Love: How Can I Told My Parents About My Love?

Hello

I m doing MBBS, now in 2nd year. I love a girl v much and want to marry her but as u can understand it is v difficult for a student to say about such feelings to his or her parents. She will do her graduation earlier then me so i m worried about ours relation that if i was in MBBS and her parents do her marriage somewhere else bcoz gurlz are married earlier..

I want to say u that she love me v much and also want to marry me but she worried abut it too.

wat can i do now????

plz send me ur useful comments, vl b thankful to all of u.

do this

dear piyaar m koi advise nahi hoti..bus apne dil se poocho jo woh kahe woh karo..yeh na socho k ghalt ya sahi..bus dil ki mano...

ksi ki advise lene ki zaroorut anhi he

adnan3925

thx but no thx

mai ne kha k agar mera MBBS complete hone se pehle hi uski shadii kahin or ogai tu???

mai hamesha dil ki mantha hon but it vl b v difficult for both of us to live apart. ap plz mere msg ka 2nd part b parh lien jo dusree msg ma hai

Jannluv MUST READ THIS WITH 1st PART

sorry i forget to tell u that now her family is shifting to another city so we are worried about this too, that how can we will meet after 4 years when i complete my MBBS and Housejob. Also tell me will there b any chance 4 us to marry...?

dont worry

ap apne ghar walon se bat kereyn...especially apni mother se aur un se jin se apki frankness ziada ho...beshak ap k liye abhi shadi kerna mushkil hai....lekin is ka hal mujhey yahilagta hai ap ko apne ghar walon se bat ker k apne ghar walon ko us k rishtey k liye bhejna chahye...shadi na sahi to engagement hi ker lo...

shadi bat mein ho jaye gi...is se ye ho ga k ap ko aur us larki ko ye dar to nai ho ga k us ki shadi kahin aur na ho jaye...bus ap apne ghar walon ko aitamad mein lo aur rishta kerney ki koshish kero

is k ilawa namaz perho, dua kero, Quran shareef daily perho aur Allah se dua kero k jo ap k aur ap ki beloved k liye behter hai wohi ker dey....

re:2006

Mera bhai mai aik bat janta hon aur samajhta hon agar ap us larki sai dil sai piyar kartai hai aur woh bhi apsai to apko darna yah ghabrana ki zarorat nahi hai. Us larki ka piyar apko strong karaigaaa.

Yar ap adult hain, apna piyar kara hai koi gunnah nahi kara hai. ap apna parents sai bat karain, hosakta hai ka woh apko mana karain yah koi urguments karain laikin dekhoo bhai koi bhi parents apni aulad ka faisla karna sai pahla 10 bar sochtai hain.

Ap unko apna barai mai batadain inshallah woh apki bat samjhainga aur apka hi haq mai faisla daingai. bas ap aik bat yad rakhai ka jo bhi hota hai woh insaan ka haq mai bahtar hota hai. Ap namaz pharai aur ALLAH sai gir giraka dua karain aur yahi manga ka jo apka haq mai bahtar hai wohi ho.

yessss

im agreed to Aag

ap parents se bat keryn aur sub kuch Allah per chor deyn...jo ho ga usi mein ap k liye behteri ho gi

zeb bhai zindabad

re:2006

Challoo Zeen ka masla to hal hogaya thats good,  now 2006khan kiya kahtai hain, kiya enko samajh aya kuch. waiting for ur reply 2006 khan.

Mera to yahi khayal hai ka etna bohot hai aur 2006khan ap yah sab phar ka sukoon mai ajaingai aur koi na koi acha faisla karlaingai. aur inshallah jo bhi ap faisla karain woh apka haq mai ho. Ameen

re

       App ko maira mashwera kuch ajeeb laggay shayad, lakin yah bahtreen tareeqa hay.

   First of all if u feel that yr mother can take it, tell her the whole situation.

    Secondly, DO ISTIKHARA.  Just for yr reference, u need to find out that istikhara ki dua and at night offer two rakat nafal namaz and recite that dua and pray to allah.  Ask him that if it is better for me to marry this girl, make it easy for me and if it is not give me sabar.  Trust me, if u do it with yr total obidience to allah, u will get the answer.  Do it at least three days in a row.  I am only suggesting u this after my many many personal experiences when I needed some real help from allah. 

   If u need logic behind istikhara, is that allah knows everything which will be good or bad for our future.  So asking allah is the best way to get the most appropriate thing for us. 

    It may be not a solution for yr problem as it appears, but asking direct from God will give u the satisfaction, trust me.

May allah make everything easy for u.

Thxx to all

i m very thankful to all of u,

zeb, pinky, aag, u people encourage me alot, esp pinky u suggestion in valueable. i had done isthikhara before but only for one night and i hadnt got the result, inshallah i vl try it again as u said for three nights continously.. pinky thx once again.

zeb and aag u both are v mature and i always read ur suggestions to other, both of u are v gud, but the matter is that i vl never dare to tell my father abut it............. to my mother i vl try, plz pray for us and for our luv.

thx to all

:-)

u r always welcome dear 2006khan :-) dont worry dear...Allah sub khair k karey ga

and im agreed to pinky's post, she is very right, Istakhara bi zarur ker leyn rishta kerney se pehle...if it is gud then go for it otherwise noooo

and Zeeen thanku so much for appreciating my postings :-)

Plz all of u remember me in ur prayers...thats all

TELL UR MOTHER

Thanks for Appreciating

Mera bhai 2006 yar darna sai kiya hoga, mera dost ap sirf yah sochoo ka agar apna abhi nahi bataya aur us larki ki kahi aur shadi hogai to phir ap kiya karogai, ho sakta hai jo ap soch rahai ho woh na hoo, matlab shayad ap yah soch rahai hogai ka apka father apsai naraz hongai, apko dantainga yah aur bohot kuch, mera dost ho sakta hai aisa na hoo aur faisla apka haq mai ho.

Think positive and be positive

Allah ka nam loo aur apna father sai bat karooo, yah idea bhi bura nahi hai ka ap first apni mother sai bat karlain yah aisa family member sai jo apsai sab sai zada kareeb ho. Jaha taq bat estikhara ki hai to yah bhi acha hai, Laikin estikhara ka liya Paki (safai) ka bohot khayal rakhna hota hai.

ALLAH apki mushkil asan karai aur apko sahi rasta dekhai aur apki manzil asan karai aur jo bhi faisla ho woh apka haq mai ho. Ameen

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