Group: Members Joined: 23rd Mar, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 35 Age:
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Posted on:21st Sep 2008, 6:53am
Please Help Me: Social and Sex Problem
Bhaio/Behnoon aur Dosto Aslam-0-Alaikum,
main nain ek hadees main parha tha kay salam kernain ki 5 naikiyaan likhi jati hain jab kay salam ka jawab dainain ki 10 naikiyaan likhi jati hain….!!!!! allah taala hum subh ko sawab hasil kernain ki tofeeq ata farmayee… aamin
main ek university student hoon, aur computer main graduation ker raha hoon , apnain problem ko likhnain say pehlay main apna introduction details say kerwa raha hoon takay app ko meri problem solve kernain main aasani ho…!
1-Mere walid ek achi firm main kaam kertain hain aur un ki monthly pay 30,000 hai jab kay hum log ghar main 11 members hain…. aur ghar main sirf abu ki hi job hai….
2-mere degree complete honain main abhi taqreeban 7 months hain, aur main bairozgar hoon,
3-main ek pharmaceutical company main 1 saal kaam ker chukka hoon aur apni studies complete kernain ki problem say job chor chukka hoon….
Ab masla kuch yoon hai, kay main ek larki say bohat mohabbat kerta hoon us ki age 17 years hai aur meri age 24.., main us say shadi kerna chahta hoon aur shaadi ki layee un logoon ki shart meri nokri ki hai, main apni degree ka wait ker raha hoon kay degree miltai hi main kisi job kay liyee apply karoon ga…. Jis main abhi 7 months darqaar hain…
aur problem yeh hai kay main nain jo kay meri ghar waloon ko bhi pata hai kay shaadi kay baad main apnain gharwaloon say apni biwi ko door rakhna chahta hoon because who ghar main rahi gi tu log usay khushi say rehnain nahin daingai kyoon kay ghar main kafi log mujh say jaltain hain (specially meri baray bhai jaisa kay meri baray bhai bhi bairozgar hai aur un ki shaadi ho chuki aur who apnain kharchay kay liyee paisay ami abu say laitai hain … aur un ko ami/abu ki taraf say full ijazat hai kay usay kitna bhi paisa chahiyay who un say lain…. Jab kay mujhay who siwayee kisi khas kaam kay paisay nahin daitay…. is liyee main apnain susral main hi rehna chahta hoon ….
main jab bhi bolta hoon tu subh jaltain hain mujh say … ( who yeh samajhtain hain kay main un ki naafarman aulad hoon aur main nain agar parh likh liya tu main alag ho jaoon ga jokay un ko pasand nahin…. Is liyee un ki yeh planning hai kay kisi tarah say is ka khiyal us larki say hat jayee takay hum us ki apni marzi say shaadi kerwayeen aur phir apnain paisoon say un ko settle kerdain…. Kyoon kay nokri kay baad her koee apni marzi chalata hai…….is liyee who mera academic record 8 saal saykharab ker rahain hain… aur meri parhayee main tarah tarah ki mushkilain paida ker rahai hain….main nain matric tak ghar main parha hai sirf paper dainain jata tha jokay mere paper koee aur daita tha meri jaga….. phir main nain inter commerce say apni parhayee start ki aur khud apnain behalf per inter clear kia …. Magar achi percentage na rahi phir abhi university main computer main graduation ker raha hoon jis main at least 2nd class meri degree ban jayee gi….
Mera ziada tar time ghar main guzra hai main siwayee kisi khas kaam kay ilawa ghar say bahir nahin nikalta…. Jaisa kay meri university online hai is liyee main ghar per khud parhta hoon aur paper dainain institute main jata hoon….
1) Ab itni saari problem kay saath main sex kernain ka bhi kafi junoon hai magar halat ka taqaza yeh kay main nokri kay baad hi jaiez tareeqay say kuch karoon… is liyee main masturbation kerta hoon kabhi kabhi week main 4 say 5 martaba ya phir month main 2 martaba, acha masturbation kernain kay baad mujhay neend aanain lagti hai, (please comments about this problem)
2) Masturbation kernain kay baad jo mani kharij hoti hai who gadhi hoti hai… aur jab main raat ko khuwab main discharge hota hoon tu who mani itni gadhi nahin hoti ? kya yeh koee problem hai… ya main jo masturbation kerkay nikalta hoon who sahih nahin I means who abhi saheh tarah say nahin banti,,, ya main abhi mukamal baligh nahin hoon?
