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superoven |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Aug, 2009 Topic: 39 Post: 96 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Sep 2009, 10:06pm |
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 Aisay Husband Ka Kia Kerna Chahye?
salam 2 all friends mujey ap sab say ek raye leni hai apni friend k liye woh female hai aur shadi shuda
baat yeh hai k ous ki love marriage huie hai woh larka ous ko internet per he mila dono ki 2 sal tak dosti rahi dono nay ek dosry ko jan nay k bad larkay nay rishta bhaija larki k ghar.larka out of pakistan rehta hai aur larki pakistan he main .mager larka bhi ous he city say belong karta hai jis city main woh larki rehti hai
larkay k ghar walay pathan hain woh log bari mushkil say razi ho kar larki ko dekhnay gaye,oun logo ko larki aur larki k ghar walay pasand nahi aye,oun logo nay larkay say kaha k larki k ghar walay achay nahi aur larki bhout kali hai badsurat hai. jab k larka aur larki nay internet per ek dosrey ki sirf picture he exchange kar k dekha tha larkay nay larki ka cam bhi dekha tha.mager larkay nay apna cam nahi dekhaya tha larki ko.
larkay nay believe nahi kiya k larki badsurat hai ,sirf es baat ka yaken kar liya k larki k ghar walay achay nahi, larkay nay larki say laraie ki larki k ghar walo ko bura bhala kaha k larki k ghar walay hijab nahi kartay hain sirf larki he hijab karti hai aur phir bad main ous nay larki say bat kar k umeed delaie k eid per shadi hogi ous k ghar walay razi ho jayein gay.eid aie larka pakistan aya ous nay apnay ghar walo say bat ki ya nahi mager ous nay larki say kaha k ghar walay razi nahi ho rahay hain main nikah karnay ajaonga akeley he, larki ki mother say larkay nay baat ki mila aur yakeen delaya k ager nikah ho jaye to larkay k ghar walay lazmi razi ho jayein gay. larki ki mother razi ho gaie kyun k larki ki mother nay larkay k ghar walo ko dekha huwa tha den dar ghar ka larka hai.aur nikah karwa diya nikah main larkay ka chota bhai bhi tha. larkay k chotay bhai nay ghar ja kar sab ghar walo ko nikah ka bata diya larkay k ghar walo nay gusay main ghar say nikal diya larkay ko larka wapis chala gaya out of pakistan,
phir 4 months tak larka larta raha larki say k tum urdu speaking ho tumhari mother kali hai masi hai beautiful nahi hai urdu speaking kalay hotay hain bura bhala kehta raha larki ko talaq denay tak ki nobat agaie larki roti rahi.aisa he chalta raha phir 4 months guzar janay k bad larkay nay dhamki di k rukhsati karo warna main dosri shadi karlonga yeh bat sun kar larki ki mother nay samjhaya woh nahi samjha phir larki ki mother nay rukhsati kar di.
rukhsati k 1 month k bad woh larka phir larna jhagarna shoro ho gaya aur marnay laga larki ko dando say larkay nay larki ko bahir anay janay per sakt mana kia huwa tha kyun k age larkar woh larki k sath bahir jaye ga aur koi relative dekh ley ga to larkay k ghar walo ko pata chal jaye ga, larki ous larkay ko kehti rehti k ghar walo ko razi karo takey aisay chupp chupp ker rehna na parhey larka ulta larnay lagta aur larki ki mother ko galiya denay lagta . larki apni marzi say kuch khati to larta marnay lagta her choti bari bat per , ager larki kehti hai k ous ki mother ko gali na do to aur deyta hai marta hai, kehta hai teri mother galiyo k laiq hai,hijab nahi karti ,badsurat kehta rehta hai. jab kay meri dost badusrat nahi hai bhout he pyari larki hai, apnay maa baap ki ek he beti hai aur larki k parents kafi maldar log hain. larka larki ko kehta hai tum ko talaq lena hai to ley lo chali jao ager yeh sab bardasht nahi hota to .jab dil chahta hai meri dost k pas ajata hai jab dil nahi chahta pas nahi ata ager meri friend hath lagati hai to dhudhttkarrta hai baat nahi karta ous ka dil hota hai to bat karta hai aur sunta bhi nahi kuch ,meri dost bhout pareshan hai ,kasay sahi hoga ous ka husband ?
