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sadia_khan |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 10:45am |
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 Kon ghalat?mai ya woh?
salaam all.... mera masla thora ajeeb hai.meri arrange shadi hui.meri jithani har kisi k sath boht frankly baat karti hai.meray husband meri jithani ko boht support kartay thay.koi agar baat hoti to meray shohar meri jithani k haq mai boltay.meray shohar ka boht khayal rakhti hai q k usko support kartay hain.jithani ka baby hua to hospital mai uskay sath hotay thay.raat ko floor par sotay thay.uskay baby ka diaper change kartay thay.jithani k kehnay par gutti b meray shohar ne pilayi.mujhe jithani ki samajh nahi ati.koi sharam nahi.dewar k samnay behooda batain karti hai unko hansaanay k liye.mujhe to sun kar he itna ghusa aya k shadi shuda ho kar apnay shohar aur dewar k samnay aisi behooda batain karti hai.delivery k silsilay mai wo jab oir say hospital mai admit hui to meray shohar job k baad seedhay hospital pohnch gaye.mai pakistan mai hoon wo aur uski family bahir hotay hain.ap batayein ghalat kon hai? |
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koojamunda |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Nov, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 123 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 11:21pm |
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sadia sadia ap ka husband kyoo itna out of limit hota ha..is kee wajohat ka pata kerwain ap? |
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sadia_khan |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 11:39pm |
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helpful nature meray shohar boht helpful hain.wo sab ki help kartay hain.meri jithani ko hamdard ki zarurat hai.meray shohar ko wo apna bhai behen maa baap dost nand kehti hai.mere jeth laparwa type insaan hain.ghusay k b teyz hain.kabhi pyar ki intihaa kartay hain.kabhi ghusay mai out of control ho jatay hain.jithani ab choti say choti baat b meray shohar ko batati hai phone kar k.ye baat mujhe zeher lagti hai. |
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koojamunda |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Nov, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 123 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 11:59pm |
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yes to ap apni jethani koo kahoo kay woo her bat apnay husband say share keray |
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Muhammad Atif |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Dec, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 113 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Jan 2012, 12:03pm |
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Sadia khan Ye bilkul b normal conditions nh he apk husb jitna marzi helpful rahe par behodo bate or zrurat se zyada personal hona or bohat c bate b hogi jo apne feeli ki hogi jo zahir he nh likh pai he par samji ja sakti he....
K ap k husb kya krte he....
Anyway apko mashwra ye he k ap pyar se apne husb ko samjhae or btae k ye sab noramal nh he ap zrur help kre par rishto k taqudas me rehte hue.,.
Or sadia ap b Filhal apna mind saf rakhe or ye mat soche k apki jithani or ap k husb me koe gulat talqat he ap bs pyar se guftugu kre husb se unhe sumjhae or unhe jene k tor tareqe rasmo rawaj or dunyadari ki bate kare or yad rakhe srf pyar se e ap ka ghar bach skta he agr apne shaq kia or apna rawaya rude kia to prob ho skti he or 4 logo ki zndgya khrb b ho skti he |
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sadia_khan |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Jan 2012, 1:33am |
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koojamunda husband k sath share karti to problem he koi na thi.uska husband boht ghusay wala hai.donon ki love marriage hai lekin lagta bilkul b nahi. |
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sadia_khan |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Jan 2012, 1:42am |
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Muhammad Atif mai boht ghusa hui jab mai ne ye batain suni.apni jithani ko kuch nahi bol sakti obviously mai apnay shohar say he baat karungi.mai naraz b hui thi k tum logon ka rishton ka koi lihaz he nahi.tumhari bhabi ghalat batain karti hai to bajaye hansnay k usko mana karo.meray naraz honay k bawajood phir aisi baat hui.upar say mujhe kehtay hain yar mai kya karun mai kuch nahi keh sakta wo meri bhabhi hain ye responsibility uskay shohar ki hai k usay samjhaye.meray samjhanay say us par kuch asar nahi hoga.mai ye sun kar chup ho jati hoon lekin andar he andar kurhti hoon.jithani par b ghusa hai koi usko ehsas dilanay ki koshish nahi karta....aur itni boldly mujhe meray husband ki pasand na pasand k baaray mai batati hai k mujhe lagta hai mai uski biwi nahi wo uski biwi hai |
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tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 789 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Jan 2012, 2:03am |
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sadia khan aj kal boht se urate apne shohar ko chor kar dosre mardo pe interesting leti hai
is tarh ki behuda bten krta had se ziada free hona saf zahir hai uski nzar ap ke shohar per hai or apke shohr ki bhi glti hai ke itna koi bhi apni jithani ke itna free hona fikar krna jb ke uska apna shohr hone ke bawjood bhi ap apni jithani ko smjhaye jb wo us se door rahgi to phr khud hi apka shohr apka hone lgega
q ke urate ache khase mardo ko bhi bhtka deti hai.
