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Novice111 |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2009 Topic: 2 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jun 2009, 2:13am |
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 Ex-Love Affair: Shall I Inform To My Fiancee?
mera ek problem hai jis par mei ap forum members se mashwara lena chahta hoon .... I shall be grateful if you people can guide me ... Problem ye hai k meri 2 months pehlay engagement hui hai ghar walo ki marzi se (jis me meri pasand bhi shamil thi) . meri apni fiancee se fone par baat hoti rehti hai, hamari boht achi understanding ho gai hai, and she likes me a lot. Problem ye hai mei pehlay ek larki ko pasand karta tha ... us se kai bar mila tha aur shadi bhi karna chahta tha ....... lekin phir kuch problems ki waja se us se shadi nahi ho saki ....... (her parents did no agree) ... mei us se kafi zyada close tha ...... is k elawa meri 2/3 aur girls se bhi friendship thi ... (just friendship i was not INTERESTED in them as such) mera question ye hai k kya mujhe apni fiancee ko abhi, ya shadi k baad ye bata dena chahiye k mei tum se pehlay kisi aur ko pasand karta tha ... mei ab us larki ko bhool chuka hoon ..... but I just want to know whether I should tell my fiance abt it ..... coz my family also knows abt this girl .... agar mei nahi bataun ga to ho sakta hai usay kis aur se pata chal jaye .... mei ne usay boht short words mei bataya hai us affair k barey mei .... magar hum ek doosre se kitna close thay ye nahi bataya .... ap log please mujhe guide karen k kya mujhe apni fiancee ko ye sab bata dena chahiye?? is se hamarey relation pe koi bura asar to nahi parega?? ladies on the forum especially guide me Thanks
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hamzi |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Mar, 2008 Topic: 11 Post: 1072 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jun 2009, 3:06am |
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Novice yar aisa na karna kion k agar tum nay usay yeh sab bata diya tu woh shadi k bad tum pe bohat shak kary g aur aise batein is waqt batani chye jab ap ko lagy k ap ki spouse ap pr trust karti hai aur ap ko b us pe full confidence ho
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s4u |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2011 Topic: 97 Post: 5354 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jun 2009, 4:56am |
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 rE:
ager aapko lagta hai k aapko apni ex-lover or ex-faince ka onhe batana chahiye kiu k aap ki family me bhi sab is bare me jante hain to aap bata dein.is me koi prob nahi.
ager batana bhi hai to aap ko ziyada detial batane ki zarorat nahi hai.
warna na batana hi theik hai.koi zarori nahi.
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love bird |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Nov, 2008 Topic: 73 Post: 1169 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jun 2009, 5:04am |
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Novice I think dont tell her if she insist then agree but not in detail.
and one thing more have you courage if she told you about her ex love
and i think you will remember her story in every moment of life
so imagine this ,her situation will same to you after listening your love story
just said her it is closed chapter of my life and I dont want to open this again in life
she will very happy after listen this |
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4638 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jun 2009, 5:18am |
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agree with s4u..
agar to ye batain apke ilawah kisi ko malum nahi hai to ap na bataen..lekin agar family ke member jante hain to phir ap apni fiance ko bata dain.kyoonke agar unhe bad me ye sab malum ho jayega to unhe ziyada dukh hoga.
aur agar sirf ek do logon ko malum hai jinka apko yaqeen hai wo ye bat apki fiance tak nahi pohanchayenge to apko unhe batane ki zaroorat nahi ahi. |
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Novice111 |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2009 Topic: 2 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jun 2009, 5:20am |
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Thanks Thanks everybody...
I like the suggestion given by Love Bird that I should tell her that this chapter of my life is closed now and I dont want to open it again.
She will be satisfied that whatever there was, is over now.
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love bird |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Nov, 2008 Topic: 73 Post: 1169 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2009, 6:23am |
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No need for Thanks Dear
No need for Thanks dear
Khoud bhee purani story ko bhool jahoo
Nai zindagi nai sathi kay sath
khoush rahoo |
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2263 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2009, 8:48am |
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 Novice
app ne koi aisa juram nahee kia ke app ke fiance bharak jain... unless you had physical relation..abhi bilkul bhi zikar na karen is bare main ... shadi ke bad as hamzi said .. agreed to hamzi... yeah mashwra tumhe ladies se ziada Men sahee de sakte hain....
