Duties of Husband: Appease Her and Sympathize with Her

Appease Her and Sympathize with Her

Aurat bhi mard ki tara hi hoti hai, uss ma bhi emotional changes aati han.wo happiness, anger aur sorrow etc experience kerti hai.wo housework se tired ho sakti hai aur apnay children se irritate ho sakti hai.doseray uss ko criticism se upset ker saktay han.wo phir doseron se compete kernay ma involve ho sakti hai.in short women ko bohat sari problems ko face kerna parhta hai aur un ma se kuch uss ko itna effect kertay hank e wo itni desperate ho jati hai ke wo minor matters ma unkindly behave ker sakti hai.

Ye especially women ke liay case hai kuin ke wo bohat sensitive hoti han aur unpleasant events pe critically react kerti hai as compared to men.

Wo woman jo hardship experience kerti hai uss ko comfort ki zarorat hoti hai.mard uss ko comfort day sakta hai kuin ke wo uss ka partner hai aur wo jis per wo trust kerti hai. 

Dear sir! Jab aap apni wife ko distress ya anger ki state ma payain tu us ski situation ko sumajhnay ki koshish kerain.ager aap ghar ma enter hon aur wo aap ko salute na keray tu aap ussay salaam bolain.ye aap ko belittle nahi honay day ga.uss ke saath smiling face ke saath bat kerain.harshness ko avoid kerain.uss ko housework ma help kerain.carefull rahain aur ussay offend kernay ki koshish mat kerain.uss ko tease mat kerain.ager wo baat kernay ke mood ma nahi tu uss ko akela chor dain.ye mat bolain ke "tumharay saath problem kya hai?"

Ager wo aap se baat kerna chahay tu uss ko sunain aur uss se humdardi kerain.uss ko ye show kerain ke aap us ski problems ma uss se zyada concerned han.uss ko ijazat dain ke wo apnay gham aur dukh ka aap per izhar keray.phir aik kind father ki tara ya phir humdard husband ki tara uss ke problem ka solution find kernay ma us ski help kerain.uss ko encourage kerain ke wo patient se qaam lay.wisdom aur logic se uss ko ye realize kerayain ke us ski problems minor han.uss ke character ko strength dain aur us ski help kerain us ski annoyance ki cause ko overcome kernay ke liay. 

Saber se qaam lain aur apni logic ke motabik uss ko treat kerain.uss ko yaqeenan aap ki help useful lagay gi aur life jakd se aap dono ke liay normal ho jaye gi. 

Doseri teruf aap ki wrong approach uss ko mazeed distress ker sakti hai aur aap ko bhi suffer kerna ho ga aur eventually ye major row ma convert ho jaye ga jis se aap dono ko suffer kerna parhay ga..

Sooth baji