Kyoon kay sex ko control kernain ka yehi ek hal hai aur masturbation kay baghair main reh nahin sakta…..
3) main jab job kerta tha ya jab main bohat khushi rahta hai tu main kafi smart ho jata hoonI means mera chehray per ronak si aajati hai, aur jab kay main ajj kal ghar per hoon tu meri gaal sokhna shrooa hogayee hain,, aisa lagta hai kay jaisay main cigretee pita hoon ya main charsi ho gaya hooon jab kay aisa bilkul bhi nahin,,,,!!! (please comments about this problem)
ab please mujhay app suggestion dain kay main kya karoon, meray chehray say ronaq abhi khatam hoti ja rahi hai main us ka kya karoon,,, kya koee tablet loon ya koee test kerwaaoon kya karoon??
Let me help you step by step with your questions..
1) Ab itni saari problem kay
saath main sex kernain ka bhi kafi junoon hai magar halat ka taqaza yeh
kay main nokri kay baad hi jaiez tareeqay say kuch
karoon… is liyee main masturbation kerta hoon kabhi kabhi week main 4
say 5 martaba ya phir month main 2 martaba, acha masturbation kernain
kay baad mujhay neend aanain lagti hai, (please comments about this
problem)
Ans: A man’s body chemistry changes after orgasm/sex. The biochemical prolactin is
released, physically altering his body and making him very tired. So thats why men fall asleep..
2)
Masturbation kernain kay baad jo mani kharij hoti hai who gadhi hoti
hai… aur jab main raat ko khuwab main discharge hota hoon tu who mani
itni gadhi nahin hoti ? kya yeh koee problem hai… ya main jo
masturbation kerkay nikalta hoon who sahih nahin I means who abhi saheh
tarah say nahin banti,,, ya main abhi mukamal baligh nahin hoon?
Kyoon kay sex ko control kernain ka yehi ek hal hai aur masturbation kay baghair main reh nahin sakta…..
Ans: There is nothing related that you are BALIGH or Not. But let me explain how it comes up. when you do masturbation 5 or 5 times in a week than there is no time for your body to recover it. thats why semens color change and thin. you will also notice that quantity is minimum. When you released in night, it is call Ehtelam and it happen when you dont do masturbation. So semen collection increased and it injected in night for new. So there is enough time for body to recover them thats why their color is fair.
3) main jab job kerta tha ya jab main bohat khushi rahta hai tu main kafi smart ho jata hoonI
means mera chehray per ronak si aajati hai, aur jab kay main ajj kal
ghar per hoon tu meri gaal sokhna shrooa hogayee hain,, aisa lagta hai
kay jaisay main cigretee pita hoon ya main charsi ho gaya hooon jab kay
aisa bilkul bhi nahin,,,,!!! (please comments about this problem)
Ans: Job is your self respect. When you do it you get joy and happiness that you are not free, you are working everyone avoid to poke you that you dont do work and JOB is a satisfaction for man. So it is always pleasure.
And why your getting weak as i mention in above that when you masterbation 5 6 times in a week then it also effect on you health. So thats why it happened.
Let me help you step by step with your questions..
1) Ab itni saari problem kay
saath main sex kernain ka bhi kafi junoon hai magar halat ka taqaza yeh
kay main nokri kay baad hi jaiez tareeqay say kuch
karoon… is liyee main masturbation kerta hoon kabhi kabhi week main 4
say 5 martaba ya phir month main 2 martaba, acha masturbation kernain
kay baad mujhay neend aanain lagti hai, (please comments about this
problem)
Ans: A man’s body chemistry changes after orgasm/sex. The biochemical prolactin is
released, physically altering his body and making him very tired. So thats why men fall asleep..
2)
Masturbation kernain kay baad jo mani kharij hoti hai who gadhi hoti
hai… aur jab main raat ko khuwab main discharge hota hoon tu who mani
itni gadhi nahin hoti ? kya yeh koee problem hai… ya main jo
masturbation kerkay nikalta hoon who sahih nahin I means who abhi saheh
tarah say nahin banti,,, ya main abhi mukamal baligh nahin hoon?
Kyoon kay sex ko control kernain ka yehi ek hal hai aur masturbation kay baghair main reh nahin sakta…..
Ans: There is nothing related that you are BALIGH or Not. But let me explain how it comes up. when you do masturbation 5 or 5 times in a week than there is no time for your body to recover it. thats why semens color change and thin. you will also notice that quantity is minimum. When you released in night, it is call Ehtelam and it happen when you dont do masturbation. So semen collection increased and it injected in night for new. So there is enough time for body to recover them thats why their color is fair.
