Do All Young Girls Dream and Become Conscious About Their Future?
Ager aik ladki jo adult hai apnay future, choice of husband, marriage, husband se concerning her baat (apna behavior, attitude, duties), children's education aur un ki solid terbiyat ke baray me conscious hotti hai aur sub kuch dream aur plan kerti hai mind me aur saath dua kerti hai khuda se ke sub bahter ho then kya wo es ko lay ker abnormal ya psycho kahlaye gi?
kya her ladki adult hotay hi jab uss ko shahoor aata hai tu ye sub nahi soochti chahay wo express keray ya na keray.uss ko ilm hotta hai that sub hoona tu wohi hai jo khuda ko munzoor ho ga phir uss ko patta hai dua se taqdeer bhi badalti hai wo dua kerti hai.wo soochti hai ke wo apni teruf se perfect daughter-in-law, wife aur mother bunay gi.wo Islamic way me sub keray gi,compromise bhi keray gi,care bhi aur her tara ka sacrifice bhi.wo poori koshish keray gi ke wo apnay husband ki aankhon ki thandak bun sakay.
jab ke ye wo ladki hai jis ke parents bhi uss ko fermaberdar kahtay han, education me bhi best hai,khuda ke ahkaam bhi poray kernay ki her mumkin koshish kerti hai.uss ki ye koshish hai ke bus us ski jaldi shaadi ho jaye sirf es liay ke wo khud ko es buri socirty se save rakhna chahti hai,uss ko der hai ke bahot sari ladkiyoon ki tara wo bhatak na jaye, wo humesha pak daman rahay aur uss ka dil pak rahay.uss ka lhayal kaheen aur nahi jaata she just think us ski shaadi ho gi aur wo flirt aur premarital relations per believe nahi kerti aur pori koshish kerti hai wo bahot sari doseri typical ladkioon ki tara kabhi na bunnay.
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Posted on:23rd Sep 2008, 1:05am
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Ager aik ladki jo adult hai apnay
future, choice of husband, marriage, husband se concerning her baat
(apna behavior, attitude, duties), children's education aur un ki solid
terbiyat ke baray me conscious hotti hai aur sub kuch dream aur plan
kerti hai mind me aur saath dua kerti hai khuda se ke sub bahter ho
then kya wo es ko lay ker abnormal ya psycho kahlaye gi?
Nai bilkul nahi aesi larki abnormal ya psycho kyun hogi, ye tou har larki ka hak hai k wo is tarha ki batain sochay ,akhir shadi usay bhi karni hai.......likin ismain bhi buhut si soratain hain maslan,
1. agar larki ki shadi jald hi honay wali hai yani kuch months hain ya 1 year hai tou larki ko is baray main concscious honay ka hak hai 2. agar larki ki shadi honay main abhi time hai kaafi yani k 4 to 5 years hai, ya phir pehle usko apni study complete karni hai phir shadi karni hai , tou us larki ko chahiyai k apni tawajju is taraf say hataye aur apny study pe concentrate karay.....abhi say shadi k liyain sochna mozoon nahi hai uskay liyain.
kya her ladki adult hotay hi jab
uss ko shahoor aata hai tu ye sub nahi soochti chahay wo express keray
ya na keray.uss ko ilm hotta hai that sub hoona tu wohi hai jo khuda ko
munzoor ho ga phir uss ko patta hai dua se taqdeer bhi badalti hai wo
dua kerti hai.wo soochti hai ke wo apni teruf se perfect
daughter-in-law, wife aur mother bunay gi.wo Islamic way me sub keray
gi,compromise bhi keray gi,care bhi aur her tara ka sacrifice bhi.wo
poori koshish keray gi ke wo apnay husband ki aankhon ki thandak bun sakay. jab ke ye wo ladki hai jis ke
parents bhi uss ko fermaberdar kahtay han, education me bhi best
hai,khuda ke ahkaam bhi poray kernay ki her mumkin koshish kerti
hai
agar wo larki aesa sochti hai tou buhut hi acha sochti hai, uska husband tou phir "lucky" hoga k usko aesi farmabardaar wife milay gi......
.Uss ki ye koshish hai ke bus us ski jaldi shaadi ho jaye sirf es
liay ke wo khud ko es buri socirty se save rakhna chahti hai,........
yahan wohi baat ati hai, k larki ki shadi agar jaldi horahi hai tou usko hak hai wo wo conscious ho is baat main......likin agar shadi late hogi tou usko chahiyai k shadi ko apne head pe sawaar na karay aur apne study pe concentrate karay
sirf es liay ke wo khud ko es buri socirty se
save rakhna chahti hai,uss ko der hai ke bahot sari ladkiyoon ki tara
wo bhatak na jaye, wo humesha pak daman rahay aur uss ka dil pak
rahay.uss ka lhayal kaheen aur nahi jaata she just think us ski shaadi
ho gi
usko kis baat ka dar hai?.....aesay tou buhut sraya factors hain ...usko kyun ye dar hai k wo kamzoor emaan ki hai, kya wo jahan rehti hai wahan ka environment thek nahi hai?, kya uskay relative achay nahi hain? , kya uski shadi kahin zabardasti horahi hai, kya usay becha jaraha hai ,ya kya wo automatically bhatak jaye gietc........aur akhir ye k kya usko apne upper shak hai k kahin wo kuch ghalat kaam na kardalay.......ye tou buhut saray factors hain, koi ek factor maloom ho tou jawab dena asaan hoga zyada.....app koi ek solid reason batayen k wo larki kyun bhatak jaye gi..akhir wajah kya hai ...
she just think us ski shaadi ho
gi aur wo flirt aur premarital relations per believe nahi kerti aur
pori koshish kerti hai wo bahot sari doseri typical ladkioon ki tara
kabhi na bunnay.
ye tou achi baat hai k wo ghalat rah pe nahi jaye gi.....magar ye poori koshish say kya muraad hai appki, app apne baray main zara tafseel say bataye k app say saath kya ghalat horaha hai jo app ki pori koshish hai k app wesi larki na banay, jahan tak mera khayal hai agar aadmi naik aur acha ho tou wo automaticlly ghalat rah pe nahi jasakta, koi force hi hosakti hai jo usay ghalat rah par janay per majboor karday.......
bibi app apni pori tafseel bataye k app akhir appkay saath kya masla hai, kon apko force kar raha hai ghalat rah pe janay ko.....aur kya chakkar hai......