ager woh talaq leti hai to larki k khandan walay batein banayein gay k 19 sal ki age main talaq hogaie aap sab ki raye ka intezar hai |
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Raja Taqi |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2010 Topic: 29 Post: 1940 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2009, 2:34am |
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 superoven
jo kuch aap ki frend ker chukki uss ki wapssi to possible nahi aur aap ko ub iss ghulti per mazeed preshan kerna bi acha nahi raye ga..ulbata ye age hoti hi aissi he k iss mein insan na apna future dekhta he aur na hi walidain ki izat ko ...ub iss ka short kut rusta ye hi he k apni ghulti ko tasleem ker k Allah k hazoor paish ho jao apni maghfrat k liye din raat dua ki jaye...
koshesh ki jaye k larhky ko kissi bi turah apny liye razamundh ker liya jaye aur uss k waldain ko bi .....warna life mein ye sub kuch her kissi k sath luga hi he jessa behtar sumnjein faisla ker lein..... |
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haideri |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Aug, 2009 Topic: 11 Post: 109 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2009, 7:53am |
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asd yar pyar wyar nahi tha bas sab khubsurti ka chakkar tha or is liye pyar khatam hogeya he sacha pyar hi nahi he saaaf pata chal ra he larki ko chahi he talaq lale ager nahi rena chati he
zalil hone se acha he dhor hi chali jaye galti insaan se hoti rati he ab is ka matlab ye nahi sari umar is galti par guzar le abi 19 saal ki he larkay bahut mil jayain ge abi b mager apni jawani us hiwan k sath barbad nahi kare asse larki bahut pagal he
etni sari batain son kar us ko samaj nahi athi larka us k ghar walon ko bilawaja bura bhala keh ra tha nahi karni thi shadi kyun ki pata nahi kya chakkar bazi he |
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superoven |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Aug, 2009 Topic: 39 Post: 96 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2009, 11:58pm |
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Raja Taqi meri dost ne kuch nahe kia hay aap ne shayed theek say read nahi kiya jo main nay likha hai larki to nibha rahi hai mager woh larka shadi say pehley say pareshan kar raha hai aur shadi k bad jeena mushkil kar diya hai ous nay meri friend ki yehi ghalti hai k ous nay yakeen kiya ous larkay ki baat per k woh larka love karta hai sucha es liye larki nay shadi k liye haan ki kyun k larkay nay apnay parents bhi bhaijey thay larki k ghar mager larki ko pasand nahi kiya larkay k ghar walo nay urdu speaking honay ki wajah say oun logo nay ghalat ilzamat lagaye larka sab kuch janta tha 2 3 sal internet per dosti rakhnay k bad he ous nay larki k ghar family bhaiji thi mager shadi k bad wohi larka ab laraie jhagra kar raha hai urdu speaking honay per family per. yeh samjh nahi ata aisa kyun kar raha hai
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haideri |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Aug, 2009 Topic: 11 Post: 109 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Sep 2009, 8:25am |
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 dukhi
lagta he bechara bahut tension main he lagta he us ko is liye ghussa zada arah he ke us k ghar walay naraz hogaye hain isse or bat nahi karte hain is liye wo tension main hota hoga ab kis moun se ghar jahoun apne maine tu apne ghar walon ki bat nahi mani or aaj apni marzi karli he or kab taq ye narazgi rahe gi is liye wo assa karra he or larki ko bura bhala keh ra he
takay wo larki us ko khud chorde mager wo khud cchor ra he us ko talaq nahi dena chata he mager larki bole gi pher dega simple answer aaap samji meri bat |
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Maryam |
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2009, 3:14pm |
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super oven aise husband ko baich kar deep freezer le lain garmiyon main kaam ayega:)
sorry its irrelevent post lekin kabhi kabhi aisi situation main aisa bhi soch lena chahiye:)
kal inshaAllah koi maqool hal bhi bata dongi:) |