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sadia_khan |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Jan 2012, 4:11am |
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tote_sapne yar masla ye b hai k meray shohar doosray shehar mai hotay hain jeth jithani k sath ek ghar mai nahi.wo free hoti hai ya ghar mai koi baat ho jati hai to meray shohar ko phone kar k sab batati hai.kahi baar aisa hua k mai shohar say bat kar rahi hoti hoon is doraan meri jithani ka phone aa raha hota hai shohar k mobile par.meray shohar batatay hain k bhabhi call kar rahi hain choro nahi uthata.lekin baat wo kar letay hain baad mai.shadi k dinon mai meray shohar k dost ne hamain dinner par invite kia tha.meray shohar apnay gaon gaye huay thay apni family k sath.wo apnay gaon say aa gaye dost k bulanay par.meri rukhsati nahi hui thi is liye mai apnay ghar say khud he gayi.meri jithani meray shohar say aglay din puchti hai k harami biwi ko lay kar kahan gaye thay?usko ajeeb tareekay say tease kar rahi thi.ye baat shohar ne to nahi batayi.jithani k muu say suni to boht bura laga. |
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tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 789 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2012, 2:25am |
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sadia khan dekho ap apne shohar ko pyr se smjh jaye is tarh se free hona sahi nhi hai ye jo rshte hote hai bhabhi ka maa bahn jesa hota hai to limit me rakhe is rashte ko
or apka pura haq hai ap apni sister in law ko bhi esi baten krne se ya had se ziada free hone se roke smjhaye warna kahi esa na ho der ho jaye apki jithani ki wjhse apka rshta khrb ho jaye .or ye ap apne brother in law se bhi kahe ke un ko control me rakhe .
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Muhammad Atif |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Dec, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 113 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2012, 3:28am |
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Sadia khan Sis is ka sb se acha hal to ye hoga ap ek e city me raho or q k apk husb ache insan he to unhe chorne ka jawaz nh he to ap apne husb ko zrurart se zyada khyal rakhe use apnaiat ka ehsas dilae thora emotional ho kar use itna pyar de k wo apki trf khicha rhe or ap jb use itna pyar de to phr us se utne e pyar ka taqaza b kre k dekhe me ap se itna pyar krti hu to ap se b yie umed rakhti he or ye mera haq he.. Ap mera haq kisi ko nh de sakte ap muj se jo khushi mange me apko dogi muj se jitn mohabat mangni he mang lo par agr me ap se muhabat taqsem nh krti to ap b apni mohabat mere siwa kisi ko mat do ge. Sadia unhe muhabat se e jeeta ja skta he agr ap sakhti kre gi to faida wo apki jethani he uthe gi. Or ap jethani k mun bilku na lgna wo ap k khilaf ap k shohar bharkae gi just pyar or bardasht or sabar or dua hi apk masle ka hal he.. |
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sadia_khan |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2012, 9:05am |
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tote_sapne pyar say bhi samjhaya tha ghusa b hui thi naraz b hui thi k dekho wo tumhari bhabhi hai tum uski gandi baton par uskay shohar k samnay hanstay ho tumhe kuch khuda ka khof hai?kal ko tumharay bachay hon gay aur ghar ka mahol itna ganda hoga us waqt ye bol dia k haan yar baat sahi hai.kuch din baad pir say apnay shohar k munh say fazool baat suni.jithani ko kuch nahi keh sakti q k wo naraz ho jaye gi moody b boht hai ho sakta hai susraal mai ye mashhoor kar day k sadia kharab zehen ki hai mai to mazaaq karti hoon.iska shohar to meray bhai k jaisa hai aur sadia ko to sharam ani chahiye aisi baat sochtay huay.ulta chor kotwaal ko daantay wala maamla ho jaye ga |
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sadia_khan |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2012, 9:16am |
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Muhammad Atif Atif bhai mai pakistan mai hoon meray shohay bahir hotay hain.ye ap ne bilkul theek kaha k meray shohar achay insan hain.mujhe apnay shohar say aur na he jithani say hai.problem hai apnay shohar ki Mai-Hoon-Na nature say aur jithani ki Pity-Me nature say.....apki bhabi agar apko is tarah call karti aur ap uski batain ghor aur tawajjo say suntay jab b apki bhabi ko apki help ki zarurat hoti ap hazir ho jatay uski birthday manatay uski wedding anniversary manatay uski side kartay agar apki bhabhi aur ap k parents k darmiyaan jhagra hota ap uski fazool baton par hans kar usay ye ehsaas dilatay k i like this bullshit aur pir apki shadi ho jaye aur apki biwi ko ye sab bura lagay to kya ye ehsaas apki biw ko karna chahiye ya apko?????????// |