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2263 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2009, 8:59am |
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 Shadi ke baad
it also depend on understanding aur mard ke hosle ke baat.... i told my wife all the affair i had ... 3 grils se... But no Physical relation.... kia karon main Bhut bra Flurt tha yar...Sarak per chalte chalte ayse dil phankta tha jese koi langer Bant rha ho... Shadi se pehle tmam larkyan achi lagti hain.. aur shadi ke bad bus aik hi achi nahee lagti ...... LOLZ .. koi meri wife ko na bta de warna hukka pani band ho jai ga.... |
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Khu$h! |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2009 Topic: 12 Post: 132 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2009, 9:46am |
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Ara life ma uss ke aanay se pelhay ke relation ka batao gay tu zyada asir nahi parhay ga haan laikin ager uss ke life me ah jaanay ke bahd koi relation rakha chahay kisi ladki se friendship hi ho tu bari garbar ho gi phir ilzaam ussay mat daina...
and mujhe jawaab do gay un ladkiyon ka kya jin se friendship ki? |
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hamzi |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Mar, 2008 Topic: 11 Post: 1072 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2009, 9:56am |
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khushi ap nay un ka achar dalna hai
ap kion kise k mamly main parhna chah rahin hain
phir ban karoun kia |
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Khu$h! |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2009 Topic: 12 Post: 132 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2009, 9:58am |
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.................................. hahahahaha |
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Khu$h! |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2009 Topic: 12 Post: 132 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2009, 9:59am |
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kis ki itni himmat jo ab mujhe ban keray..............lols
ussay pata hai mainay maaf nahi kerna ussay jis ne mujhe pelhay ban kiya:-D |
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hamzi |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Mar, 2008 Topic: 11 Post: 1072 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2009, 10:00am |
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khushi ap ki mafi ki koi zarorat b nahi usay |
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s4u |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2011 Topic: 97 Post: 5354 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2009, 10:51am |
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Khu$h! & Barrey Bhai aap topic divert ker rahe hain.aap ne chatting krni hai to chatting category me aa jaein phir mil k chat krte hain.
wese barrey bhai aaj kal aap barri dhamkiyaan de rahe hain sab ko.kahein Talibaan ka ghussa yahan to nahi nikal rahe?
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sunny007 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 4216 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2009, 11:07pm |
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shaied shaied aisa hi hai.. |
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4638 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2009, 11:21pm |
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System ap shadi se pehle ki bat kar rahe hain?? mujhe to ap ab bhi waise hi lagte hain..
koi tabdili nahi ayi ap me..
hahahahaa..waise ye farak zaroor pada hoga ke ap jo kam pehle khulle am karte the wo ab chup ke karna pdta hai ..take kisi ko pata na chale...???haina |
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Raja Taqi |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2010 Topic: 29 Post: 1940 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2009, 12:20pm |
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novice aap ka yahan apni problem ko share kerna hi ye sabit kerta he k aap apni hony wali wife k liye bohat mukhliss hein,
rah musla aap k apni fiance ko butany ya na butany ka to wo itni bholi nahi hoon gi k aap ki ye batein unn ko na putta chull sukein unnein aapki faimly mein se hi koi na koi zaroor buta de ga,aur aap per uss k muzar assraat nahi purhyein gay jub aap unn k liye advance mukhliss hein to wo bi aap ki liye aissa hi hoon gi
aik aurat k seeny mein bi dill hota he aur jub wo kissi ko saaf niyat se chahti he to wo be-hudd toot ker chahti he aur jub ussay dokka diya jaye to uss se burh ker koi khatrnak nahi hota.so aap apni fiance se apni haqiqi mohabat rukhein aur apni sabiq life ko bhool jayein iss umar mein her koi aissa ker jata he
iss shadi mein aap k waldain ki bi raza mundi shamil he aur aap ki sari life ka daro midar bi issi mein shamil he..jub tukk unnein putta nahi chulta aap ko unnein butany ki zaroorat nahi aur jub unn ko ye putta chull jaye to phir aap unnein haqiqat buta ker unn se moufi mang lein iss se unn k dill mein aap k liye aur izat ho jaye gi... |
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2263 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2009, 1:43pm |
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 Sunehri
haaain -- haain
Bhut tez ho app.....iska matlab hai ke app main bhi analyzer lga howa hai.... Sahee kaha app ne ab bhi flurt hi hoon... laikin ab bhi khule amm hi karta hon.. My wife has such a great heart... laikin un ko is baat ka yaqeen hai ke main had cross nahee karta ... She is like my friend too... |
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love bird |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Nov, 2008 Topic: 73 Post: 1169 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Jun 2009, 2:35am |
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Yar Mr.System yeh tou 1/2 Sach laqta hai App nay kaha keh
it also depend on understanding aur mard ke hosle ke baat.... i told my wife all the affair i had ... 3 grils se... But no Physical relation.... kia karon main Bhut bra Flurt tha yar...Sarak per chalte chalte ayse dil phankta tha jese koi langer Bant rha ho..
Yar kitni understanding hai app mein.... good
Laikin yaar agar app nay apnay 3 affairs ka aitraf kia hai tou yeh bhi tou batahoo keh bhabhi(Mrs.system) nay kitnay affairs ka aitraf kia ...... phir app kay hosalay ki tareef jo app koud kar rahay hain wo hum bhee tou karain !!!
Mein naheen yea Quran kehtan hai Pak mardoon kay pak oratain oar ......
Sorry yar mind mat karna sach bolnay ki bemari mein mobtala hoon...... |
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