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boby12 |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Oct, 2008 Topic: 13 Post: 85 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Nov 2008, 4:57am |
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 I Am In Love But Cant Marry Now
Dear Friends
Main aik larki se love karta hn aur wo bhi mujh se buhat piyar karti hai hamare affair ku almost 4 years hu gaye hain ab prob yeh hai k wo mujhay shadi ka keh rai hai aur main abhi shadi nahin kar sakta while i m studying aur mere parents bhi itni jaldi shadi nahin kar sakte meri kio k mujh se aik bara bhai hai wo buhat ziada assist kar rahi hai agar main ose dil par pathar rakh kar yeh keh dn k ap kahin aur shadi kar lu jahan tmhare parents kahen tu mujhay yakeen hai k wo suicide kar le ge i m not lying its 100% true she'll go for that ab pls aap mujhay koi achi achi suggestion dain. Note:Girls are speacially requested to comment on that while they proceed batter than a boy.
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pakimasti |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Aug, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 42 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Nov 2008, 12:21pm |
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 Hey Friend
Its a brotherly advice to you that you must ask your parents and tell them this situation. Try to convince them for Nikah and once you complete your studies just ask for Rukhsati then.
This way you save your love and her too.
And this suggestion is practical.
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M Asif |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2008 Topic: 4 Post: 796 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Nov 2008, 5:09pm |
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 FOR BOBY12
A.SALAAM,
YAR BHAI AGAR AAP BHI US SE UTNA HE PAYAAR KARTE HO JITNA KE WOH AAP SE AUR AAP AGAR ABHI SHADI NAHIN KER SAKTAY TO SIRF ENGAGEMENT KER LO US SE WOH RELAX HO JAINGI KE AB UNKI SHADI AAP HE SE HONI HAI AUR DER BHI KHATAM HOJAIGA KE AAP USKO NAHIN CHOORAIN GAI AUR APNI STUDIES PURI KERNAY KE BAAD AAP UNSE SHADI KER LENA .
MERAY KHIAL MAIN AAP KE PARENTS ENGAGEMENT KE LIA TO RAZI HO HE JAINGAY.
AGAY AAP KI MERZI MAIN TO SIRF APKO SUGGESTION HE DAI SAKTA HON FAISLA TO AAP HE NA KERNA HAI. |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Nov 2008, 2:56am |
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yes agreed to asif
ap apne parents se is barey mein bat kero aur un se kaho k jaldi se engagement ker deyn
us k bad jub ap settle ho jao gay to shadi ker lena
it is the best solution for this
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shoaibali |
Group: Members Joined: 13th May, 2008 Topic: 15 Post: 90 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Nov 2008, 8:47am |
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boby boby G sab dosto ne bohat acchi baatien ki hain haqeetat to yeh hai k chahe jitni bhi baatien kar li jayein koi faida nahin kyun ki yeh hi sab se best solution hai agar aap chahte hain us lardki ko to aisa hi karo jaisa sab friends ne kaha hai main gaurntee deta hoon k aap success hoon gay,
aage ap ki marzi , main to yeh jaanta hoon k pyar hamesha uske sath karo jo aap se pyar krta hai us se nahin jis se aap karte ho, |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Nov 2008, 3:21am |
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boby ap ne bat ki apne parents se?
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boby12 |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Oct, 2008 Topic: 13 Post: 85 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Nov 2008, 2:04pm |
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rep Zeb bhai mujhay samajh nahin aa rahi main abhi se itni jaldi apne parents se kese baat karn mujhan buhat dar lagta hai yeh baat karte wy while i m styding they would definitely say first comlete your study and then find reasonable job then we will engage you till that she must have depart so under these circumstances what should i do? |
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s4u |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2011 Topic: 97 Post: 5354 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Nov 2008, 2:22pm |
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Boby to phir aap apni Gf ko samjhaein k abhi sabber kero..abhi main is qabil nahi hoon k itni jaldi kuch ker sakoon...
kahin bhaga nahi ja raha ager kismat me humara milna hai to zaror milein ge bas abhi mojhe kuch bann to jane do......is me bhi tumhari hi bhalai hai....ager ab shadi ho bhi jae to main kisi kabil nahi hoon abhi to study bhi complete nahi hoi....ye ho phir pta nahi kab job mile is trha tum hi preshan ho gi is lie abhi intezar kero.
wese aapki Gf ki age kia hai?
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sunny007 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 4216 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Nov 2008, 7:18pm |
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s4u dear bateeji
aisa wo nahi maanegi ye muje maloom hai
boby
main aap ko mayoos nahi karna chahta, aap s4u k advise par amal karo lekin muje nahi lagta k wo aap baton par yaqeen karegi, unhe yahi lage ga k ab tum us se bore ho gaie ho, aur ab tak jo ho raha tha sab jhoota tha waghaira waghaira.
lekin ye b haqeeqat hai k baghair career k aur baghair apne pairoon par khara hone k aap us se shadi nahi kar sako ge
lihaza ooper die gaie sugestions par amal karo |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Nov 2008, 1:52am |
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boby im agreed to sunny and s4u
daer wese ap apni mother ko to sub kuch bata sktey hain
unhen poori tafseel batayen jo hamen batai hai
aur unhen ye kaheyn k ap abhi shadi nahi kerna chahtay....bus ap us se mangni kerna chahtay hain wo bhi sirf isi liye takey us ka rishta kahin aur na ho jaye...ye sari bat apne parents ko clear kero
shayd wo man jayen
agar wo phr bhi nahi mantay to phr s4u ki baton per amal kero aur us larki ko samjhao |
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sunny007 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 4216 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Nov 2008, 5:00am |
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boby yes, i agreed to zeb |
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4638 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Nov 2008, 7:03am |
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My Opinion Bobby
apka 4 sal se affair chal raha hai aur ladki ab ja kar apse parents se bat karne ko keh rahi hai...Himmat hai us Ladki jo wo itne sal se ap par trust kar rahi hai.
