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needo |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Apr, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 68 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd May 2007, 11:31pm |
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 I Don't Want To Merry With My Lover
I fell in love 4 years ago with a girl(my first and only love in life),now problem is that I really love her but don't like her bcz she is illiterate and some other reasons too,thats why I cant marry to her(and this is the reason that I did't tell her about my feelings).I also don't want to do establish any kind of fake relations(u can understand) to her because of my religious believes. I am really in big problem that I don't have interest in any other girl my parents are asking me to merry soon but I don't have interest in any other girl , Plz suggest me that what I should do. I will be really thankful to members if they solve my problem. THANKS |
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Kali Zuban |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 29 Post: 1792 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd May 2007, 12:14am |
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 re: needo
muhabbat ka matlab yeh nahi keh jis se muhabbat ho os se shadi bhi ki jai. shadi sir os soorat mai lazmi hai jab ap ne muhabbat ka izhar kia hai aur shadi ka wadah kia hai. nez agar ghalti se sex bhi kar lia hai tu shadi lazmi karni chahia.
lekin agar ap ne dil hi dil mai muhabbat ki hai aur muhabbat ka izhar nahi kia hai tu ap par shadi karna lazim nahi. shadi sirf os se kare jis ke sath ap samjhte hai ke achchi tarah zindagi guzar sake ge. achchi tarah zindagi guzarne ka matlab ye hua keh wo na sirf ap ke lia qabil qabool ho balke waldain ke lia bhi qabil qabool ho.
ap samajhte hai ke zindagi ki dor mai yeh larki ap ka sath na de sake gi tu phir ap is se shadi na kare. lekin ap ko yeh bata de keh zindagi ki dor mai illiterate larki bhi bharpoor sath de sakti hai.
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hummy |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Apr, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 24 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd May 2007, 5:33am |
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j to ono sacha piyarkarna a te teno zaroor via karna chaida a odey nal otherwise merey khial nal to odey kolon sirf sex relation chanda si oh teno j mil gai ney ya oney inkar ker ta is lae to ono chad na chahna vae
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Bia 28:-* |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Jun, 2012 Topic: 6 Post: 64 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Jun 2012, 8:09am |
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Wada na toro Ap larkay yu e krte ha. Ap ko pyar krne se pehle sochna chahye tha. I thnk ap ko us se shadi krni chahye.n ap agr qualified ha to faida uthaye n pyar se usay apne jesa bna le.lazmi nai k us k pas dgre ho. Ache soch n smjh bht hti ha. |
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Bia 28:-* |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Jun, 2012 Topic: 6 Post: 64 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Jun 2012, 8:27am |
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I have faced I have faced the same scenerio.my lover was civil enginer frm uet. Bht pyara n bht layek tha. Hm ph pe bt krte thy.bht shaista n tamez k dairay me rhta tha. Parhne ka shok,cooking ka shok.gr e rhta tha. Hm phr ik br mile.to wo mere trf nazar ut4ga k nai daik ra tha.us ki ankho me sharam daik k mjy bht asha lga. Bht mazhabi tha.hm aksar discus krte thy mazhab. Parhai me bht help krta tha. I was doing graduatin in mas comunicatin. N usi ki wja se uni me meri 2nd positin ai.then i got admisn in msc in pu. Us ne mjy kaha k gold medal lena ha ab.mjy hmesha ap khta tha.bht bht pyar krta tha.meri care, parwa. Mere dad ne meri shadi kahe fix ki.us ne gr bt ki.magr us k dad khte k pehle tm puray setle ho jao. Wo ph pe bht roya. Hm ne decid kia k istkhara krte ha.agr thek aya to gr me bt kre ge.us ne khawb me daika k us ki family lar rai ha.mene khawb e nai daika.he told me k khawb na anay ka mtlb b ye ha k istkhara thek nai. Hm ne phr b gr me bt kr li.mera rishta tot gya. Us k bd hm phr khush. Us ne job start kr di. Phr he said me karache me apni cmpany kholu ga. Wo waha gya. 20 din bd aya. Hm mile pura din sath rahy.nxt day wo gr me ra. Us k nxt day wo meri uni aya lunch le k.nxt day mjy msg aya k acidnt do gya. Ik bike pe larka tha.wo us ki car se takraya. He told me k rescue wale hosp le gye.waha us larkay ki death ho gai. Is ko jail hui. 2 din tk koi rabta na hwa. I called his dad. Wo khte me ap ko janta e nai.unhe acidnt ka pta e nai tha. Sham me us ka msg a gya k u told dad? N mjy kaha k subha e frnd k dad ne bail krai ha. Dad ne sb frnds ko cl kr k pocha mere bray me.mene kaha tha k me isb ja ra hu.ap ne bta k mamla bigar dia. Us k bd he told k court me case gya ha.2 crore fine daina ha. Hm apna gr wgera sb sale kr rye.i offerd hm my acount. He refused. Us k bd me ph krti msg krti no respnce.sb khte ha k jhot bola ha us ne. Mjy ik kariya sahiba ne btaya k agr istkhara kro n khawb na aye to istkhare ka tarika thek nai tha. I cnt undrstand k pehle wala sb jhot tha ya bd wala.n ik dm usay hwa kya.us me jo sharm mjy dikhti ti kya wo jhot ti?me us k bd bht bht roti rahe.bht roi.bht distrb rai. I dnt knw y boys do dis. |
