Agar khawand koi aisi cheez kar raha hai jo aap ko na pasand aur takleef deh hai to behtarin tariqa yeh hai kay aap usko lutf angaez cheez ki taraf ley jaein aap uss kay hath ko pakrein jahan aap chahti hain wahan ley jaein to woh foran samajh jaey ga kay aap ko kya pasand hai to phir wahi karega.

    Mian ko bataein kay guzishta raat humney mubashrat ki, meiney sex ko bohut enjoy kiya magar mein orgasm hasil na karsaki, iss sey mujhey mayoosi hui mera khayal hai kay orgasm kay liye mujhey clitoral stimulation (bazer kay ishtiaal) ki zyada zaroorat hai, taa'hum aap kisi aisi cheez ka mutaliba na karein jis sey aap kay mian ko bey aaraami aur takleef ho aur uss kay sath koi bhi aisa amal na karein jo woh nahin chahta, sex ek qeemti cheez hai jo mohabbat kay doran do log ek doosrey ko de saktey hain.

    Apni pasand aur zarooriyat bataney kay foran ba'ad mustaqil tabdeeli ki tawaqqa na rakhein aur pareshan na hun kyun kay tabdeeli kabhi raaton raat nahin aati maslan aap chahti hain kay aap kay mian zyada bos o kinar (kissing) karein, wa'adey kay bawajood woh bhool sakta hai kisi bhi purani aadat ko chorna mushkil hota hai shayad aap ko bar bar yad dahani karani parey gi magar yeh yad dahani mohabbat aur sukoon kay sath karaein na kay tulkhi kay sath, phir tabdeeli aa jaegi.

    Apney aap sey bhi yeh sawal poochein: kya aap apney khawand ko waqa'ee mutmain karti hain? Agar jawab nahi mein hai to bhi pareshan na hun, uski zaroorat, pasand, na pasand aur tarjeehat jaanein kay aap ka khawand aap sey kya chahta hai phir wohi kuch aap usko dein woh aap ki pooja karey ga.