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| Posted on:28th Apr 2007, 8:38pm |
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 Husband, Wife And Sincerety
Some people say "If husband is faithful to his wife, his wife will be same" like " if husband does not cheat on his wife she wont cheat too" is this thing true. I have seen my cousin who was a womanizer,but he got married to a religious girl,now what i call his punishment is that she has extra-martial relationship with his cousin and brothers. Similarly, If husband never had pre-martial sex,so the wife will be virgin too. Allah does justice with every 1 .So people what are your views on the above staments? |
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Kali Zuban |
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| Posted on:1st May 2007, 10:21am |
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 re: Heart
dil ke bahlane ko ghalib ye khial achch hai.
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Waleed |
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| Posted on:2nd May 2007, 11:33pm |
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Consult Quran AOA
If you read and belevie in Quran than the translation of an aya is
" KHABEES MARDON K LIE KHABEES AURATAIN AUR KHABEES AURTION K LIE KHABEES MARD HAIN'.
I think its enough for you to understand. Therez no unjustice with anyone. The only thing is that we cannot ever approach Allah's will. Its beyond the knowledge of human. So we should beleive in Quran for proper guidance.
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m.ahmed |
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| Posted on:19th Nov 2011, 3:32am |
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Waleed Consult Quran I agree with Waleed's View. This ayat is there in Quran. It applies to whole of the personality. However, exceptions can exist, but generally for the character and eman related things, this aya which is actually verdict given by Allah Himself holds true
Thanks.
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mayhooraaj |
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| Posted on:19th Nov 2011, 8:16am |
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jese ko tesa..... A-0-A. Heart ne bht acha sawal kya ...aur waleed ne bht acha jawab bhi dya ....lakin mere nazdeek iska ye jwab sahi nahi...
hum kehtey han, k jesa mard hoga usko wesi hi aorat milti ha..quran may bhi ha,jesa waleed ne likha k "khabees admio k lye ,khabees aortein hain.."...
humai quran ki mukamal tafseer bht mushkil say samjh aati ha..k is ayat may kya matalb ha..
lazmi nahi k is ayat may jo lafz likha ha wo sirf zina,sex k baarey may hi ha..hoskta ha jesa chugal khor wo mard hoga wo aorat bhi aisi ho... yani chogal khaor k lye chugal khor.. munafiq k lye munafiq... hasdi mard k lye hasdi... jhoote k lye jhooti... (aor lazmi baat nahi k ye formula hi fit ho.)
ye bhi ho sakta ha ,k
admi jtna be.namazi ho,orat utni namaz ka khayal rkhti ho..shayad ye insaf ya barabari is lye hoti ha.,ta,k admi sharam kr k hi namaz perhna start kr de...
admi jhoot bolta ho,lakin aorat jhoot se sakht nafrat krti ho.
admi zaani ho,lakin aorat utni hi pak saaf ho..kabhi na kabhi to admi ko andar se malamat hogi..k wo bahir buri orton se taluq rkhta ha.aor jab k uski naik biwi khud ko meri amanat samajhti ha...
aor bht see aisi buraiyan han jn ko us ki against achai se hi khatam kya ja sakta ha...
is lye ye sochna k k agr koi mard zina krta ha.to lazmi bat ha uski biwi bhi aisa kaam kerti hogi...aik bht hi galat khyal ha...
for exmpl.. Firon ki biwi ki exmpl le lain..ktni naik aorat thi.. aor bht see aisi exmpls ha.k mard kafir hain,jb k biwiyan naik muslims.
Thnx meri to ye hi soch ha..baqi ap log kahin....
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farah22 |
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reply i want to share something. me 3 years se engaged hon. mere fiance ne relationship k starting ma he mujhe bta dya tha k mujh se pehle, wo kisi or larki se pyaar kerte the, and us ke sath romance be kiya tha. jab ke me ne hamesha apne ap ko is burai se door rakha ye soch ker ke me sirf uski hon, jis se meri shadi hogi. khair me ne unko phir b accept kiya, ye soch ker ke atleat unho ne mujh se sach kaha, aur mujh per bharosa kiya. lekin phir be dil mai ye baat chubti hai, ke unho ne kisi or se ye sab kiya..... kisi or larki ke kareeb ae, aur usko touch kiya...... :( khair, ab hamari engagement ko 3 years ho gae hain, aur hamari achi understanding hai. wo mujhe bohat chahte hain, and meri bohat care be kerte hain. lekin phir Quran ki ye aayat mere liye kese fit hoti hai? :( |
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farah22 |
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| Posted on:30th Sep 2012, 3:34am |
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reply i want to share something. me 3 years se engaged hon. mere fiance ne relationship k starting ma he mujhe bta dya tha k mujh se pehle, wo kisi or larki se pyaar kerte the, and us ke sath romance be kiya tha. jab ke me ne hamesha apne ap ko is burai se door rakha ye soch ker ke me sirf uski hon, jis se meri shadi hogi. khair me ne unko phir b accept kiya, ye soch ker ke atleat unho ne mujh se sach kaha, aur mujh per bharosa kiya. lekin phir be dil mai ye baat chubti hai, ke unho ne kisi or se ye sab kiya..... kisi or larki ke kareeb ae, aur usko touch kiya...... :( khair, ab hamari engagement ko 3 years ho gae hain, aur hamari achi understanding hai. wo mujhe bohat chahte hain, and meri bohat care be kerte hain. lekin phir Quran ki ye aayat mere liye kese fit hoti hai? :( |
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ashimk |
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| Posted on:3rd Oct 2012, 3:21am |
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To : Farah السلام عليكم
Dear,
