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| usmanali74 |
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| Posted on:24th Jan 2010, 12:31am |
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 Why ALLAH Does Not Accept My Prays?
Salam. I don't know where to start but i hope you people will going to help me. First of all I really want to say that I am very modern and open minded kind of person I am totally not religious. From very young age I was in deep love with ALLAH. I always like to talk and share my things with Allah and off course I use to Pray alot. I can't explain it but it was like that i always feel the presence of Allah around me. I hope now everyone can imagine how much I was in this things. But something very odd started to happen in life or you can say I started to take notice of this thing when i was around 15 or 16 years of age that whenever I pray for anything that thing never happens and if i don't pray than every thing goes every smoothly or you can say, things happen i the way i want them to be. For example, I was praying madly for my ACCA (CAT) exam and I was perfectly ready for the exam and can you believe it i got failed scoring only 20% MARKS with this result I was very depress and decided not to pray for my second attempt which was after 15 days. In those 15 days i didn't even touch the book and I got 80% marks this is one of thousands of example what is happening with me . Now i am so much depress that i am on the edge of killing myself. please help me. i don't know what is happening with me.
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| hasna |
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| Posted on:24th Jan 2010, 12:51am |
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usman salam
Allah ko dost rkhna chahty he to apna hr mamla usi per chorna hoga.............g hm aisa hota hai aksar k hm jo dua me mangty he hme jaldi nhi milta hai................ap agr pehli baar fail huye to second time Allah hi ki mrzi aur dua ki qaboliyat ki waja se pass huye..............Allah per bhrosa rkhy Allah apne jin bndo se pyaar krta haina to unka imtihaan b laita hai unko azmata hai................k hushio me to yaad rkhta mera bnda kia tb b mjy utna hi azeeez manta hai jb me usko wo nhi daita jiski wo tlab krta |
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| Posted on:24th Jan 2010, 9:45pm |
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usman ali 74 dua ke qabooliyat ke kahe soorten hote hai uss mein ALLAH ke masleehat hote hai... wo hum se zeyada humee jaanta hai aur wo jo bhi apne bande k haq mein karta hai wo sahi hota hai chahe hume galat lagta ho leken wo sahi hota hai...
yeh shetaan k waswasee bhi atee hai k dua mangne se kuch nahi hua aur na mangnee se bahut kuch hua agar app ess waswaee mein agaye tu bahut baree sheetan ke yeh jeet ho jai geee.
ess waswase per hargeez na jai har jaiz kaam ke starting se qabal Bismillah parhee aur dua zaroor kareen...
Inshallah ess ka faida tu zaroor hai leken nuqsan har geez nahi hai...
ALLAH app ko naik maqaseed mein kamyabee ataa kareen.
آمین بجاء النبی لامین صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم |
| usmanali74 |
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| Posted on:25th Jan 2010, 1:33am |
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Thank you first of all thank you very much Hasna and paroot you been a great help to cool me down. i understand what you are saying, all these things also come in my mind and i never ever want to leave my Allah and inshallah sheetan will never win over me. but i don't know why i am so much depress. i want to add somethings more which recently happen. 1.i wasn't able to give my exam from last one year because when my exam come near my Father gets serious ill and i get so much involve in all the mess that i am able to give my exam. 2. Two of my father's best friends (which are owners of CA FIRM) told my father that whenever your Son needs a job we will very happen to give him one. so few weeks back one night my father decided to go and meet one of them and discuss about job. the very next day in the morning my father got a phone call that his friend die that night. next week other friend also die. 3. than my mother wanted to done my rishta with the daughter of someone she knew, so both families where very happy with the way things were going everyone decided that marriage will be after 8 or 9 months. the very next day i received a phone call from the girl that she don't want to marry me because she is in love with some one. please truly tell me what is really going on in my life. i want to pray more and more and fight more and more but i am so depress that anger in me taking me away from Allah.
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| Azfar-K |
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| Posted on:25th Jan 2010, 2:07am |
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Agar apki shadi us larki se forcely hojati to hosakta tha wo cheat krti ap k peechay...u never know.
Har kaam main ALLAH ki maslihat hoti hai...
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| info1234 |
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| Posted on:25th Jan 2010, 1:23pm |
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usmanali74 Usman
very good replies from everyone.. i would like to add up something here.
as u mentioned ur feelings since your childhood, that u feel the presence of Allah every where.... dear this is one of the greatest blessing which is bestowed to only few people.... but whatever u are talking about it shows that u r really way out of islam.
dear i think u dont offer ur namaz properly...there are some people who have special care from Allah, and Allah arrange matters for them to show them the right path.......
