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maahhii |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Apr, 2009 Topic: 6 Post: 1441 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Apr 2009, 7:58am |
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 Age Differance Between Husband And Wife
slam
im maahhii
i just joined yesterday
i want your opinions about age difference between husband and wife
what u say
what should be the maximum and minimum age difference between husband and wife
and does it matter in having good relationship and understanding?
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Pkman |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Apr, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 49 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Apr 2009, 9:23am |
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re: Age Differance Between Husband And Wife No perfect match or suggestion for age gap between husband and wife. It depends on these two, husband and wfe how they treat each other and respect each other. It does not matter if the man is older than his wife, or the wife is older than her husband as long as they have too much respect to each other at all times their relationship will prosper longer.
The two should have mutual love, respect and understanding between them two for staying longer their relationship.
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Doctor K K |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Apr, 2009 Topic: 25 Post: 1970 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Apr 2009, 9:24am |
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re: Age Differance In my opinion the two should have age differance. The husband must be older then wife. So that they have Physical, Mental and Social match with each other. |
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Seemi |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Sep, 2007 Topic: 14 Post: 3829 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Apr 2009, 9:54am |
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Age Difference I agree with Doctor KK. There should be age difference between husband and wife. In my opinion ideal couple is where husband is about 6 years elder than his wife.
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dom_man |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Mar, 2009 Topic: 67 Post: 1269 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Apr 2009, 10:06am |
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seemi, Allah bhala kare I agree with seemi. |
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gladiator7 |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Mar, 2009 Topic: 4 Post: 112 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Apr 2009, 11:28pm |
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hi i dont agree with the above ..... well we have examples in Islam ... where wife was much elder than husband (the example of Muhammad SAW and Hazrat Khadija R.A.)
Also there was big age difference between Prophet Muhammad SAW) and HAzarat Ayesha R.A.
so i dont think so age difference matters as long as two has love and understanding for each other |
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Azfar-K |
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| Posted on:13th Apr 2009, 11:40pm |
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 rE:
i disagree on few things!
ideal couple is the one who understands eachother,respect each other care for each other and no matter what happens they stay the same for the rest of the life now thats ideal however u see mostly after the 1st baby or so u see both the partners being careless!
now just because u said it doesnt make this ideal,its only ur thinking,age does not matters but a smart person dont judge people according to their age,its their thinking who makes them bigger or mature than any other person just becoz the guy is 35 years old it doesnt mean he is mature and age wise u can see many immature people around you even people who have white hairs lollzzz and in comparison if there is a guy who is 25 yrs old it doesnt mean that he is immature dont judge them by their age,by looks or by appearance,
if someone judges anyone by his appearance or so then i think the guy is paranoid!
its my opininion regards! |
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aliraza008 |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Jul, 2008 Topic: 24 Post: 439 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Apr 2009, 2:35am |
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GAP is must gap atelast 6 year ka hona chahhey husband ko 6say 7 sall bara hona chahey
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Bhimji |
Group: Members Joined: 07th May, 2008 Topic: 13 Post: 1837 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Apr 2009, 2:56am |
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Agree with Azfar and Gladiator Hamaray Nabi (S.A.W) ne humaaray liay har tarah ki example set ki hai aur wese b husband-wife ke darmeyaan age se zeyada zehani ham aahangi matter krti hai. |
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maahhii |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Apr, 2009 Topic: 6 Post: 1441 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Apr 2009, 5:52am |
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dear new i think all of you are taking this thing from husband and wife,s point of view
but just see it from other peoples point of view who live around that couple.
what do u think dont u feel strange and have so many questions if u see a 22 years old girl with a 40years old husband
yes of course u do feel awkward and some of u may laugh and have fun
so tell me about others point of view
what u think when u see a couple with huge difference
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myrizvi |
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| Posted on:14th Apr 2009, 7:12am |
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point 2 b noted 1. Islam maiN fiqahi etbaar say age difference ka koi criteria maujood nahi hai coz a) hamaray piyaray nabi saw nay 25 saal ki omar maiN apni pahli shadi aik 40 salaah bewah hazrat Khadeejah RA say ki b) aur odhaiR omar 9 / 11 salah hazrat Aisha RA say oss waqt nikaah kia jab woh baaligh bhi nah theeN. rukhsati albattah balooghat k baad howi (halaaNkay islammaiN aisee koi shart bhi nahi k baaligh laRki hi ki rukhsati ho (see my article Divorce in Islam)
2. islam maiN shadi k liyeh laRkay /mard ka aur baligh laRki + oskay wali yaa naa.baaligh laRki k only wali ka razamand honaa aur at least 2 adult men ki witness ka hona zaroori hai. yaani fareeqain raazi houN... openly sab k saamnay nikaah ho (goyaa amalan woh bhi raazi houN) to shadi is ok
3. ALBATTAH samaaji etbaar say it is true k laRka laRki say har etbaar say bees-onees ho to shadi k kaamyaab honay ka imkaan zeyadah rahta hai ... age thoRi see zeyadah ho.... oski family thoRi see well riched ho as compared to gal family. thora saa zeyadah educated ho... physically thora zeyadah strong ho.... etc etc qissah mukhtaser har cheez maiN thora thora behtar /positively zeyadah ka haamil ho k ossay aik new family ka team-leader (qawwam) banna hai. aur aik taqatwer, bara aur behtar fard hi acha team leader ban sakta hai, ghar ki gaRi ko chala sakta hai
4. Topic say haTkar aik aur baat ...... hamaray piyaray Nabi saw nay apnay dostouN ki betiyouN say bhi shadi ki aur dostouN k nikaah maiN apni beTiyaaN deeN bhi...... ajkal issay aik mayoob baat samjha jata hai...... hum zeyadah say zeyadah dostouN ki bahnouN say shadi karna aur apni bahnouN ko dostouN k nikaah maiN denaa gawara karletay haiN... iss say agy nahi sochtay....... lekin agar iss sunnatay Nabwi par bhi amal kia jaye to insha Allah hamari azdwaji zindagiyaaN zeyadah behtar guzrengeeN. |
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Bhimji |
Group: Members Joined: 07th May, 2008 Topic: 13 Post: 1837 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Apr 2009, 5:08am |
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Maahi ji aap ki baat bilkul theek hai. Hamari society main 40 years man aur 22 years girl ke couple ko ajeeb hi smjha jata hai. Wese agar hum Islam se qata nazar society aur apne country culture ko saamne rakh kar dekhain tou yehi munaasib smjha jata hai ke larka larki se 2-5 years barra hona chaahiey. |
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Apr 2009, 2:28pm |
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no problem i have 14 years age difference
and i am very happy, i mean life is fantastic, And i love him sooooooo much.
if u love someone and if u have good understanding then age is nothing:-) |
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zeb |
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| Posted on:18th Apr 2009, 4:01am |
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yes sharmiley ne bht achi bat ki hai
age se koi ferk nahi perta
chahay ziada ho ya thori
asal cheez hai understand, trust, love., respect etc etc |
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