Mujhe boht khushi hui yeh jaan k aap logo me masha<(_i_) I understanding hain jo k boht achi baat hain...<(_i_) I isay hamesha salamat rakhay...Aameen or rehi Quran k ayat ki baat tou my dear app aghr isko is point of view se sochey k aghr koi kisi ki ek ghalati pe pardha dalta hai tou <(_i_)I uski Dus Ghaltiyo pe pardha dlata hain " is liay ap khush naseeb ho apko yeh moka mila hai إن شاء الله آل العظيم Roz e Akhirat aapko inhi naikiyo se surkhru kiya jae ga...Aameen
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ashimk |
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| Posted on:3rd Oct 2012, 3:37am |
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& I am Agree wid mayhooraaj---Well Said Dear:
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aamirthegr |
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| Posted on:4th Oct 2012, 3:55pm |
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 Husband, Wife And Sincerety
Mera sawal Experinced Married females sy hy sex k hawaly sy agar koi meri rehnumai kary please, main 26 years ka aik larka hon, karachi sy belong karta hon, meri problem ye hy k main is kabil nahi hon k abhi shadi kar sakon kion k abhi main financially stable nahi, in fact hamary khandan main mardon k shadi ki bhi bohat late jati hy after 35 years, abhi main 26 ka hon, meri halaat ye hy k mujhy is wakt aurat ki shadid zarorat hy aur main raat ko soo tak nahi pata, kion k main aik jawan young mard hon aur mujh sy control nahi hota, kia main net sy kisi experienced shadi shuda female ko dost bana sakta hon? jis sy main chating etc. ki had tak apni khwaishaat poori kar lia karon?... edited email id and inappropriate comments. |
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farah22 |
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| Posted on:5th Oct 2012, 4:35am |
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aamir bhai, ap abhi shadi nhe ker sakte, lekin ap engagement tou ker sakte ho na. ap apni fiance se he baat cheet chatting kerna. ye galat baat hogi k ger aurat se ap free ho jaen. |
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aamirthegr |
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| Posted on:5th Oct 2012, 11:06pm |
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farah22 salam,Farah kia main apsy chating py bat kar sakta hon if you dont mind,have to discuss few things, [email protected]
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farah22 |
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aamir aamir, apko married female chahye. me married nhe hon, and ap se 5 years choti hon. ap married girs ko try karen. i cant help u. |
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goodman |
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amir amir kamal ha ap koo kooi block he nahi ker raha ha....ham id exchange kernay ka sochtay he ha to hamay block ker diya jata ha...lagta ha tum forum kay king hoo |
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farah22 |
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aamir apko sharam nhe aati ha. ap khulam khula mujhe baat kerne ki offer ker rahe hain. apni sister ya mother se ker len baat. :@ |
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Sahil2003 |
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| Posted on:9th Oct 2012, 6:14am |
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aamirthegr I guess Farah ne tumhien sahi mashwara diya hai, apna ghar check karo, ho sakta hai, jo kaam tum ne farah ko karnay ko kaha ho, wohi kaam koi tumhari behn se karnay ko keh raha hoga.
Reh gaiee baat tumhari khwahishat ki to, namaz, quran aur parhaiee mein dil lagao, positive thinking evolve karo, achi books parha karo, it will help you gain control and divert your lustrous thinking. |
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farah22 |
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i think he is a desperate person. abhi tou iski details edit ho gae hain, warna is ne besharmi ki intaha ker di thi |
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sajjaall |
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| Posted on:9th Oct 2012, 5:31pm |
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too farah hi farah agar ap kay husband nay kise aur larki say pyar kiya orr uus k sath woh kuch bhe kiya yeh un ka past tha ap un k sath iss tarha rahein k un ko app kay honay ka ehsaas ho or un k samnay stylish ban k raha karo usay khud he ehsaas ho jayey ga or unhein ignor na kiya karo un k sath happy raha karo or un k past ka bilkul zikar na kiya karo unhein iss chez ka ehsaas he na dilaya karo or sirf apnay honay ka ehsaas dilaya karo o tc god help u bye |
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sajjaall |
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| Posted on:9th Oct 2012, 5:37pm |
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too farah hi farah agar ap kay husband nay kise aur larki say pyar kiya orr uus k sath woh kuch bhe kiya yeh un ka past tha ap un k sath iss tarha rahein k un ko app kay honay ka ehsaas ho or un k samnay stylish ban k raha karo usay khud he ehsaas ho jayey ga or unhein ignor na kiya karo un k sath happy raha karo or un k past ka bilkul zikar na kiya karo unhein iss chez ka ehsaas he na dilaya karo or sirf apnay honay ka ehsaas dilaya karo o tc god help u bye |
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farah22 |
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sajjall meri shadi nhe hwi ha. m engaged. wo larki, mujh se milne se pehle ki ha. uski larki se unka rishta nhe ho paya tha. phir wo 1 year tak disturb rahe the. phir mujh se love hwa unko. unho nd mujhe wo larki b dikhae ha picture mai. esa kehna tou nhe chahye lekin khobsoorab zara b nhe. aur na he mera fiance attractive ha. mujhe stylish hone ki zarorat he nhe ha, me ager kuch na karon makeup, tab be apne fiance se bohat bohat better hon. |
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