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Mrs Abbasi |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Apr, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 32 Age:
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| Posted on:15th May 2009, 7:20am |
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 Husband Mis-behaving: What Should Wife Do?
agar husband shaadi ke bad se hi apni wife ko uske meeke waloo ko apne ghar waloo ke saamne yani wife ke susraal waloo ke saamne galia deeta hoo kooi party attend na karta hoo uski shikayat pe maarta hoo jabke wife apna farz bakhoobi nibha rahi hoo our meka ma sab damadoo ko haathoo haath lia jaata hoo our wife apne right ke liye maa ke ha beth jaati hai husband uske ghar wale maafi maang ke leejate hoo phir thoore din main sab badal jaate hoo ek sal ma husnband ne doobara wife koo mara hoo gala zoor se dabaya ho ke ek lamha our dabta to death hoojati wife apni maa ke han phir bethi hai 2 yrs hoogai shaadi ko wife tension ma rehti hai srtess main harwaqt uska husband beouladi ke tane maarta hai jabke wife ne apne test bhi karwaai our husband ka test likh ke dia to husband ne wife ko ghar se nikal dia our apne sas susar ko galia deen ke mujhe neecha dikhana cha rahe hain.
wife ne bohat qurbania diin hain apna ghar bachane ke liye magar is bar uske husband ne itna mara ke jan jata jata bachi ap wo wapas nahi jana chti husband ke paas phir bilkul jan se maar de ga dhamki bhi di hai tukre tukre kar ke maa ke ghar daal aaon ga .wife khula chti hai husband ke maafi ke sms aarahe hain wife ko manane ke liye magar doo bar husband ne itna zoor se haath uthaya is bar to had hi kardi.doo baar gala dabaya uska dam ghut gaya doo 3 din tak uske gale main dard raha khana nikla na gaya sirf is baat pe ke ammi ke ha kio nahi jate meke ki parties attend kiio nahi karte halanke sab hi damad aatey hai problem hoo to sab ko khud husband ke bhaai apni wives ko har hafte dus din me meke leeke jaate hain .wife khula chti hai usko aaplogoo ka mashoora chiyee wo ab itna sab hoone ke bad bhi apni jaan khatre main daalke wapas jjaai ya khula ke liye finally apply karde husband choorne ko tayyar nahi hai kehta hai lov karta hoo maarta aisa hai ke kooi joononi dushman hoo plz wife ko mashoora den she is graduate 23 yrs old girl |
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koyal |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 500 Age:
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| Posted on:15th May 2009, 12:01pm |
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mrs abbasi mrs abbasi pehli bat tu ye zulm karne wala aur zulm sehne wala dono gunehgaar hain, jab us larki ko pata hay ke uspe zulm horaha hay tu jesa ke islam ne ijazet di hay wo forun khula le le kyunke is sab ka asar uski aaney wali nasal pe bhi par sakta hay. Islam main shauahr ko ye bilkul ijazet nahi hay ke wo apni biwi ko jismani aziat de.uska shauhar mujhe tu psycho lag raha hay aise bandey se alaidgi hi behter rahay gi, zindigi aik dafa milti hay wo kyun berbaad karna chahti hay aise aadmi ke pichey usko chahiye ke khula lay Allah ne kya pata uske liye kuch buhut acha soch rekha ho. |
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waseem08 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Apr, 2009 Topic: 13 Post: 1304 Age:
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| Posted on:15th May 2009, 1:13pm |
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salaam mrrs abbasi ap ko ek mouka aur dena chahiye or wo istrah k ap apne ghar me hi sakonat akhtiyar rakhen aur akhir dekhen k kia wo shaks waqeie sanjeeda hy ye apko khud dekhna hoga or han bhetr hy k ap onse bilkul alg ghr ki deemand kare phr dekhen k kia wo apki shart pe agree hen ye sab kuch wait k bad ka hy or apki sharten phr dekhen bhrhaal apko ek mouka or dena chahiye wo ap behter janti hen or sbse bhrkr allah se madad manghe inshaallah sab acha hoga salaam. |
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waseem08 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Apr, 2009 Topic: 13 Post: 1304 Age:
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| Posted on:15th May 2009, 1:34pm |
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salaam koyal koyal bhan apse ek guzarish hy k ye jo apne akhir me likha hy k allah <azzawajal> k bare me k soch rakha hy to arz hy k allah k bare me aise alfaaz ny kahe jaten wo paak zaat hy jo her wo cheez jski zaroorat per ti hy on sab se paak hy use kesi cheez ki zaroorat ny he< soch >k bajay ap tadbeer ke lafz istamaal karen salaam. |
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koyal |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 500 Age:
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| Posted on:15th May 2009, 1:42pm |
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waseem sorry waseem i may have written something wrong thaks alot for correcting me i'll try not to write like that again |
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waseem08 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Apr, 2009 Topic: 13 Post: 1304 Age:
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| Posted on:15th May 2009, 1:57pm |
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salaam apko mhuje sory khene ki koi zaroorat nai hy ye jo kuch b kia hy ye mere per wajib tha salaam take care. |
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s4u |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2011 Topic: 97 Post: 5354 Age:
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| Posted on:15th May 2009, 3:22pm |
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Mrs Abbasi aap ne jis k bare me bhi likha read kr k waqi buhot afsos hoa.donya me insaniyat hi khatam ho gai hai...kitna hi be-rehm & zalim insan hai jo itni be-dardi se maarta rehta hai.
