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Saschu |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Feb, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Feb 2012, 12:09am |
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 I cheated
I am married happily. Recently i became active on net and made a net frnd. He is a decent guy. He doesnt know i am married. We became gud frnds. I never took him seriously but then he fell in love with me. I told him this is not possible but i dont have the guts to tell him i am married. Now i feel very very guilty. I betrayed him and my husband too. What should i do. Will God forgive me. I have never even thought of cheating my husband. I was always very honest and straightforward. Pata nhi kia ho gaya tha. I am very depressed |
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alirajput |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 1359 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Feb 2012, 12:35am |
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re: very depressed Dont be. Whats happened, has happened, think it of the past, as long as he's just a net friend, enjoy, but remember to keep distance, dont ever meet him, and dont mention such to husband. Ok? |
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Saschu |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Feb, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Feb 2012, 2:33am |
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Thanx
Thanx. I have no intention of meeting him
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stranger_1 |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2009 Topic: 5 Post: 93 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Feb 2012, 3:10am |
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@Sachu I suggest disconnecting with him over the net too..
Because he has some feelings for you, and those feelings will get more and more strong if you two continue over the internet. Furthermore there can be chances that you can also get involved with him due to sympathy, guilt or whatever!
The best thing that I suggest is that do not continue messing up with that innocent guy and with your innocent husband too.. put a full stop to your extra marital relation... TRUTH is the best medicine, tell your net friend that you are already married and in love with your husband, apologize from your net friend and disconnect forever.
Otherwise agar slowly slowly lagee rahein gee tou yeh aik DULDAL hai, jis mey dhansti jaao gee aur aik din aaey ga jab aap ko apni life miserable lagey gee...
SO BEST IS TO GET OUT OF IT IMMEDIATELY!!
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Saschu |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Feb, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Feb 2012, 3:14am |
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i will finish contact you are right i will finish contact the guilt is killing me slowly |
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alirajput |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 1359 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Feb 2012, 3:51am |
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Stranger1 if she finishes contact, then she may mistakenly start another, best to keep this in Control rather diminish it completely. |
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stranger_1 |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2009 Topic: 5 Post: 93 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Feb 2012, 7:12am |
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@Ali Rajput Buddy the continuation of this relationship will test her patience every other second when that guy will say to her that "I love you"... and there maybe some weak moment when she will accept it and feelings would start to come in her heart too.... that's a disastrous way!!
She need to close the chapter immediately or make herself ready to put his marital status as well as her "Character" in danger!!
If she continues to have a secret and hidden net friend then she will be betraying her husband..
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Saschu |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Feb, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Feb 2012, 8:44am |
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Trying to be strong U r rite. I do become weak at times. I am trying to be strong |
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stranger_1 |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2009 Topic: 5 Post: 93 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Feb 2012, 9:49am |
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@sachu Sachu can you see your husband with some other girl?
This world is TIT for TAT, don't betray your hubby, chor dou net friend ko.... net friend ko bi gunah sey bachao, aur apney aap ko bhi...
Forget everything n enjoy your married life!
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WellKnOwN |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 31 Post: 2575 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Feb 2012, 7:27pm |
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agreed with stranger1 ali you see, you have experience but stranger1 has some serious points. |
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WEHSHI |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 25 Post: 1944 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Mar 2012, 9:14am |
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sachu
stranger is very right u shuld immediatly close the window cause if u keep in contact ur guilt may be force u to compansate with th eguy and u also may feel atrection so hav to close this subject i never recomend the friendship of male n female married or not cause our islam says that there is no frendship in male n females but we are always trying to bring some stupid reasons to overcome there is one hadees always i coating that never allow real sister n brother sit together (means on 1 bed or so close when they becoome adult) so when u r on net with some one alone u r more close thn sitting on one bed so be carefull in this matter and if u want to be frend some one tell him or her 1st that u r married ( this is not suggestion for friendship but just a point) |
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stranger_1 |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2009 Topic: 5 Post: 93 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Mar 2012, 8:26am |
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@Agree with Wehshi!
I agree on the statement of Wehshi bhai.
Islam preaches Segregation of Sexes, i don't even believe in Co-education shit as well!!
Don't use abusive words Moderator
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tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 1112 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Mar 2012, 10:24am |
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@Agree with Wehshi! &stranger;_1
The message box is suppose to be filled as well during a post. Moderator
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 10 Post: 1149 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Mar 2012, 8:49am |
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Saschu She should disconnect immidiately. WE are thinking only from guilt point of view. What if the person on other side is also a fake person. maybe a criminal.who knows?
She thinks he does not know him what if he already has done his research and found her out and maybe he has any malacious intentions. She should burn the wire all togather.Kill the relationship. |
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tasha |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Mar, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Mar 2012, 6:06am |
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Discontinue with him
i think u should stop chatting with him..Your husband shoulb be enough to share and care.Be friend with your husband only.Only that will make you happy because in a few days you will forget everything about this guy inshaAllah.
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tasha |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Mar, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Mar 2012, 6:06am |
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Discontinue with him
i think u should stop chatting with him..Your husband shoulb be enough to share and care.Be friend with your husband only.Only that will make you happy because in a few days you will forget everything about this guy inshaAllah.
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