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| Zeeen |
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| Posted on:5th Jan 2010, 3:51am |
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 Girl Friend Boy Friend Relationship Problems: How To Remove Hurdles?
assalam o alaikum
sab members se meri guzarish hai k plz mjhe mashwara den k me apni porani girlfriend se kis tara dobara baat karon? hamara break up 2 saal pehle hua tha.
plz help me i want to marry her!!! i have very short time to get her again....plz help me guyz....ap k pas jo b mashwara hai de den....hosakta hai mere kaam ajaye....
me iswaqt kuch soch b nahi sak raha.....m so tensd
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| paroot |
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| Posted on:5th Jan 2010, 7:21am |
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Gunaah-e-Kabeera aur Haram hai...
Mere post se app ko shayad buura lage ess leye mein Advance mein Ma'azraat chahta hooo. q k jo haq baat hai wo tu karne paree gee.
App dheero gunahoo k anbaar laga chuke hai aur mazeed Azzab-e-naar ke taraf kes qadar teeze se bagha ja sakta hai uss ka tareeqa app ne yaha pocha hai... Ma'azallah.
Islami mein Aurat ko Geer mard ke taraf esse tarha Mard ko geer mehram ke taraf nazar qasdaan karna ya usse taarna ya usse lazzat k sath dekhna bhi Najiaz aur Haram aur Jahanuum mein leejane wala kaam hai.
ess k baad uss se bela takalluf baat cheet karna yeh alag haram kaam phone per karna ya meel kar karna yeh ess se bhi bara haram.
Agar app apne app ko control nahi kar sakte tu jald az jald shadi karlee agar shadi ke tarkeeb nahi ban sakte tu apne nafs per qaboo kar k Allah ke nafarmanee walee kamoon se bach kar Allah ke reza haseel kar k dheeo ajroo sawab kamai.
Shadi se qabal ess tarha ke talluqat najaiz aur Haram raheenge Fiancee, Cousin, Girl Friend ke sharai heesyat koi nahi hotee. jab tak shadi na ho jai dono eak dosree k leye geer aur ajnabi hai. jes tarha geer mehram aur geer mard hote hai bilkul esse tarha....
Yaad rakhe sab se bara jehad jehad bin nafs hai yani apne nafs k kheelaf jeehad karna agar yeh jehad karne ke kese ko taufiq meel jai tu bahut baree baat hai.
Gunaah ka ezhaar bhi belawaja gunnah hai... ess leye apne gunnah ka saar-e-aam ezhaar bhi na keya jai jab tak koi sharai masleehat na hooo. ya agar zaroorat k tehet karna paree tu yuu karee k falah shaks esaa essaa karta hai khud k zaat se na kareen.
ALLAH hume apne zindagee mein hone wale sareee gunahoo se ro roo kar sache tooba karne ke taufiq ataa farmayen.. AMEEN. |
| myrizvi |
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| Posted on:5th Jan 2010, 7:49am |
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jazak Alah paroot masha Allah kia khoob reply ki hai
read n agreed |
| Bewaqoof |
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| Posted on:5th Jan 2010, 2:54pm |
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naraz ko manane ka tareeqa kia aap bata sakte hai keh aap ki friendship kis qisim ki thi? ketne arsa chali? kio khatam ho gayee? kia aap ke paas os ka address aur phone number hai?
apni kahani tafseel se bataye tu phir ham log aap ki proper madad ker sakte hai. hamari dua hai keh aap ka masla hal ho jaaye aur aap ki shaadi os larki se ho jaaye. agar woh aap se naraz hai tu ham log aap ko ose manane ka tareeqa bhi bataye ge. hamara maqsad yaha per logo ki help kerni hai, aur ham log aap ki zaroor help kare ge.
kuch member ke aise bhi reply ho ge jis se aap hurt hoge, aap aise reply ko nazar andaz ker de, kio in logo ka kaam hi yahi hai keh doosro ke problem ko solve kerne ki bajaye os per tanqeed ker ke hurt kare. |
| mun |
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| Posted on:5th Jan 2010, 6:36pm |
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GOOG REP salam iam totaly agree with bewaqoof wasy khany ko tu yh bhai bewaqoof hn but batany bohat payare krty hn hope u never mind tc |
| paroot |
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| Posted on:5th Jan 2010, 8:49pm |
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Ultee Patreee !!! ultee patree kabhi sedhe nahi chalte chahe yeh forum ho ya life !!! |
| Zeeen |
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| Posted on:6th Jan 2010, 1:50am |
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paroot my dear brother
islam me apni pasand ki shadi karne ka pora pora haq hai.....agar apko meri bat sahi na lage to me HADEES or waqiaat se apni baat prove kar sakta hun...... ye gunahe qabeera nahi hai....
