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nagman
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Aug 2007, 8:41pm |
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 To Whom I Love Is Idol But She Is Not Much Beautiful: Shall I Marry Her?
SALAM...nowadays iam facing a problem i like 1 of my uncle's daughter and she also love me,,,,but the thing is she is not that beautiful what i want in a girl,,,,,,,i know i won't face any trouble in future if i marry with her,,meant to say she will be idiol wife,,,,,,,but she is not that beautiful,,,,,,,,,my friend told me i should marry with her,,,but what about my feeling i mean what about my desire....can some1 plz give me a genius suggestion,,,,i'll trully appreciate that...ALLAH HAFIZ
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Bewaqoof
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Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 263 Post: 4444 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 12:30am |
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larki khoobsoorat nahi hai bhai mere agar sab ke sab paidaishi khoobsoorat hone lage tu phir beauty parlor aur cosmetics ki kia zaroorat hai. ap itmenan se os larki se shadi karle aur baqi kam beauty parlor aur cosmetics par chor de.
waise aik baat ap yeh batai keh jab ap khoobsoorat larki ke deewane hai tu is bechari mai aisi kia khoobi nazar ayee keh ap apna dil de baithe. aik taraf ap kahte ho keh woh behtareen khatoon hai aur shadi ke baad ap ko kisi qisim ki pareshani nahi hogi, aur woh aik ideal bevi sabit hogi; doosri taraf khoobsoorat khoobsoorat larkio ko dekh kar tumhara ral bhi tapak raha hai.
farz karo keh tum is larki se shadi nahi karte, tu tumhare khial mai is ki shadi kis qism ki larke se honi chahia thi. tum is ko is tarah bhi socho keh agar yeh tumhari sister hoti tu tum is ke lia kis qisim ke larka se shadi karte.
mai tumhai yeh nahi kahta keh insan ko khoobsoorat larki se shadi nahi karni chahia. lekin mai yeh zaroor kahta hoo keh agar larki achchi hai aur tum os se love bhi karte ho tu phir khoobsoorti ko nazar andaz kardo.
mera mashwara hai keh tum isi larki se shadi kar lo sari zindagi sakoon se raho ge. is ko chor kar kisi aur se shadi karo ge tu ho sakta hai keh sab kuch mil jai lekin sakoon nahi mile ga. dil mai aik khalash phir bhi mojood rahe gi.
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nagman
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 5:14am |
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Thanks yaar apne bilkul sahi mashwara diya.....dont take me wrong....per mere dil mein yeh bhi khayal ata hai ke wo sirf muje $ ki wajah se love karti hai,,,,,,,or waise ap ko shayad ajeeb lage per mein love ko nahi manta muje yeh sab cheezein bakwas lagti hain....sorry i know iam kinda rude per mein zindagi ka faisla karna jaraha hoon is liye sari baatein pehle se hi clear karna chahtaa hoon .....or haan once again shukriyaa ap ke reply ka
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Bewaqoof
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Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 263 Post: 4444 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 5:37am |
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mohabbat door door se agar ap ne door door se hi muhabbat ki hai. aur samajhte hai keh ose ap se nahi balkeh ap ke $ se muhabbat hai tu ap apne faisle par nazar sani kr sakte hai. lekin agar ap ne larki ko hath lagaya hai. maslan kiss waghaira kia hai tu phir mere final faisla aur mashwarah yahi hai keh ap isi se larki se shaadi kare.
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ashy
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 50 Post: 383 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 6:06am |
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 bewakufana mashwara
bewakuf tum galat mashwara de rahy ho kio k
- agar mr nagman k dil mein abhi sy shak betha hua hy to baad mein to ye bemari or barh jai gi
- aaj in mr ko khubsurat larki ko dekh kar raal tapakti hy to kia kal nhi tapke gi phir wo bechari larki kia ehsas-e-kamtari ka shikar na ho jai gi
- shadi k baad jab bv daal brabar ho jai gi to(sorry married men lekin ye aap logon ki fitrat hy) to jo aaj khobi nazar aa rahi hy wo bhi nhi nazar aye gi
- or agar tum kal ko pachtawe ka shiksr ho gai to....
- aaj abhi jab wo tum sy door hy to bhi us k liy tum kashish feel nhi karty to kia shadi k baad tum uss sy satisfy ho jao gay or kia uss ko bhi satisfy kar sako gay yaqenan nhi
mr. bewakoof tumhara mashwara nehayat BEWAKUFFANA hy(sorry mera dil jala hua hy na is liy ye lafz use kiy) iss mashware mein sirf mr.nagman ka faida hy uss larki ka nhi jiss sy mujy aurat hony k nate hamdardi hy |
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Bewaqoof
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Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 263 Post: 4444 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 6:19am |
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jis larki se maza lo ose se shadi karo ashy: mai ne yeh mashwara mazhabi nuqta nazar se dete hai. agar ap ko bewaqoofana lagta hai tu mai kia kar sakta hoo.
mai ne kaha keh agar os ne larki ko hath lagaya hai tu phir isi se shadi karni hogi. yeh tu koi bat nahi hui keh maza kisi larki se le aur shadi kisi aur larki se. ab hath lagaya hai tu shadi karni hi pare gi. chahe dil dimagh qabool kare ya na kare.
agar hath nahi lagaya hai tu phir faisla karne mai azad hai.
