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duakhan005 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Dec 2012, 2:01pm |
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 Cast Problem In Love Story: Help Me?
ma ek larky sy bhot pyar krti houn n wo b mjh sy bhot pyar krty haen..hum ek 2sary k bghaer nae reh skty.. hum 6 years sy sath haen.. hum mei caste difference ha mean ma shiya syed aur wo sunni.. jesa k ap sb ko pta ha k hmari society mei ye kitna critical ha.. hum 2no parents sy chup k nikah krna chahty haen, mean wo mulvi laen gay sirf.. ap btaen hum kiya kren?.. nikah k lye kya zrori ho ga?.... aur sirf sunni nikah kafi ha ya shiya b parha jae ga, plz expert advicers, satisfactory suggestion dae,,
aur meray comments n reply aksar post nae hotay , aesa q? |
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WellKnOwN |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 46 Post: 3360 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Dec 2012, 1:46am |
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duakhan Allah tala Quraan mai farmata hai ke "Mere rasi ko mazboothi se taam lo or koi tafaruqa paida na karo" to pir cast ki baat bilkuk ghalat hai. khair wo to app change nahi karsakti.
Anyway nikah to larka karsakta hai without any sarparast/gaurdian balke larki ke liye ye jaez nahe hai. larki jab nikah karti hai to koi na koi sarparast hona chayr warna qabil qaboool na hoga. iss liye app iss tarah chup chupa kar shadi na karna warna zindagi bar pachtana hoga.
Agar aaj app kisi bi tarah se shadi karelenge to kal apke parents apke liye rishta doondne ke liye jate hai tab app kiya karlogi?? ye shadi karna to koi institute mai dakhla karna nahe jo ke 4 years ke liye hota hai halke umar bhar ki zima daari hai. to kiya ye zimadari chup kar ki jasakti hai?? kitna waqt ke liye app chup hogi??
dear ye choti bate sab shaitaan ka behkawa hai or Islam mai iss tarah piyar karne ki ijazat nahe hai. or agar iss tarah se shadi ki to agar zindagi ki bari ghalti hogi wo apke liye yahi bari ghalti hogi. baqi kaam apka hai karna ya na karna lekin acha ye hai ke parents ki sunn lo. |
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duakhan005 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Dec 2012, 4:01am |
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need help pher kiaa kren?.... shadi hum ny krni ha.. parents kbi nae manaen gay.. plzz koi rasta btaen |
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greeny |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Apr, 2012 Topic: 12 Post: 91 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Dec 2012, 7:19am |
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duakhan005 app ko apne parents se saf saf bat krni chaheay. nikah koi mamuli bat nae hai. isski kuchh sharait aur zimma darian hoti hain. jo bat ap yahan keh rae hain wo apne parents ko zra tariqay se bata den.
with due applogise, jawan beti k parents buhat majboor hote hain jb beti iss tarha ki bat krne lage k Shadi hm ne krni hai. to wo kuch nae kr sakte. ap unko samjhaen wo maan jaen ge.
kyun k beti maan baap ki izzat o hurmat hai. wo kbhi bhi iss ko iss tarha neelam na hone den ge. maan jaen ge. 2ndly nikah kbi bhi chori chhupe nae ho sakta. Chhup k gunah hota hai. Nikah ka elan kia jata hai. sb ko btaya jata hai. mujhe on naam nehad molviun pe hairat hai. jo mehz aik larkay k kehne pe nikah karwane ko tayar ho jate hain. kia un ko nae pata k larki k sarparast ki ijazat k begair nikah nae ho sakta.
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duakhan005 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Dec 2012, 9:46am |
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but parents nae manaen gay qk hmaray khandan walay koi nae many ga.. ma sirf os sy nikah krna chahti houn.. parents mar dalen gay mgr udher shadi nae honay daen gay.. ye toh mjhy b pta ha father ki permission k bghaer virgin larki ka nikah nae hota.. but kya kren?.. koi solve btaen.. ma abhi parh rhi houn n abhi meray parents ka meri shadi ka koi khyal nae ha.. ma b chahti houn k ma parh k job kroun n shadi kroun toh apny lover sy wrna na ho.. mera akhri saal hounors degree complete honay ka.