ap apni soch ko badlo....ap jese logo ne Islam ko bohat hi narrow minded bana dia hai.......
jaha tak gunahe kabeera ki baat hai...mene koi ghalat kam nahi kia kisi b larki k sath.... ab q k wo mjhe pasand hai or mere halaat b stable ho chuke hain to me us se shadi karna chahta hun......isme kia burai hai? koi ek HADEES ya QURAN ki ayat bata den jisme pasand ki shadi se mana kia ho?
ghair aurat or mard ko daikhna yaqeenan na jaez hai magar pasand karne k liye daikha ja sakta hai.....or Islam me to nikaah k din b aurat ko pardah se mana kia hai.....iska koi jawab hai ap k pas? mere pas hai i will ans when u reply
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| Zeeen |
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| Posted on:6th Jan 2010, 1:55am |
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Bewaqoof n all positive thinkers thanks to gud n positive reply yar.....yaha koi samaj hi nahi raha prob....itni choti choti si sochen hain sab ki......
n e way mere pas meri gf ka number wagera sab kuch mojod hai....larai bas is bat pe hui thi k mene use propose kardia tha..... yar wo larki bohat hi seedhi hai..itni seedhi k kia bataon yar.. :( usko patana na mumkin hai.... meri bas baat cheet hi hoti thi 2 saal pehle....
ab ye hai k me rishta bhejne se pehle ye janna chahta hun k wo b raazi hai ya nahi.....mere ghar wale to razi hain.... larki se haan karwana hai yar or ye kam mjhe hi karna hai
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| saim1 |
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| Posted on:6th Jan 2010, 2:36am |
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zeen app paroot ki bat ka bura na manien
yeh ase hi haien or har bat ka jawab islam ke point of view se dete haien
kher app ka jo bhi masla he meri dua he wo jald se jald hall ho jai |
| Azfar-K |
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| Posted on:7th Jan 2010, 4:15am |
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 saim1
yeh ase hi haien or har bat ka jawab islam ke point of view se dete haien
you should be ashamed of urself paroot ki baat main aisa kia tha jo apne kaha ye aisay hi hain kia islamic point of view ko ap nahi mantin,kia unki bat galat hai...?? |
| saim1 |
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| Posted on:7th Jan 2010, 5:32am |
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Azfar k sahib pahli bat tu yeh ke mujhe app ko koi explanation dane ki zarorat nahi
may ne jo kahan wo galat nahi kaha,jo insan broad mind rakhta he wo meri bat ko better understand kare ga
wase app ko meri bat se itna gussa ku aya,yeh dekh kar mujhe kafi harat howi he |
| Azfar-K |
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| Posted on:7th Jan 2010, 3:30pm |
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 saima sahiba
Jab bhi koi islam ki baat karta hai to ap jaise broad minded log apni arrogance show karte hain.Mujhe gussa nahi aya ap k sentence par hairat hui agar ap ko apna answer daina tha to paroot ko ye nahi boltin k ye aise hi hain,ye sirf or sirf apki arrogance hai.
jo insan broad mind rakhta he wo meri bat ko better understand kare ga
wah mohtarma wah! |
| saim1 |
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| Posted on:7th Jan 2010, 7:08pm |
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ok app ne jo samjhna he app samjh sakte haien
app ka appna demagh he kuch bhi sochien:) |
| Zeeen |
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| Posted on:8th Jan 2010, 2:59pm |
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saim1 saim1 thanks buddy....
mera masla koi solve nahi kar raha :D or dosri probs shero kardi hain yar......
TO ALL ISLAM LOVERS
bhai aap log jo Islam k naam pe uchal rahe ho pata b hai Islam kia kehta hai?
ap log ye q samajhte ho k Islam ka baira( ship) aap log chala rahe ho?
bhai thora apna mind kholo....Islam me pasand ki shadi jaez hai or shadi se pehle daikhlena larka or larki ko Wajib hai.....ja k apne MOLVI se pochlena pir yaha aa k kuch likhna
isme sharam ki bat nahi hai k aap logo ko pata nahi hai or mun ki fire maar rahe ho.....
