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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 130 Post: 7679 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Feb 2014, 5:57am |
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 raja g
agar apkay dum nikal aa.ay to kia bhabi ko apki dum katwanay ki ijazat hai?
agar bhabi ko ijazat hai to sir g ko bhi ijazat hai... agar bhabi ko ijazat nahi hai to sir g ko bhi nahi hai lol |
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 130 Post: 7679 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Feb 2014, 5:59am |
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Maryam Walekum Assalam wa rahmatullah Wa barkaatahu!
haaN pichlay dinouN NCF kuch gaR baR kar raha tha |
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 130 Post: 7679 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Feb 2014, 5:59am |
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Maryam Walekum Assalam wa rahmatullah Wa barkaatahu!
haaN pichlay dinouN NCF kuch gaR baR kar raha tha |
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Maryam
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Group: Members Joined: 17th May, 2008 Topic: 27 Post: 4679 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Feb 2014, 6:29pm |
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 social issues
fard muaash.ray ki akaai (unit) hae. koi bhi muaashra afraad se hi milkar banta hae lekin jab muashra ban jaye to woh fard pe itna zyada asar anadaaz kyuN hota hae k fard ko bohat se muamlaat main doosroN ki roy ya marzi pe chalna paRta hae.
humaray mulk main bohat si cheezaiN culturally adapted haiN. socially aur islamically bohat si bataiN clash karti haiN lekin log social point of view ko zyadah ehmiyat detay haiN.
aise muashray maiN rehtay huwe kissi fard k liye yeh kaise mumkin hosakta hae k woh apni life ko shariat k nuqta nazar se guzaray ? kisi cheez ko carry karnay k liye insaan ka mahol kitna zaroori hota hae ? |
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 130 Post: 7679 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Feb 2014, 6:36am |
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maahaul aur insaan islamic mahaul maiN naik kaam karna asaan hota hai aur boraa kaam kara mushkil ... jabkay ghair islamic maahaul maiN naik kaam karna mushkil aur gonaah k kaam karna asaan.
lekin donouN mahaul maiN naik kaam karnay ka ajar bhi alag alag hai... jahaaN naiki karna jetna zeyadah mushkil ho, wahaaN neki par ajar bhi otna hi zeyadah hota hai...
aik muslim ko hamesha 3-points par apni nigaah markooz rakhni chaahiyeh.
1. gonaah ko hamesha gonaah hi maanay, dil say... khaah woh gonhaa oskay apnay ander maujood ho, oskay qareebi logouN maiN yaa oski society maiN... yeh imaan ka hissah hai... yeh nahi k agar apnay ander yaa apnay kissi azeez k ander koi khelaafay islam bata ho to ossay boraa nah jaanay ... aur doosrouN k ander ho to bora jaanay
2. doosray step maiN "nahi anil-munkar" ko apna fareezah jaanay... agar khud maiN borayee ho to iradah aur azm karay k issay tark karnay ki poori koshish karouN... agar apnay zeray dast logoun (bachay, maatehat amela etc) maiN ho to ossay apni quwwat /taqat say onhaiN iss borayee say rokay agar barabar yaa baalaa dast tabqah (like higher rank relatives /society k taqatwar log etc) main ho to onhaiN hikmat k saath zobaani yaad dahani karata rahay aur apni naa.pasandeedgi ka izhaar karta rahay.