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superoven |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Aug, 2009 Topic: 39 Post: 96 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2009, 11:27pm |
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 haideri bhai wo larka apnay parents ko ye show kar reha hay k woh larki ko chorh chuka hay
woh larka bina bataye us larki say nikah kar choka phir jab larkay k ghar walo ko pata chala to ghar walo nay larkay ko ghar say nikal diya phir 1 week k bad larka kehta hay apnay ghar walo say k main nay larki ko chorh diya yani wo jhooth kehta hai k larki ko chorh diya . takay ous k taluqat theek rehein ghar walo say aur taluqat theek he hain us k ghar walo say bat chit sab theek hai ous ki. aur ous nay bina bataye rukhsati bhi karwali larki ki , us larki ko nikah k bad talaq denay ki dhamki dey dey kar rukhsati karwaie. larkay k ghar walay khandan walay nahi jantay hain es rukhsati ka sirf aur sirf larki walo ki side sab ko pata hai. woh larka chahey to bina bataye dosri shadi bhi kar sakhta meri friend ko talaq dey kar , aur us k khandan main kisi ko pata bhi nahe chale ga k us larkay ki already shadi ho choki hai . magher filhal woh abhi lar raha hai mar raha hay . larki ko jhoothi ass di hay us nay k EID per jaonga to parents say bat karonga k woh nikah ko accept karlen aur rukhsati k liye jaldi razi ho jayen. maghar larka kabhi kehta hai ghar walo say bat nahi karonga pal pal larna jhagarna marna petna karta hai husband honey ka sirf ek haqoq pora karta hay woh intercourse bassssss. aap log theek raye den jesey k khud ki sagi behan k liye ho wo 19 sal ki larki hay jis ka bera gharak kar diya us larkay nay
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haideri |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Aug, 2009 Topic: 11 Post: 109 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2009, 5:38am |
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pata nahi humain kya pata kya karna chahi he mager ek bat bata doun ager larki apne husband se pyar karti he or ye sab bardash kar sakti he tu pher tu us k sath hi zindagi guzary jaise guzar rahi he
ager bahut zada marta he etna zada marta he tu achi bat ye he talaq lale ye na ho kisi din katal hi karde
yar ye koi nayi bat nahi he zada tar pasand ki shadiyon main ye hota he
yar mere dost ki ek girl friend he us ki girl friend ki 2 shadiyan ho chuki hain us larki ki or ab mera dost us k sath karna chata he shadi is main koi buri bat nahi ager ek husband acha nahi niklay tu talaq lo or ek acha sa larka dhond kar shadi karle
islam talaaaaaaaaaaaaq lane ki ajazat deta he larkiyon ko b
ab tension mat lain or wohhi karain jo un ko acha lagta
meri behain g meri behain aap ki dost kya chati he us k sath rena yeah nahi rena yeah wagera wagera
meri bat manain tu ager aap ki dost us ko chor nahi sakti tu pher aap un ko un k haal par chordain apni tension main azafa na karain
apni dost ko bolo namaz par or ALLAH se dua mangay un ka husband sehi hojaye bas |
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sunny007 |
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2009, 6:08am |
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re es muamley main halaat tabhi sahi ho sakti hain jab larkey k parents ko raazi kia jaaie.... lekin jahan tak main samajhta hoon yeh 95% na mumkin hai......
lekin phir bhi 5 % chance hai........ agar khaandan k barey aur expert log ulama k saath mil kar jargah kare, to koi na koi hal zaroor nikle ga.....
maryam didi
aap rehne de.... yeh muamla aap k bas ki baat nahi hai.... :) |
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teena1 |
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2009, 6:56am |
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re. mairey kiyal main larke ko nikkah karney se pahley acchey tara jan laina chahiyein tha laiken aub jo bi howa ho gaya ub aggay maira khiyal hain assey admi kay saath nahi rehna chahiyein,aur abi sirf19 saal ki ho to kiya baki ki zindgi assey hi mar kha kar guzzarni hain. iss lainyein mujay koi future nazar nahi atta assay insan kay saath, logo ko na daikho aub apna socho tumaray laiyein kiya behtar hain.