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| Zeeen |
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| Posted on:8th Jan 2010, 3:00pm |
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to MODERATOR Moderator bhai plz clos my post......mera masla yaha solve nahi hoga......ap ye post clos karden ta k koi fuzol behas na ho.
thanks
pehle yaha bohat helping log hua karte the ab to sab pata nahi kis tara sochte hain....
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| paroot |
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| Posted on:8th Jan 2010, 9:43pm |
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Mohtarma Mohtarmaa ko unn k haal per choor de jes ka zehen he mazhabee na ho jes ke dil mein yeh soch he peda nahi hote k haamara Rab kya kehte hai usse kya samaj k kya islam ya kya bageer islaam
esse musalmanoo k dilo mein ALLAH ellm haseel karne ka noor roshan kareen. |
| Zeeen |
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| Posted on:8th Jan 2010, 11:50pm |
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paroot mashALLAH bohat achi baaten karte hain aap.....ALLAH aapko aqal ata farmaye.... or sahi tara deen e haq ko samajhne ki aqal ata farmaye........
bhai ap ko to is forum pe bhetna hi nahi chahiye......itna ganda forum hai....larkay or larkian ek hi jaga kese sawal kar rahe hain......YEHI SOCHTE HONGE NA AP.!!!
ye ap jese choti soch walo k liye nahi hai bhai plz leave the forum n dont mind
ALLAH HAFIZ
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| saim1 |
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| Posted on:8th Jan 2010, 11:51pm |
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paroot aik bat ki had hoti he may lari ko avoid karne ke liya kisi ko koi jawab nahi de rahi azfar ki bat ko bhi ignor kar diya take koi larai na ho,lakin ab app ne had kar di he
app appne app ko kiya samjhte haien,kiya Islam app ko hi maloom he?dosre sab jahil haien?Allah ka sukar he mazhab ko app se bheter samjhti hon Allah ne bhout khula zahan diya he sochne or samjhne ke liya
app itne tang zahan ke malik haien ke app se kisi bhi qisam ki bat karna dewar may sar marne ke barabar he,
Allah tala bhi farmate haien ke hidayat bhi sirif un ke liya he jin ke zahan khule haien
app kase kah sakte haien ke kon kitna mazhabi he?app yahan kisi ko personaly nahi jante,app se ziyada kon ebadat guzar he,app se ziyada kon mazhabi he app kon hote haien iss ka fasla karne wale?
next time jo bhi bat karien zara soch samjh kar kijiya ga
zeen ne yahan par appnaz masla pocha tha usse mazahb ka daras dena shoro kar diya appne itna tu mashallah demagh he app ka
wo bhi aik musalman he usse bhi maloom he ke sahdi se phle kisi na mahram se mila sahi nahi he
yahan log sawal kiya karte haien or jawab kiya diya jata he unhe
paroot sahib mazab jahiliyat nahi sikhata agar itne app aqalmad hote to usse uss ki problem ka hall batate
app jase logo ne itne simple or ache mazhab ko itna mushkil bana diya he,
paroot sahib app appna zahan kholo or appne daire say bahir nikal kar bhi kabhi socho
Allah app ko or hum sab ko hidayat de
Ameen |
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| Posted on:9th Jan 2010, 1:15am |
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 Zeen
larki ke taraf apne ghar walon ko bhaijo aur shadi ke baat karo.. 2 nafal namaz perh ker allah se dua karo. Inshallah dua pori hogi.. larkyan shadi ke naam se hi khosh hojati hain aur woh appko muaff bhi ker den ge.... |
| paroot |
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| Posted on:10th Jan 2010, 1:15am |
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Lecture Main choote zeheneyaat ka ho yeh app ne mujhe nahi kahha mere baat ko kaha hai aur app jese loog ketne qabeel hai ess baat ka jawab dene mein yeh sab ko pata hai
abhi tak tu app ko nahi jaante the leken ab jaan gaye k app jawab dene mein sirf question ko dekhte hai sahi ya galat ko nahi
app jesoo se behes karna he beekar jessa k main ne phele kaha q k jes ko yehe na pata ho k jo main jawab dene ja raha ho yeh sahi hia ya galat tu baat yahee khatam huee |
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