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Bia 28:-* |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Jun, 2012 Topic: 6 Post: 64 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Jun 2012, 8:31am |
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I have faced I have faced the same scenerio.my lover was civil enginer frm uet. Bht pyara n bht layek tha. Hm ph pe bt krte thy.bht shaista n tamez k dairay me rhta tha. Parhne ka shok,cooking ka shok.gr e rhta tha. Hm phr ik br mile.to wo mere trf nazar ut4ga k nai daik ra tha.us ki ankho me sharam daik k mjy bht asha lga. Bht mazhabi tha.hm aksar discus krte thy mazhab. Parhai me bht help krta tha. I was doing graduatin in mas comunicatin. N usi ki wja se uni me meri 2nd positin ai.then i got admisn in msc in pu. Us ne mjy kaha k gold medal lena ha ab.mjy hmesha ap khta tha.bht bht pyar krta tha.meri care, parwa. Mere dad ne meri shadi kahe fix ki.us ne gr bt ki.magr us k dad khte k pehle tm puray setle ho jao. Wo ph pe bht roya. Hm ne decid kia k istkhara krte ha.agr thek aya to gr me bt kre ge.us ne khawb me daika k us ki family lar rai ha.mene khawb e nai daika.he told me k khawb na anay ka mtlb b ye ha k istkhara thek nai. Hm ne phr b gr me bt kr li.mera rishta tot gya. Us k bd hm phr khush. Us ne job start kr di. Phr he said me karache me apni cmpany kholu ga. Wo waha gya. 20 din bd aya. Hm mile pura din sath rahy.nxt day wo gr me ra. Us k nxt day wo meri uni aya lunch le k.nxt day mjy msg aya k acidnt do gya. Ik bike pe larka tha.wo us ki car se takraya. He told me k rescue wale hosp le gye.waha us larkay ki death ho gai. Is ko jail hui. 2 din tk koi rabta na hwa. I called his dad. Wo khte me ap ko janta e nai.unhe acidnt ka pta e nai tha. Sham me us ka msg a gya k u told dad? N mjy kaha k subha e frnd k dad ne bail krai ha. Dad ne sb frnds ko cl kr k pocha mere bray me.mene kaha tha k me isb ja ra hu.ap ne bta k mamla bigar dia. Us k bd he told k court me case gya ha.2 crore fine daina ha. Hm apna gr wgera sb sale kr rye.i offerd hm my acount. He refused. Us k bd me ph krti msg krti no respnce.sb khte ha k jhot bola ha us ne. Mjy ik kariya sahiba ne btaya k agr istkhara kro n khawb na aye to istkhare ka tarika thek nai tha. I cnt undrstand k pehle wala sb jhot tha ya bd wala.n ik dm usay hwa kya.us me jo sharm mjy dikhti ti kya wo jhot ti?me us k bd bht bht roti rahe.bht roi.bht distrb rai. I dnt knw y boys do dis. |
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Bia 28:-* |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Jun, 2012 Topic: 6 Post: 64 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Jun 2012, 8:32am |
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I have faced I have faced the same scenerio.my lover was civil enginer frm uet. Bht pyara n bht layek tha. Hm ph pe bt krte thy.bht shaista n tamez k dairay me rhta tha. Parhne ka shok,cooking ka shok.gr e rhta tha. Hm phr ik br mile.to wo mere trf nazar ut4ga k nai daik ra tha.us ki ankho me sharam daik k mjy bht asha lga. Bht mazhabi tha.hm aksar discus krte thy mazhab. Parhai me bht help krta tha. I was doing graduatin in mas comunicatin. N usi ki wja se uni me meri 2nd positin ai.then i got admisn in msc in pu. Us ne mjy kaha k gold medal lena ha ab.mjy hmesha ap khta tha.bht bht pyar krta tha.meri care, parwa. Mere dad ne meri shadi kahe fix ki.us ne gr bt ki.magr us k dad khte k pehle tm puray setle ho jao. Wo ph pe bht roya. Hm ne decid kia k istkhara krte ha.agr thek aya to gr me bt kre ge.us ne khawb me daika k us ki family lar rai ha.mene khawb e nai daika.he told me k khawb na anay ka mtlb b ye ha k istkhara thek nai. Hm ne phr b gr me bt kr li.mera rishta tot gya. Us k bd hm phr khush. Us ne job start kr di. Phr he said me karache me apni cmpany kholu ga. Wo waha gya. 20 din bd aya. Hm mile pura din sath rahy.nxt day wo gr me ra. Us k nxt day wo meri uni aya lunch le k.nxt day mjy msg aya k acidnt do gya. Ik bike pe larka tha.wo us ki car se takraya. He told me k rescue wale hosp le gye.waha us larkay ki death ho gai. Is ko jail hui. 2 din tk koi rabta na hwa. I called his dad. Wo khte me ap ko janta e nai.unhe acidnt ka pta e nai tha. Sham me us ka msg a gya k u told dad? N mjy kaha k subha e frnd k dad ne bail krai ha. Dad ne sb frnds ko cl kr k pocha mere bray me.mene kaha tha k me isb ja ra hu.ap ne bta k mamla bigar dia. Us k bd he told k court me case gya ha.2 crore fine daina ha. Hm apna gr wgera sb sale kr rye.i offerd hm my acount. He refused. Us k bd me ph krti msg krti no respnce.sb khte ha k jhot bola ha us ne. Mjy ik kariya sahiba ne btaya k agr istkhara kro n khawb na aye to istkhare ka tarika thek nai tha. I cnt undrstand k pehle wala sb jhot tha ya bd wala.n ik dm usay hwa kya.us me jo sharm mjy dikhti ti kya wo jhot ti?me us k bd bht bht roti rahe.bht roi.bht distrb rai. I dnt knw y boys do dis. |
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