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lilly swee |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Mar, 2008 Topic: 24 Post: 179 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 2:08am |
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 I Love With A Boy But I Am Confused
me aik larkay se bohat pyar karti ho 4m last 1yr. or shadi b karna chati ho.wo b muj ko pasand karta ha or hamari families b involve hain is relation me dono families ki taraf se sab kuch positive ha. But problem ye ha k hamari engagement final ni ho ri i mean bat done ni ho ri. aik sal ho gia ha .larka or us ki family abroad rahati ha. un k kuch achanak problems a jai hain or wo Jald Pakistan ni a saktay. contect sirf mera larkay k sath ha us ne last 1yr se bohat kokish ki ha k kisi thara bat done ho gai but meri mom khati hain k wo pakistan ay gay to hi final karo gi or us k parents ne b kaha k thek ha. ab us k bad se parents k koi contect ni ha. ab mera larkay k sath contect ha wo khata ha k us k parents agree hain laqin pakistan kb ay gay pata ni. meri mom or rishtay dekh ri hain or khati hain k ab or kitna wait kia gay. isi bat pr meri or larkay ki kuch clash ho jia ha. me ne us ko thora force ki to us ne kha k agar koi acha proposal ata ha to shadi kr lo kb tk tumahari mom wait karay gi. agar mera wait karna chati ho to kar lo. me khud ab tm se koi commimement ni karo ga. us ne sab kuch muj pr chor dia ha. me us k wait karo ye chai to chor do. plz ap log batain k muj ko ab kia karna chia i love him or me us se hi shadi karna chati ho. magar meri mom or proposal b dekh ri hain. but ap un sab ki taraf se koi response ni a ra. me ne istkhara b bohat ki ha or i feel k sab positive ha. or abi tak koi or acha proposal b ni aya 1yr se. plz help me. thanks Allah Hafiz
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7344 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 2:52am |
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 hona wahi ha joo Moola koo Manzoor ho ga
lilly jee aj kal PAKISTAN may yeah cheez bohat rare ho chuki ha.......Loog Khoob say khoob Tar kee talash may Halkan ho jatay ha ...........ab atay app kee post kee tarif...................
me ne us ko thora force ki to us ne kha k agar koi acha proposal ata ha to shadi kr lo kb tk tumahari mom wait karay gi. agar mera wait karna chati ho to kar lo. me khud ab tm se koi commimement ni karo ga. us ne sab kuch muj pr chor dia ha. me us k wait karo ye chai to chor do.
oper wali statements bohat achi ha aik larka yahi ka sakta ha...........is say zayada woo kuch nahi ka sakta ............per app kee mom wait nahi karay gee...........
wasay app wait be ker sakti ha aur dua be jari rekhay.......... |
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paroot |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Nov, 2008 Topic: 66 Post: 1660 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 5:21am |
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APP WAIT KAREN YA NA KAREN. BUT!!! APP WAIT KAB TAK KAREN GEE. |
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paroot |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Nov, 2008 Topic: 66 Post: 1660 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 5:22am |
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APP WAIT KAREN YA NA KAREN. BUT!!! APP WAIT KAB TAK KAREN GEE.
APP US KO CHORDE MAIN APP SE SHADI KE LEYE READY HO.
US SE ZIYADA APP KO PYAR MELE GAA.
MAIN APP KE ANSWER KA WAIT KAR RAHA HO... |
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sunny007 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 4216 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 5:37am |
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lilly aap us ko itna inform kare k agar us ne rishta nahi maanga to aap ki walida aap ka rishta kisi aur k saath te karegi,
pir agar wo aap ko sach much chahta hai to kuch serious ho jaiega, agar nahi to pir aap ki walida jahan chahti hain wahan par shadi kar lena
note: agar aap ne us larkey k lie apni mother se ikhtilafat shoro kar di to ye 100% gauranti hai k aap ki mother naaraz ho jaiegi, lekin larkey ki koi guaranti nahi k wo aap ko apnaiega ya nahi
aap sirf dua kare, agar wo larka waqie tumhe chahta hai to aap ki dua zaroor rang laiegi. |
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 6:57am |
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agree with Sunny007 i agree with sunny u should tell him, that app ki mom app ka rishta kahi aur karna chahti hai, if u won,t purpose.