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duakhan005 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Dec 2012, 10:05am |
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full story pori story kuch es trhan sy ha k
hum 2no ek 3sary sy bhot pyar krty thy, hmaen shiya sunni wgra issue ki smjh nae thi, sb muslman brabar smjhty thy mgr jes trhan din bdin halat khrab hotay gaye hmaen realize hwa k hum mei ek bhot bari dewar ha.. ma os k lye pagal thi.. wo darta tha k ma kuch kar bethoun gi islye mjhy kkhud k rghaer rehny ki adat dalnay k lye larta rehta tha n mera mind bnata k hmari shadi nae ho skti , tum kesi aur sy kar lena..
hmari lraiyan hoti rahen mgr andar he wo mjhy strong krna chahta tha.. ma sari sari raat sara din w8 krti os sy baat krny ka mgr wo mjhy avoid krta.in short bhot roi houn ma.. ek din os ny mjhy kaha k tum jao, tmhry 7 mjhy tensns hoti ha n tum kesi aur sy shadi kr lena.. ma bhot roi.. osy pta tha k os k elawa mera koi nae ha, na koi aur friend itni close k kuch share kroun, sirf os py depend krti thi..
pher hmary bech dori paeda ho gai, es doraan facebook py meri ek group ki girls sy n oun ka friend osi group mei tha, os sy baat hoti,,ma khulam khula ounhn apny love k btati , even k ma osy husband smjhti thi..os larky ko pta chala k mera ye problem ho gya.wo shiya tha.os ny mjhy propose kar lia.. ma ny socha k esy sb kuch pta ha meray love ka, atleast ma kesi ko cheat toh nae kr rhi.. ma ny apny lover ko btana chaha , ye soch k osy khushi ho gi, mgr os larky ny mana kar dia k kuch time tak ma rishta bhejo ga, pher btana,,os sy roz baat hoti m gr lover bhot yaad ata tha n bhot roti thi.. os larky ny kaha k ab ma tmhara husband houn , tum meri baat mana kro n os ny mind bna bna k meray 7 phone py baatoun py romance krny lga.. es doraan mera lover aur meray mei formal text mean kbhi kbhi salam wsalm hota tha.. ek din mera love wapas aa gya k ma ny tmhe bhot takleef di, ma tmhry bghaer nae reh skta..ma tmhe strong bnana chahta tha.,tum meri ho.. ma ny kaha k ab toh meri life mei koi ha , jo mjh sy shadi krny wala ha.. meray lover ko bhot bura lga.. mjhy mana kia k es larky sy shadi mat kro wrna sari zndgi tanay dy ga , n tum sahe sy janati b nae ho.,.osy kah ak rishta bhejo, jb shadi honay lgy gi toh baat kroun gi, es sy pehly kesi larky sy baat mat kro., inshort, meray n larky k bech mei khatam ho gai, n pta chala k wo larka sincere nae tha qk os ny gusay mei meray bhenoi ko meray lover ka bta dia n ilzam b lgaye n kaha k ye tmhri bhool k ma rishta bhejo ga.. ab meray lover ko pta chala k hmary bech romance b hwa tha..toh wo bhot gusa ha mjh py..k tum ny mjhy cheat kia.. tum kehti kya thi n kya kar dia.. tum mjh sy pyar nae krti.. but mera lover mjh sy bhot pyar krta ha, wo shadi krna chahta ha.. n ma b sirf apny lover sy shadi krna chahti houn qk os k bghaer dil mar k zinda rehna par raha tha.. ab wo pass ha mgr mjhy galat larki smjhny lag gya ha k "tum toh special larki thi, tum kesay 2sari larkiyoun ki trhan phone py aesi baataen kr skti ho, tum ny mera maan tora wgra wgra.. ab osy kesay manaoun?.. n agr shadi ya nikah kren toh kya kya requirements haen?.. plz replly soon .. need advice of expert .. |
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greeny |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Apr, 2012 Topic: 12 Post: 91 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Dec 2012, 12:19pm |
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duakhan005 me ne full story parhi, mujhe ye kehne me koi sharmindagi nae k ye sb bakwas hai and being a girl app kis qisam k character ka mzahira kr rae hain. pehle so called lover phir wo nae to face book pe new one what nonsense is this. apki problem kia hai? apki batun me hi contradiction hai. apne character ko mazbut bnao. ye lover wagera kuchh nae hota. shadi se pehle koi husband nae hota. kia hota hai kisi se b puch lena. love marriage dunia ka akhri sach nae hai. |
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myrizvi |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 111 Post: 6467 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Dec 2012, 12:04am |
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Jazak Allah greeny sister well said n explained
kaash k duakhan ko aqal aa jaa.ay. ham onkay liyeh dua hi karsaktay haiN
