I Am Very Much Worried Due To My Relations With Husband
salam!
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mera nikkah 19 july 2008 ko hawa tha abhi rukshati nahi hi aur 1 year 1month 17 din hogay hain
mein apnay husband se bohut pyar karti hoon woo bhi bohut kartay tha magar mujhay se eik ghulati hi hai
hum doon eik dosara ka sath bohut khush tha eik dosara ki har baat mantay tha mera sursal mein sirf ammi aur mera husband hain aur meri ammi means mother in law bohut zyada achi hain mera bohut karti hain kyun k mein un se daily 1 hour baat karti hoon aur jab bhi ayti hain tu un ka bohut karti hoon mera ghar walon nay apni merzi se yeah rishta kiya tha magar abhi woo mera husband ko bura kehtay hain yeah mujhay se bardast nahi hota ise lain mein missbehave karti hoon sab se yahan tak k apna parents se bhi bcoz woo hamesha un ko ghulat kehtay hain yeah jantay hawa k woo un ki beti ko kitna chahtay tha
baz mujhay un se kuch gila tha magar kabhi keh nahi k woo naraz na hojayain
aur un ki ammi se nahi kehti thi bcoz un ko pershan karna nahi chahti thi
magar mera husband ki friends mera sath bohut bura mazak karti thi k baz mujhay un ki friends passand nahi thi magar phir mujhay apnay husband par itna yaqeen hogay hai k woo kabhi kuch ghulat nahi karga bcoz bohut larkion ko chor kar mujhay passand kiya tha
magar woo mujhay se call par baat nahi kartay hain aur na sms par yeah baat ghar mein pata hai ghar wala un ko ghulat kehtay hain
baz ghar walon ki wajha se un ka behaver mera sath bohut bura hogay naraz rehtay tha sahi se baat nahi kartay tha woo mujhay ignore karna lagay tu mujhay bohut bura lagnay laga phir mein nay socha un ko meri fikar nahi hai mujhay kuch bhi karti rahon magar mein nay un ko jealous karna ka liyan mein nay kisi se dosti kar li thi
k mera no busy jayga tu yeah kuch samja ga bcoz mein samja samja kar thak gai thi magar mein nay sirf 5 din baat ki thi magar mujhay bura lagnay k mein ghulat kar rehi hoon mein nay dosti chor di
magar us ka 10 din bad mera husband ko sab pata chal gay bcoz meri ufone ki sim thi aur pehla ufone mein kaam kartay tha aur wahan un ki friends thi unhoon nay bata diya
aur ab woo mera sath rehna nahi chahtay mera ghar mein sab ko pata chala gay un nay mera baba ko bhi bata diya bohut naraz tha
yeah sab 3 months se chal reha hai mein nay bohut mafi mangi magar woo suntay nahi hain phir pehla tu mera ghar mein kisio se baat nahi kartay tha aur mujhay keh k ammi se bhi baat na karun
magar jab se mil kar ayi hoon mirpurkhas se tu jab se kasam di hai k mein un ko call na karun baki baat kal batao gi ok
aap ki kahani mai sab ki kuch na kuch ghaltia hai, lehaza kisi se shikwa shikayat kerne ka koi faida nahi. aap apne aap ko sahi ker le, aur Allah se behtari ki dua kare....... nikah ke baad woh aap ka shohar ho gaya aur aap os se har qisim ka taluqat rakh sakti hai, lekin hamare culture mai rukhsati se qabal shohar se baat cheet bhi sahi nahi samjhi jaati. iss liye koshish kare ke rukhsati se qabal kam se kam mulaqat kare..... aur ziadah behtar ho ga keh jald se jald rukhsati kra le. jab aap dono aik saath rahe gi tu aik doosre per trust barh jaaye ga .... aur aap dono aik doosre ka ehteram kerne lage gi. aur aik doosre ke ehtram mai ghaltios se door rah gi. .... Allah taala aap ke problem solve kare .... Aameen
apni sub batin dono bhola k apni ni zindgi shoro kurin or durmiyaan ka rasita ikhitiyaar kurin sub k sath acha sulook kurin or apny husband ka bot khiyaal kurin or on sy job howa such such keh dien or gulti ko accipt kur leyin or Allah sy mafi mangyin or husband sy b
