study kara hey , aur mein b study mein hon , meri job nhi thi to aus larki ney shadii kar liiiii
mera to ap ko yeyhi mashwara hey k aap achey Rishtey pe incar na karoo wo larka jo marzii kary roie aap ki minaty kar tarley kar jo marzi kary aap apney dil PATHAR ka kar lo jesy meri Gf ney kia tha hahahaaahaaa
per ik bat hey mujey aus ki yaad bohat ati hey ,,aur han plz apni shadi k bad aus sey koie link na rakhnaaa warna ap hi ko 10tiioon hoo gii
baki ap ki apni marziii |
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~~HITMAN~~ |
Group: Members Joined: 09th May, 2011 Topic: 122 Post: 4287 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 7:52am |
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 rE: Esha Deol
apne parent ko razi karnay ki koshish karain pehle, agar wo na manay tou theek hai jesa wo chahtay hian wesa hi karain.......koi aesa ghalat kadam uthanay ki zarorat nahi hai jo parents k khilaaf ho....apkay parenst hi sab kuch hain
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Maryam |
Group: Members Joined: 17th May, 2008 Topic: 26 Post: 4432 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 8:04am |
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 esha
shadi k liye na to mard ka chota hona koi naqs hae na hi us ka out of cast hona . lekin larrkiyon ka muamla larrkon se mukhtalif hota hae baaz aukat larrkay apni marzi ko prefer kartay hain .lekin larrkiyon k liye behtar yehi hae k woh ya to apni mother ko insist karay ya phir apnay parents ki marzi se shadi kar lay. bilfarz agar aap us ka 2 ya 3 saal bhi aur wait karti hain aur us k baad bhi ya aap k parents razi nahi hotay ya woh larrka hi nahi maanta aur mazeed intezar ko kehta hae to yeh rishtay bhi hath se chalay jaien gay phir aap kiya karain gi? |
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sunny007 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 4166 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 8:40am |
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agree i m agree with maryam didi, hitman, and tehseen
plz esha follow them |
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rajmallik |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Jun, 2008 Topic: 22 Post: 749 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 9:57am |
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esha tahseen bhai ki advise per amal na karain to bahter dekhoo sister main bhi kisi ko bohat pyar kerta hooon janta hoon osay khush rakhoo ga bohat khud per bharoosa bhi hai agar aisa bharoso apko khud per aur os larka per hai to pahla to jaisa hitman na kaha waisa karo sirf bat he nahi karna parphoor koshish karna ka ghar main sulah safaye sa shadi ho jaye theek hai na nahi to mari to personal raiye hai k ap agar pyar karta hain to osko jana mat daina theek hai na but larka per aitmad karna mushkil main bhi sath dai aj kal ka larkay baray nikha-too hain sath chor daita hain chahay jitna bhi pyar ka wada kartain rahain ap ko bahen samaj ker advise da raha hooon sab members ko kohu ga ka mari personal raiye main koi intrfr nahi main khud bhi nahi sooooo ... hop understand han to esha jiii pyar hai to kuch bhi kar jana bus suicde na karna thanks bus tahseen ki advise na mana ka osa relation khatam kar do tahseen dont mind bro
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Khan Bhai |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Sep, 2008 Topic: 3 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 1:07pm |
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Re ESHA Dekho esha hona to wohi hai jo khuda ko manzoor hai ager to wo aap ki kismat main hai to aap ko zaroor milay ga. aap apni tarf se koshish ker k dekh lo apni mother ko raazi kero un ko aitmaad main lo i hope wo aap ki help karen gi. ager to aap ko us larke per waqai yaken hai to phir us se kaho rishta behja. phir aap apni tarf se poori koshish kero ager phir b kuch nhi bnta to phir achi aulaad ko apne parents ki maaneni perti hai. kuch time lage ga apne aap ko adjust kerne main. baaqi aap khud samajhdar hain ALLAH aap ki madad kare AMEEN |
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s4u |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2011 Topic: 94 Post: 5311 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 4:56pm |
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 Esha Deol
Aapki problem bhi mere wali hai....Mera bhi kuch esa hi masla tha mere ghar wale kisi surat bhi manne ko tayar nahi the..jab k larke wale rishta bhi le ker ae to inkar ker dia gaya humari traf se.....
Per Allah ne jinhe milana ho wo her hal me mil k rehte hai...
Aapki ager koi bari sister hai to aap pehle os se bat krein ya jis ki ghar me suni jati ho.
aur ager esa nahi hai to aap khod ahista ahista apni Ammi ko os larke k bare me btaein...k aap bhi ose psand kerti hain...aur wo bhi..3 saloon se aik dosre ko jante hain etc etc.
Insha Allah sab behter ho ga.
Aaj kal log apnu se ziyada gheero me hi shadi kerna psand kerte hain...
Ager Allah ne aap ko milana ho ga to aap zaror mil k rahein ge...warna jo qismat me ho ga wahi ho ga...
God bless u
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Annie |
Group: Members Joined: 19th May, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 233 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 5:15pm |
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 esha
Raj Malik ka mashwara ghalat hai. Shadi se pehlay pyar ka koi concept nahin hota or na hi aik shareef larki ko yeh zaib deta hai k woh shadi se pehlay kisi ghair mehram mard k sath koi taluq rakhay. Aap apnay parents ka sochein or jo woh aap k liye pasand karein, us ko qabool karein. ALLAH aap ki rehmat aap k saath ho gi.
Shadi se pehlay yeh pyar sab filmi dramabazi hai.
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s4u |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2011 Topic: 94 Post: 5311 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 5:58pm |
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Annie I dont agree with u.
Larki ko islam ne pora haq dia hai apni psand napsand btae.Agey jo manzor e Khuda ho ga wahi ho ga.