shia-sunni k aqaid, ebadat, aamaal aur life style main zameen aasman ka faraq hai... chouNkay love blind hota hai lehaza yeh faraq abhi nazar nahi aa raha... lekin shadi hotay hi subah sham aik doosray ka ikhtelaaf nazar aayega...behtar yehi hai k apnay apnay maslak k ander rahtay howay shadi karaiN
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WellKnOwN |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 46 Post: 3360 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Dec 2012, 2:24am |
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duakhan hamara time bi kharab, apna to khrab hi khrab |
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duakhan005 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Dec 2012, 12:43pm |
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 to all
ap sb ko main situatn btai ha.... ap plz kesi py aesa nae bol skty.. kesi k emotions ko hurt kkrna buri baat ha.. ma ny solution maanga tha for marriage wid lover,. hum ny ek 2sary k lye bhot mushklat uthai haen.. maanti houn k ma ny galat kia qk os waqqat situatn aesi thi,.. ma ny toh apny lover ki khushi k lye kia n os larky sy sincer thi k atleast sb janta ha pher b respect kr rha ha .. mgr mjhy kya pta tha k ma apny bhoolay pan mei galat kr rhi houn |
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oldboy34 |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 64 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Dec 2012, 11:12pm |
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duakhan005 h r u? ap sy kch Question pochna chahta hn? kia ap shadi ky bd apny ghar walon sy ya society sy lar paye gi? ar ap ko jo lover hai wo ap ka sath dy ga? ar kia wo ap ko phr chor dy ga kh tm ko strong krna chahta hn? yeh strong bndaakhta reh kr hota hai ya phr akily ho kr? ar rj kai love is nothing in our society. i waiting ur reply. thanx |
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duakhan005 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jan 2013, 3:02am |
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repy to oldboy34 me fine..thnx.. ma sari zindagi apny lover k name py beth skti houn.. wo aesa kbhi nae kren gay... hum ek 2sary sy bhot pyar krty haen.. we depnd alot upon oneanother.. bs koi rasta bta dy os sy shadi krny ka.. tbh toh wo khud b preshan tha.. |
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duakhan005 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jan 2013, 3:08am |
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reply to greeny ma ny koi characterless harkat nae ki.. os larky ny khud propose kia tha n ma ny socha k atleast meray love k bary mei janty hwy keh raha ha toh meri taraf sy osy cheat nae hoga.. ma os larky sy na mili n na he os ko apna ap dekhaya tha.. ma bilkul khamosh thi.. n ma ny osy kai bar kaha tha k soch lo, ma kesi aur sy pyar krti houn.. ab btaen meri kya galti ha |
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greeny |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Apr, 2012 Topic: 12 Post: 91 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jan 2013, 12:31pm |
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greeny |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Apr, 2012 Topic: 12 Post: 91 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jan 2013, 12:49pm |
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duakhan005 Dear!hmari society me propose krne ka aik dhang hai. tariqa hai. ap khud ko deepley inlove kehti hain. wo b aik ase lrkay se jis se app janti hain k honourably appki shadi hona mushkil hia.
chaliay man late hain k asa ho jata hai young hain app. phir aj kal ka maahole b kuch asa hi hai. dramas aur films ka asar hi buhat hai hmare youngsters pe . ok. ho jata hai.
magar app ko apne parents pe zara b bharosa nae k wo app ki shadi kren ge. kyun k jb app k lover ne baqol app k ap ko strong bnane k liay chhora to app ne apne parents pe bharosa krne ki bjae internet k through hi dosti bna li. thik hai uss ne appp ko dakha nae magar app ki story ko khub enjoy kia.
proof ye hai k uss ne begair dakhay aik asi larki ko propose kia jo pehli mohabbat k gham ko bhula nae paa rae.
app ki himaqat ye k ap ne uss proposal ko seriousely lia.
and himaqat pr himaqat ye ka ab app wapis apne pehle lover, ya boy friend jo b keh len se attach ho rae hain.
iss sari story me app apne first bf k sath b khud ko fair batati hain. 2nd net friend jis ne propose kia uss k sath b app fair the. kyun k app nae uss ko sb clear btaya tha.