3. teesray step maiN jahaaN jahaaN zobaan say bhi bolnay say "qaasir" ho...wahaaN wahaan dil say zaroor ossay boraa jaanay
abhi haal hi maiN hamari intehaayee qareebi family maiN aik shadi howi... hall maiN mix gathering thi...hamari begum /beTi abayaa hi maiN aik goshay maiN mahdood raheeN... k ab aisya maiN wahaan kuch bol bhi nahi sakteeN theeN... sab kuch ghar aakar mujhay bolaa (main khudd shareek nah thaa) ... maiN nay kahaa jaab apnay ghar shadi ho tab yaad rakhna koi ghair sharaee fail nah ho...doosrouN ko ham sirf kah saktay haiN... zor zabardasti to nahi karsaktay :) |
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Raja Taqi
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2010 Topic: 31 Post: 2014 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Feb 2014, 7:05am |
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myrizvi ji katwany ki ijazat her giz nahi kyonke Maryam k seeng nikal aye tu moqabla sukhat ho ga |
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 130 Post: 7679 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Feb 2014, 10:49am |
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haahaahaa goyaa apko apni (mumkinah) dum bahoot pasand hai lol
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Maryam
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Group: Members Joined: 17th May, 2008 Topic: 27 Post: 4679 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Feb 2014, 5:07pm |
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Re: Raja bhai meri daRhi nikal aye to sir ji us main tinkay lagwa daingay :) 12 seengh to meray wese bhi hain lekin koi muqablay pe ajaye to seenghon se muqabla kar k nahi jeet.ti balkay dil jeet.ti houn phir main fateh hojati houn :)
baqi discussion in sha Allah faraghat k baad |
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Raja Taqi
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2010 Topic: 31 Post: 2014 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Feb 2014, 5:55am |
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myrizvi ji Ager khuda na khasita Maryam k chehry per needles yehni sui-yaan niqal ayain tu sir ji k zakhmi hony ka zumedar kon ho ga,
Maryam,hamari larraee k doran hi myrizvi ki sooond niqal aye gi ham wesy hi bhag jayain gay |
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 130 Post: 7679 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Feb 2014, 6:16am |
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Raja g hon baRay bhi ho jaa'o. shubh shubh bolo aur bachkanah bataiN khatam karkay lol |
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Raja Taqi
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2010 Topic: 31 Post: 2014 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Feb 2014, 6:57am |
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myrizvi ji Sulah ki teen shartain hongi,
1.. Aap Maryam ki her post ka jawab juld uz juld dain gay. 2.. Kissi bi Mumkina khatry main Maryam ka Sath dain gay 3.. Bhimji se mokamal kati karain |
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 130 Post: 7679 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Feb 2014, 9:22am |
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Raja g solah par mozakerat k liyeh ap 3 members ki apni committee banayain...maiN 3-members ki apni committee banata houN... takay yeh donoun committees solah ki sharait par baat cheet aur mozaakeraat karti rahaiN ... issi dauraan mujhay jaisay hi "moqah" milaa aap par airbombing karwaa kar aap say solah karwalouNga :) |
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Raja Taqi
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2010 Topic: 31 Post: 2014 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Feb 2014, 12:23pm |
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Hahahahahahahahah Aap tu Mozakrati umal k doran hamla hony ki guaranty de raye hain,iss liye aap ki taraf se na hi samjhi jaye lehaza operation ho ker raye ga |
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Maryam
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Group: Members Joined: 17th May, 2008 Topic: 27 Post: 4679 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Feb 2014, 12:30pm |
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Raja bhai aap k sawal k jawab maiN paRhna chahiye Laa hola wala quwwata illa billah.
we r grown up now. is stage pe chehray ki needles takleef deh nahi rehtiN balkay attitudes count kartay haiN agar woh sharp houN that hurts |
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WEHSHI
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 46 Post: 2526 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Mar 2014, 1:06pm |
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ferad aur muashera