Do All Young Girls Dream and Become Conscious About Their Future?
Uss ladki ka khandan bhi acha hai,environment bhi,wo aik shareef aur maazbhi ghar ki ha,educated aur bashahoor peoples me rahti hai,na uss ki zabardasti shaadi ho rahi hai,aur astakfaar na ussay becha jar raha hai.us ke bhai aur parents sumajhdar aur educated han.uss ko apnay khandan aur uss ke background ki koi fikar nahi hai Allah ka shkar hai wo satisfy hai aur shukar aada kerti hai ke wo aik achay khandan se belong kerti hai.
Uss ko bus es baat se der lagta hai ke jis tara bahot sari ladkiyaan aaj kal ke dour me na chahtay huay bhi bhatak jaati han ye boyfriend-girlfriend culture,illegal relations,flirt etc etc jis tara bahot sari es forum per bhi stories han.wo es sub se bachna chahti hai aur chahti hai ke izat aur sharafat ke saath bus apnay ghar ki ho jaye.uss ko khud se bhataknay ka koi der nahi hai bus wo jab apnay forum per aur doseray logon se aaj kal ki generation ka haal soonti hai tu fed up ho jaati hai.
Aik aur factor ye hai ke uss ka khandaan highly educated hai,shareef aur acha khandan hai.uss ki cousins intelligent han,aik phd hai,aik msc aur Kuwait me achi jobs kerti han aur un ki sister dentist hai.aik cousin doctor hai aur uss ke pappa bhi retired wing commander han.aik cousin England me insurance ka business kerti hai aur chooti khala gynecologist sub khoobsurat bhi han aur independent bhi.in sub me 2 ki ages exceed ker gayi han shaadi ke liay aur baki ki ages bhi shaadi ke liay han but in sub ke parents tense han ke in sub ki shaadi ho jaye aur achay rishtay nahi mil rahay jo log educated hon,achay aur shareef ghar ke.
Rishtay bahot aatay han laikin un ke mayaar ke nahi han.khaandaan me un se koi baray ladkay hotay tu sub ki shaadiyaan khandaan me hi ho jatien.
Uss ladki ke apnay ab tak 4 rishtay ah chukay han laikin abhi uss ke parents us ski education complete honay ka wait ker rahay han.
Thiek hai uss ladki ki age abhi itni bhi nahi hai uss ki shaadi me abhi 5 6 saal han laikin kabhi kabhi wo tense hotti hai ye sooch ker ke abhi uss ki bari kuch cousins ki shaadiyaan sub kuch hottay huay bhi nahi ho rahi han tu uss ka kya ho ga..wo es sub ko baray bhaiyoon se discuss kerti hai tu wo kahtay han un cousins ki apni ghaltiyaan han ke wo apnay standard ka ladka dekhti han jab un ko uss standard ka na milay tu inkaar ker daiti han.wo compromise nahi kertien,un me se kaheen kahti han hum ne abroad me hi rahna hai aur idhar hi jobs kerni han,hum Pakistan nahi aana chahtien.uss ke bhai kahtay hank e tum bus apni family per yaqeen keroo aur khuda se dua keroon aur study complete keroon.insha-Allah sub sahi ho jaye ga.
Es baat ko wo itna bhi sir per sawaar nahi kerti laikin her baat friend se discuss kerti hai jis ke motabik tumhari ye abnormal sooch hai tum apnay future, husband, kids ke baray me zyada conscious ho jab ke wo ladki sirf un ke baray me acha plan kerti hai,positive soochti hai etc etc.
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Posted on:24th Sep 2008, 2:25am
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Jab ye baat teh hai k rishtay aasmanon pe bantay hain tou phir parehsani ki koi baat nahi honi chahiyai, jo apki cousins k saath hoa hai wo appkay saath nahi hoga,..........inhsallah wakt anay per Allah talah behtar karay ga sab kuch......
appka problem sirf ye hai k app negative sochti hain bas........ap apni soch ko positive karain aur Allah talah say behtere ki umeed rakahin....
jahan tak bhataknay ka taluk hai tou , ye man phir kahon ga k automatically koi nahi bhatak jata, iskay peechay koi na koi wajah zaror hoti hain, ya phir apko apne upper control nahi hai jo app samajhti hain k app bhatak jayen gi......ye tou phir apko khud hi apne apko thek karna hoga, apna upper believe karna hoga, warna aesay kesay kaam chalay ga k app apne appko bhataknay say hi nahi bacha sakain gi......aur wesay bhi apkay mutabik app ka bachground mazhabi hai, uskau bawajood app ghalat rah pe janay say apne appko nahi rok sakti.
meray khayal main ye sirf negative sochain hain aur kuch nahi, app koi nirali nahi hain is duniya main lakhon larkiyan hain jo uff tak nahi karti hain.....aur app hain k nashukra pan kar rahi hain, ALlah talah se behtari ki umeed rakhain........
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Posted on:24th Sep 2008, 2:27am
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Do All Young Girls Dream and Become Conscious About Their Future?
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Do All Young Girls Dream and Become Conscious About Their Future?
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