H/dr_qasim bhai mein nay apni ghulati accept kar li bohut pehla aur mafi bhi mangi hai magar woo maf nahi kar reha hain
phir mein un se milnay bhi gai mafi mangnay lekin itna kuch keh diya k mein dar gai aur samnay hotay hawa "keh nahi k maf kar dain woo kehna lagay apni ammi se k woo mafi manganay ayi tu aesa kyun chali gai apni mohabbat par ya mujhay par yaqeen nahi tha
phir mein nay bohut keh k mein dar gai thi mein sab bhool kar un se baat karna chahti hoon magar 16 din pehla unhoon nay mujhay kasam di k mein call na karun pehla kehtay tha k mujhay bhool jao mujhay se nafrat kartay hain aur ammi se bhi baat karna nahi detay tha magar jab se mil kar ayi hoon yeah sab nahi keh aur ammi se bhi baat karna di hai
magar un ko lagta hai k mera pass cell phone hai magar mera pass nahi hai aur sim bhi tor di mein nay
pehla tu ghar mein kisi ki call rec nahi kartay tha magar sab sab ghar walon se baat kartay hain magar mujhay se mujhay bhi un se bohut gila hai magar kabhi keh nahi bcoz mein un ko khona nahi chahti thi
last time baba se baat ki thi mera husband nay aur keh k mera itna haq tu hai k us ko ehsaas dila sakon aur meri mama se keh tha k jab mujhay laga k woo sahi hogi hai tu khud baat kar loon gay
mujhay un ki kasam nay bana hawa hai warna pata nahi mein kitna bar call kar chuki hoti aur mera baba bahar hotay hain woo 17 sep ko ayga phir eid par woo ayga tu phir hath jor kar mafi manga loon gi
pak brain bhai mein apnay andar kia sahi karoun 2 baatain mujhay mein buri thi woo sahi kar chuki hoon mein woo yeah k mein kabhi jhoot bolti thi woo chor diya aur miss behave karti thi apnay ghar walon se jab koi ammi aur mera husband ko kuch kehta hai ab aram se samja deti hoon aesa na karain aur kon sa culture ki baat kar reha hain nikkah ka baad sab kar saktey hain woo tu phir sab ka samnay milnay ayta tha ghar par kahin le kar nahi jatay tha
aur kabhi kuch ghulat nahi kiya mera sath aur rukshati abhi nahi hi ise ki wajha yeah hai k woo kehtay hain jab un ka pass 5 lakh hogay tu mujhay le kar jay gay
tu mein kia karun mein samja samja kar thak gai hoon
mujhay un se bohut gila hai magar kuch nahi keh bcoz un ko khona na doon ise liyan lekin dil karta hai kehna ko
plz mujhay batain mera kia kasoor hai mein janti hoon mein nay ghulat kiya aur ise ki saza mujhay 3 month se mil rehi hai k woo mujhay se milnay nahi ay aur na baat ki hai
aur agar ki tu woo bhi itni rude mein nay istakhara karwaya tha ise mein ay tha k meri rukshati hojay gi inshaallah magar mera maqsad sirf rukshati nahi hai
mein chahti hoon mein un ki narazgi khatam kar k phir se un ka dil jeet loon yeah kesay hoga pata hai kitna sabar karun ab tu dil kartay hai k mar jaoun wesa bhi un ka bina nahi jeena chahti
har wqat un ki rudeness wali baatain yaad ayti hain aur rona ayta hai , aur dil dukhta hai
mujhe lagta hai k aap ki taraf se ab koi problem nahi hai, aap ne maan lia hai k aap ne ghalti ki hai aur muafi bhi maangi hai, yahan par members aap ko sirf itna hi keh sakte they, aur aap woh already kar rahi hai....
ab problem yeh hai k aap k husband nahi maan rahe, to yahi par baat atki hoie hai.....
es lie aap ko aisa karna hoga k kisi bhi tarha apne husband ko manaa le, unhe yaqeen dilaie k aap sirf aur sirf un se pyaar karti hai aur kisi se koi sarokaar nahi. ab yeh aap bhetar jaanti hongi k aap unhe kese manaa sakte hain, koshish kare k apni saas ko samjhaye woh apne bete ko bhi samjhaiengi....