ab onhe mazeed koi moka nahi dena chahiye.aur foran hi divorce le lena chahiye.ager ab ki bar onhe moka dia gya to phir se wohi kuch hona hai jo pehle se hota aya hai....insan ki jo nature hoti hai wo itni jaldi badli nahi ja sakti.is lie main to yehi kahon gi k ab buhot ho gai.
pehle bhi onhe 2,3 bar moka dia gya hai to kia faida hasil hoa konsa wo badal gaya.jo ab badle ga.
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s4u |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2011 Topic: 97 Post: 5354 Age:
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| Posted on:15th May 2009, 3:28pm |
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 waseem08
bhetr hy k ap onse bilkul alg ghr ki deemand kare
phr dekhen k kia wo apki shart pe agree hen ye sab kuch wait k bad ka
hy or apki sharten phr dekhen bhrhaal apko ek mouka or dena chahiye
farz karein k wo aapki alag ghar ki demand bhi pore ker de aur aik,do mah wo insan bhi ban k rahe aur kuch arse k bad phir se wohi maar peet shoro ker de?to phir aap kia kahein ge is bare me?
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waseem08 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Apr, 2009 Topic: 13 Post: 1304 Age:
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| Posted on:16th May 2009, 1:52pm |
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sab k dilo me rehnewali simple phr wo behter janti hai k kia krna hai or kia pata wo suder jay |
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4638 Age:
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| Posted on:16th May 2009, 2:20pm |
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ek bar akhri koshish kar ke dekh lain, wo apne husband ko mana kar dekhain aur alehda ghar le lain,maby is se kuch behtri ho,agar na ho to alehdagi li ja sakti hai,lekin shahid ek akhri koshish kar ke dekh leni chahye.(waise mushkil hai wo unki bat man kar alehda ghar le lain,) |
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Mrs Abbasi |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Apr, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 32 Age:
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| Posted on:16th May 2009, 4:59pm |
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thks 4 pozitv rep thanx a lot aap logo ne meri problem ko samjha our mujhe mashoora dia 80% keh rahe hain mujh divorc ke liye dunya ke tanoo se darti hoon .
ma already susraal main kitchen alg kar ke reh rahi thi or doo bar ami ke ha beth chuki hoo take soher ka rawayya sahe hoojaai magar qismat ne meri qurbaniooo ka saath nahi dia.
.bas phir doosri baar unhoo ne haat uthaya gala itni zoor se dabaya main ne kalma parh lia tha,Allah ne jaan bacha lii.
sab ka yehi kehna ha wapas janna bewaqoofi hai dua karein ke Allah khula ke bad mujhe phir se pehle jaisi banne ki himmat de take main apna dil behla sakoo kisi kaam ma buzee hoone ki himmat kar sakoon.
is baas ma toot gai apne susraaal main jiske liye kia kisi ne palat ke nahi poocha ke chooot kaise hai itni zoor se gala dabaya ke 3-4 din tak pani nahi nikla jaraha tha na right left gardan ghooma sakti thi sab apna ghar bachane ke liye bardasht karti rahi shayad sooher sahi hoojaai july main 3 yrs hoojain ge baby bhi nahi hai.suba shaam talaq ki dhamkia milti rehti thi ek baar ke bi dia agar tumko talaq doo to doosre se shaadi karloo is tarah ki batein karte they mujh se.
