Be Happy
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2008 Topic: 15 Post: 243 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2009, 12:04am |
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Moderators Ka Be-Ja Ghussa Asslam-o-Alikum.
kia hal hain sab ke?sab ko Eid mubarak.
kab se soch rahi thi k yahan k members forum k moderators k barey me kia soch rakhtey hain means k yahan pe moderators ka attitude members k sath acha hai?agar nahi to phir kesa hona chahiye?
aaj mainey aik topic me dekha k: but...aap k moderators bare gusse wale hein, baat karte huye b dar he lagta hai.
kia ye waqi sach hai?aap sab kia kehtey hain is bare mein? sach kahon to kabhi kabhi mojhe bhi is bat ki shikayat hoti hai k yahan k moderators waqi buhot ghussey wale hain jab k dosre kai ese forums hain jahan pe moderators buhot hi nram mizaj hote hain.
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H/dr_Qasim
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 185 Post: 6560 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2009, 2:37am |
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moderators ka ghossa moderators gosaa waly ni forul k rules kafi sukht hen ku k ye sex education web hy or yaa py log ajeeb ajeeb kisam k bhe ajaty hen or forum rules ko b study ni kurty.moerators ka kam jahaa jahaa zuroorat purti mod note daty hen mod notes dany ka muksaad ek tu warn kurna hota hy dosra dosry logo ko os rule k mothulik aaghah kurna bhee hota hy jub koi mod not daykta hy tu os ko bhe puta chul jata hy k yaa koi gulti hoi hy ya rule ki khilaaf wurzi hoi hy.
moderators gosa kurty meh ny kum dayky members zuroor gosa kurty hen jub mod note daykty hen.Moderators ka or b kafi kam hota hy forum py es leye jub onko oljayaa jay ya bajaa tunkeed ke jay ya bar bar sumjany k member sumjy ni tu mod pher gosa ni kurty ya tu post delete kur daty hen ya member k bar bar policy ki khilaf wurzi kurny py block kur deye jaty hen,
dosry forum ki or bat hy ye sex education sy or medical sy related web and forum hy yaa bot C bato ka khiyaal kurna purta hy.
some time insan ki khamiyaa os ki khoobiyoo meh chop jati hen jis tura kali zubaan hen sub onko sukht or bud mizaaj bolty hen ku k wo members sy free ni hoti apn kam sy kam rukhti hen or forum k leye kam kurti hen or meh ni sumajta jitna kam or time kali zuban ny forum k leye deye hy kisi or ny deya ho,es leye senior mods and members ka ehtraab kurna b sub ko kurna chaiye.
ikhtilaaf ray hur kisi ka huk hy mugar kisi ko tunked ka nishaana bunana thek ni ray sy hur koi ikhtilaf kur sukta hy,
any how forum ek dum friendly hy or mods bhe ,
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Raja Taqi
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2010 Topic: 31 Post: 2016 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2009, 2:50am |
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Be Happy A.A aap ne bohat hi acha thread open ker diya aur uger ye hi thread hum mein se koi kerta to iss waqat ye delete bi ho chukka hota actualy yahan kuch moderaters ne apny intehaee sukhat lehjaye ki waja se forum ko Police Station mein Budhle diya he aur zera zera si baat per per unn ki enquires luga ker unn sub ko yahan se bugha diya he aur issi waja se lot of members ka loss forum ko ho chukka he aur kuch issi waja se wapiss any ko tiyaar bi nahi hein
yahan log apni entertainment aur relexation k liye aty hein na k yahan log apni enquries bugtny k liye aty hein moderaters ka ye hi kaam nahi hota k wo Forum ki Policy ki majboori ko daikh ker apny zati disputes se faida uthana shuroo ker de bulke moderaters ko ye bi seen kerna hota he k mein ne Forum ki policy k mutabiq kaam bi kerna he aur Forum ko koi loss bi nahi ponchana wo kissi member ki surat ho ya jiss se Forum k carear ko koi nuqsan ponchta ho
laiken yahan sub kuch ultt pult chull rah he Moderaters ne na hi Forum ko seen kiya na hi kissi member ko khawah wo koi senior he ya junior ya kissi k pass knowledge he ya nahi issi liye din be-din forum se members khofo hirass ki surt-e-hall daikh ker bhag gaye hein aur baqi bi issi waja se intrest nahi le
raye k putta nahi kahan se kessi sukhti aa jaye gi aur ub members per aissa sukta tari ho chukka he k wo yahan reply kerny se bi derty hein k puta nahi iss ka kiya natija niqly ga mery khiyal se Dr Pk se hum log kaee bar request ker chukky hein k wo Forum ko aur members ko buchany k liye khudd in action hoon aur aissy Moderaters declare kiye jayein jo cool minded aur achi shakhsiyat rukhty hoon
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Be Happy
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2008 Topic: 15 Post: 243 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2009, 2:52am |
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H/dr_Qasim aap ne reply kia thanks but mojhe abhi bhi mere sawal ka jawab nahi mila....:(
mera sawal ye tha k kia Moderators ko esa hi hona chahiye?