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Mr: Paroot larki ne mashwara manga hai yeh nahin kaha ki kon mujh se shadi karega.........lol es liye purposal per se apni jeb mein dali aur chup chap bet kar osi tek faisla karne de :-) |
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lilly swee |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Mar, 2008 Topic: 24 Post: 179 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 10:09am |
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thanx all of u
ap sab k reply k thanks.
me ne us ko force he to kia tha k meri mom kahi or kr de ge thabi to us ne sab kuch muj pr chor di ha k tmhara jo dil chata ha kr lo. he is v religious or wo love or affair etc pr believe ni karta na me us se love k topic pr frank ho.
he likes me or phir us ne direct apnay parents ko involve kia propose kr dia. phir hum dono ki bat start hoi.bas meri mom ne us ki mom ko kha k jb tak ap sab log pakistan ni ay gay me phone pr final ni karo ji.
ap k khayal me muj ko wait karna chai?
me ne soacha ha jb tak koi or proposal ni ata tb tk me kokish karti raho gi.agay jo Allah ko manzor. ap sab kia khatay hain.
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lilly swee |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Mar, 2008 Topic: 24 Post: 179 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 10:12am |
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 paroot ji
Thanks a lot ap k proposal k. magar zara apni age to dekh lo 18. phelay kuch zindagi me kr to lo BACHAY.
Apni bari API se aisi batain ni kartay. jb thumara shadi k waqat ay ga muj ko batana me khud tumaray leay dhulan dhond ldo gi. |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7344 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 10:25am |
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ok lilly app koo must wait kern chahay.........aur ap ke walda nay bee acha kiya ha kay final nahi kiya kyoo kay ap kee mother un say face to face zarroor meeting kerna chati hoo gee..........
agar ap wait ker sakti ha too zaroor keray ............per mujay aik baat kee samj nahi aiin jab app kee walada kay pass aik option avilable too woo pher dobara app kay liyay reshtay kyoo dekh rahi ha........agar woo us say behter kee talash may ha too pher app ka wait kerna bee fazool ha.......
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7344 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 10:26am |
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ok paroot jee ma app kay hoslay koo bee dadd dayta hoo kay ap nay bina dekhay aik larki koo sab kay samnay propose ker diya...........wa kiya baat ha.......... |
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lilly swee |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Mar, 2008 Topic: 24 Post: 179 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 11:18pm |
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thx good man
no meri mom k pas koi option ni ha. us k parents ne meri mom se contect ni rakha bas kha k jb wo ay gay to ab tabhi bat ho gi.
ab meri mom confuse hain k shaid un ki marzi ni ha jo un logo ne contect ni rakha or 1yr ho gia ha. sirf larkay k contect pr un ko trust ni ha
is liay ab wo or proposals ko dekhanay k soach ri hain |
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sunny007 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 4216 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 12:55pm |
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lilly me ne soacha ha jb tak koi or proposal ni ata tb tk me kokish karti raho gi.agay jo Allah ko manzor. ap sab kia khatay hain.
aap ki ye decision achi hai, i agree with u |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7344 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 1:15pm |
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ok lilly jee asay lag raha ha kay unkee marzi nahi ha............agar unhoo nay rishta kerna hota too woo continously rabtay may rehtay ap kee mom kay sath............is liyay ap kee mom possitive soch rahi ha......... |
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 3:27pm |
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nice one good man heheheh bohut acha saraha hai apni Paroot ki purposal ko ki os ne larki ko bina deki accept karna bhi bohut himat ki baat hai......... es ki liye bohut bare dil ki zarorat hoti hai, jo paroot ki pas etni kam omar mein bhi hai.... |
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Veer |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Oct, 2011 Topic: 85 Post: 4718 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 4:40pm |
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lilly swee aap ki baato se to yehi lagta hai ke ladke wale es rishte se itna khosh nehin aur na he kuch khass chahte hain ke yeh rishta ho.
rehi baat ladke ke sath aap ki baat hoi os ne bhi aap ko saaf keh diya ke ager wait kar sakti ho to karo warna kahein aur shaadi kar lo.
es ka matlab to yehi hua ke ladka bhi itna shouk nehin rakhta aap se shaadi karne ka.aaj woh yeh keh raha hai ke wait karna hai to karo warna shaadi kar lo kisi aur se
kal ko ager yeh kahe ke main tum se shaadi nehin kar raha mere ghar wale nehin maan rahe to phir aap kya karo gi?
