Ba'az auqaat faraj tung hoti hai ya dakhool kay waqt faraj ka mu'nh (entrance) wahan zyada khoon aa janey ki wajah sey sooj kar tung ho jata hai to aisi surat mein dakhool bohut mushkil ho jata hai iss kay liye khawand 20/30 minute kay foreplay kay ba'ad apni shahadat ki ungli (naakhun katey hun) chikni kar kay faraj mein ahista ahista daakhil karey, iss kay sath hi aap bhi faraj kay muscles ko dheela chor dein. Iss sey takleef kam hogi thori der ba'ad ungli ko ander baher harkat dey jab aap isey bardaasht karlein to phir khawand apni angoothey kay sath wali do ungliyaa'n chikni kar kay faraj mein ahista ahista daaley, thori der kay baad unko ander baher harkat dey iss sey amooman parda e bakarat (hymen) phutt jata hai kuch khoon bhi nikalta hai aur ma'amooli si takleef bhi hoti hai magar iss sey zabardast jinsi josh bhi paeda hota hai. Ungliyon kay dakhool kay ba'ad zakar ka dakhool aasaan hojata hai jab khoon kam ho jaey to phir khawand chikney zakar ko tariqa no. 1 kay mutabiq ahista ahista faraj mein daakhil karey aur ahista ahista jhatkey laganey kay sath hi woh aap kay bazer ko bhi mushtail karey, bazer ko aap khud bhi mushtail kar sakti hain. Aurat kay lutf kay liye bazer ka ishtiaal bohut mufeed hai agar aap relax ho kar mubashrat mein bharpoor ta'awwun kareingi to aap ko takleef  na hogi ya phir bohut hi ma'amooli hogi lekin agar zyada takleef ho to ek din kay liye mubashrat multawi kar dein ta'kay zakhm mundamil ho sakey. Dakhool kay ba'ad donon mian biwi per ghusl laazim ho jata hai chahey mian ka inzaal hua ho ya na ho. Ghusl e janabat jitni jaldi ho utna hi behter hai taa' kay insan jald paak ho jaey.