aik forum sirf moderators ki waja se bhi chalta hai to ab agar moderators hi sir phirey hon ge to new comer pe kitna bura asar ho ga.
aur aik bat aur kahon gi k yahan buhot se members ko hidden Mod banaya hai ab zahir si bat hai k wo jab bhi kisi member ko note deta hai to os k sath apna name to nahi likhte na...to phir kiu wo log jo pehle just member hote hain onhe agar Mod bana dia jae to wo khod ko kuch samjh lete hain...aur aik dam se on k mizaj me change aa jata hai....esa kiu hota h?
jab k buhot se member hidden Mod hain magar wo sab ko show krte phirte hain k main bhi moderator hon.agar show krna hota to phir hidden kiu hote wo.
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Be Happy
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2008 Topic: 15 Post: 243 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2009, 2:56am |
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Raja Taqi bhai aap ne buhot achi bat ki.
main khud yehi bat kehna chahti hon k yahan per Mods ko friendly hona chahiye...Mod note jahan dena ho de magar baqi waqt me to kuch apne mizaj shareef me narmi laey.
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 130 Post: 7703 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2009, 2:59am |
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Mod ka ghussa jin k kaandhouN pay "zimmah daariyaaN" houN, woh kabhi kabhi ghussah bhi kar jatay haiN...... bil.khasoos members ki sharaartouN bhari post /replies, rules ki khelaaf warzi etc par. nazm o zabt bar.qarar rakhnay k liyeh muntazemeen ka action lenaa members ko kabhi bhi pasand nahi aataa aur jo members apni mistakes ko accept karnay ka hauslah nahi rakhtay woh mods ki sahi batouN par onhaiuN ghussa wala honay ka khataab detay haiN.........
iss tarah to hota hai iss tarah k kaamouN maiN :)) |
Be Happy
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2008 Topic: 15 Post: 243 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2009, 3:07am |
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My Rizvi uncle wah ji kia bat hai.is trha to hota hai is trha k kamoun me....lols
aap ko esa nahi lgta kabhi jo mojhe lag raha hai.mera matlab hai k agar new mod ise aram se tassali se karein to itna ghussa na ae.ab jo log khud pe in zima dariyon ko bojh samjh lete hain to zahir si bat hai ghussa hi karein ge...
mazey ki bat mojhe to kabhi in zimma daariyon k bad bhi ghussa nahi aya.
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 130 Post: 7703 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2009, 3:25am |
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ghussa imaan ki alamt bhi hai ... agar ghair islami batoun ko islami qarar denay par aa.ay
Be Happy dear, kia apko kabhi aur kissi par bhi ghussa nahi aataa...... agar aisa hai to iskay sirf 2 meanings haiN. apkay ird gird k saray hi log bahoot achay haiN aur woh kabhi bhi koi ghalat baat nahi kartay..... yaa phir ... yaa phir ... ab main agay kaisay likhouN. ap khud samajh jayain naa k agar apko ghalat /anti islamic /islam dushmani par mabni baatoun par bhi ghussa nahi aataa to .... ))))))))):::::
Allah nay saray jazbay hamaiN ataa kia hai.. piyaar karna bhi aur ghussa karna bhi... ab dekhiyeh issi reply maiN apko kaisay piyaar say samjhnay ki koshihs kar raha houN lol
aham baat yeh nahi k kis nay ketna ghussa kia......... asal baat yeh hai k kis nay kis baat pay aur kis pay ghussa kia........ agar baat islam k hawalay say horahi ho aur koi Bewaqoof, bewaqoofi ki intehaa kartay howay mosallamh islamic principles ko toRnay lagay to myrizvi har haal maiN oska jawaab detay howay parlimani zubaan maiN apnay ghussa ka laazman izhaar karegaa. khaah Bewaqoof.ouN yaa onkay hawari.youN ko yeh baat ketni hi naa.gawaar kiyouN nah lagay...