love marriege mein sab se zaroori hai ke ladka ladki aak dosre ka sath de.phir ghar walo ko bhi manana mushkil nehin hota..aap ke sath jab ladka he nehin hai to aap kis k sath ke sahare os ladke ke intazaar kare gi.
ladka chahe to apne ghar walo ko mana sakta hai aur pakistan ane ke liye razi bhi kar sakta hai kyun ke woh ladka hai.ladka apne maa baap ko mana leta hai ladki ki nisbat.
lehaza main yehi samujta hon ke ladka aap main itna involve nehin.kyun ke jahan pyar hota hai wahan parwa nehin hoti.es liye aap wohi kare jo aap ki ami chahti hain.kyun ke aap ki ami aap ke liye bather he sochey gi.
aur woh sehi keh rehi hain 4 saal wait kiya itna he kaafi hai.ager ap ki age esi tarha intazaar mein guzar gayi to phir aap ki shaadi kisi se nehin ho paye gi.ager aap ladka hoti to aap intazaar kar sakti thi kyun ke ladke ki age zaida bhi ho jaye to shaadi ho jati hai,
mager ladki ki age zaida ho jaye os se koi shaadi nehin karta.lehaza aap apni ami ka kaha maaney.best of luck |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2008, 3:16am |
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lilly sub ne bht achey replies diye hain ap ko
dekheyn sister....mujhey to lagta hai wo larka utna serious nahi hai jitni ap hain...ap khud per control kijiye werna agar kabhi us ne keh diya k i cant marry u to ap ko ziada dukh ho ga...abhi to ap ko taal rha hai aur us ne ap ko saaf saaf keh diya hai wait ker skti hot o kero wrrna shadi ker lo kisi aur se....
it shows k usey koi ferk nahi perta....
beshak wo ap se shdai kerna chahta hai aur wo apni jaga sahi ahi bcoz wo apne ghar walon se bat ker k ap k ghar walon se is barey mein bat kerwa chuka hai...koi bhi shareef larka aisa hi kerye ga....
ab kerna ye chahiey k ap us se kaheyn k apne ghar walon se ye bat keryen k atleast pakistan aa ker bat hi pakki ker deyn ya nikkah hi ker deyn....shadi to 15 days emin sadgi se bhi ho skti hai....wo apne ghar walon ko bataye k ap k ajkal bht proposals aa rahey hain aur ap k ghar k barey shadi k liye force ker rahey hain...agar wo log serious hain to batayen wrna kahin aur shadi ki jaye....
dekhiye wo larka is ka kia jawab deta hai |
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boby12 |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Oct, 2008 Topic: 13 Post: 85 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2008, 4:31am |
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 lilly
lilly aapi sb se pehle slam,
Mera manana yeh hai k (marriges are setteld in heaven(S) but celebrated on earth) aap sab Allah aur Ahlebait par chor dain aap k haq main inshallah behtar hu ga aur wohi hu ga ju aap chahen gi inshallah.
wasallam
kush rahu dua main yad rakhye ga Allah nigheban. |
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kkl |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Nov, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2008, 5:04am |
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last try aik last bar uus se bola k tumharay parents se baat kar lay!!!phone per bhi nikah ho sakta hai!!agar uss ka wait karo ghi to kab tak??umar nikal gai phir kya karp ghio?? |
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lilly swee |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Mar, 2008 Topic: 24 Post: 179 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2008, 8:48am |
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thanx all of u
ap sab k replies or suggestions k thanks.
i know wo muj se love ni karta ha but me karti ho. us ne muj ko start me kha tha k wo semi arrange shadi karna chata ha means apnay parents ki marzi k sath.
me ne apni mom ko kha ha k wo or proposals dekh ley agar un ko koi or mil gia to me shadi kr lo gi. other wise me usi larkay k sath contect rakho gi. i mean us ko as a option rakho gi.sirf usi k wait ni karo gi.
thanks again all of u. |
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4638 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2008, 1:43pm |
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lilly mai veer se agreed hun..
Ladke ko aisa nahi kehna chahye tha agar wo apse pyar karta hai..aur bazahir ladke ki koi itni khas majboori bhi nahi hai jiski waja h se wo apko wait karwa raha hai...,aur uski family kab pk jane ka iradha rakhti hai?? apko ye malum hai kya? i mean agar wo 6 month ke andar pk jane ka iradha rakhte hain to ap wait kar sakti hain..lekin agar unka pk ka koi program hi final nahi to ap kab tak wait karengi.. |
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