TO JAVED

i think aap meri problem ko samaj nahi paa rahy pehli bat yeh k meri koi girl friend nahi es time

aik larki dost thi per toba toba kara di hy us ny meri baba yeh larki sy dosti wala jo kaam hy na toba toba toba toba

main to waisy he girls sy dar gaya hon to kisi larki ko apni girl friend ko banany ka soch nahi sakta

next reply main aap ko pehly pora masla samjaon ga mobile number ka es liye kaha tha k aap sy baat detail sy ho jay bus per aap ny koi theek jawab nahi deya

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M.RIZ

                           Hum yahi sochte hain, keh shadi k baad hum nay bv k sath zindagi guzarni hoti hai, parents nay nai.mugar ye kio bhul jatay hain, keh wo kam az kam apni ulad k liye kabi galt nai karain gay,apne bachon k liye dhoop nai balke chaaon talash karain gay..mugar unn ko kya pata keh jab unn kay bachay , parh likh jatay hain, qaad nikal laite hain tou us waqt tak wo parents barhapay mai qadam rakh chuke hote hain.. kitne bholay hote hain humaray parents wese,jo badalte mosam kay rang nai dekhte.ye nai sochte kay khawahishain karna sirf bachon ka haq hai,Unn ka nai.....

TO B4u

main aap ko aap ki post ka jawab zaroor don ga or aap muj ko mery sawalon ka jawab zaroor dena

aab mujy aap sy discuss karna hy aap sy yeh topic yaa aap galat sabit hongy ya main

M.RIZ

 Sure...mugar wohi sawal agar khud se pocho gay tanhayee mai beth kar apne bachpan se laikar ab tak, tou muj se pochne ki zarurat nai paray gi.Us waqt se laikar, jab tum ko chalna nai ata tha, aur tumhare parents boht taiz dorh sakte thay.Us waqt se shuroo karna sochna,jab wo tumhari khawahishain puri kartay kartay apni khawahishain bhool gaye.

   I hope tum ko jawab mil jaye ga.Kisi se pochne ki zarurat nai paray gi.

   Best wishes man.

TO MADE4 U

meri 2 sis hain or main aik he beta hon

dono sis k husband sharab wine peety hain or Nasha karty hain

jub k dono sis ki shadi bilkul arrange hoi hy

main MBA Marketing ker raha hon but mery father ko es baat ka bhi pata k main konsa MBA ker raha hon ?

Dono sis ki  shadi arrange koi dono k husbands sharab peety hain nasha karty hain

jub k dono sis ny M.A kia hy

ager parents ki baat ko follow karon to mujy bhi kisi sharab peeny wali larki sy shadi karni chahiye ?

aap sy topic start ho gya hy aab dekhna yeh hoga k main theek hon

ager aap jeety gay to main apni soch change ker don ga

warna aap ki eyes esi forum per khool kar rakh don ga

TO MADE4 U

mery father jub bhi aaty hain job sy wapis to bus khana khaty hain or

cable TV dekna start karty hain phir wo bus TV dekhty rehty hain Tea peety rehty hain ya smoking karty rehty hain

main ny kai dafa apny father ko yeh bhi kaha hy k aap ny kabhi bhi aisa nahi hoa k mujy kaha ho k tum NAMAZ perhny gay ho ?

ya aisa kabhi nahi hoa k aap khud Namaz k liye jao or muj bhi karo k chala Namaz perhny

jis larki sy meri shadi karny lagy thy us larki sy meri 5 dafa saamny hoa

4 dafa us larki ny aisi harkatain ki k mujy larka hoty hoy sharam aati thi per wo larki yeh janty hoy bhi k hum dono k rishty ki baat ho rahi hy

kuch to soochy k wo kia kar rahi hy

yeh sub kia darama hy phir ?

TO MADE4 U

Muj sy aab baat karni hogi

mery sawalon ka jawab dena lazmi ager to tum muj sy zaida achi soch k malik ho to main tumhari baat ko accept karon ga

or apni soch ko zroor change karon ga or maafi bhi maangon INSHALLAH

Dear Riaz

aoa. It is really difficult to decide. Our parents have old thinking and follow the family trend. they think it is hard to go out side family for marry of doughters and sons, we cant change their thinking.

But, Allah say we must respect our parents in all conditions, only we can deviate if they order us to leave islam. you try to talk with them softly and polite way. I dont think that only educated girls are good. No doubt education give us broad mind to decide good and bad. But, you can see in universties and colleges, what the educated boys/ girls are going to do. Home environment play major role on the characters. If parents are good and they care about the character of their child. then their kids become usefull for the society. And if they dont care, even they are rich and educated, then their kids become azab for them and also for society. You can decide your life, islam have given us right for that. But better that parents must be happy with ur action.

Allh help u

imran 

pakiyar

v.nice reply...

Me.RIZ

To All and Iman janu

yar mery parents ny khud he maan lia hy or time ny yeh prove ker dala hy k mera faisala theek tha

beshaak mery parents muj sy naraz hoy thy but real main mera faisala theek tha or main reality k ziada kareeb tha

kuch aisi baaton ka pata chala hy aab k mery parents khud he maan gay hain k mera faisala theek tha

To Riz

AOA,  very sad situation for u, bus yar jo faisla aap khud nai kur saktay ho tu us ko Allah Pak py choore do, Inshah Allah Behtr ho ga, Agr aap parent ki choice sy satify nai ho tu koi baat nai , acchay time ka wait karo, aur agr ho sakay tu "Ya Hafizu Ya Hafeezu" Ka kusrat sy ward kia karo, Aur zehn mein niat yeh ho meray parents meri baat maan lain , Es wazify ko jis maqsad ky liaye parho gy, Allah Pak ka klam , Inshah Allah sb behtr ho ga. Aur Koshish Karo 5 time namaz parha karo aur daily subah Surah Yasin Parha Karo, Parashan nai hona, Kuch bi nai ho ga....

Regards