 Walekum Assalam
1. fahad bhai ... indo paak ki baaz khawateen ki yeh aadaat hai k woh baat baat par issi tarah ganday ilfaaz maiN laan taan aur bad.duain deti haiN... amooman aisi bay sabr khawateen bina sochjay samjhay har naa.gawaar batoun par laan taan /bad duaian deti hain ... apki waledah iss maamlay main akeli nahi haiN...aisi hazaroun nahi balkay laakhoun khawateen hain (muslims n non-muslims both)
2. agar apka behaviour apni waledah ki taraf bora nahi hai...ap onkay saath jaan boojh kar bora salook nahi kartay (ghalati naur khataa ki baat alag hai) ... to apko pareeshan honeki zaroorat nahi ... bus apna khayaal rakhiyeh k apki taraf say waledah ko koi takleef nah ho...aur onka khayaal rakhiyeh aur onki hedayat k liyeh dua kijyeh
3. apki walidah ki aisi duaouN ki qabooliyat a matlab to yeh hoga k Allah na.oozo.billah unjust hai...jabkay aisaa nahi hai. Allah sab kuch dekhnay aur jannay wala aur sab say bara aadil hai... aur Allah ki taraf say kissi zulm ki ap tawaqqah nah rakhaiN khaah saari dunyaa milkar bhi apkay liyeh bad dua kiyouN nah karay... dont worry beradar
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