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Annie |
Group: Members Joined: 19th May, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 233 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 6:11pm |
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s4u pasand /napasand batana aik alag baat hai. Pasand karnay or pyar karnay mein bohat farq hai. Aik larki ko shadi se pehlay kisi ghair mehram se pyar nahin karna chahiye. Na is baat ki hamaray mazhab mein ijazat hai or na hamaray culture mein.
Parents ko apni pasand bata di jaye, yeh theek hai, lekin yeh sochna k I love sombody an I can do everything for him, this is rubbish.
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uetian31 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2008 Topic: 20 Post: 1006 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 6:14pm |
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Annie ini bizti to na kerian sb aashqoun ki....i agree k ye sb filmi batain hain but kya ekrian pyaar nai keriangy to brdy akisy houngy...lolz |
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nikama |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 1808 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 6:15pm |
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 esha......
I just read only ur post....in short in my advise,, forget every thing...and marry there , where ur parent woud want...no bog arguments here but ....look first he is younger than you , still studying.. ya I dont mind all these but this should be only in worst scenario...ya...and cast difference is big difference in pakistan..ya ,so it would not go staright away , like filmy stories.ur parent would be hurt a lot ..and there would be also more and more complications..who know what would happen next 2-3 yrs..be practically pls ..meri batoon ka bura na mana pls , I know its painfull for u ,but in the end u will get the big time reward...and lastly I hate all these love between girl and a boy , all bull shit..I dont belive love before marrige... every muslim boy or girl , first marraige then love .no films and rubbish novel stories..pls awake up ..and do best for u..God bless you.. |
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s4u |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2011 Topic: 94 Post: 5311 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 6:18pm |
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ok Annie jab insan kisi ko psand kerta hai to pyar khod hi ho jata hai.
haan per ise show na ki jae.ye aur bat hai.
per is waqt Esha ye poch rahi hain k main kia kroon to is k liye yahi behter hai k wo apne parents se bat krein phir dekha jae ga k kia kerna hai.
ye to main bhi nahi kehti k is bat k liye koi na mane aur ye pyar kiye jaein...
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13614 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Sep 2008, 2:59am |
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esha dekhiye sister
agar wo ap se 3 saal chota hai to koi rpoblem nahi hai...chota ya bara hona koi problem nahi hoti...hamaray Hazoor Pak S.A.W bhi Hazrat Khadija se 15 saal chotey they....so ye koi issue nahi hai
lekin asal bat ye hai k ap apne parents ko manayen...agar wo man jatey hain to ap ye shadi ker leyn werna agar wo nahi mantey to phr ap ye shadi bilkul na kijiye ga....
meri bat yad rakhiye ga k parents aulad ka kabhi bura nahi chahtey aur wo hum se ziada experienced hotey hain...unhon ne hum se ziada duniya dekhi hoti hai is liye un k faisley hum se ziada behter hotey hain
so sub kuch Allah per chor deyn aur parents se bat keryn |
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rajmallik |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Jun, 2008 Topic: 22 Post: 749 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Sep 2008, 6:05am |
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annie agreed wid s4u annie ap ko chaiya ap kisi dr sa colsult karain apki tabyat theek nahi lag rahi waisa jab dekh raha hoon jab sa aye hoon maray pechay he gaye hooo kam az kam mashwara to sahi do hahahaha thx s4u apna inko xpplain kar dia huh
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rajmallik |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Jun, 2008 Topic: 22 Post: 749 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Sep 2008, 6:09am |
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ANIY jiska dil karta hai australia england profile main likh diata hai chahya english ati ho ya nahi han waisa waha per english ana zarori bhi nahi haina aisa he haina or esha bus kar lo shadi himat karka bus kar li juda hona achi bat nhai GOD IS WID U
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sunny007 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 4166 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Sep 2008, 12:17pm |
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dear anie and bateeji s4u main aap logon ki takrar ko khatam karne k lie kuch arz karna chahta hoon
baat dar asal ye hai k har insan ka dil hota hai, chahe wo larka ho ya larki. aur ye b 100% chance ho sakta hai k in dilon ko pyar ho jata hai.
yahan par agar s4u ki baat ko lete hain k jab koi larka/larki pasand ata/ati hai to pyar khud ba khud ho jata hai to wo b apni jagah teek hai, lekin ye b sochna chahie k pyar andha hota hai.
ab yahan esha ki pyar ko sanbhalna hai to main ye kahoonga k wo apni pasand ka izhar apne ghar walon se kar le, specially apni ammi, ya elder sister se.
agar wo inkar kare to esha ko ye b haq hasil hai k Q?
agar parents ya elders is Q? ka satisfactory answer de sake to pir esha ko parents k samne haar manne main hi behtari hai.
baqi esha Masha Allah 25 years ki ek maute larki hai wo apne parents k faisle ko khoob samajti hongi
hope u all will understand what i m talking |
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sunny007 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 4166 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Sep 2008, 12:20pm |
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esha akhri lines ki correction
baqi esha Masha Allah 25 years ki ek mature larki hai wo apne parents k faisle ko khoob samajti hongi |
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Esha |
Group: Members Joined: 28th May, 2008 Topic: 6 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Sep 2008, 2:14pm |
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Re: Aoa.me ne sari posts parhe,kuch ne mjhy bhul jany ka mashvara dia,jis ke me ne try ke bt nei hota,hmara payar 3 months purana ha not 3years.mjhy bhuk nei lagte na iftari time na sahri me kuch khayai jata ha,mera dil krta ha bhaag jaon ya sucide kr lon,us k sath nikah kar lon.bt us ke study ke wja se chup hn.agar aisa kuch kea tu us ke study bech man rah jae g,ghar waly kbi nei many ga i know.help |
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