aur ek baat k aaienda kabhi bhi apne husband ko jeleous karne k lie kisi se dosti mat kejiega, yeh formulas srif filmon main applicable hoti hai, real life main agar kisi ki bv kisi ghair se ham kalam hoti hai to phir nateeja sirf aur sirf alaihdagi hoti hai
just wait for better time or Quran meh Allah ny bot acha tureeka butaya hy solah k ek mohazab family member apni family sy lo or ek on ki family sy or bayth k bat kurin Allah koi rah nikaly ga
or ha EId py zroor jao or mafi mango insha Allah sub thek ho ga abi shayd wo gossy meh hen
plz pray for me k mujhya sakoon aur bardast de aur himmit de bcoz mera parents chahtaqy hain k mein khaula le loon bcoz mera husband nay mujhay se rs ka liyan shaadi ki hai jis ka mujhay itna dukh hai k dil karta hai k mar jaoun plz pray kar gay mera liyan
TUm ne jo harkat ki hena bahut galat ki he tum pagal ho aap wo tum par pori umer shaq kare ga chahay tum jitni bar mafi mang lo yaqeen siraf ek dafa hota he or wo tot jaye tu pher nahi hota he
jaisa tum chati ho wo tum se pyar kare ye ab na mumkin he na mumkin he kyun ke tum ne un ka yakeen tur dala he or yehhi sach he
han shahid tumhari rukhsati b hojaye shahid na ho ALLAH behtar janta he mager kuch batain assi hoti hain jo dil or dimag main bait jayain tu nikalna mushkil hoti hain
pata nahi ab tumhara shor kisi or larki k peche par geya ho shahid ye soch kar ke tum ne kisi or larkay se chakkar chala rakha tha or ab main b yehhi karon ga or us ko usse pyar hojaye tu pher samaj lo bye bye ur Rishta
plz pray for me k us insaan nay muujhay se kabhi pyar nahi kiya tha woo meri sis se pyar karta hai aur meri sis nay us insaan ko apna bhai samja hamesha
aap jisss turah se apna musla buta rahi hein iss se ye hi andaza ho rah he k aap ne bohat hi ghulat ker diya ...uger aap ki mother in law bi aap ko bohat piyar de rahi thein aur aap k husband bi aap ko bohat chahty thay to aap ko kiya zaroorat mehsoos huee ussy jailuss kerny k liye apni zindgi ko kharab kerny ki ubi aap ki rukhsati huee nahi aur aap ne advance mein hi apny husband k liye preshani buna di jitni ghulti aap ki he aap k husband ki bi utni hi ghulti he jo wo apni frends se aap ki baat karwata rah he ...ye ussi ki ghulti ki waja se nobat yahan tukk aee .....aap 2no aik dusry ko kiya sabit kerna chah raye thay ...wo ye sabit kerna chah rah tha k lurhkiyaan mujj per bohat ashiq hein...aur uss ka jawab aap ne bi de diya k mein bi kissi se kum nahi hoon ...aur 2no ka result ye niqla k ub sari life k liye aik dusry k chor bunn gaye...
ub aap aissa kerein k kissi tura se apni mother in law ko itmaad mein lein .....ye baat to wessy hi aap ka husband apni walida ko buta de ga uger uss ka iradha aap ko rukhny ka na huwa to..iss se pehly aap unnein itmaad mein le ker unn se help lein aur apny husband se bar bar moufi mangein aur ussy kehien k mein ne ye sub kuch mehz aap k jawab mein kiya he uger aap apni frnds se meri baat na karwaty to mein aissa kubi na kerti
ab tu kya hoga hum khud nahi jantay aap b nahi aab aap agay ki bat batayain or aaap kya karri hain koi asssa kadam b othaye he jisse aap ka shor kush ho ? kuch assa waisa kiya yeah nahi?
