Please Give Me Some Suggestions

Assalam-u-alaikum mere pyary bhai our behnain

mujhy ap sub ki ray chahiya.wo ya ke me saudia arabia Madinah me rehta hun.our meri sari family bhi yahan per he 35 years se.pakistan me mere uncles aunties cousins hain.our me ICS (Inter Computer Science)ka atudent hon.our job bhi kerta hon.me yahan 1 company me technical engineer hon.mujhy INTER pass kiya 2 years ho chuky hain.our maine INTER me bohut kum MARKS liya hain.(D Grade)40% ya 42% hain.because maine achi study nahin ker pa raha tha kion ke me private study kerta tha or job kerta tha apni job ko ziyada time nahin deta tha.our yahan saudia Madinah me koi pakistani ya english university bhi nahin he ke main apni studies ko continue rakhun.me pakistan jaky kisi achi universty me edmission le ke BCS kerna ya computer engineering kerna chahta hun.me kafi dafa pakistan ja chuka hun.but problem ya he ke mere ami, abu , bary bhai ghar ke sary members chahty hain ki main ab bus job kerun.study chor dun.because mujhy jo bhi salary milti he main apny abu ji ko deta hun.unki help bhi help hojati he.meri salary se unki kafi help hojati he.1 our baat meri 6 saal se mangni ho chuki he.our me apni mangeter se bohut pyar bhi kerta hun.yahan tak ke me usko wife keh ker bolta hun our wo mujhy husband keh ker bolti he.our wo pakistan me he.ab maine ya soucha he ke pakistan jaon kisi achi universty me edmission lon our study start ker dun.mere ami abu chahty hain ke me pakistan jaon but shadi ker ke apni wife ko leky wapas ajaon study na kerun bs job kerun.but me chahta hon ke pakistan jaky edmission ke 6 month baad shaadi kerun but shadi ke baad apni study bhi jari rakhun.me realy me ab shaadi bhi kerna chahta hun.because har waqt me apni mangeter ke khayalon me rehta hon our mere dil bohut kerta he me sex keun.to me kissi our ke sath sex nahin kerna chahta.me apni mangeter ko apni wife bana ker ussi ke sath sex kerna chahta hon.mujhy bohut kammi mehsos hoti he.so me shaadi bhi kerna chahta hun.but 100% me se 60% mujhy lagta ke meri koi help nahin keryga paison me.means mere kharcha so me souchta hun ke me pakistan me hi part time job bhi kerun.jaisy yahan kerta tha study ke waqt.is me ya hoskta he k me apna kharcha chala sakung?.but baat to wahi hena ke ami abu chahty hain me shaadi ker ke wapas ajaun.ab main confuse hon me kiya kerun?maine sari baat post ker di he our please sub apna apna mashowara dain ke mujhy kiya kerna chahiya ya kiya nahin.bus me apka shuker guzar rahunga.

Pyar....

walaikumasalam!
apnay abu jee ki bat maano aur saudia mai hi raho,, pakistan mai ICS walay ko 3000 ya 3500 say ziada ki job milna bohat mushkil hai,, itnay paiso ki job bi bari mehnat say hi milay gi..

rahi bat further education ki, ye tumhari achi soch hai, uskay liye koi tareeka dekho k saudia mai reh kar hi kisi tara tayyari kar sako... ya bcs ki books manga lo aur khud say study karna shuru kar do....

shadi ka bi tumharay abu sahi keh rahay hain, shadi kar k wapis saudia aa jao.. muje tumharay abu samajhdar insan lag rahay hain, ainda bi unkay mashwaray par amal kia karna...

josh bhai

thanx apka reply milla apki ray bohut achi he.but me pakistan me permenent job nahin kerna chahta main to bus jub tak BCS ya computer engineering compete kerunga job tab tak ke liya kerunga means 4 years ya 5 years us ke baad to me wapas madinah hi ajaounga.me really me madinah ko chorna nahin chahta me books manga sakta hon but phir bhi ya private study howi our me private nahin reguler kerna chahta hun.private me main theek se dhiyan nahin de pata.regular me ya faidah ho sakta he ke dusry students ke sath rees bhi hoti he ziyada study kerny ki.dekhain inter me mere kum marks private ki waja se ay.our phir ager main BCS ya Engineering ka certificate show kerun to shyed madinah me mujhy our bhi achi job milly.apki kiya ray he?

pyar.....

mainay to pak mai job kar k dekha hua hai, aur muje pata hai k pak mai 3, 4 hazar ki job karnay walay banday say kitna ziada kaam lia jata hai,, bohat mushkil hoga k job bi karo aur pak mai education bi hasil kar sako, aik to office ki tension aur dosra mehngaee... bai mai to apko pak aa kar rahnay ka mashwara nahi donga....

aur marks say kuch nai hota, waisay bi ab tumhe pata hai k ziada education ho gi to ziada salary milay gi,, to ab tum wo pehlay walay nahi ho , ab tumhari zindagi ki priorities change ho chuki hain... ab tum seriously apnay future ka soch rhay ho aur success kaisay hasil karni hai wo soch rahay ho.. jabkay pehlay tumhari aisi soch nai thi...

phir pak jao gay to ghar walon say paisay mangnay paraingay, , jabkay abi tum khud earn kartay ho aur ghar paisay detay ho,, parents ki khidmat kar rahay ho...

my suggestion:
pak ja kar shadi karo, kisi private university mai admission lay lo aur books aur notes lay lo, fees jama kara do,, unko bta dena k mai khud tayyari karonga aur pak aa kar exam donga..... phir 1 sal saudia job karo aur sath studies karo, exam k time pak aa jana aur paper day dena.. and so onnnn...

baki ab apko dosrey members apni suggestions daingay... phir dekh lena jo behtar lagay wo kar lena...

pyar

i think bohat achi suggestion hai josh ki

pehle to main yahi kahun ga k pakistan aney ki koi zarurat nahi hai...jese tumharey father keh rahey hain wese hi kero, wahin raho, job kero aur pakistan aa k shadi ker k wpais chalkey jao...

lekin agar tum yahan ana chahtey ho to pehle apne parents ko is k liye manao, agar wo man jatey hain to phr jesa josh ne kaha hai wesa hi kero...

excellent replies from Josh & Zeb

i agree with josh and zeb bahi.baray achay reply kiyay ha.some time josh bahi baray achay comments datay ha.

bahi app kay parents app kee responsiblity lay rahay aur jassay woo ka rahay wasay keray aur doosri batt yeah kay app khud bee shadi bee kerna chatay ha aur app kay parents bee kerna chatay ha too pher kiss Cheez ka ROOLA ha.

hello

pata nai yeh suggestion kesi lage apko....per me kehna cahti hun keh itni kam income me ghar ko bhi dekhna parde aur biwi bhi sambhalni ho to muskil hojaegi....

josh ka kahil bilkul sahi he..lekin agar aap bazidd ho keh kisi university ya college jakar hi pardhna he ..to phir countries jese keh saudia ya pak etc theek nai rehte...isklie best countries uk usa type hain...

agar aap me himat he uk settle hone ki ..ya agar yeh possible he to mere khail me yeh bhi achi option hogi.....yahan uk me settle ho..part time job karo...part time kisi university me study karo....paun per kuch kharde ho apne..phir saal ya do saal baad shaadi karne chale jana pak me....

lekin yeh suggestion limited he..requires hard work and asks for u to settle in uk.which is not an easy option

agreed