Ba'az auqaat suhag raat ko aurat ko haez (menses) shuru ho jata hai jis ki wajah sey khawand ko sukht pareshani ka samna karna parta hai usey zabardast tanau ho raha hota hai jo kisi surat khatam nahin hota mubashrat woh kar nahin sakta aisi intehaee surat mein mard kay zakar aur khusyon mein shadeed dard honay lagta hai woh mard jinhon ney kabhi khud lazzati (masturbation) nahin ki hoti unn kay liye ye ek nehayat sangeen masla hota hai kyun kay agar mard ko 4 ghanto'n sey zyada der tana'u rahey to woh mustaqil tor per na mard ho sakta hai chuna'ncha aisi surat mein biwi ko sharam ek taraf rakhtey huey chahiyie kay woh khawand kay hassas hisson khusoosan zakar ko chikney hathon sey mushtail karey hatta kay woh manzil (discharge) ho kar sukoon hasil karey.
Ghusl e Janabat Ka Tariqa
Mubashrat mein dakhool kay ba'ad aurat per ghusal lazim ho jata hai iss kay liye mard ka inzal hona ya aurat ka orgasm hasil karna zaroori nahin iss tarah jab bhi koi cheez faraj mein daakhil hogi to aurat per ghusl wajib ho jaey ga iss kay elawa kisi bhi wajah maslan khwab ya tasawwuraat ki wajah sey faraj sey pani beh nikley to bhi ghusl e janabat lazim ho jaey ga.
Ghusl e janabat kay liye pehley donon hathon ko dhoya jaey phir sharam gaah ko achi tarah dho liya jaey aur ek baar phir hathon ko achi tarah saaf kar liya jaey iss kay baad namaz kay wuzuu ki tarah wuzuu kya jaey phir ungliyaan pani mein tarr kat kay baalon ki jarron ka khalaal kar liya jaey phir poorey jism per pani baha diya jaey kay jism ka koi hissa tarr honey sey na reh jaey albatta khawateen ko apney baal kholney ki zaroorat nahin sirf inn per pani baha liya jaey. (muslim, bukhari)
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