aap ki chahti hain aap aakhri hadd tak apnay husband ko nahen chorna aap apni galti ko mantay hoay jo bhe pareshani aaye bardasht karen aor namaz paray allah aap ko inshaallah zaroor kamyab karega inshaaallah ---------edited email id--------ye sari baat main aap se iss liye ker raha hon k aap mirpurkhas se belong kerti hain ------edited phone number---------
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woo insaan lalchi hai jhoota hai mera dil aur feelings se khela hai aur us nay pehla din se meri sis se pyar kiya hai mujhay se nahi us ki pic utari hain aur jab mera husband yeah keh chuka hain k mein kisi se bhi baat kar loon un ko koi farak nahi parta tu mera kia kasoor hai
mein nay koi affair nahi chalya hai us insaan ki 1000 ghulation ka agay meri 1 ghulat maf ho sakti magar woo mera sath rehna nahi chahtay bcoz un ko rs chahya tha woo mil gay woo pehla se shaadi kar chuka tha tu meri life barbaad kyun ki mein nay kia kiya tha mein nay 1 year sab bardast kiya tha lekin ab nahi hawa tha ise liyan aesa kiya magar 1 ghulati un ki thi
kabhi koi aesi baat tak nahi ki jise se laga k woo mera husband aj kaal ka mohal mein tu bf aur gf bhi kar letay hain woo tu mera husband hain tu woo kyun nahi karta tha call woo nahi karta tha sms bhi nahi karta tha
mein un ka liyan sirf prize bund thi
aur kuch nahi
woo kisi baat ki permission lena zarooi nahi samjatay tha un ka liyan apna parents se fight ki woo nazar nahi ayta un ko
us insaan ko mujhay par trust hota tu mujhay se puchta tu na
kisi ki baat par yaqeen karna se pehla
shayad mera kasoor yeah tha k mein nay us se bepannah mohabbat ki thi magar ab us ki harkaton ki wajha se us se nafrat karti hoon
ab koi bata de mein kahan ghulat hoon
aur ab tu mother in law mein bhi keh diya k agar un ka ghar hoti tu woo mujhay zaman mein gar deti
kia mein kisi beti nahi hoon jo yeah keh ab bhi jao kia us ghar mein
itna missbehaver k mera parents ko eid par salam nahi kiya aur na milnay ay
mera parents ka bare mein itni buri soch hai us insaan ki k mujhay baad mein na ayna dega aur na baat karna dega yeah khud keh hai us insaan nay mujhay se ab koi bata de mei nghulat hoon kia ?
mano billi bas karo or main kuch nahi son sakta tum barbaad karri ho apne aap ko or karo humain isse kya tum tu pagal jitna barbaad karna he karo apne aap ko yehhi tum chati ho tu mashwara kyun lati ho why
tumhain chahi he asse husband ko bye bye bolo jo shadi se phalay assa he wo shadi k bad b assa hi rahay g kyun zindagi barbad karrri ho abi tu tumhari roqsati nahi huhi he kuch karlo isse phelay dher hojahye
app sahi keh reha hain mujahy ise insaan nay pehla hi barbaad kar diya mein koi khush ho kar us ko chorna ka nahi keh rehi thi mein woo larki hoon jo dosaron ka liyan sab karti hoon aj meri mama chahti hain k mein us ghar jaon aur baba chahtay hain k nhai jaoun mein kia karun kuch samja nahi ayta mein baz apnay parents ki izat ka liyan us ghar mein jaoun gai bcoz mein apna parents ko badnaam nahi hona de sakti hoon
bcoz i love my family soo much
aur woo meri sis se mohabbat kartay hain
kia mein hi ghulat hoon woo nahi hai kai?
mein phir bhi faisla kar chuki hoon k
mein rukshati loon gi
yeah mein apni mama ka liyan kar rehi hoon
bcoz woo mujahy se bohut pyar karti hain
aur baad mein kon mera hath thama ga
ise wajha se mein us ghar jan gi pata nahi mera faisla sahi hai ya nahi magar yeah chahti hoon baz mein khush nahi reha saqkti tu apna parents ko tu khushi de doon na
bye
kal woo log ayga app log dua kar ga
mera lian
Allahhafiz
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I Am Very Much Worried Due To My Relations With Husband
Bahut bura kiya aap ne