aur larkay kay ghar walo nay aggar manna tha tu jab nikkah ho giya tha tu man jatay.iss kay ilwa bus dua ki ja sakti hai kay sub kuch normal ho jain good luck |
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Maryam |
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2009, 9:35am |
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aise husband ka kiya karna chahiye? sunny bhai yeh pathan zero meter demagh k lagtay hain in ka aik hi ilaj hae jo maine bataya hae :)
Superoven . aap ki post ko maine kai martba read kiya hae aur is sari situation main khud ko involve kar k dekha sab se pehlay ghalti larki k ghar walon ki hae jo shakhs apnay parents ko shadi se pehlay nahi mana sakta woh baad main kiya manayega ? unhain hargiz apni beti ka rishta istarah nahi karna chahiye tha agar us larkay ko bohat mohabbat hoti tou woh zaroor apnay parents ko mana leta kyun k larkiyan majboor hoti hain larkay nahi. abb shadi tou ho hi gai hae lekin jo halaat hain un main nibah karna larki ka khud pe zulm karna hae abhi tou woh yahan hae kal ko wapis abroad chala jayega larki ko akela chor kar aur koi ba,eed mat rakhiyega k ya tou sari zindagi apnay intezar main bithaye aur khud parents ki marzi se doosri shadi kar lay . suppose agar us k ghar walay maan bhi jatay hain tab bhi jis mard ki jhijak aik martba khatam hojaye biwi ko marnay peetnay ki woh sari zindagi nahi sudharta .aap ki dost k liye yehi mashwara hae k apna legal right use karain jo shariyat ne bhi diya hae aur us se alag hojayen . jahan tak meri samajh main baat arahi hae woh yeh k shayad larki ka hak mehar zyada hae jis ki waja se larka ussay itna tang kar raha hae k woh khud se khulaa le lay . khanadan walon ka sochna bekaar hae is waqt apni beti ka sochna chahiye. agar koi aulad hogai tou mazeed koi step lena mushkil hojayega. i know yeh sab kehna asaan hae lekin jo shakhs apni biwi ko kisi k samnay apna nahi sakta aur ussay zaleel karta hae maan ki galiyan isliye deta hae k woh gori nahi to sorry to say woh mard kehlanay k laiq hi nahi hae abb koi aise namard k sath rahay tou us ki apni ghalti hae. |
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Maryam |
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2009, 10:19am |
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superoven bhai wese superoven bhai agar woh aap ki friend hain tou maybe un k husband ko yeh sab pasand na ho k woh abhi tak net pe friends rakhti hain kyun k aap bhi tou abroad rehtay hain zahir hae net friend hi hongi aap ki, am i right? |
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haideri |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Aug, 2009 Topic: 11 Post: 109 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2009, 1:42pm |
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``` Aisay Husband Ka Kia Kerna Chahye?
meri bat manay tu assey husband ko kick marain mokkay marain jootay marain jo kuch hath main aye wo mardain marti chali jayain
or marnay ka asan tarika he us ko neend ki goliyan dain bank account us ka pata karain kitna paisa he us k pass or us ka signature karna sakain pher paise lain or rafu chakkar hojayain hehehehe
pher us ko achi taran ehsaas hoga us ne kya kiya or us k sath kya hua hahahahah
sach main maza aye ga
muje nahi lagta wo larki kuch kar sakti he bas yar etna hi keh sakta hon |
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sunny007 |
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2009, 2:11pm |
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haideri bhai sahb, boht buri baat...
es se pehle bhi aap ne kisi se kaha tha k apna email id aur password bata do, flaan shakhs ko aisa tang karoonga k phir.....................
aur ab to aap ne bank se fruad k zarie balance nikaalne ki hi baat kar rahe hain, kahi aap fruad to nahi, kahi aap daaku to nahi, kahi aap chor to nahi.....
very bad reply.......
