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muji
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Group: Members Joined: 29th Sep, 2007 Topic: 22 Post: 70 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2010, 2:42am |
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 Carelessness Of Wife: How Could I Convince Her?
Meri omer ziada hai 27 ka hoon aur meri wife 19 ki hai yani bohat choti. Wo apnay ghar me full taffreeh kay saath rahi hai aur kabhi kisi cheez ki fikar nahi kii. Lekin mere ghar me aaker us ko meri bilkul fiker nahi hai balke us ke liye abhi bhi sab se barh ker us ki behn bhai aur amma abba hain, mujhse kayee dafa paisay le ker un ko de chuki hai.. Mera kayee dafa bank account tak khalli ker chuki hai is chakkar me... lekin mai sirf ek us lamhe ka intizaar ker raha hoon ke wo apne ghar walo ke saath saath kabhi mujhper bhi rehem khaye aur kehe ke haan mera shohar acha hai us us ki bhi watt lag gayee hai mujh per bhi kabhi afsos kere. plus mere kuch samjhanay per mujhse zaban chalati hai aur mere ooper shartain waghera laga deti hai... mai bohat narmi se pesh ata hoon us ke sath, us per sakhti ya roob nahi rakhta. Aaap log bateyen ke aap logo ko kabhi is tarah ka koi experience hoa hai aur mujhe kia kerna chahiye Thankyou so much Muji |
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AppkaDost
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Jul, 2009 Topic: 24 Post: 281 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2010, 3:09am |
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 Muji
Aik asool yaad rukh lain keh jo baat ghalt hai woo kabhi na karain, app ko apni wife ko pehli bar hee apnay ghar waloon k lihay paisay naheen dainay chaehain thay abb tou oan ki habbit ban gahee hai.....
Dosra thora sat strict hoon oar apnay dill say woo khawahish khattam ker dain keh app ki waife app rehm karay.
BV ko apna point of view samjhain achi tarah keh app kia chahtay hain agar na samjhay tou dill per jabar ker k apna kuch dinno k lihay bister alag ker lain .....BV pochay tou kahain sab tumhari wajah say hai keh tum meri baat naheen samjhti mein tum hath naheen utha sakta magar tumharay ravia say hum mein dori paida horahee hai ajj bister juda hohay hain tou kal kaheen ............
App jitna naram hongay mamlat otnay paicheeda hotay jahain gay!! |
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waseem08
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Group: Members Joined: 27th Apr, 2009 Topic: 13 Post: 1304 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2010, 5:00am |
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agree above reply bhai pyaar se samjhayii pr khayaal rahe k pyaar me apki kamzori na ho.
ye yaad rakhe k ap shuhar ho or wo bv samjhene me aesa na ho k ap bv ho or wo shuhar?
apne me or usme imtiaz rakhen.
apne kaha k wo choti hy bhai wo koi choti bachhi ny hy 19 saal samjhdari k liye bhut hote hen.
bas pyaar se apni baat mann walen or koi chara kaar ny hy. |
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sunehri76
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Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4655 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2010, 12:05pm |
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waise isme apki ghalti hai..ek to narmi..upar se apne unhe pehle se hi mana nahi kiya...
thik hai mai samajhti hun ke agar ladki ke waldain ko zaroorat ho to ladki shadi ke bad bhi apne parents ki agar thodi si help karde to is me koi harj nahi hai..lekin jis tarah ap bata rahe hain ye thik nahi hai..
apne ghalti ye ki hai ke apne limit nahi rakhi..apko sab se pehle in sab baton pe ghusse ka izhar karna chahye apni wife se,unse point to point bat karen..tell her ke ap unke lye paise kama rahe hain aur apne ghar ke lye na ke uske parents ke lye,,sath use ye bhi zaroor bataen ke apko uske parents ki help karne pe aitraz nahi hai lekin sab cheezon ki ek limit hoti hai..aur is ka har gorz matlab nahi hai ke apki wife apki ijazat ke beghair apka sara paisa urrati phire.shohar chahe to biwi se paison ka hisaab bhi le sakta hai,
islye ap pehle apni words me unhe samjhayen agar wo na samjhain to phir apko sakhti karni padegi ya phir unhe limit paise diya karain. |
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H/dr_Qasim
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 186 Post: 6478 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2010, 12:29pm |
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Wife ko kaisay samjhaon 100% agreed with sonehri76 |
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hasna
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Apr, 2009 Topic: 39 Post: 1866 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Jan 2010, 2:49am |
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WIFE KO KAIAE SAMJHAYE apki sbse pehli ghalti to ye hai k ap samjhty he k apki wife bht choti hai..................jb larki apna ghr basana chhti hai to wo choti bri ki baat bht dur reh jati hai...................apki wife apka bank account khali kr chuki hai kai baar kia ye choti harkat hai.....................sbse pehle apne zehan se fatoor nikale k wo choti hai aur ladli hai ladli to apne m,a baap ki thi ap usko parents jaisa pyaar nhi dy sakty he................
