Pehli Mubashrat Kay Masail
Mardana Masail (Male Problems)
Pehli mubashrat mein mardo'n ko amooman do masail ka saamna karna parta hai kyun kay yeh unki pehli mubashrat hoti hai uski mani ki naaliyan (seminal vesicles) bhari hui hoti hain jo kay ma'amooli jinsi ishtiaal ki wajah sey mani ko baher nikal deti hain yani khawand ka inzal (discharge) jald ho jata hai ba'az auqaat to dakhool sey pehley hi mard manzil ho jata hai. Iss sey mard bohut zyada sharmindagi mehsoos karta hai jab kay yeh koi jismaani beemari nahin iss surat mein aap bhi jhunjhalaahat ka izhaar na karein thori der ba'ad woh phir tayyar ho jaey ga aur mubashrat karein iss bar uski kaarkardagi behter hogi aur aa'enda bhi rozana do baar mubashrat karein to khawand ki kaarkardagi bohut behter ho jaegi.
Mu'aashrey mein pheli hui bey shumaar ghalat fehmiyo'n (misconception) (sex education….sab kay liye mein inka tafseeli zikr mojood hai) ki wajah sey aksar naujawaan ghalat tor per apney aap ko kamzor samajhtey hain aur unko mubashrat mein nakaami ka khauf hota hai aur iss khauf ki wajah sey ya to unko tana'u nahin hota ya kam hota hai ya phir dakhool sey pehley yakdam khatam ho jata hai, jis fard ko kabhi bhi tana'u (erection) ho woh bilkul normal hota hai, uska masla sirf nafsiyati hota hai. Aap khawand ki hosla afzaee karein aur tanzya fiqra na kahein warna woh humesha kay liye naa mard ho jaega, iss surat mein do haftey foreplay karein aur mubashrat sey mukammal parhaez karein woh bilkul theek ho jaega. Taa'hum agar woh humari kitab "Sex Education…Sab Kay Liye" parhley to uska masla jald hal ho jaey ga ba surat e deegar foran kisi achey mahir e nafsiyaat sey raabta karein.
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