3) main jab job kerta tha ya jab main bohat khushi rahta hai tu main kafi smart ho jata hoonI
means mera chehray per ronak si aajati hai, aur jab kay main ajj kal
ghar per hoon tu meri gaal sokhna shrooa hogayee hain,, aisa lagta hai
kay jaisay main cigretee pita hoon ya main charsi ho gaya hooon jab kay
aisa bilkul bhi nahin,,,,!!! (please comments about this problem)
Ans: Job is your self respect. When you do it you get joy and happiness that you are not free, you are working everyone avoid to poke you that you dont do work and JOB is a satisfaction for man. So it is always pleasure.
And why your getting weak as i mention in above that when you masterbation 5 6 times in a week then it also effect on you health. So thats why it happened.
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Mar, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 35 Age:
30
Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 4:09am
one important question more....!!!
Thank you very much sameer bhai, app kafi highly educated lagtai hain..... please mere ek aur sawal hai us ka jawab dain sawal yeh hai kay......
problem yeh hai kay agar ek banda month main ya maximum 2 months main masturbation na karay tu woh khud hi discharge hota hai through ehtalaam am i right aisa possible nahin kay banda 2 months kay baad bhi discharge na ho....!!!!
agar banda masturbation nahin karai ga tu woh raat ko discharge nahin hota am i right ?
acha, ab raat ko discharge honain say kafi nuqsaan hain, kyoon kay agar banda raat ko discharge hota hai tu us say bistar kharab hota hai, (jis main ghar main khuwari honain ka dar rehta hai...kyoon kay main apnain chotai bhai kay saath sota hoon) kyoon kay ehtalaam bata ker nahin aata kay kab aana hai.. tu banda ihtiyat karay.... is liyee ziada tar banday is dar say masturbation kertai hain OK.... aur apni sex ki khuwahish ko poora kernain kay liyee bhi......
acha .... app mujhay scientific point of view say batao.... kay ek banda shaadi bhi kerta hai ok, phir woh rozana ya week main 3 ya 4 mertaba apni biwi say sex kerta hai... tu phir us kay semen kaisay recover hojati hai... aur kya us say us ki sehat per bhi asar parta hai..... meri age ab 24 years hai.... aur main shardi kerna chahta hoon aur ghar walay meri baat say razi hain, ab mujhay dar yeh hai kay agar main week main 3 ya 4 martaba sex kerta rahoon ga tu main meri sehat per farq paray ga aur meri sehat down ho jayee ga ....main kya karoon ..... main nain noorclinic ki site main parha tha kay masturbation say sehat per koee farq nahin perta aur app kehtay ho jo kay meray khiyal say bilkul saheeh hay kay semen ko reconver kernain kay liyee thora time daina chahiyay,,,, woh time kitna hona chahiyay takay meri sehat per asar na paray.... aur main sex ya masturbation karooon.... please help.... aur yeh bhi batain kay masturbation kernain say sehat per kyoon asar parta hai is ki medically kya wajoohat hain.... kya sex kernain kay baad koee tablet khani chahiyay takay sehat per farq na paray..... aur sirf mard ki sehat per hi kyoon farq parta hai larki ki sehat per kyoon nahin
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Mar, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 35 Age:
30
Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 5:23am
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ek insaan ko jitna dil karay ga utna woh sex karay ga... .. ab problem yeh hai kay us say baad main pata chalta hai jab us ki sehat khatam ho rahi hoti hai,,,,
( specially subh say pehlay us kay chehray say ronaq khatam hojati hai... us kay gaal sokh jata hain) koee mujhay yeh bataee ga kay aisa kyoon hota hai chehray per itna ziada effect kyoon parta hai????? why ??? medicaally kya reasons hain chehra hi kyoon ?????
sex kernain say shroa shroa main tu her banday ko maza aata hai... farz karo kay app ka dil karay ga kay app apni biwi say din main 2 ya 3 baar rozana sex karo .... thek hai is say woh tu khush rahay gi aur us ki sehat ko kuch nahin hoga magar app kay tu lag jayengay..... tu phir aisa kyoon hai yaar.... yeh baat samajh main nahin aarahi... sex kerna normal phenomena kyoon nahin hai.... kya semen jo kharij hoti hai kafi mushkil say banti hai... jisay nikalna bohat aasan hai...
according to my point of view yeh effects tu un logon ko honain chahiyaain jin ki age 18th say kam hai aur un ki shaadi ho gayee hai..... aur ek 19, 20, 21, 22 saal kay baligh ko sex kernain say sehat per koee farq nahin parna chahiyay..