jis terah machine bohat se purzon se mil ker banti hai wesay hi humara muashera aj kal ho gaya hai lekin machine main ek khasiyat hai jo aj kal k muasheray main nhi ager machine ka koi ek chotay se chota purza biger jaai naraz ho jai ya us k sath ziyadati ho to machine band ho jati hai lekin humara muashera ais anhi hai muashera chalta rehta hai aur aisay shakhas ko khud mein se nikaal deta hai aap dekhtay ho k serak per hajoom laga hua hai ek shakhas bederdi se ek aurat ko khench raha hai maar raha hai aurta cheekh rahi hai chila rahi hai lekin sab loh sakit o samit kheray hain ager koi naya admi poochta hai to log btatay hain k us ki biwi hai kis hadees main likha hai quran main likha hai k ek shoher apni biwi ko is terah ser e aam zaleel ker sakta hai konsay qanoon main likha hai k lerki ki shadi honay k baad woh us merd ki ghulam ban jati hai aur sari life us k sath woh merd kuch bhi keray koi nhi bol sakta yeh sirif hamqatain hain humaray naam nehad muasheray aur us k thekay daron ki ek muashera afrad se mil ker banta hai to sab ek dooseray k dukh derd main shareek hotay hain aisa nhi hota k ager ek gher main husband wife main problem ho to aas paas k ya rishtay daron ki khawateen apni betiyon k liye aas laga ker us problem per ba jamaat tail chirkain is k ilawa jo aurat khud mazloom ban jati hai us k liye koi kuch nhi ker sakta islami muasheray main kuch khas awamil k ilawa aurat ko her jagah merd k beraber derja diya gaya hai ab aurat khud hi kamter ban ker rehna chahay to us k liye koi kuch nhi ker sakta ek aurat jab ye dekhay k us ka shoher us per ya us k kirdar per tashkeek rakhta hai to us ko islam ye haq deta hai k woh qazi se rabta keray k ya to woh merd us aurat k kirdar k baray apnay shak ka saboot pesh keray ya qasam khaai k us ne jo kaha hai sach kaha hai isi terha aurat bhi qsam khai k us per jo ilzam laga hai woh seraser bohtan hai is k baad dono alag ho jain lekin ager ek husband apni biwi per ilzam bhi lagaai us ka sath bhi rahay us se bachay bhi peda kerta rahay to phir dono hi ghalat hain un k liye koi bhi kuch nhi ker sakta muasheray main aurat ki izzat e nafas ki ehmiyat ziyadah hai na k kisi merd ki ager ek merd k baray kaha jai to huamray mausheray main aam hai k koi bat nhi ji woh to merd hai lekin ager kisi aurat k baray aisi koi afwaah ho to sara mohala sari socity us k khilaf ho jati hai aur yahan tak k obash log us per apnay doray dalnay ki koshish main lag jatay hain is dohray mayaar k muasheray main aurat ko apan muqam panay k liye ek elraai lerni ho ti hai aur ager aurat nhi ler sakti to usi zilat main rehna us ka muqadar hai aaj shoher k hathon zaleel ho rahi hai kal aulad k hathon ho gi yehi asool hai is naam nehaad islami muasheray ka |
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 130 Post: 7679 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Mar 2014, 2:49pm |
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welcome back WEHSHI bro apki yeh tahreer hamaray moaashray k mouNh par aik tamaachaa hai... |
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Maryam
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Group: Members Joined: 17th May, 2008 Topic: 27 Post: 4679 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Mar 2014, 5:35am |
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society issues Assalam o alaikum Wa Rehmatullah!
Wehshi bhai : insaan ko jo sikhaya jata hae woh us se zyada woh seekhta hae jo woh dekhta hae. humaray muashray maiN bach.chay sari zindagi apni maoN ko piT.tay aur zaleel hotay dekhtay haiN. tab un k liye un k father se bura koi nahi hota aur us aurat se zyada mazloom bhi koi nahi hota lekin jab woh khud us stage pe pohanch jatay haiN . jab woh kisi laRki/aurat k wali ban jatay haiN tab sari zindagi baap se nafrat karnay walay khud apnay baap ki jagah sanbhal kar baiTh jatay haiN
sari zindagi mazloom piTnay wali aurat bhi zalim ban jati hae aur hamesha yehi kehti hae k koi baat nahi hum ne bhi to aise hi zindagi guzari hae . yeh silsila to nasal dar nasal chal raha hae. bv k sath shohar jo marzi karay lekin jab beTi ki bari ati hae tab baap ko damaad se bura koi lagta hi nahi. dual standards to har jagah haiN.
yahaN kaha jata hae k jab mian se insult hojaye to aise pose karna chahiye jaise kuch huwa hi nahi. waqai hi kuch hota bhi nahi hae siwaye is k k aurat apnay andar hi mar jaye aur woh baqi zindagi jiye baghair guzar de .
mujhay yahaN sirf aik jawab chahiye k mard k majazi khuda honay ka kiya matlab hae ? woh jhooTa khuda hae to kyuN chahta hae k usay sachay khuda ki tarah pooja jaye. mard na to aurat ka raziq hae na khaliq. waseela zaroor hae lekin is k iwaz woh kisi ko sari zindagi sooli pe laTkaye rakhta hae. woh khudai sift rakhta to yaqeenan muaf kar dena bhi us k wasf maiN hota . woh to sari zindagi islam paRhta hi itna hae k kahan kahan aurat ki kami kaji ka zikar aya kahan kahan usay marnay ki ijazat mili. jab iss se haT kar bhi islam paRh liya jayega tab shayad yeh muashra bhi sudhar jaye ( in sha Allah ) |
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WEHSHI