whatever u have expressed about ur recent happening, what i think is that Allah wants u to change ur track....... ur track may be out of way, like not offering proper nmaz, not caring about relegious orders, not following sunnat of Prophet Muhammad SAW, or may be some bad habbits..... and this all happening with you because u understand urself very well that its all happening from Allah's will.... praying to Allah is very good, but for those people who can feel the presence of Allah every where, only praying is not enough, u really need to balance ur life routines according to orders of Allah and his Prophet SAW...... first of all strengthen ur NMAZ, then analyse urself, ur attitude to others, ur feelings, ur thinkings, and ur actions...... .. . .. there are some people who are on the wrong path but they dont understand they are wrong, and their life goes normal....... but there are some people who understand very well that they are on the wrong path, but still they carry on their mistakes, those people are often punished..... and its also a blessing of Allah, that he gives pains and agonies to some of his people, just to give them "hidayet"...... like if u r a sharp student of ur class, ur teacher will punish u if u do a slight mistake, or show carelessness... but for dull students, even the teacher ignores their major mistakes..
so u are just in a "phase" ... u need to change urself, and develop a strong beleif that Allah loves u more than 70 times ur mother loves u.....INSHALLAH, UR FUTURE WILL BE UR OWN WAY..... ALLAH BLESS U... |
| usmanali74 |
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| Posted on:25th Jan 2010, 8:37pm |
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thank you everyone thank you very much for replying.
( info1234 ) i ma not in any bad things. my namaz and everything are going very good. and i don't think that Allah is punishing me. it is just like everything is upside down in my life. but anyway thankyou everyone for replying. |
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| Posted on:25th Jan 2010, 8:53pm |
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 usman bhai
duniya main sab kuch mil janay ka matlab yeh nahi hota k Allah pak razi hae aur duniya main kuch na milnay ka matlab bhi yeh nahi k Allah pak naraz hae. yeh duniya imtehan ki jagah hae isliye kharay aur khotay ko alag karnay k liye azmaishain ati hain . dua kiya karain k Allah pak aap ko in main bhi apni aman main rakhay aur aap ki mushkilat ko asan farmaye . Allah pak choti choti takleefain dekar baRi takleefon se nijat deta hae bas hum hi nahi samajh patay . aur wese bhi azmaish unhi pe ati hae jo Allah k pyaray hon warna Nabi pak sallalaho alehe wassalam k ghar kabhi faaqa na ata na hi AAle Rasool sallalaho alehe wasalam ka khoon itni bedardi se bahaya jata . kiya Allah pak apnay Mehboob se zyada bhi kisi se mohabbat rakhta hoga . Allah pak sari duniya se farmata hae k tum Mujahy razi karo aur Nabi pak sallalaho alehe wassalm se farmaya k Main AAP salalaho alehe wasalm ko itna donga k AAP s.a.w.w razi hojayen . aap Allah pak ki zaat se kabi mayoos na hona . inshAllah aap ki har mushkil asan hojayegi . |
| sunehri76 |
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2010, 2:47am |
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agreed to Maryam waise bhi Allah Talah kuch logon ko beshumar daulat de kar azmata hai, aur kuch ko ghareebi ya bemari ya mushkilon ki surat me phasata hai.
jo ye samajhta hai ke usko Allah Talah ne bohat Daulat se nawaza hai,aur islyeAllah Talah unse bohat khush hain. to ye bhool hai,.
Albatta jo shakhs khud Allah Talah ko apne amaal & Ibatdat &apne Husn-e-salook se Razi rakhta hai to yaqeenan Allah Talah us se razo hoga.
agar ap pe aj mushkil ka waqt hai,to us pe sabar dikhayen aur phir bhi Allah ka shukar ada karte rehna chahye ke usne humain bohat se logon se ziada nawaza hai. hamesha apne se neeche dekhne se ye Ehsas hota hai ke Allah ne humain kitna nawaza hai. |
| haris25 |
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2010, 6:55am |
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 RelaXXXX
That's really strange that you worked hard and got 20% marks and when you didn't study at all, you got 80%. Something is really wrong. I mean, are you sure this has happened? Plus, one last advice, you mentioned you started talking with Allah at young age, what do you mean by talking? Like sharing your thoughts? This means you lacked friends at that time. There is a way to communicate with Allah and that is you do ablution and pray. You cannot just start talking with Him. That's something very stupid.
And yes you have a point that when you don't pray things turns good and when you do pray things turn right. Well. Just forget about it. Use your brain and live your life. |
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2010, 6:57am |
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Mistake....pardon me when you do pray things turn WRONG* |
| haris25 |
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2010, 6:59am |
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Mistake....pardon me And yes you have a point that when you don't pray things turns good and when you do pray things turn WRONG. Well. Just forget about it. Use your brain and live your life. |
| Maryam |
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2010, 1:21pm |
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haris bhai re :You cannot just start talking with Him. That's something very stupid.
as a muslim yeh baat zeba nahi deti . Hazrat Ali RZ ka farman hae k " jab main chahta hon k Allah pak se baat karon tou main nimaz paRhta hon aur jab chahta hon k Allah pak mujh se hamkalam ho tou main Quran e pak paRhta hon "
phir aisa comment ajeeb hi lagta hae .
jahan tak yeh baat k koi friend nahi tha sharing k lie jo Allah pak se batain kartay thay tou is k liye bhi aap ko pata hona chahiye k friend se baat karnay k liye koi sabab ikhtayar karna parta hae us se milna parta hae jana parta hae us k paas jab K Allah pak se baat karnay k liye aisi koi shart bhi aid nahi .bas yeh hae k har aik ko itni faiz nahi milta
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| haris25 |
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2010, 8:55pm |
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Maryam...
