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 Lust Or Love: What Is Going On?
Dear friends,
sab se pehle to main yeh kehna chahoun gi keh yeh main ne is website ko really helping jaana. mere saath bi kuch problem hai sex related aur socha kyun nai yahan discuss karoun. pehle biohat jhijakti ti but jab dekha k privacy hai to fir kar liya. ho sakta hai kuch solutiob mil jae.
Friends meri age kareeb 26 saal hai aur 1 saal pehle meri shaadi houi. pehle to 1 saal se zayed meri aur mere husband ki engagement chali. pehle pehel bohat acha lagta tha u se baat karna aur aista aista hum kaafi frank ho gaye. engagement period main hi meri un k saath kuch jharap hui aur cntct zara kum ho gaya. isi doraan un k baanjhe se meri kaafi frankness ho gayi. means woh kaafi helping tha aur main ne jab bhi us ko cntct kia us ne help ki (meri aur us k mamu ko recombine karne me). is tarah main us k saath kaafi ghul mil gayi. basit 21 years ka hai, handsome, taal n attractive, inteligent but very innocent. shaadi k baad to main us se aur bi ghul mil gayi. shoroo shoroo main mere husband ne mujhe bohat pyaar dia but fir aista aista wohi rotine life aur kaafi badlao aa gaya. main kaafi tanha mehsus karne lagi thi. un k bhanje se kaafi dosti ho chuki thi. us ki batein aur us ki harkatein mujhe bohat attract karti theen. so main har waqt yehi chahti thi k us k saath time guazara jae. woh bohat caring larka hai so woh meri bhi bohat respect aur care karta tha. pata nai kab main us k saath itni manus ho gayi k mujhe lagta hai k m in love wid him. ab woh yahan se ja chuka hai (woh na hi pakistan main peda hua aur na yahan pala bhara aur yahan pak main sirf chution main ata hai, un arsaa main us ne apni parhai khatam ki thi aur is liye pak aya tha aur kareeb 8 months raha.) main us ko bohat miss karti houn. main apne husband se bohat door ho chuki houn. un ka choona to door un se baat karna bhi acha nai lagta.
can pls someone guide me what is this? kya yeh pyaar hai? is that love? m also sexually attracted towards that guy. kai dafi us ki lailmi main jab woh soya hota tha to us k jism k saath khel kar apni hawas poori ki. kya karoun main kuch samajh nai ata. bohat upset houn. us ko gaye 2 months se zyada ho gaye but i miss him. |
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ok pagli jee ap educated lady ha.......per ap joo kam ker rahi woo Amanat may khayanat ker rahi ha......ya to ap apnay husband kay sath sincere rahay ya apnay husband koo choor day........ |
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 3:06am |
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Pagli mai apko 100% nahi 2000% yaqeen se keh sakti hun ke ap jo feel kar rahi hain unke bhanje ke lye wo har girz pyar nahi hai.
apko sirf shaitan behka raha hai ,aur ap behak rahi hain.
apko apne husband ke bhanje ko apne husband se ziyada ehmiyat nahi deni chahye,yehi wajah hai ke apka rujhan apne husband ki taraf kam hua aur unke bhanje ki taraf barha.
yehi wo wajuhat hain jiski wajah se islam me har us rishte se pardeh ka hukam hai jahan aisa rishta kaim ho sake.
ap plz apne husband ko tawaja dain.ap akaili ladki nahi hain jiski shadi ke bad routine life start ho gayi ho,aur husband ke rawaye me thodi tabdili ayi ho...itni tabdili har ek ke rawaye me ati hai.jaisi life shadi ke shuru me hoti hai waisi life sari umar nahi chalti,har ek ki marriage life me ye waqt ata hai.aur husband wife ek dusre ko sopoort karte hain,ek dusre ki feeling ko samajhne ki koshish karte hain,issi tarah se pyar barqarar rehta hai.
