 Marriage With 4 Years Eleder Girl: Need Your Advice Again
hi folks.... im the same ferryahmed who discussed the problem of wanting to marry a girl 4 years elder than me. many members gave me their valuable advice for which im thankful. gyz....i talke to my parents....everybody is fine except my father. i showed them the pic of the girl as well....my mom and sis said that shes fine on her own but looks odd with me as they say i look much younger than my age...and thats the fact...although im 26... my dad has refused this marraige straightaway and hes stick to his decision very very strongly. he is not ready even to listen anything abt this topic again. he want me to finishi this thing and forget everything at once, which i cannot. I am still in contact with my mother who is trying to convince my dad in every way she can....bcz she want me to stay happy. my mom is okay with me....although she said that the girl will look odd with me but even though shes 100% helpful. i have asked my mother to go to her home and meet her personally....bcz i think seeing someone in the picture is much much diferent then meeting them face to face. once my mom meet her and if she thinks that she looks fine herself....then she might convince my dad to see her as well. but now my dad is thinkign that she might be like very old looking lady who doesnt fit with me. if my dad also get convinced then things might change for me....but for now....the bigest challenge im facing is to convince my father, who is not even willing to listen to me on this topic. another option is....if i do istakhara....and get any positive result....then it can be the only way which can change my fathers decision, but im afraid of doing that bcz if i get anything negative....then all this is gonna end straightaway. guyz....whatever the ppl say....i dont care as really relly love that girl.....i dont care abt the things that shes elder to me and she will look odd with me. the only thing i know is that i will live a very very happy life with her, no mater what how she looks. my father says that marrying an elder girl creates long term problems bcz they say that she'll get old and i'll stay young. But i dont think this gonna create any problem bcz we both loev each other and looks doesnt play any part in this. plus....when i'll be married to her...to ek sath rehne ki mohabbat bhi to hogee...phir bachey hon to bacho ki mohabbat bhi beech mein hoti hay..to all these thinsg are able enough to keep our marraige successful. plus...i am damn sure that she will give me so much love that i wont ever regret my decision. plz give me soem advice that what shud i doin this case.....plus i need any expert opinion that marrying elder girl really creates any problems in the long run? plz tell me biologically and medically? bcz i just dont wana let her go just bcz of this bloody age diference. waiting for ur comments guyz....cheerz..
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