plz dua kijiye Allah mujhe is khula ka sadma sehne ki himmat de ab iske ilawa our kooi chaara nahi hai mera soher hi meri jaan ka dushman ha to or susraal ma kisi se kia bhale ki kia umeed rakhoo mujhe bachane kooi nahi aaya halanke sab ke liye itna kia hai khair ajar dene wala Alla hai our mere opper zulm ka badla lene wala bhi |
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Mrs Abbasi |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Apr, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 32 Age:
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| Posted on:16th May 2009, 5:13pm |
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I tried but invain merey susraal ma hi kichen alag chal raha tha do 3 baar beth chuki doo ye 3rd time haath uthaya hai inhoo pe halanke apne faraiz bakhoobi anjaam de rahi thi susraal waloo na palat ke naa poocha kitna maara choot to nahi lagi meke waloo ne uske nakhun ke nishaan us ke gale pe dekhe hai itni zoor ka thappar mare uske 3 din tak gaal sooje rahi sirf is waja se ke wo apne haq ke liye awaz utha rahi thi wo khud parha likha hai DAE elecroniocs hai BCS kia hua hai our electronic ke coarce kie hue hain NTC main supervisor hai Govt job hai ourat ko peer ki jooti samajhta hai |
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s4u |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2011 Topic: 97 Post: 5354 Age:
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| Posted on:16th May 2009, 6:42pm |
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Mrs Abbasi
main aapka dukh samjh sakti hon.k aap pe kia guzri.
sab log theik hi kehte hain k ab ki bar phir se aap ager wahan janey ka irada rakhti hain to samjhein k aap bewaqoofi karein gi...apne hi paon aap katne wali bat hai.
jo insan 3 saal k arse me khod ko nahi badal paya wo ab kia badle ga.
chalein ye to buhot acha hoa k aap ki koi olaad nahi hoi warna ab os k lie problem ho sakti thi....
wese ager dekha jae k aap k haan koi bacha ho jata to may be aap k husband k attitude me kuch fark ata....kher Allah k her kaam me koi na koi hikmat hoti hai..
Allah aap k haq me sab behter kare meri dua aap k sath hai...
aur ab mera sawal aap se hai k aap ne logoon k to views le lie mager aap ye batein k aap ka dil bhi kia ye man'ney ko tyar hai k jo hum sab ne aapko mashwara dia ye theik hai?
Allah bless u
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s4u |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2011 Topic: 97 Post: 5354 Age:
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| Posted on:16th May 2009, 10:15pm |
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waseem08 simple phr wo behter janti hai k kia krna hai or kia pata wo suder jay
is ka matlab to ye hoa na k pehle kisi ko musibat me dhakeel dia phir beth k tamasha dekha...aap batein k jo insan 3 saal me nahi badla kia wo aap k ya mere ya kisi k bhi kehne se badal jae ga???
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waseem08 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Apr, 2009 Topic: 13 Post: 1304 Age:
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| Posted on:17th May 2009, 8:16am |
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salaam ab bat kr k faida ny hy q k wo khyd hi aleidhgi chati hen mera mushwara tha k ek koshish ho jati bhrhal allah unpe apni khas rahmat farmay aameen. |
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Mrs Abbasi |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Apr, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 32 Age:
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| Posted on:18th May 2009, 1:28pm |
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i had already separate kitchen mere paas susraal mai alag kitchn tha us ke bawajood kamyab nahi hoo paai.ek baar kia bar baar moqa dia tha |
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Mrs Abbasi |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Apr, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 32 Age:
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| Posted on:18th May 2009, 1:29pm |
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invain akri kooshis baar baar ki magar wohi haal ha |
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Mrs Abbasi |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Apr, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 32 Age:
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| Posted on:18th May 2009, 1:31pm |
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had already separate kitchn do teen moqe bhi die alag kichn susraal main bhi tha |
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s4u |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2011 Topic: 97 Post: 5354 Age:
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| Posted on:18th May 2009, 7:40pm |
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Mrs Abbasi ok to theik hai phir ager aapka bhi dil is bat ko manta hai k alhedgi hi theik hai to ok.aap divorce le lein.
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Mrs Abbasi |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Apr, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 32 Age:
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| Posted on:27th May 2009, 6:25am |
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alah hai phir bhi alag kitchn susraal mai hi tha us pe ye halat hai larki ma ke hhan aagai hai husband ghar aata hai biwi ko manane maa ko court ki tari laga ke chala gaya |
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