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tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 789 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2012, 9:51am |
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sadia khan jee sis yeh bhi apne sahi kaha esi urate khud ko sahi sabit krne ke ly dosro ko glt krti hai dekho islam me yeh kaha gya hai koi bhi urat apne brother _in_law or sister _in_law se hansi mazk pyr se baten krna tanhai me beth kr bat cheet krna ese urato ki wjhse muashira khrab ho jata hai q ke in bato se mard uski tarf mail ho jata hai
uske dil lalchi ho jate hai .jb tk isan ko thokar nhi lgti na tb tk insan nhi smjhta ke wo kya kr rha hai .
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H.A.S |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Dec, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 317 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2012, 10:25am |
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Sadia khan Sis..Jaha tak mujhe lgta hai aap ko aapne husband se hi ais bare main bat karna chaiye. Means aap ko btana chaiye k aap ko kiya feel huta hai jab aap ki jithani aun se unconfortable bat karti hai.Bcoz aap ne jo apne husband ka nature bayan kiya hai wo ek honest human ka lgta hai.
And i agree with sapna sis also
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sadia_khan |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2012, 10:39am |
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H.A.S baat ki thi yaar.pyar say he ki thi sab batay k mai kya feel karti hoon uska jawab ye tha k sorry jis ko meri zarurat hogi mai os say munh nahi mor sakta.chahay tumhein bura lagay ya acha.Ab to mujhe lagta hai ek he rasta hai k mai b apnay behnoi say batain karun uski help karun ta k meray shohar ko ehsas ho |
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sadia_khan |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2012, 10:52am |
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tote_sapne islam mai ye tak kaha gaya hai k Dewar To Mout Hai.mai is maamlay mai boht ehtiyaat say kaam leti.kabhi kisi na mehram k sath is tarah free nahi hoti.dewar say ya jeth say zarurat ki had tak baat karti hoon.meri jithani ko ye b nazar nahi ata |
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H.A.S |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Dec, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 317 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2012, 11:09pm |
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Sadia khan, I think aap ne wo mazak main kaha huga..Dear sister jo aap me kha ki main ab khud mere bahenoi se bat karo gi to ye sara sar galt hai . |
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H.A.S |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Dec, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 317 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2012, 11:16pm |
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Sadia khan, Aap apne husband se kahe ki wo aap k ais helper nature ko bahut like karti hai but aap aun se kahiye ki kisi se(jithani) se bela zarort aise hi begaier ku6 specific kam k begaier phaltu main bat karna kiya ye sahi hai...And aap k husband bhi tu aap ki jithani k nature se aachi trha wakif huge na...Aur wo ye bhi samjhte huge ki help aur bakwas main kiya fark hai.
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sadia_khan |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2012, 11:47pm |
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H.a.S baat karungi.lekin mujhe nahi lagta meri jithani kabhi samajh payegi.wo isi tarah phone karti rahay gi.meray susraal ka mahol boht fazool hai sirf jithani ki waja say.wo to ye b chahti thi k mai jeth k sath b free ho kar batain karun aur hum sab friends ban kar rahain mujhe unki ye baat achi nahi lagi....wo ye nahi dekhti k samnay susar hai ya dewar jo b unkay munh mai ata hai bol deti hain.mai boht depress hoon.mujhe ye mahol pasand nahi aur afsos ki bat ye hai k mai kuch nahi kar sakti |
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