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Mar, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 35 Age:
30
Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 5:27am
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ek insaan ko jitna dil karay ga utna woh sex karay ga... .. ab problem yeh hai kay us say baad main pata chalta hai jab us ki sehat khatam ho rahi hoti hai,,,,
( specially subh say pehlay us kay chehray say ronaq khatam hojati hai... us kay gaal sokh jata hain) koee mujhay yeh bataee ga kay aisa kyoon hota hai chehray per itna ziada effect kyoon parta hai????? why ??? medicaally kya reasons hain chehra hi kyoon ?????
sex kernain say shroa shroa main tu her banday ko maza aata hai... farz karo kay app ka dil karay ga kay app apni biwi say din main 2 ya 3 baar rozana sex karo .... thek hai is say woh tu khush rahay gi aur us ki sehat ko kuch nahin hoga magar app kay tu lag jayengay..... tu phir aisa kyoon hai yaar.... yeh baat samajh main nahin aarahi... sex kerna normal phenomena kyoon nahin hai.... kya semen jo kharij hoti hai kafi mushkil say banti hai... jisay nikalna bohat aasan hai...
according to my point of view yeh effects tu un logon ko honain chahiyaain jin ki age 18th say kam hai aur un ki shaadi ho gayee hai..... aur ek 19, 20, 21, 22 saal kay baligh ko sex kernain say sehat per koee farq nahin parna chahiyay..
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Mar, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 35 Age:
30
Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 5:30am
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ek insaan ko jitna dil karay ga utna woh sex karay ga... .. ab problem yeh hai kay us say baad main pata chalta hai jab us ki sehat khatam ho rahi hoti hai,,,,
( specially subh say pehlay us kay chehray say ronaq khatam hojati hai... us kay gaal sokh jata hain) koee mujhay yeh bataee ga kay aisa kyoon hota hai chehray per itna ziada effect kyoon parta hai????? why ??? medicaally kya reasons hain chehra hi kyoon ?????
sex kernain say shroa shroa main tu her banday ko maza aata hai... farz karo kay app ka dil karay ga kay app apni biwi say din main 2 ya 3 baar rozana sex karo .... thek hai is say woh tu khush rahay gi aur us ki sehat ko kuch nahin hoga magar app kay tu lag jayengay..... tu phir aisa kyoon hai yaar.... yeh baat samajh main nahin aarahi... sex kerna normal phenomena kyoon nahin hai.... kya semen jo kharij hoti hai kafi mushkil say banti hai... jisay nikalna bohat aasan hai...
according to my point of view yeh effects tu un logon ko honain chahiyaain jin ki age 18th say kam hai aur un ki shaadi ho gayee hai..... aur ek 19, 20, 21, 22 saal kay baligh ko sex kernain say sehat per koee farq nahin parna chahiyay..
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Mar, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 35 Age:
30
Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 5:37am
ok ..... listen
ek insaan ko jitna dil karay ga utna woh sex karay ga... .. ab problem yeh hai kay us say baad main pata chalta hai jab us ki sehat khatam ho rahi hoti hai,,,,
( specially subh say pehlay us kay chehray say ronaq khatam hojati hai... us kay gaal sokh jata hain) koee mujhay yeh bataee ga kay aisa kyoon hota hai chehray per itna ziada effect kyoon parta hai????? why ??? medicaally kya reasons hain chehra hi kyoon ?????
sex kernain say shroa shroa main tu her banday ko maza aata hai... farz karo kay app ka dil karay ga kay app apni biwi say din main 2 ya 3 baar rozana sex karo .... thek hai is say woh tu khush rahay gi aur us ki sehat ko kuch nahin hoga magar app kay tu lag jayengay..... tu phir aisa kyoon hai yaar.... yeh baat samajh main nahin aarahi... sex kerna normal phenomena kyoon nahin hai.... kya semen jo kharij hoti hai kafi mushkil say banti hai... jisay nikalna bohat aasan hai...
according to my point of view yeh effects tu un logon ko honain chahiyaain jin ki age 18th say kam hai aur un ki shaadi ho gayee hai..... aur ek 19, 20, 21, 22 saal kay baligh ko sex kernain say sehat per koee farq nahin parna chahiyay..
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