mujhe lagta hai ke ap shahid sochti hain ke jo life shadi ke shuru me hoti hai waisa sari umar rahega,aur issi wajah se ap apne husband ke badle rawaye ki wajah se kisi aur taraf attract hui hain.lekin ye bat mai apko yaqeen ke sath keh sakti hun,agar wo bhi apka shohar hota , ya koi aur bhi hota to uska bhi shadi ke kuch arse bad routine life me ana normal hai.islye ap khud ko tabahi ki taraf na le kar jayen
apne shahid socha nahi ke ye bat khulne par,kitni tabahi yan hongi,apko chahye jab apke zehan bhi unka bhajna aye to ap astagh farullah parh kar uska khayal jhatak dain,sirf isi tarah ap shaitan ke behkawe se bach sakengi,warna apka ghar tabah ho jayega,apki koi izzat nahi rahegi mashre me jab log ap par ungli uthayenge ke apne apne husband ke bhanje ke sath afiiar shuru kar diya.
apne jo last line me likha hai ,i am shocked about that...do u think us ladke ko kuch nahi pata chala?? bohat bada gunah hai ye,ap plzz Allah se sache dil se tauba karain,aur aisi ghalti kabhi na karain.
apke husband yaqeenan bohat hi ache honge,unki pasand ki cheezain pakayen,jab wo kam se ate hain to unke sath baith kar un se batain karain,ahista ahista apki understanding bhi barh jayegi unke sath aur pyar bhi.koshish karain unke bhanje se samna kam hi ho.
i hope you will follow my advice,and save your marriagelife. |
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7344 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 3:13am |
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ok nice reply by sunehri jee.......lagta ha A.C kay nechay bath ker lekha ha ap nay..... |
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 3:14am |
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Sunehri aap sehi keh rahi ho.
main bohat try karti houn. but mere husband jaise mujh main koi intrust hi nai raha ho. main jub bhi kuch share karni chahti houn bus houn haan main taal dete hain. woh apne bussiness main is qadar busy hain k mujhe emotionaly support karne ka time hi nai bacha. mujhe aisa lagta hai k jaise main koi khilona thi jis ko unhon ne laya, kuch din khela uar ab eik kone main rakh kar bhool gaye.
us k baraqs woh larka, aaj bhi meri utni hi care aur respect karta hai. main ne jab bhi us se time manga aur kuch share kiya to woh kitna hi busy kyun na ho mujhe time dia, sirf itna hi nai balke us ne poori try ki k main nai jagah adjust houn aur khush rahoun. jub bhi main udas hui mujhe hasane k liye kya kuch nai kiya us ne.
jo attention mere husband ko meri taraf deni chahihe thi unhon ne nai di. woh emotional support mujhe us larke se mili. us ne mujhe hamesha encourage kiya. |
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 3:16am |
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ok pagli u r right............leekan ap ka aik reshta ha........uskay baray may ap ka kiya khayal ha......... |
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 3:23am |
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goodman rishta hai to zaroor but sirf mujhe itna hi haq mila k main un k ghar ka khayal rakhoun aur woh apni monthly income se mujhe supoort karen.
mujhe aisa nai chaihe tha. mujhe mera husband forever loving and caring chahihe tha. magar woh aisa nai kar sake.
sunehri g:
mana k routine life main change ata hai, magar kya un k pass ittna bhi waqt nai k woh mujh se pooch sakein k main kaisi houn aur is waqt kaisa feel kar rehe houn, main khush bhi houn k nai? poora din kya karti rehti houn? |
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 3:26am |
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ok ap kay pass kiya guarntee ha kay ab ap jiss larkay may interest lay rahi ha woo forever ap ke caring keray ga.............no gunarentteee............
ap koo apnay husband kee khud support kerni chahay............... |
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 3:29am |
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goodman main support karna chahti thi bohat try bi kiya but un ko lagta hai k jaise mian un ko fazool behes se disturb kar rahi houn. un ko ab mera kuch baat karna bhi dimag khana lagta hai.