al.battah aam halaat maiN members ki aam batoun par mods ko bila.wajah ghussa nahi karna chaahiyeh... lekin agar "bil.wajah" bhi koi ghussah nah karay to woh shakhs deyanat.daar nahi. yaani dil main to kissi ko /kissi ki batouN ko boraa samjhay lekin zubaan say adaa nah karay.... issay urfay aam maiN monaafeqat bhi kahtay haiN |
Raja Taqi
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2010 Topic: 31 Post: 2016 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2009, 3:31am |
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myrizvi aik school mein buchoon ki tadad hazaroon mein hoti he aur teachers makhsoos hoty hein buchoon mein se kuch purhny waly hoty hein kuch da duppa waly aur kuch siraf school ka baijj istemal kerny k liye school aty hein aur uger teachers sub hi students ko discharge ker dein gay to school ka kiya faida reh jaye ga aur uger teachers ziada sukhti kerty hein to bucha school se bag bi jata he aur purhaee bi chorr daita he
aur yahan to mashallah 16000 k qareeb registered members hein aur her koi apny apny mined ka malik he khawah wo bucha he jawan he ya burra aur apny apny mined k mtabiq yahan visite kerta he aur Moderaters ki bila waja sukhti se aap ko ye andaza ho giya ho ga k ub Moderaters k pass sukhti kerny k liye bucha rah hi nahi ub aik dusry per hi sukhti ker k apna waqat tupa raye
hein mujjy itna yaad he k aik forum mein ne join kiya tha to mein wahan per siraf 2din visit k liye nahi ja sukka tha to uss Forum ki senior Moderater ne mujjy special email bheji thi k kiya aap ko forum se koi shikayait he aap ne 2 din huway forum visit kiyoon nahi kiya to mein hiran reh giya k inn logoon mein forum ka members ka kitna ehsas mojood he laiken humary forum per Moderaters ne jo udham mucha rukki he ye forum aur members k liye acha nahi he |
myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 130 Post: 7703 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2009, 3:44am |
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Raja Taqi ap ki baat 100% durust hai... lekin lagta hai k ap meri baat samjhay hi nahi yaa samajhnay ki koshihs hi nahi ki
"bila wajah ghussa" nahi karna chaahiyeh yeh to maiN nay saaf saaf likha hai... shayad aap "bil.wajah" ka matlab nahi samjhay haaaa haaaa
bhai meray agar school maiN chand bachay school ka mahaul kharaab kar rahay houN aur paRhnay walay bachouN ko paRhnay nahi day rahay houN to kia as a Teacher ap aisay bachouN par ghussa nahi hongay??????? hairat hai
yahaaN jab khalistan gup shup chal rahi ho to ghussa honay ka jawaaz nahi hotaa illa yeh k koi bad langyage use karay....... lekin agar islamic teaching k hawalay say sawal jawab /discussion chal raha ho aur koi jaan boojh kar members /silent viewers ko ghalat baat feed karnay ki koshish karay tab bhi ap ghussah nahi karengay...????????
agar iss forum maiN modz k liyeh GHUSSA KARNA MANAA hotaa to yahaaN modz ko .... EDIT....DELETE....BLOCK ... k options nah diyeh jatay... yeh saray options ghussay ka amali izhaar hi to haiN. jab ap kissi k khilaaf yeh options use kartay hain to apkay kheyaal maiN woh ap say KHUSH hota hai......... ghussa ka kam say kam izhaar yeh hai k in options ko use kiyeh beghair (agar kaam chal jaa.ay to) wordz main iska izr=haar kardia jaa.ay takay ghalat baat karnay waloun aur doosrouN ko bhi pata chal jaa.ay k yahaan ... KISS QISM KI GHALAT BATAIN KARNA MANAA HAI...
hope k ab ap meri iss reply ko samajh kar paRhnay ki koshish karengay aur mujh par GHUSSA nahi hongay lol |
Raja Taqi
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2010 Topic: 31 Post: 2016 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2009, 4:01am |
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myrizivi bhi mein aap ki sub hi batoon se itfaq ker rah hoon aap ko yaad ho ga k pehly aik waqat huwa kerta tha k hum sub log aik dusry ki mohbat k liye yahan aya kerty thay aur aur ussi mohbat mein humary kaee musail bi hull ho jaya kerty thay aur forum bi rawaan dawaan tha yahan aik ajeeb se mela dekhny ko milta tha aur kissi member k miss hony ka ehsas dill mein luga rah kerta tha aur kuch makhsoos ghussa waly Moderaters ne bila waja members ko disturb ker k mahole ka yahan tukk poncha diya k ub ye omeed nahi hoti kissi ko k baat iss se kerna he ya musail kiss ko paish kerna he
jessa k Maraym Ch Babar Hitman Bhimji ozone Saim seemi k sath kiya giya aur forum ki ronaq nufrat mein badle gaee to kiya Administration ko ya Moderaters ko iss bary mein sochna nahi chahiye tha buss meri ye hi request he aap ki batoon se mokamal itfaq he ub aap ghussa na ho jaiye ga |
myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 130 Post: 7703 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2009, 4:25am |