superoven
yaar aise insaan k khilaf agar qaanooni kar rawaie ki jaie, to kuch ho sakta hai...... lekin qanoon ka bhi to aap ko pata hai kesa qanoon hai........
warna agar aisi umeed rakho ge, k woh larka theek ho jaiega, ya woh talaq de dega, to yeh aap ki bhool hai....
wesy maryam ne jo khadsha zaahir kia hai, kahi asal baat wahi to nahi, kahi aap us larki se pyaar to nahi karte. aur asal baat ko chupa rahe hain??? |
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superoven |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Aug, 2009 Topic: 39 Post: 96 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2009, 6:14pm |
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maryam or sunny bhai woh larke merey school kay zamanay ke dost hay mera us kay sath esa kuch bhe nahe hay ager hona hota to us say shadi na kar leta ? hum log school k zamane kay friends hein alhamdulillah may khud ab shadi shuda hon aur meri dost say meri bat hoti rehti hai es he tarhan baki class fellow say bhe humhara school kay zamaney main ek group tha aur school kay bad sab alag alag jaga study karne lagey koi kahin chala gaya sirf net per he bat hoti hai school friends say jis main say ek yeh meri friend hay jis ka ap logo ko bataya hay mera koi aisa irada nahi hay us kay sath dost hai es liye sirf advise lena chhata ho ap logo se kio kay woh larki nahe chahti police main complain kerna talaq lena wo husband kay sath he rehna chahatii hay magher us ka husband sakon say rheney nahi deyta woh larki chahey talaq lay lai foran 19 sal ki hay achi hay dekhnay main koe bhi mil jaye ga acha khasa paisay wali hay magher wo apne is he shadi ko nibhana chahati hay
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haideri |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Aug, 2009 Topic: 11 Post: 109 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Sep 2009, 4:50am |
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 bacho bachaho
bhai main tu mazak karra hon sunny bhai
or han bhai wo larki usse jab bahut pyar karti he rishta nibah rahi he or nibana b chati he tu pher nibati rahe bas
or han mar khati rahe galiyan sonti rahe or
ager galiyan or mar khanay se bachna chati he tu very simple
galiyon se bachne k liye wo ye kare
kaan main handfree laga kar achay achay song sonay full volume main pher us ki gandi gandi galiyon ki awaz nahi aye gi
or mar khanay se bachna he tu jab wo marnay lagay
jab marnay lagay tu bathroom main ghos jaye bas simple |
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superoven |
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2009, 12:04am |
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afsos k seriously kisi ne raye he nahi di haider bhai mazaq acha nahi legta her time :)
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haideri |
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2009, 4:24am |
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afsoos mat karo Bhai aap ko ek achi c or pyari c bat bata doun
in saray maslon ka hal he
wo larki 5 waqat ki namaz paray or quran paray or tasbiyan paray jab us ka husband aye zada tar us time hi quran paray or namaz apni sari qaza karay
sach main us k husband ne us ko marna nahi chor diya mera naam badal dena sach or dua b karay |
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superoven |
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2009, 11:50pm |
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haideri bhai ap ne ache advise de hay magher bhai wo larki namaz perhti hay quran be aur jo larka us ka husband hay marta hay woh khud 5 time ke namaz parhta hay hafiz-e-quran hay wo magher wo pher be marta hay sudherta nahe hay
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haideri |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Aug, 2009 Topic: 11 Post: 109 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Sep 2009, 12:44pm |
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Chup Chaaap yar pher kya karain kya karian main tu pagal hojahon ga
han marta he marta he bahut marta he
is ka hal ye he wo jitna marta he marnay do us ko or chup chaap mar khati rahay wo tumhari dost
bilkul kuch nahi bolay kuch nahi bolay bilkul chup chaap mar khati rahay hai 1 week taq maray ga pher khud chor dega tang aa kar chup chaaap mar khaya moun se uff taq na karay kuch na bolay usse bhai mere
pher main b dekhta hon kis taran marta he wo kuch tu amal karay wo aap ki dost
chup chaap mar khani he bahut fahhida hoga |
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