lekin woh larka aisa nai hai. jab b main ne us se kuch share kiya us ne ghor se suna aur fir solution nikalwaya. kabhi us ne meri kisi baat ko ignore nai kiya. |
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ok lagta ha ap kee apnay husband say interest finish ho chuka ha..........aur ap apnay husband koo chornay wali ha.............i am right??? |
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 3:35am |
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goodman nahi, main chah kar bhi nai chor sakti,
aur main us larke k bare main nai jaanti k if he is in love with me or not. woh caring n loving to bohat tha lekin woh meri respect karta tha. kabhi main ne us ki aankhon main ya baaton main woh wala pyaar nai dekha. |
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Apr, 2009 Topic: 39 Post: 1836 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 3:38am |
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pagli its ur nick nat ur are pPAGLI
kia ye theek hai k ap apny majazi huda k sath dhoka kre apne apny dill me kisi aur ko bsa k usy pyar ka naam dy kr apny shohar ko ignore kia hai unki fellings ka mazaq uraya hai to kia ap bdly me unse pyar ki twaqo rkhti he
ALLAH tala dillo k raaz janta hai hum jitni ezat ehtram aur pyar k qabil hoty he utna hi hme milta hai
agr ALLAH NA KRE jo apne unky bhanjer k bare me feelings rkhi dil me waisi hi wo apki ki bhanji k bare me to automatically ap b unse dil se dur hojati
plz aisi galti mt krna ainda apny shohar ko bhrpoor pyar dy apko unky liye bnaya gya hai ap unky liye is dunia me ayi he to phir unki amanat me hayanat kio
plz ALLAH k samny a[pny gunaho ka iqrar kre aur dil se shetani waswso ko nikal dy its better 4u my dear sis
plz im sorry if my word hurt u because i love my husband alot aur unka drja mere bht bar jata hai jb me sochti hu k wo mere majazi huda he jbky hmari shadi ko abhi 4month huye he aur mangni hmari 3saal rhi hai hm b jgar party thy iska mtlb ye nhi k me unki bjaye kisi aur ki trf atract hojati
plz ap juma k din SURAH JUMA ki tlawat kia kre aur apny shuhar k dil me apny liye pyar aur chaht k liye dua manga kre INSHALLAH sb theek hojaye ga
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ok agar ap chah ker be nahi choor sakti to pher ap yeah khayalat kyoo nahi choor sakti ha...........
kabhi main ne us ki aankhon main ya baaton main woh wala pyaar nai dekha.
yeah woh wala pyaar koon sa hota ha???? |
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 3:46am |
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goodman nahi i cant do it. chah kar b nai. hamare culture aur family main is ki ijazat nai.
even main yeh bhi nai jaanti k hr love me or not, kyun k woh caring aur loving to bohat tha lekin kabhi us ki aankhon ya baaton main mujhe woh wala pyaar nai nazar aya, aur woh tha bhi kaafi innocent sa. but us ne kabhi mujhe ignore nai kiya aur hamesha attention aur care di. |
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ok agar ajazat nahi ha to pher ap apnay husband kay sath life ghuzaray.........aur us innocent guy koo choor day pher.............. |
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Apr, 2009 Topic: 39 Post: 1836 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 3:53am |
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PAGLI I AGREE WITH GOODMAN |
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pagli |
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goodman nahi main aisa chah k bhi nai kar sakti. aur na hi mujhe meri family aur mashra ijazat de ga.
main to yeh bhi nai jaanti k woh larka us point of view se mujhe love karta bhi ahi k nai. haan lekin woh be inteha sensiour, lovin n caring tha, hamesh amujhe time n importance detha tha. |
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 3:56am |
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goodman kaafi try ki k bhool jaoun.
but woh unforgetable person hai. n m sorry that i typed samething 3 times as i was unable to c mmy posting on web. |
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pagli |
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Hasna haan main ye maanti houn k main ne us ke jism se apni hawas poori ki but had to nai tori. aur ab to woh hai bhi kaafi door, bus dil main uska pyaar aur ki khawaish hai jo k nikal nai rai. is main mera kya kasoor?
rehi baat yeh k agar mere husband k meri bhanji k bare main same jazbaat hon, agar main un ko tawajo na dena chahti aur ignore karti to fir woh aisa karte ache lagte the but main un ko nai unhon ne hamesha ignore kiya.
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Apr, 2009 Topic: 39 Post: 1836 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 4:07am |
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PAGLI apne meri post ka reply nhi kia may b ap NAMAZ QURAAN pe yqeen ziada nhi rkhti ap bar bar keh rhi he nhi aisa nhi hoskta i cant forget him
what is this?
agr ap ALLAH se dua mangy k wo apky dil me husband k liye wafa pyar dale to kia ghalt hai ap apny husband se real love nhi krti ho aur apka inky sath guzara nhi hoga
inko chorny k baad kia apko unka bhanja mil jaye ga jo k apny mamu ki wife ki respect krta hai
jb apka usse b ye rishta htm hojaye ga to ap usy kha se lao gi
u r crazzy
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