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raunaq mela agar khatam honay lagay... achay achay log agar janay lagaiN to admin ko iss baray maiN zaroor sochna chahiyeh... mujhay nahi maloom k mazkoorah balaa log kiyouN kam aatay haiN aur inkay saath kia haadsa howaa... ap bahoot zeyadah active member haiN apko zeyadah maloom hogaa... maiN kam kam aataa houN aur zeyadah tar sirf issues ki discussion tak mahdood rahta houN issliyeh yahaan ki FORUM POLITICS say laa ilm houN. aur iss maiN enter bhi nahi hona chaahtaa :))
meri above tamam replies sirf aur sirf academic aur to the point haiN k kia Mod ka ghussa hamesha naa.jaaiz hota hai..... agar apko meri kissi reply say adam ittefaaq nahi to dats gud & enuf 4 me. |
Waterr
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Group: Members Joined: 15th Jul, 2009 Topic: 59 Post: 3783 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2009, 5:34am |
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re:be happy agar iss thread ka name hota Moderators Peh be ja gussa(esp new members ka though some times......old sort of new ka ;) ) tou mai kuch kehti..ab tou mai kasir houn kehney sey,kunke maine aj tak kissey pe mods wala na gussa keya ha yahan,na hey gussa mai apne options ka na jaiz use. :) |
Raja Taqi
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2010 Topic: 31 Post: 2016 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2009, 5:52am |
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waterr sub aap hi ki turah se ho jayein to musla bi hull ho jaye ga aur jo khidmaat aap forum k liye paish ker rahi hein iss turah se koi bi forum ka nahi soch rah |
saim1
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Group: Members Joined: 23rd May, 2008 Topic: 44 Post: 2214 Age:
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Posted on:30th Nov 2009, 8:14pm |
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Moderator ka gussa ya bila waja ka panga mujhey kisi bat par aitraz nahi hey,agar Mod forum ki policy ko follow kartey howey kisi ko note dete haien tu wo aik achi bat hey
lakin agar koi mod sirif itna khney par note dey,jase may ney aik bar raja bahi say kaha key app mujhey meesage kar dijiay ga
tu janab Mod ney uss bat par note dey diya key iss trha ki bat yahan na karien ku key iss say yeh zahir hota hey key app log phley say aik dosrey ko jantey haien or app logo ney yahan par ID exchange ki hey
ab mujhey samjh nahi a raha tha key uss note par may roan ya hanso
kahi par bhi forum policy may yeh nahi likha key forum par app kisi say yeh nahi kah saktey key app mujhey message kar dijiya ga
or na tu kisi say yeh khney say yeh zahir hota hey key hum ney ya kisi ney yahi par ID exchange ki hey
ab mere khyal may tu yeh Mod ka bila waja ka panga hi hey |
myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 130 Post: 7703 Age:
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Posted on:1st Dec 2009, 2:56am |
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saim1 haaaaaaa haaaaaa
asal maiN yahaaN as per aik sr mod, etnay modz hain k koi bhi eeNT puTTo, aik mod nikal aataa hai lol ab etnay saray modz nay kuch nah kuch to karna hi hota hai... lateefah yeh hai k yeh 'gum.naam modz' doosray modz ko bhi bila takalluf "mod Notes' issue kardetay haiN. ghaleban inhaiN administration k ABCD bhi nahi aati k equal ranks ko show cause nahi diya jasakta.... khud mujhay aisay aisay pur lutf note milay hain k kia batlaayouN....
- jin modz ko khud Roman urdu ki grammer nahi aati woh meray 'durust-roman' ki correction k liyeh mod-note issue kartay rahay.
- iss baat par Mod Note issue kartay rahay k 'copy-right' ki khilaf warzee NOT allowed. lutf yeh k inhaiN 'copy-right' ka matlab hi nahi pata.
- colorful fonts par note detay rahay... yeh janay beghair k font color option hotay hi iss liye hain k inhaiN use kia jaa.ay
- 'irrelevant reply' ki warning dee jati rahi hai aur woh bhi 'adabi fiqrouN' par halaaNkay k mausoof /mausoofah k sar k ooper say guzar gaye thay woh adabi fiqray..
kahaaN tak sunengi, kahaaN tak sunaa'ouN... yahaaN ki admin, modship ko rewaRiyouN ki tarah baaNT.ti phirti hai... hatta k mujh jaisay jaahiloun tak ko mod banaa dia...:)) jo member membership k bhi qaabil nahi hotay jab woh mod ban jayaiN, sulemani Topi oRhay rahaiN, onki harkataiN to nazar aayaiN woh khud nazar nah aayaiN to aisay maiN issi tarah hogaa......... aur eh forum issi tarah chalta rahegaa k chalti ka naam gaRi haaaaaaaa haaa |
Waterr
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Group: Members Joined: 15th Jul, 2009 Topic: 59 Post: 3783 Age:
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Posted on:1st Dec 2009, 4:33am |
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myrizvi :)))) mujheeee kabhee moderator note nai mila :)) iska kya matlab ha?(except may be once)
aur joo moderator note apkoo miltey hain unkoo parh kee mai ye kartii houn :)))))))
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