Khawateen Kay Masail (Female Problems Of First Intercourse)

  Khawateen ki ek bari ta'adaad pehli mubashrat mein orgasm hasil nahin karti iss ka zimm e daar amooman mard nahin hota agarcha woh mard jo surat e inzal (premature ejaculation) ka shikar hotey hain amooman unki biwiyo'n ko orgasm hasil karney mein diqqat hoti hai taa'hum bohut si aurtein fitri tor per shaadi kay shuru mein orgasm hasil nahin kar patii'n. Ba'az ko to baqa'eda orgasm hasil karna seekhna parta hai. Orgasm (sexual climax) waley hissey mein iss mozou per tafseeli guftugoo hogi.

    Aurton ki ek bohut ma'amooli aqliyat mubashrat sey bohut zyada khaufzada hoti hai jis ki wajah sey mubashrat kay waqt unn ka jism khusoosan taangei'n akarr jati hain aur faraj ka mu'nh bilkul band ho jata hai jiski wajah sey dakhool na mumkin hojata hai yeh ek beemari (vaginismus) hai jis ka elaj bohut aasaan hai iss ka tafseeli zikr aagey aaey ga. Iss hawaley sey ek baat zehen mein rahey kay bazer kay ishtiaal sey faraj ka mu'nh tung ho jata hai  jab kay faraj kay ishtiaal sey uska mu'nh tung honey ki bajaey relax ho jata hai doosrey alfaaz mein iss surat mein bazer ki bajaey faraj ko mushtail kya jaey.

    Bohut si wajoohaat ki bina'a per bohut si aurton ka parda e bakarat (hymen) ya to khud ba khud phutt jata hai aur ba'az ka hota hi nahin yani parda e bakarat ki adam mojoodgi aurat ki asmat ki alamat nahin (mazeed tafseel kay liye dekhein "Sex Education ….Sab Kay Liye") lekin humarey haan aksar mard iss hawaley sey bohut hassas (concious) hain yani agar pehli mubashrat mein khoon na nikley to woh biwi ko paak daaman nahin samajhtey aur nobat talaaq tak pohonch jati hai.