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 46 Post: 2526 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Mar 2014, 1:16pm |
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myrizvi
bohat shukriya problem ye hai k humaray tamachay us be his muasheray k munh per hain jis ka munh au rdil dono pather k hain humara qanoon humaray mausheray k thekedar humaray muasheray ka NAASEH sab k sab GANDHI k 3 bander hain apnay gehr ki bat ho to seedha ker letay hain 1997 main ek bohat beray alim e deen ki beti ne apnay gher anay walay tution teache se court marriege ker li thi asima jehangir us joray ki wakeel thin aur woh alim e deen sahib media per duhaaiyan de rahay tahy k yeh meray khilaf YAHUDIYON ki sazish hai ab us jahil se koi poochay k bachon ko perhanay walay tution teache k samnay aap ki jawan baal kati beti kiun samnay gaai aur ager gaai to itna malmilap kesay berha ap k deeni gher main k lerki ko mohabat ho gaai aur jab ho hi gaai to ap ne kiun na usay samjh ker waheen shadi ker k daba diya kiun apna aur apnay khandan ka tamasha bananay k liye un ki shadi main rukawat dali humaray musheray main apni charpaai k neechay koi danda nhi pherta dooseron per dal detay hain aisay munafiq muasheray main kabhi bhalaai nhi ho sakti jahan mamun ki beti se shadi to jaiz hai lekin mohabat haram cuznz gheron main awara bail ki terah ghoomtay hain us waqat koi nhi dekhta lekin jab koi lerki kisi cuzn ki mohabat main giriftar ho jaai to sab ko etraz hota hai lerkay walay kehtay hain k lerki ne humaray lerkay ko phansa liya aur lerki walay kehtay hain k lerkay ne humari bholi bhali lekri ko behka diya lerki apnay gher ka sara zewer le ker bhagti hai lekray k sath lekin case lerkay per banta hai woh bhi aghwa ka hai na mazhaka khez muashera |
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WEHSHI
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 46 Post: 2526 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Mar 2014, 1:25pm |
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maryam
aisa nhi k her aurat pitati hai ya isi terah zaleel hoti hai is k ilawa maan baap apnay bachon ko acha hi sikhatay hain lekin her insan ko haq hai k apnay haqooq ka tahafuz keray jo nhi ker sakta ya jo nhi janta wohi is terah zaleel hota hai islam ne kahin nhi kaha k aurat bachon k liye zaleel ho islam ne kahin nhi kaha k shoher k zulm saho shoher k zulam sirif maar pitaai hi nhi hotay senkron zulam hain jo psychologicaly kiya jatay hain aurt per jin ko hadeeson k hawalon se jaiz ker liya jata hai her merd yeh hadees sunata hai k shoher bulaay to biwi foran jai us k pass lekin yeh hadees koi nhi sunata k apni biwyon ko tyar kero janweron ki terah un per gir na jaya kero yeh hadees sab sunatay hain k jis aurat ka shoher rat ko us se naraz soy ga farishtay sari rat us aurat per laanat kerain gay koi yeh nhi sunata k biwi k haqooq shoher k beraber hain yeh koi kiun btata k jo shoher apni biwi k sath ziyadti keray ga us per bhi laanat ho gi merdon ki 99% black mailing hoti hai jis main aurt k kirdar ko nishana bnaya jata hai wahan yeh deen k thekedar kiun mer jatay hain k bohtan ki saza kia hai is muasheray main jesa dikhta hai wesa humara islami muashera nhi hai man gherta qisay aur hawalay banaai huay hain jin se aurat ko black mail kia jata hai aur aurat apni kam ilmi aur hamqat se hoti hai aur ilzam deen ya muashray ko deti hai ilam hasil kerna her merd aurat per isi liye feraz kia gaya hai k usay apni hasiyat aur muqam ka ilam ho jisay nhi woh to isi terah zaleel bhi hoga aur mazloom bhi jahan tak bat hai bachon ki yeh islam main wazee hai k aulad baap ki hai isi liye k ager aurat ko alehda hona peray to bachon ki dum us k sath na ho lekin humaray maan bachon ka drama creat kerti hai sirif india pakistan main hi yeh cutudy cases hotay hain bachon k aur kahin nhi puri duniya main kisi islami mulk main bachon ki custudy k cases nhi hotay is liye insan ko khud samjhna chahye |
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 130 Post: 7679 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Mar 2014, 6:28am |
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mijaazi khudaa Aurat: khuda nay mujh komujh say jug ko paida kia, saNwara sajaya khodaa ki khodaayee maiN khoda ki baRaayee maiN maiN hissah daar thi lekin jissay maiN nay paida kia munnay say kaRyal jawaan ki mujhay sinfay naazuk qaraar deker mera mijaazi khodaa ban baiTha =========================
Mard: khuda nay mujh ko mujh say tujh ko tujh say jugg ko paida kia saNwara sajayaa khodaa ki khodaayee maiN khoda ki bara yee maiN nah tou hissah daar thee nah maiN hissah daar thaa
lekin jiss nay mujh ko, mujh say tujh ko tujh say jugg ko paida kia haaN ossi nay mujhko tujh par nigraaN banaayaa, bartar bataayaa maiN kab khodaa thaa maiN kab khodaa houN kahnay ko kah lo mijaazan khodaa houN
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