kya app apne sath fair hain?
kya app apne parents k sath fair hain?
no you are not. silly girl. larki ki shadi uss k parents krte hain to hi wo izzat k qabil hoti hai. warna moaashra , log sari umar app ko izzat nae den ge. aur ye sirf illusion hi hai k app uss aik shakhs k liay sb brdasht kr len gi . asa nae hota.
jb app k lover ne app ko chhora tha to app ko ye man lena chaheay tha k sb parents betiun ki achhi shadian krte hain app k parents bhi kren ge. aur uss shadi me un ki duaen hon gi. unki responsiblity ho gi. app ko sirf izzat milay gi. pyar app khud kamaen gi. magar app to net k zariay pata nae kya kya soch kar kya krti gaen . k kisi ne app ko propose kr dala.
aur ye jo app ka boy friend hai. in case agar ye app se shadi kar bhi lata hai to kal ko tana zurur de ga net walay proposal ka. tb app ka dil kre ga k doob k mar jao chullu bhar pani me.
ye larkun me pyar me kuch nae rakha. waldain ki izzat kro. unki izzat ki hifazat kro. ye hota hai aik beti ka character.
I hope and pray to Almighty Allah k app ko samajh aa jae. |
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alirajput |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Mar, 2012 Topic: 5 Post: 535 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jan 2013, 7:55pm |
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statement : "waldain ki izzat kro. unki izzat ki hifazat kro. ye hota hai aik beti ka character." duakhan005: Aap se guzarish he ke kabhi bhi agaye life maiN jiss ke ghar bhi qadam rakhaiN bataur bivi ke toh aisi stories share karne ki zarurat nahiN he, warna uss rishtaye se bhi izat ka haqq kho bethengi. Shukria |
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oldboy34 |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 64 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jan 2013, 11:13pm |
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dukhan005` h r u? thanx ap nay reply kia. shadi to nehat asan hai ar wo hai court merraige. wasy aj kal kisi pr andha eitmad nai karna chahye, q kh ap kisi ky dil ka hal nai janti, q kh insan ka zehan badlny dair nai lagti, agar ap ny us sy shadi kr li to phr us ky bad koi problm hui to koi ap ka sath nai dy ga ar ap akali reh jaingi ar mard zat bht bewafa hoti hai, kisi problm mai mai us ny ap ko hi ilzam daina hai, ur reply plz soch lain its so difficult. thanx |
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duakhan005 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2013, 6:40am |
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ALLAH py bharoosa ha bhot ma ny apna mamla ALLAH py chora hwa ha.. aur ghar mei hmary bhot problems haen shoro sy.. ami abu k muqably n competition. khaer wo ek aur story ha. ghar waly sincere nae.sb apny matlab k haen.mjhy kbhi shadi nae krni. ki toh lover sy ho wrna na ho. ma akelay job kar k reh loun gi. m excellent in education and namaz baqaedgi sy parhti houn. ALLAH KA BHOT SHUKAR HA.. ALLAH help kry .bs
aur mera lover n ma ek 2sary sy bhot pyar krty haen. wo mjhy har cheez tensns wgra sy bacha k rkhty haen, n hum kbhi alag nae ho skty. ap sb ki duaoun ki zrorat ha bhot.. |
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rana saddam jeee |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Dec, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 15 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2013, 5:03pm |
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khudA sP KO khush rakhy ALLAH ap ko khush rakhy or khuda ap ko wo rasta dikhaye jis mai apki behtri ho or khuda wohi krtA ha jis mai insan ki bhalai ho wo bht pyar kARTa hA apny bAndy se .bs thori c azmaish ho sakti hA insAn ki bs .ALLAH sab ki naik tamAna pori farmaye sab dil ma kaho ameen. |
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oldboy34 |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 64 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2013, 11:33pm |
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dukhan005 h r u? Allah pr bharosa bht achi bat hai g. Allah ap ko kamyab kary. Ameen. Sirf aik bat kh kh Allah ky hakuk ar us ky bandon ky hakuk ka bht zyada khyal rakhna parta hai, ye na ho kh ap apni khushi ki khatr dosron ky dil torain. ar agar koi phr bhi problm ho shadi ky bd , Allah na kry to ap muj say help ly skti hain as a brother, thanx |
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