Behter hai kay pehli raat dulha aur dulhan gup shup lagaei'n ek doosrey sey waqif hun ek doosrey ko samjhein, ek doosrey ki pasand na pasand sey aagaahi hasil karein ek doosrey kay jazbaat aur ehsaasaat aur khwahishaat ko janei'n. Mubashrat kay elawa ka'ee doosrey tariqo'n sey jinsi lutf hasil kya ja sakta hai maslan pyar o muhabbat ki baatein, biwi mian ki taareef karey, bos o kinar sey lutf andoz hunm ek doosrey kay jism kay lums sey lazzat hasil karein, ek doosrey kay jism per hath phaerein, massage karein. Ek doosrey ko galey lagana, bhee'nchna, baghalgeer hona aur lipatna waghaera bohut lutf angaez hota hai aur phir ek doosrey sey lipat kar so jaei'n lekin agar donon ek doosrey sey waqif bhi hun to phir bhi pehli raat mubashrat karni zaroori nahin. Amooman thakawat ki wajah sey donon zyada lutfandoz nahin hotey taa'hum agar donon fresh hun, raazi hun ya khawand ka israar ho to aap inkaar na karein iss sey amooman tulkhi paeda ho jati hai. Ba'az auqaat yeh inkaar mustaqil tor per mian biwi kay ta'alluqaat mein zeher ghol deta hai. Waisey bhi Allah kay nabi kareem ne biwi ko inkaar karney sey sukhti sey mana farmaya hai aur aisi aurat per farishtey saari raat la'anat bhejtey hain chuna'ncha inn donon surto'n ein pehli mubashrat mein harj nahin aur iss sey lutfandoz honay ki koshish karein.

    Ta'hum behter yehi hai kay pehley do din ek doosrey ko samajhney, maanoos honay aur ek doosrey kay jazbaat, ehsaasaat, khwahishaat aur pasand, na pasand ko jan'ney mein guzarein inn dino'n mein mubashrat kay elawa mazkoora baala tariqo'n sey jinsi lutf hasil karein albatta jab bhi mubashrat karni ho to uski tayyari karein, din ko aaraam karein mian ki pasand kay pur kashish aur sexy kaprey pehnein