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ashy
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 50 Post: 383 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 6:23am |
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 re bewakoof
ye aap mard logon nay aurat ko kia mazaq samjha hua hy pori dunya aurton sy bhari pari hy ab kia har aik ko hat lagaty phiro or har aik say shadi karty phiro
hunh
aap logon k to mazy ho gai na???????? |
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Bewaqoof
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Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 263 Post: 4444 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 6:30am |
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baat sab ki nahi uncle's daughter ki ho rahi hai baat har aik ki nahi ho rahi hai. bat sirf aik larki ki ho rahi hai jaisa ke nagman ne kaha: i like 1 of my uncle's daughter and she also love me
os ne khuda na khasta yeh nahi kaha keh mai ne sare shahar ki larkio ko hath lagaya hai batai kis se shadi kare.
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ashy
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 50 Post: 383 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 6:34am |
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re lekin uss ny ye bhi to nhi kaha k uss ny ussy hat lagaya hy
wesy bhi agar uss ny sirf touch wagaira kia hy(not kiss and advance touch) to kia iss hat lagany k juram ki saza uss larki ko pori zindagi k liy de di jai |
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Bewaqoof
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Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 263 Post: 4444 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 6:49am |
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aa bail mujhe maar ashy: tu mai ne kab kaha keh os ne hath lagaya hai. mai ne tu dono option par bat ki hai aur lafz agar ka istemal kia hai. larki bechari nahi hai woh os se love aur shadi karna chahti hai. yeh sawal larka pooch raha hai tu mashwarah bhi larka ko hi dia jai ga.
pahle ap poora post sahi se read kare. phir jo mashwarah dena hai de. ap bila wajah post ko bahas ke zaria divert kar rahi hai. ap ke samajh mai jo hal ata hai de de. mujh se bahas kar ke post ko bila waja prolong na kare. prolong post doosro ko read karne mai dushwari hoti hai.
abhi is post par doosre members ne bhi apna apna mashwarah dena hai. agar poora thread ham dono ke bahas se hi bhar jai ga tu doosre log kaha mashwarah de ge. lehaza ap ko chahia tha keh ap apna mashwara deti aur doosro ke mashwarah par aa bail mujhe maar shuru nahi karti.
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sunehri76
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Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 100 Post: 4647 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 6:57am |
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aap chahte kya hain?? Nagman
Mujhe toapki samajh nahi ati ke ap chahte kya hain?
apne upar likha,she also love you,(also means ke ap bhi us se karte hain aur wo bhi apse karti hai)
phir ap next post me likh rahe hain you dont beleave in love??
pehle ap apna mind banaen...in me se kaunsi bat ap pe soot karti hai.
aur apne ye kaise soch liya ke sirf khoobsurat aurtain idiol wife banti hain??
mera to apko mashwara hai itna khubsurti ke piche mat bhagain.ye khubsurti 4 din bad dhall jayegi,piche reh jata insaan ka ikhlaq.
Farz karain ap ek khubsurat biwi le ate hain aur uska behave hi sahi na ho?apse/apki family se badtamizi kare and and..tab apko usi khubsurat biwi se nafrat hogi.
aur bewakoof ne sahi kaha hai agar ap us ladki ke kareeb ja chuke hain,(i mean agar koi sexual relation kaim kiya hai to apko us ladki se shadi kar leni chahye.aur agar ap ne aisa nahi kiya aur apni adat nahi chor sakte(khubsurti ke piche bhagne ki)to us bechari ladki ko saf saf keh ke us se piche hat jao.
apni feelings ke bare me ap soch rahe hain,par uski feelings ka bhi sochain,jisko ap pyar to kar sakte hain par biwi banane ke lye apko problm ho rahi hai,,thats not fair
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josh
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Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2285 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 7:42am |
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U R Not Sincere Insan! as nagman said "i like 1 of my uncle's daughter and she also love me", khud k liye isnay LIKE ka word or larki k liye LOVE ka word use kia, it means he is Proud and he is not sincere with girl. He just pas his time and get enjoyment by chating/meeting with that girl. ab iska maksad pura hogaya or ye us larki say chhutkara pana chahta hai.
larki nay is say pyar kyo kia? bcoz NAG nay usay apni mohabat ka izhar kia hoga, or larki innocent gharelu type ki thi usnay is par trust kar lia.
khoobsurat larki har insan ko pasand hoti hai or khobsurt larki say shadi ka sochna gunah nai hai, lekin ye khoobsurti ka tumhe pyar karnay say pehlay sochna chahiye tha k meri ye requirement hai to kia larki is par pura utarti hai? so i think k tumsay galti ho chuki hai..