ap usse paiso ka hisaab mangy aur usko utne hi dy jitni k uski zrurte he zrurat se ziada nhi dy aur hisaab b puchy agr wo choti hai to apse dre gi respact kre gi.............agr nhi aisa krtio to samjh le k wo age me apse chuti hi sahi mgr dimaag me apse bri hai isliye ye sb control krna apka kaam hai...................apky liye ek baat apni ami ki yaad ayi hai k
itne naram na bno k maror diye jao itne sakhat na bno k tor diye jao.................i hope k u understand |
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haris25
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Jan, 2010 Topic: 6 Post: 44 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2010, 2:02pm |
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 Carelessness Of Wife? I don't think so...
Well unfortunately your wife is not young but you. You allowed her to do these type of things. You are a man of the house. Making bank balance zero is something serious. Just take a strong action by showing anger. Then she will realize that you are serious. She is young no doubt but you have to take extra care of everything.
With time, everything will be all right.
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Ayaz500
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Aug, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Jan 2010, 4:24am |
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edit edit
Moderator Note: Don\'t give suggestion which are haram in Islam.
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haris25
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Jan, 2010 Topic: 6 Post: 44 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Jan 2010, 5:58am |
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 Ayaz500
Anal sex is not allowed in Islam. Anal sex will break their marriage. Moreover, Allah will turn His face back, or will not see anyone who have done anal sex on Judgement Day!
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Dextor LAB
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Group: Members Joined: 01st Aug, 2008 Topic: 4 Post: 34 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Jan 2010, 2:18am |
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Very Bad Idea ``` Ayaz500 edit ho tum.. Agar sahi Mashwara nahi day saktay to chup raho na k iss nazuk maslay mea apni tabnaak Aqal ka na-jaez istmaal ker k gunha gar bano.
Muji Sahab galti App ke itni nahi jitnee Larki kee or uss ke family kee hay jo app kee Sharaft or achay ihlaq ka na-jayz faida utha rhay hean app iss ko maslay ko apnay walden k sath discuss karrayn insha woh koi acha hall nikal lean gea... Allah Hafiz...
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lmran.janu
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Group: Members Joined: 01st Feb, 2010 Topic: 2 Post: 29 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Feb 2010, 8:17pm |
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MUJI BHAI GHALTI SARI AP KE HAI K AP NY US KO ETNI CHOOT THE HOIE HAI KYUN
K ( SAHE MUSLIM MAIN HAI ) HUMARY PYARY SARDAAR ( HAZRAT MOHAMMAD ) KA
FARMAAN HAI K AURAT KO ZINDAGI K KISI BE HISA MAIN US KO US KE MARZI PAR
NAHE CHORNA CHAHEHAY. LAKIN AP NY TU KHUD HE US KO US KE MARZI PAR
CHORA HOWA HAI TU US KE KEA GHALTI HOIE GHALTI TU AP KE HAI SAMJAO
LAKIN PYAR SAY YEH NA HO WASHEYANA TAREEKA AZMAO PYAR SAY SAMJAO
WOH SAMJ JAYA GEY AB YEH ZARORI TU NAHE PYAR NARMI WALA HE HOTA HAI
THORA SA SAKHTI WALA PYAR KAR LO ES MAIN AP KUCH GHALAT TU NAHE KAR
RAHY BALKY AP TU US KO GHALT ROTEEN SAY ROOK RAHY HO ES LEA YEH KOI
GUNAH WALI BAAT NAHE HAI ES LEA THORA SA THEHAAN DO OR RECOVER KARO
APNI PROBLEM KO I THINK K AP MERI IN BAATO KO ACHI TARAH SAMJ JAOGY
MERA KEHNY KA MATLAB KEA HAI UMEED HAI .--.--.
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