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ladybird |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Oct, 2009 Topic: 7 Post: 25 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Nov 2009, 2:01am |
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 Husband Wife Relationship: What Should Wife Do When Husband Misbehaves?
meray sath ye problem hay k normally to meray husband theek rahtay hain lakin ager un k office main kuch masla ho jaey to aa ker sara gusa mujh pe nikaltay hain .buri tarha se shouting kertay hain even maar peet tak baat phonch jaati hay.3 saal ki baiti per bhi sakht gusa howy.is se main bhot ziada hurt hoti hoon.jub un ka gusa khatam ho jaata hay to excuse ker laitay hain maafi maangtay hain but mujhay wo sub bhoolta nahi hay.main bhot roti hoon aur mujhay sakht tension feel hoti hay un k lay to phir se sub normal ho jaata hay lakin mujh se normal nahi howa jaata wo phir mujh se sex reqiured kertay hain to main un ko inkaar to nahi kerti as a muslim wife main inkaar nahi ker sekti but mujhay kuch bhi acha nahi lagta kuch bhi feel nahi hota.main senseless ho jaati hoon.apnay ander bhot hurt feel kerti hoon.is situation main main kia karoon.i feel so sad. |
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LuScIous |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Sep, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 125 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Nov 2009, 2:23am |
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 Very sad.
Waqai apke husband ko islami taleem kum ha,gussey ko isey leye galat kaha gaya he k insaan hosh khoo daita hadosra almeya ye ha k hamaery mashrey mai larkey ko ye islami baat tou ghol key pela daitey han k tum jub jaisey bivi demand karlo wo inqaar nai kar sakti ye islami baat btana bhool jatey hain k din mai unsey aisa salook rawa na rakho jo ye maar peet bejah wala ke Raat ko unke pas he apni 'zarorat' puri karney jana ha ladybird,Allah apko sabr e jameel dai aur apke husband ko rahey hedayat . Ameen |
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myrizvi |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 111 Post: 6481 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Nov 2009, 5:01am |
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aakherat main apni jannat banayaiN matlab yeh k sabar karaiN aur aakherat main apni jannat ko yaqeeni banayaiN.... jinkay spouse (shauher yaa biwi) iss qism k houN, onkay saamnay 2 hi raastay hotay haiN... yaa to eeNT ka jawaab path.ther say day kar apnay ghar ko bhi jahannum banayaiN aur aakherat maiN bhi jahannam maiN jaanay ka imkaan paidaa karain........ doosraa raastah yeh hai k spouse k zulm o sitam ko hikmatay amali say kam say kam karkay apnay ghar aur apni dunyaa ko kam say kam bigaaRaiN aur sabr aur dua ki madad say aakherat main jannat ko yaqeeni banayaiN..... jiss zulm ko roknay par qudrat nah ho, ossay taqdeer ka likha aur apnay liyeh Allah ka imtehaan samajh kar sabar karaiN..... insha Alah iska behtareen ajar milegaa...
apkay pass bhi dounoun options haiN... raastah chunna apka kaam hai... jaisay jab kidz par jab parents ghussa hotay haiN, maar peeT karta hain to jab parents ka ghussah khatam ho jaa.ay aur woh kidz ko piyaar karnay lagaiN to kidz apnay parent ka sabeqah ghussah bhool kar parents k piyaar ko QABOOL karkay khush bhi hojatay hain........ aisaa khaah saal haa saal kiyouN nah ho, kidz kabhi bhi parents ka piyaar rudd nahi kartay............. spouse ko bhi yehi karna chaahiyeh........ piyaar miltay hi apnay spouse ka sabeqah ghussa bhoooooooool jana chaahiyeh |
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ladybird |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Oct, 2009 Topic: 7 Post: 25 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Nov 2009, 6:25am |
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more thank u so much for giving me good reply.main to un samnay bilkul khamosh rah ker sub kuch bear kerti hoon.lakin un ka gusa bhot hi shadid hota hay un ka bus nahi chalta k kia ker bhaitain.main to buri tarha se khofzada ho jaati hoon.wo bhot extreme pe chalay jaatay hain.no doubt he is an hard working person but wo apni job se satisfied nahi hain job change kerna chatay hain.un k office main itna buri tarha se kaam ka burden hota hay k apnay liay bilkul bhi tym nahi nikal patay jis ki wajha se bhot frustrate ho jaatay hain aur gusa mujh pe nikulta hay.ye ab un ka psychitric problem bun chuka hay main un ko psychiatrist ko dekhana chati hoon wo maan bhi jaatay hain lakin phir job k burden ki wajha se jaa nahi patay.main un ko kis tarha se convince karoon k apna treatment kerwain.i m so worried b coz is se bachi pe bhi bura asar per raha hay.main un ki achi job k liay itna pray kerti hoon plz koi solutin batain aur ho sakay to koi wazifa bhi bata hain jis se situation improve ho. |
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Diplomate |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2009 Topic: 50 Post: 3217 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Nov 2009, 9:47am |
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 ladybird.....agr..!
agr ap k huzband ka star "scorpio" hey to phir kuch nhi hoskta...app kko sbr hi krna hooga.....iss star waley loog dil k bury nhi hotey laiken apney mizaj ,,or ikhlaaq ki wja sy loogo ko hurt krty rehty hain ...jis ka baad main in ko hud b pichtawa hoota hey....issi liye to app sy excuse b kr laitey hain...beherhaal ap worry na krain inshallah sb theek hoo jaye ga...40 yr tk puhnchtey in ka mzaj nrm hota jaye ga...
agr "scorpio" hain to... |
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ladybird |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Oct, 2009 Topic: 7 Post: 25 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Nov 2009, 1:43am |
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plz i want more replies. |
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Javed Imad |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2009 Topic: 14 Post: 367 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Nov 2009, 12:50pm |
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 Wazifa Parhein
AOA, very bad situation but u don't worry, Aap wazifa parha karien, aur jab husband ghussa karein tu khamosh ho jayn, apna aur apnay husband ka hisab karaien, kion ky some time kuch log taweez waghaira bi kur daity hein....jahan tak wazifa ki baat hy tu 4 ya 5 din wait karien, mein apny Pir sb sy pooch ky batata hon.. Inshah Allah sub theik ho jaye ga...aap koshish karein jo husband kehty hein wo maan liya karien...ahista ahista sub settle ho jaye ga. Allah py baroosa rakhien,,apny aur apny husband ky liaye dua kia karein...sub behtr ho ga ,, dil choota mat karien... Wazifa ky liaye 4 ya 5 din wait karien wo mein pooch ky bata don ga, wazifa bi Allah ka klam hota hy, Kisi ko shaq nai hona chaheye kion ky Allah ky klam mein bari power hoti hy. Don't Worry sub theik ho ga - Inshah Allah.
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ladybird |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Oct, 2009 Topic: 7 Post: 25 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2009, 5:49am |
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javed bhai thank u so much javed bhai aap nay itni achi suggestions di hain .main Allah talah se bhot pray kerti hoon ab to situation kaafi better ho rahi hay.ab meri loven care se meray hubby ka anger problem solve ho raha hay.aap mujhay zaroor wazifa batain .mera strong believe spiritual power pe.main inshalah zaroor perhoon gi.n remember me in prayers.main nay is forum se bhot learn kia hay jis se meri married life pe bhot achy effects howy hain.thank u so much. |
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ladybird |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Oct, 2009 Topic: 7 Post: 25 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2009, 5:52am |
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plz
plz....Edited Valguer / Slang ID Name... ka reply meri profile main se delete ker dia jaey.is it possible?
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