Thanks for sharing Hazrat's Ali RZ words :)
Maryam, The person who asked the question wrote:
NOw i am so much depress that i am on the edge of killing my self. please help me. i don't know what is happening wiht me
He is getting depressed. His daily routine is getting disturbed. He needs medical treatment. That's all. Yes, every muslim is in love with Allah. But that doesn't make them depressed or mentally ill that they want to kill themselves.
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| usmanali74 |
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2010, 2:13pm |
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wooohhh!! haris25 comeone yar where you are taking all the discuss. first of all i am not mentally ill. i have a very big circle of friends. Now about my problem where you are taking it. i must say that haris you have a very very limited ways of reaching to Allah. Everyone in this world has its own way of praying to Allah. my way is that I made Allah my friend. my believe is that Allah is everywhere if i am alone in my room the second one is Allah and Allah is watching you, listening too you than why you can't make Allah your friend. Talking to Allah is not stupid thing. If you never try it or if you don't believe it. It dosen't mean that it is worng or if you think it is worng than there are a lots of other ways of saying it. But you replied very negatively and i think you used some harsh words too. i don't Know why you replied my Post because i didn't see any advice in you reply. Thank you --
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| usmanali74 |
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2010, 2:15pm |
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THANKYOU THANK YOU -- |
| hasna |
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2010, 2:43pm |
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usman ali very nice reply
bs hmari society me kuch loug hoty he aise jo hr bat ko negitivly laity he aur koshish krty he k agla b whi kre whi sochy jo hum chahty he...............agr hum kehty hena k hmare hr amal ka hisaab Allah k pass hai to kuch loug Allah aur usky nabi s.a.w.w. per yaqeen krne ki bjaye walio aur peero faqeero ko ziad dost rkhty he..................hr dil me Allah ka ghr hota hai ye koi koi samjhta hai................loug bhool jate he k Allah hmara sbse acha dost hai agr apna koi masla paish ata haina to Allah se maddad mango yha tk k joti ka tasmah b toot jaye to Allah se mango.......................
maryam ne bht nice reply kia hai.................kuch loug Allah ko dost nhi rkhty he aur phir Allah b unko dost nhi rkhta hai remember it always ok
agr hum kehty he k we are muslim is per b loug aitraz krty he puchty he k suuni ho shia ho ya wahabi ho..................kio k hr firqa ek dosre k hilaaf hai mgr koi ye nhi samjhta k Allah to ek hi haina daine wali zaat to whi haina.................isliye apna hr mamala Allah per chor do..............
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| usmanali74 |
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2010, 3:31pm |
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hansa great reply. i hope people can understand. and i how much it will be beautiful if all the Muslim in this world are united and there are no firqa. |
| haris25 |
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2010, 7:51pm |
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usmanali74 usmanali74, you have mentioned: "Everyone in this world has its own way of praying to Allah"All Muslims pray in a UNIQUE way. They offer prayers. They read Holy Quran and what they read, bring the teachings to their life.
Yes, it is true that Allah is present everywhere. Have you heard about those people who are termed as MAD and what they do is see up in the sky and start talking with Allah? Whatever you wrote in your question is something similar to that.
You wrote: i didn't see any advice in you reply Let me cut the advice part and paste again: - Use your brain and live your life.
- He is getting depressed. His daily routine is getting disturbed. He needs medical treatment. That's all. Yes, every muslim is in love with Allah. But that doesn't make them depressed or mentally ill that they want to kill themselves.
I used to be like you usmanali74, I want to share something with you and then I realized that I was doing, I mean being a muslim in some WRONG way. The Example is:
When I was in class 8 and I got very good marks. As you know, you have to choose either COMPUTER SCIENCE BIOLOGY before you entered 9 class. Agree? There was no one in my family who could have a talk with me, like mentor me and help me select one. What I did, I said to Allah, I need Your help and whatever You will tell me, I will do that. I took a small piece of paper, on one side I wrote Biology and on the other side I wrote Computer Science. I threw that small paper in the air and then I decided this way what should I select. Got my point? You need to start using your brain. This particular way of talking with Allah is something stupid, according to me. And yes I am a proud Muslim.
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| haris25 |
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2010, 7:57pm |
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 hasna
Yes, people do go to Peer and bla bla which is wrong. I don't get your point of writing that here. I really didn't like it. You wrote about SHIA SUNI etc etc. Well, I am not going to comment on that because it is also irrelevant.
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