According to my knowledge this is a medical site but after going through various posts, i am, somehow, forced to think that i am among the sexually frustrated people, not all and not the site owners of course, but most of them! People somehow, on chance or on purpose, drop in here and narrate their ill-doings and the consequences and then seek for help; I had sex with my gf, is she pregnant? How can i satisfy myself? I did a mistake! I inserted rod in my vagina, now its big, how should i decrease in size? I lost my hymen! I hurt my penis! Such type of posts are very commonly found here. C'MON people! where are you going to??? knowing that it is a sin to have extra-marital affair, why do you guys indulge in such activities at all?! Is only SEX the reason of living? Is there nothing else left out in the world? There are hundred other things in the world! Do you know what is happening with Muslims in Burma? Do you know at all that approximately 2 million people in Indonesia leave Islam for Christianity every year! Dear brothers and sisters! Let me remind you, if you've forgotten in any case, that we are not living in this world for ever. We are answerable before Allah SWT one day! Try to live you lives piously and DO NOT indulge in haram activities when Allah has placed sacred and halal way of satisfying our needs and wants i.e. Nikah!I request to all my young brothers and sisters not to ruin your piety, your social image and your national image. This forum reflects very clearly that we are no more the Pakistanis who sacrificed their blood and flesh on the name of Islam! Anyways!Leaving lots to be said due to the shortage of time, and rest you are aware yourselves!Make a solemn pledge today to change your lives and smoothen your road to Jannah!
It is not the problem that living is sex. Infact problem is our society our culture. Here are some rules of Islam which we are not following but following the non muslims rules.
See if the marriage of a youngster is done at the age which Islam says so where is the chance of sexuallity??
If our parents teach sex education in way of Islam so how the youngster will think about forbidden activities.
If our parents dont let us to see bollywood holly wood films etc so how we will think about fashion and such kind of stuff??
Our society is just for bringing up childs and then leave them but it not banana to eat it has responsibilities. The main root problem is our society and thier followings of life towards Islam.
salaam alaikum , i already notiice the same when was a silent reader of this forum but as days pass by used to this kind of queries but the fact which wellknown has said tht the people are theMselves not indulging in this activities but they are more going through with there society AND CULTURE TOO. WELL I AGREE THT TODAY WHAT THIS YOUNG GENERATIONS ARE MOVING VERY FAST FORWARD IN THEIR LIVES COZ OF THIS SOACIAL AWARENESS, INTERNET AND MANY THINGS AND INDEED THEY KNOW WHTS WRONG N RIGHT FOR THEY ASK OPENELY FOR HELP WHICH THEY COMMIT A SIN IN ALLAH VIEWS. WELL NOT MUCH TO ELABORATE THIS ISSUE I HOPE ALLAH S.W.T GIVES EVERYBODY TAUFEEQ TO LIVE THERE LIFES IN HALAL WAYS AND CONTROL THERE NAFS MORE IMPORTANT ...AND MAKE DUA FOR THOSE MUSLIMS WHO LOST THERE LIFES IN BURMA TO GRANT THEN JANNAH... N SAFE THE REST MUSLIMS .AMEEN.. I SEEK APOLOGY IF ANY OF MY ABOVE WORDS OFFENDS ANYONE IN THIS FORUM...
Most of us understand and are aware that the society is the culprit then why not step forward and try to reform it?! BTW, if our upbringing is strong enough then we can abstain from sins not only by avoiding watching bolly and Hollywood but even if we are made to sit right in the middle of them!
Only media is not res such satanic people are also present in the society where they do not have access to even the basic tv! the tool is not bad itself, its how we bring it in to the use, these are the sources of entertainment and surely they do have clean watchable stuff, family programs etc, its our youth who chose to watch porn through these channels.
Anyways, its our duty and obligation to clean the society if we are aware ourselves! Because Allah SWT punished the man first who did good deed him selves but did not stop others and then Allah SWT ruined the rest disobedient nation(Story Of SABBATH according to Quran)
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thank you! it is said that a jamat is however better than a single person, so i am happy that the "silent readers" have finally decided to break their silence because in this way we deserve more punishment from Allah, because we possess the knowledge of right and wrong and its our duty to stop people from falling in hell fire!
However, we can not wholly blame culture and society until we do not act individually. Because nowhere in our culture it is said that do adultery, therefore, we should start our individual efforts, because every bit helps '"QATRA QATRA MILKAR HI DARYA BANTA HAI!"
ap ko nhn lagta k ap shayed ghalat jagah aagai hain
yeh medical site nhn hai yeh sex education ki site hai aur yahan per sex frustrated bhi ain gay
main bohat logon ko LATTAR deta hun jin ki post se zera bhi STORY ki boo aai lekin ap shayed yahan kisi MASJID ka consept chahty hain jo is doar main shayed masjid main bhi mumkin nhn
main aik aisay insan ko bhi janta hun jis ne apni jawani main koi jagah na milnay per VCR masjid main laga ker doston k sath dekha ab naturaly us ne jo dekha ap bhi janty hain aaj woh LAHORE ka commissioner incometax hai
is liyay ap yahan k mahol ko samjhain aur absorbance peda kerain khud main
is k ilawa aik bat aur yad rakhain
Dr. Malik Ghulam Murtaza Merhoom ne aik bar fermaya tha k
hum kehtay hain k musalman falastien main zaleel o khuwar ho raha hai, afghanistan main , iraq main zaleel o khuwar ho raha hai to yeh paka hai k jo sahi musalman hai us ko duniya ki koi taqat zaleel nhn ker sakty aur jo zaleel ho rahay hain woh musalmn nhn hain naam k hain
is liya yeh bhi dekhna hai k aaj jitni be his pakistani qoam hai khuda na khuwasta kahin hum bhi usi list main nhn anay walay
First of all I really appreciate ur positive debat. your prospect is same but views r different. Rumiasa's question & argument r so debatable, Mr. Wellknown also provide the solid reply.
But I would like to share my personal experience that the causes of sex frustrated society is created by our confused society. we neither follow Islamic directions, nor follow any other rules we hve mixed our own ruls with Islam. whereas we find financial benefits we close our eyes, whereas we face class & caste conflict we forget Islam, & we follow our own rules.
We teach to our generation to avoid illegal sexual relation, its sin, but anybodya tell, that what Islam say? I think every1 know so better, that Islam tell us, that to marriage ur young daughter & son in early age, but we avoid , is it not a big sin? if the parents avoid in early age, Islam says, if ur child goes for illegal sex the sin will also count for parents. as we know, the everyone hve sexual feelings , we are not angel( Fareshty) neither Prophet nor Aoleya Keram, we are a common man.
Now Im telling about Media role, I also belong to one of the Media group, Media deliberately promote the liberalism we consider that as entertainment, but the black sheep behind the media collecting thier objectives through conspiracy theory, & they are rapidly moving to their target. especially Pakistan is in hit list.
My conclusion is, we should be positive, sex ko mind p sawar nahi kerna chahy , balky sex per ap sawar ho. so iss forum ko be negative lay ker use kerna chahy.
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Sexually Frustrated Young Nation!
Social Error
indeed the best post on this forum