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Dear, Sir Seriously.
As you mentioned in your post that only your original thoughts is to be post here, so I am writing now.
In my last post to you, I mentioned about my school of thought very clearly with the names of all groups of people who paractic the same believe what I do. With the reference of that group of people
" main kuch apney bariy mein thoori se wazaht kar doon ta kay aap meri baat ko meri shaksiat kay hawaly say aasani say samajh saken, merey maktab-e- fikar kay log allahtala ki rah main larna or jan dena farze-e- eene samajhtay hein, merey maktab-e-fikar ka yey pukhta aqeeda hay kh jo shaks is khawahish ya irradey key baghair mar jay, yani " allahtala ki rah main larney ke khawahis " to woh nifaq pay mara.
Merey maktab-e-fikar kay log allahtala ki rah main larney ke dooran islam key dushman or musalmano key dushman ko zindah pakarney ki soorat main gooli say nahi martey balkay "zibah" karna faraz samajhtey hain, keyon kay aisa kerna merey nabi ka hokum hay. (aap ko yaqinan meri shaksiat aur zehniat ka andazah ho gaya ho ga)"
In my personnel life no body can imagine about my that thoughts. I am a very polite and gentle person. I can not see the child and women abusing in the movies even. I see the parents beating their child, and I amaze that how these people do this things. If some say to me that, "Mr. Nadeem here is a dog, and this is a club, you hit this club on the dog's leg, and you will be reward with a great amount." Believe me Mr. serious that I can't do this. Now, you can have idea about my thoughts regarding beating a woman and especially to WIFE.
The reference you gave for a Holly AIAT is translated correctly, But before discussion on that AIAT, we should understand some basics of learning the Holly Quran. Keep in your mind that Holly Quran is not a flat book of some stories. Holly Quran is a very comprehensive manual of MANKIND. In the Holly Quran there are many ways of guidance of Muslims, for example; the teaching way of Quran is to transfer: Information, instruction, suggestions, options and orderes.
In the cited Holly AIAT, Allah Subhanaho Tala is giving the options for different kind of men and women as per their tests. But keep in your head that, these options are not order to men, but as an option if they see that the problem can solve.
The word written in the Holly AIAT is " Wad rib Hunna " don't means beating for hurting, but for showing the unhappiness or expression of angriness. This has also been mentioned that never hit on the face of animal even. So the cheeky light blow should be under the neck or shoulders.
Actually word (beating) of English language is very very negative, this word covers all kind of torture. and all extent of hurt-ness, even up to death. But the Holly Quran is advising to spouse, so you can imagine that what kind of this beating can be. In my opinion:
An Example of beating:
Two very close friend of same age often express their angriness with light hit to each other, or two brother and sister often quarrel and hit to each other for expression of unhappiness, but after a shot fight they mix again. Since I am unmarried person and may not understand the husband and wife relationship. So, my opinion may be wrong, but to be very frank I personally can not afford this kind of treatment with women, because I think that fear of bashing can only horrify the slaves, but not to any free or independent persons, and some time you can not correct your own chilled. But I have very firm believe that what ever written in the Holly Quran is in favor MANKIND. |
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