Apney susraal walon ko wahi izzat-o-ahetram dein jo aap apney walaeden kay liye apney mian sey mutawaqqa rakhti hain unko waqaee apney walaeden samjhein apney walaeden ki tarah unki karrwii baatein bardasht karein budkalaami na karein. Saas bhi apni bahoo kay sath wahi ravayya ikhtiyar karey jo woh apni beti kay liye chahti hai. Hazrat Muhammad ka irshad hai koi banda uss waqt tak momin nahin ho sakta jab tak woh apney bhaee kay liye wahi pasand na karey jo woh apney liye pasand karta hai.(bukhari) Allah aur uss kay rasool ney ta'an-o-tashnee karney walon ko sukht waeed ki basharat di hai le'haza saas ko chahiyie kay woh bahoo aur uss kay maekey walon ko ta'an-o-tashnee aur tamaskhur ka nishana na banaey.
    Bahoo koshish karey kay uska khawand apney walaeden ka tabaedaar aur unka khayal rakhney wala beta baney kal uska apna beta bhi uska tabaedaar hoga kyun kay bachey apney walaeden ko role model banatey hain aur unn jaisa hi bantey hain. Jis tarah woh apney walid ko walaeden kay sath barta'u kartey dekhtey hain, barey ho kar woh la'shaoori tor per apney walaeden sey wahi sulook kartey hain le'haza saas susar kay liye nahin bulkay apney liye apney mian ko uss kay walaeden sey duur karney ki ghatya koshish na karein ta'kay kal aap ka apna beta aap ka tabaedaar beta baney yani susraal walon sey wahi sulook karein jo aap apney betey sey apney liye tawaqqa karti hain.

Maghrib mein gharelu jhagro'm aur talaq ki bari wajah aurat ka mulazimat karna hai job kartey huey aurat ko mardana kirdaar ada karna parrta hai kyun kay kaam per iss cheez ki zaroorat hoti hai kay woh mardana ravayya ikhtiyar karey jab woh ghar aati hai to usey zanana kirdaar ada karna hota hai,