Career Oriented Wife Is Better Or Housewife Is Better?

career oriented wife has double burden

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Career Oriented

In my View the Carieer oriented woman is better along with her duties as a mother.But i think ur child coms 1st then ur Job, so let the kid be grown 1st then u may also start ur career.

Thanx for askin the suggestion.

Wife must be with good education (Deen-O-Dunya)

The qualifications of women for work of all kinds are not in doubt, Women can do work like men, but they DO NOT HAVE to do it to earn a living. They are allowed and encouraged to take the duties of marriage and motherhood seriously and are provided with the means to stay at home and do it properly.

The husband has the duty to support and maintain the wife, as stated in the Qur'an, and this is held to be so even if she is rich in her own right. He has no right to expect her to support herself, let alone support his children or him. If she does contribute to the household income this is regarded as a charitable deed on her part.

Women are thus well provided for: their husbands support them, and they inherit from all their relations. They are allowed to engage in business or work at home or outside the house, so long as the family does not suffer, and the money they make is their own, with NO CALLS ON IT FROM OTHER PEOPLE UNTILL THEIR DEATH.

Nevertheless the womanly state in marriage is given full respect in Islam, and so are the rights of children. No Muslim woman could feel ashamed to say she was only a housewife. SHE IS THE HEAD OF HER HOUSEHOLD, although the husband has the final say in major decisions. According to a hadith:

The ruler is a shepherd and is responsible for his subjects, a husband is a shepherd and is responsible for his family, a wife is a shepherd and is responsible for her household, and a servant is a shepherd who is responsible for his master's property.

Hadith: Bukhari

The wife must defer to her husband in respect for the fact that he maintains and protects her out of his means (Qur'an 4:34), but not if he tries to make her break the laws of Allah.

As doctor sahib said, it is very hard to maintain duties inside the house as well as out side the house so it is better to have a good house wife with well and good education (Deen-O-Dunya), without education she can’t be a good mother or wife.

It also has been seen when women start working for money and for enjoy Allah never gives Barket in that family and man also start depend on his wife money in some how.

hose wife

1st of all Dr.Rizwan sugest if men are help of her wife at all level during his wife done the job its truely and servey report even brought minded husband some time not supported to her wife at all level and middle class society does't do the same even 10% then the result are unsatisfactory life and unhappy moment started i m sure house wife is better then the career oriented wife..... becouse after married sinlge husband not under reponsibility of good wife even all house member like (father,mother,etc)

Take the reference from islam!

Dear brother!

In Islam it is well said that the main duty of man after his marriage is that he should earn the livlihood for his spouses.

Moreover now a days the evils are well spread that it is better for a women to stay at house and raise her children instead of going outside and finding work (In case when her husband is working and earning  adequate mney).

In case when husband is disable or there are other shortcomings then the job of women is okay.The jobs like teaching and doctor is highly respectible and suitable.

But if circumstances are well and there is enough  livlihood women must stay at home.

According to me House Wife is 100 100% better then the carrier oriented wife.Because houswife can remove the tireness of her tired husband with justa smile.She can lookafter her childeren with more care.

Thanks

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women edu

the main think, education puprpose is human being are go righ path and get a better way of life and promote our family member as they give all of that after earn edu but today's education means are if u r getting a high education then starting a job other wise ur education are useless discusting .... after edu u r define ur self with good fulfil of life ..... thx

nice discussion

Plz contribute here.

House Wife is Better

Mr Sparrow

all the members

Dr. Pk

edit..... Slang word for women... and it should be edited and plz take care of this insulting mr. sparrow.

thanks

sparrow honey!

      Hmm,

The thing is that ppl who are honest and sincere, believe that everyone is honest and sincere and vice versa, ppl who are cheaters consider rest of the world as cheaters.  Therefore, u have got some serious issues here man, need to consult with a therapist.  Understand?

  I am afraid as well that how much yr wife would be suffering from yr personality disorder?  sorry for her!!!!! 

working women

hamari society mein abhi tak aurtoon ke job karnay ko achi nazar se nahin dekha jata. Larki ko achi education dilwanay par tu parents razi hotay hein lekin job karnay ki permission nahin detay.. or un k is decision ki reasons kai factors hotay hien jin mein tranportation problems, agressive behaviour of male workplace mates towards females, workplace sexual harrassment waghaira shamil hein. Is k ilawa kuch mard yeh samajhtay hien k agar biwi job karay gi tu un k qaboo mein nahin rahay gi... or un ko cheat karay gi.. waghaira waghaira.....

Lekin aik larki bohat achi tarah apni job or apni marital life ko balance rakh sakti hai.. jab aik mard 9 se 5 ki job kar ke apni life ko balance rakh sakta hai, apni biwi, bachon, parents, friends sab ko time de sakta hai, tu phir aik larki bhi job k hotay howe aik balance life guzar sakti hai, bajaye is ke k woh sara din ghar beth k saas nandoon se laray or ghar mein laraiyan hoon.

well

i know all these women right things these days....they are allowed to do this and to do that and men shouldnt hold them back etc....but ppl trust me..its a blessing if u can stay home and dont have to go out to earn money!! husbands who provide u everything are a blessing of god for u .seriously!!

its good to be educated and have some skill in ur hand..but u dont have to go out to show this skill....however if women do feel like working and helping their husbands out..than things should be balanced and they should have discussed about it with their partner already...its no point working all the time and dont take care of ur house /children/ husband /or anything else....i dont respect such women!!

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Bili Baji

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