aur apne kitni asani se ye likh diya ,ke ap apne dil pe pathar rakh kar use wahan shadi karne ko kehenge jahan us ladki ke parents kahenge..
kya apko in 4 salon ki itni hi qadar hai?amooman to ladkiyan 6 mahine ke affair me hi ladke ko ghar walon se bat karne ko kehti hain,aur apki girlfriend ne is mamle me bohat hossle se kam liya hai..
khair...mere khayal se is me koi harj nahi hai agar ap apne parents se us ladki ke bare me bat karenge. na hi is me koi harj hai ke apki shadi apke bade bhai se pehle ho.na hi Mangni karne me koi Harj hai.parhayi apki mangni ke bad bhi chal sakti hai.
lekin agar mangni nahi ho sakti kissi wajah se to kam se kam apko apne parents ko us ladki ke bare me bata dena chahye,take wo uske parents se bat karain.aur zaroori nahi ke mangni ki jaye,ladki walon ke lye yehi ek badi tassali hoi sakti hai,ke unki beti ki bat pakki ho jaye kahin.Amooman ladki ke 15-16 years ki age me rishte ana shuru ho jate hain..is lye ap ladki ki setuation ko samajhne ki koshish karain. |
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sunny007 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 4216 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Nov 2008, 7:13am |
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yes ye b bohot tasali bakhsh reply hai,
jitna jaldi ho sake to es par amal kijiega |
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jai |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2008 Topic: 17 Post: 103 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Nov 2008, 1:40pm |
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my real feelings n story hi friends i m agree with all yar
boby
aap ko me apni baat batata hoon ap ko pata h meri fiyonci mujh se 1.8year bari h par lagti mujh se chooti h hmre pyar ko 3 year huye h or ingajment ko 1 year me abhi bcom me parh rha hoon hm dono amooman 10 year bad mily thy n use daikhty he mujhy usse pyar ho gaya n nasib acha tha k usse bhi me buht pareshan tha q k me age me usse chota tha me kia karta mujhe kuch smjh me nahi aa rha tha phir mene apni fiyonci ko kaha k tm pehly apni mom ko raazi karo usne kiya to mene unki mom se 1 year ka time manga q k un dino us k liye buht rishty aa rahy thy mene unki mom se 1 year ka time manga k me 1 year me usse ingajment karoonga apny parents ko raazi kar k unki mom ne unk papa ko b raazi kar liya n phir mene apny parents ko kaha k mujhy wo pasan h to mere parents ne b yahi kaha k tum pehly kuch ban jaao phir sochainge to mene apni mom ko kaha k mujhe daarr h k kahin uska rishta kahin or na ho jaye is liye pllz meri ingajment karwa do kisi ko mat batao k ingajment kar di h bas ye baat 2no famlies ko pata ho to unho ne meri fiyonci k ghar wallon se baat ki n after 4 month hmri ingajment ho gayi or hmari ingajment ko ek saal hony ko aaya h or me abhi tak apni study kar rha hoon n partime job b
kehny ka maksad ye k aap b uper diye gaye suggetions par amal karain i m truly 100% sure k aap ki mother aap ki feeelings ko samjhaingi ok ALL THE BEST ALLAH ap ko kamyab kary |
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s4u |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2011 Topic: 97 Post: 5354 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Nov 2008, 7:10pm |
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Boby Sunehri Aunty ne buhot hi acha reply kia...aap apne ghar waloon se is bare me bat krein...
wese jai & boby koi bat nahi hai 3,4 sal ki...mere rishtey ko to ab InshaAllah 5th year start hone ko hai aur dooooor doooor tak shadi k koi imkan nahi hain..is mamle me main aap donu se agey hoon..heheh
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sunny007 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 4216 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Nov 2008, 4:37am |
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boby yes i agreed with jai and sunehri
aur agar pir b aap ko lagta hai k aap aisa nahi kar sakte yani apni family ko nahi bata sakte, so i m sorry to say k aap aisa karna hi nahi chahte.
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Nov 2008, 5:22am |
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boby ab dekh leyn
jai ki story se hi kuch sabak hasil kereyn bhai
khud mein confidence lao
agar yun hath per hath dharay bethey raho gay to phr to kaam nahi banay ga
phr us ki shadi kahin aur ho jaye gi aur tum dhol bajatay rehna |
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boby12 |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Oct, 2008 Topic: 13 Post: 85 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Nov 2008, 7:03am |
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rep thanks all friends aap sb ne buhat mufeed suggestion diye main try kar k daikh leta hn but i m sure my parents definitely will not agree.suheri aunty main issi liye bar bar yeh baat keh raha hn k mere parents nahin mane gy b.coz meri mom chahti hai k meri shahdi un ki sis ki beti se hu mean meri cousin se ese main aap kia kahen gen app ne buhat asani se keh diya k oss larki ki himat hai k oss ne 4 sal ap ku shadi ka nahin kaha true love k liye trust buhat zarori hai.......... |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Nov 2008, 4:02am |
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boby dkeheyn agar apki mama kisi aur se shadi kerna chahti hain to un ko samjhayen k wo jahan bhi shadi keryen gay wo shadi nahi balke compromise ho ga
unhen samjhayen k ap is larki se pyar kertey hain aur agar ap ki shaid kisi aur se hui to ap usey wo pyar nahi dey payen gay jo dena chahiye....
i hope agar ap ki mom ko ap thanday dimagh se aur pyar se smajhayn gay to wo samajh jayen gi.... |
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