1 bat batao k ap dono mai pehlay love ka izhar kis nay kia tha ??
bewakoof or ashy dono nay achay mashwary diye hain, ashy ki bat bi sahi hai k jo banda shadi say pehly hi larki par shak kar ra hai or usay lalchi khudgarz samaj rah hai to phir shadi k bad larki or iskay apnay liye problem na creat ho jaey,, kyo k MARD to or bi sahdi kar sakta hai leki phir Orat k liye ye accept karna mushkil ho jat hai,, yani ghar mai acha mahool nahi rah sakay ga.
ye bohat say insano mai bemari hai k jo mil jaey, us par insan khush nai hota, or jo na milay usko rota rehta hai... to yaha to kuch milnay say pehlay hi naKhush hai to baad mai shaed mazeed bura ho jaey.
ab agar nagman nay larki say koi sex waghra kar lia hai to phir to bewakof ka mashwara sahi hai,, agar sexual activity nai ki to us larki ko sach bata do k mai kyo tumsay shadi nai kar raha... ta k in future jab khoobsurat larki kisi waja say apko pasand na aye to phir dubara apni purani lover k pas janay ki baat apkay dimagh mai na aye...
is larki k baray mai apnay parents ki opinion bi apko lena chahiye. |
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nagman
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 8:05am |
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shukriyaa
ap sab logoon ka shukriyaa,,,,apne apna time nikal kar mere masle ka haal nikalne ki koshish ki,,,,,meine larki ko kabhi hath tak nahi lagaya or use zindagi mein sirf 3 ya 4 dafa mila hoon family ke sath......mein yahan new york mein rehta hoon is liye,,,,,,,,or meri us se bohat kam phone per baat hoti hai,,,,,,hamare is rishtey ko 4 se 5 saal hogaye hain.......mere abu ki family chahti hai mera rishta hamre barabar ki family mein hoo,,,,,,,,,meri ami chahti hain mera rishta meri aunty ki beti se hoo..jise mein pasand karta hoon,,,,,,per muje is baat ka darr hai agar mein shaadi ke baad bhi kisi khoubsurat larki ke bare mein sochon ga to GUNNAH ho ga or meri biwi ke sath dokha ,,,i know its kind of selfish but muje bhi koi khoubsurat larki chahiyee......
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don
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Group: Members Joined: 01st Aug, 2007 Topic: 12 Post: 246 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 8:15am |
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 to:all members
agar baat meri de de khobsorat ki hoti toh phir
ur bro
don
Moderator Note: Mr. don you will be blocked; if you will post such type of irrelevant reply again. This is final warning |
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josh
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Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2285 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 8:23am |
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Jis Kam Ko Dil Na Chahey Wo Nahi Karna Chahiye! phir to mere khayal say ismai koi harj nai, bcoz apka us say koi illegal relation nai hai, to phir jo apkay dil mai hai wohi kaRna behtar hoga.
apnay parents ko apni marzi bta do, kyokay shadi k liye larka or larki ki razamandi KA haq Allah nay dia hai.. parents ko saf bata do k muje aisi larki chahiye. This is not selfishness to find a beautiful girl for shadi. |
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sunehri76
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Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 100 Post: 4647 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 8:33am |
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than its ok jaise ke maine pehle bhi likha tha ,ke agar apka us ladki ke sath suxual relation nahi hua to ap usko mana kar sakte hain.usko araam se samjha sakte hain
kyoonke ye apka right hai ke ap shadi us se karain jo apki pasand pe puri utre.Ye Haq islam ne humain dia hai.
u r right,agar ap us ladki ki shadi ke lye exept nahi kar rahe to us ke ziyadti hogi agar apne shadi karli.
islye shadi aisi ladki se karain,jo apko pasand ayem jo apko khubsurat lage,aur jahan pe apko yaqeen ho ke ap use hasil karne ke bad kisi aur khubsurat ladki ke bare me nahi sochoge. |
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don
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Group: Members Joined: 01st Aug, 2007 Topic: 12 Post: 246 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 8:52am |
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to:moderator sahab moderator sahab app meray abu ki tarah hain app ka may ahtram karta hoon kabhi app baatain kay main nay kisi say koi badtamizi ki hay jo app mujhay dant rahay hain mainnay upar aisa kia likh dia jo app mujhay warning day rahay hain app plz mujhay block mat karain koin kay app nay mujhay block kar dia toh may apnay behain bhai say batain kaisay karoon ga plzzzzzzzzz zara sochiye agar app meri jaga par hota toh app ko koi block karnay ki warning deta toh app par kia guzrti app ka dil chahta hay kay may apnay piyaray bhai aur piyari de de ko chor kaar chala jaon
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faisee
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Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 78 Post: 773 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2007, 5:46pm |
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Re: ab koi don ko suggest karai ga "you need to see a psychiatrist". hehehehh
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