Isliye zaroori hai kay biwi aisi soorat e haal mein khawand kay sath ta'awwun karey warna gunah gaar hogi.

    Ek survey mein ma'aloom hua kay 2/3 khawateen mardon ki nisbat mubashrat ki kam khwahish rakhti hain, Kinsey kay survey kay mutabiq shaadi kay shuru mein khawand biwi sey zyada mubashrat ki khwahish rakhta hai lekin darmiyani umar (35 -40) mein ulat yani iss umar mein aurat zyada jinsi khwahish rakhti hai. Hunt kay survey sey ma'aloom hua kay 5% aurton mein shadi kay ba'ad mubashrat ki khwahish nisbatan kam thi yani shaadi kay ibtida'ee dino'n mein iski jinsi khwahish kam thi magar Redook kay survey mein 33% biwiyon ney bataya kay unki khwahish thi kay woh mojooda haalat sey zyada mubashrat kartiin.

    Aksar mahireen ka khayal hai kay mard sex ko zyada ahmiat deta hai jab kay aurat romance ko magar ba'az doosrey mahireen ka khayal hai kay donon mubashrat chahtey hain yani donon jinsi khwahish kay hawale sey mukhtalif nahi, doosrey alfaz mein aurat bhi sex ko bohut pasand karti hai farq yeh hai kay aurat ko sex sey bharpoor lutf andoz honay kay liye kam az kam 20 ta 30 minute Foreplay (mohabbat kay khel) ki zaroorat hoti hai jab kay mard ko amooman sirf 2, 3 minute kay foreplay ki zaroorat hai aur ba'az ko koi zaroorat nahin, woh foran jinsi amal kay liye tayyar ho jatey hain ta'hum ek baat per saarey mahireen muttafiq hain kay mard bunyadi tor per mubashrat aur inzal chahta hai, woh mard jin ko bharpoor sex milti hai woh apni biwiyon ko bharpoor mohabbat detey hain kyun kay mard kay dil aur rooh ko kholney kay liye usey bharpoor sex ki zaroorat hai.