Choice Of Wife: Good Looking Or Good Character

Aap k Mutabik....Ladki khoob soorat honi chayee ya Khoob seerat....

MERY MUTABIK......Jo girl khoob seerat ho gi wo khoob surat bhi ho gi agr shakal sy na sahi..Dil sy to khoob surat hi ho gii.

Likin jo ladki Khoob soorat ho gi zaroori nhi k woo khoob seerat ho....Shakal khobsurat kuch maini nhi rkta Dil khoob surat hona chayee

Rgds

kharab seerat larki se shadi karni chahia

soorat change nahi hoti. jabke seerat change ho sakti hai. is lia larki ko khoobsoorat hona chahia. agar seerat theek nahi hai tu koi bat nahi. ose naseehat kar ke os ka seerat theek karo. kisi kharab seerat wali larki ka seerat theek karna bare sawab ka kam hai.

mera kim84 ko mashwarah hai keh aik khoobsoorat lekin badseerat larki se shadi kare. shadi ke baad badseerat ki seerat ko naseehat se khoobseerat mai tabdeel kar de.  is ka matlab yeh hua ke badseerat larki se shadi karna sawab ka kam hai.

bewaqoof

salam 2 all

 sawab ka kaam to mairay khayal main badsoorat larki say shadi karna ho ga bcz khobsurat larki say to dosara banda shadi k liye tayar ho jaaey ga

aur jahan tak baat hay seerat ki to jo cheez mairay khayal main hamaray blood main shamil ho usko chang karna bohat mushkil hay

n i dnt agree k shakal chang nai hoti daikhain agar kkhuda na khawasta kisi larki ki shakal bigar jaey maslan acid girnay say ya koi hadsa honay say to phir?

aur aik bad seerat bad mizaj larki agara bohat khubsurat bhi ho ge to uskay sath zindagi guzarna bohat mushkil ho ga

 wot do fink?????? 

 n kim84

 shadi k liye sirf khoobsorati nai daikhi jati aik banday say ap shadi ka faisla tab he kartay hain jab apko uski koi baat bohat achi lagti hay wo uski shakal ho sakti hay uski koi achi adat ho sakti hay is liye shadi sirf in do cheezoon ko daikh kar nai ki jati

Nice Change!

interesting reply from bewakoof, nice change. waisay jis sense mai ap ye bat kar rahy ho kuchh had tak theek hai, kim84 u must think about it.

welcome back Mrs. Ahmad, apnay blood ki bohat achi bat ki hai, i agree to u. aik achi orat ghar ko sanwaar sakti hai or aik buri orat ghar ko barbaad kar sakti hai.
i think k best couple wo ho sakta hai jis mai understanding, compromise or aik dosray k liye respect ho.

Re: Mrs Ahmed

kim 84

agree

Mery Mutabiq!

Dostooo.....Ham ko kesy pata lagy ga k woo naik hi...

Rgds

Achi Larki For Shadi!

khangi ki bat bilkul sahi hai or kim84 bohat acha question raise kia apnay, is forum par kuch topics read kar k to lagta hai k bohat mushkil hai ye pata lagana k kon naik hai or kon nai.
har wo insan naik hai jiska rujhaan naiki k kaamo mai hai. or jo gunah kar k afsos karta hai, kisi ka dil nahi dukhata, wo girl vulgar fashion na karti ho jisay dekh kar sexual feelings arouse ho jaein, sab say bari baat k wo namaz parhti ho. "namaz buraee or behayaee k kaamo say rokti hai".
dolat ka bari easily pata chal jaeyga. khubsurti ka mayaar har aik ka alag hota hai, like laila kaali thi lekin majnu k liye dunia ki haseen tareen larki. so it depends.

naik aurat ki peshani par naik likha hota hai

Kim84 ne sawal kia hai keh yeh kaise pata chale ga keh larki naik hai ya nahi. tu is ka bahut hi asan jawab hai.

• naik larki ki shanakhti card par bold letter mai naik likha hota hai
• naik larki se pooche ke mohtarma ap naik hai ya badmash; agar larki naik hogi tu kahe gi keh mai tu aik naik larki hoo
• ap larki ki amma se pooche keh kia ap ki beti naik hai. agar beti naik hui tu amma jan kahe gi keh meri beti naik hai
• ap larki ke peshani par ghor se dekhe ap ko Arabic mai Naik likha hua mile ga. agar likha hua na mile tu samajh le keh larki naik nahi hai. waise ajkal naik larkia bahut hi kam hai. is lia beshumar larkio ki peshani dekhni pare gi. tab ja kar aik larki ki peshani par naik likha hua nazar aye ga. peshani ko 6 inch ke fasle se dekhne se naik likha hua clear nazar ata hai.

Mery Mutabiq!

Bewaqoof tum itny bewaqoof nhi kitny lagtay ho..tum ny to mri mushkil hi solve kr deee....go k tumhary ans's read krty wakt mera dehan khi aur tha actually kya hi na my her reply my Allah aur us k nabi(PBUH) k mutabik sochta ho...

Tumhary post k doran hi mjy ISTIKHARAY ka khyal aya....

To kya khyal hi dostooo ISTIKHARA kr k apni apni wife's k baray my Allah sy mashwara kry mry mutabik is sy acha mashwara koi na ho ga.

Rgds

Your Brother

jhoot bolne wala aankh mila kar bat nahi karsakta

mai ne jo tareeqa bataya woh bazahir mazaq lagta hai lekin haqeeqat yeh hai keh jab ap kisi larki aur os ki mother ki aankho mai aankhen dal kar pooche ge keh naik hai ya nahi tu jawab yahi aye ga ke naik.

lekin agar waqi naik hogi tu woh bhi ap ki ankho mai ankhai dal kar kahe gi. agar jhoot bol rahi ho gi tu nazrai chura kar kah rahi hogi. isi tarah naik logo ki peshani par aik khas chamak hoti hai jo sab ko nazar aati hai. jab keh badkar logo ki peshani par phitkar baras rahi hoti hai. jise dekh kar hi ap bata sakte hai keh yeh naik nahi hai.

isi tarah kharab logo ko tu kuch log nai aur kuch log kharab kahte hai lekin naik logo ko har koi naik hi kahta hai. jis ke lia mai ne shanakhti card wali bat kahi hai keh os ke card par bold letter mai naik likha hoga.

Wah Bewaqoof

Think before you Speak!

agree with kim84 :Jesa naam ---Wesa kaam"
pehli bat to ye k koi achi larki kisi gair mard ki ankho mai ankhain dal kar bat nahi karay gi. agar tum galti say kisi achi larki ya uski ma ki ankho ma ankhain dal kar kaho gay k kia tumhari larki naik hai to ho sakta hai k wo larki or ma tumhe dhakay day kar bahir nikal dain..

then u said about badkar or phatkar, to ho sakta hai aik insan ko dosra insan acha na lagay, khubsurti k havalay say,, to wo dekh kar ye samjhay k ye badkar hai is par to phatkar pari hui hai, or kyonky ye muje khoobsurat nahi lag raha.. lekin ho sakta hai wohi insan Allah k liye bohat mehboob ho, ye bi ho sakta hai k koi insan pehlay acha na tha, bad mai bohat naik ho gaya or Allah nay maf kar dia , lekin ap usey dekh kar samajh lain k ye badkar hai,,, to in Return ap ko jo Gunah milay ga ya apkay is mashwaray par amal kar k koi kisi ko badkar samajh leta hai or iskay badlay mai gunah milta hai to uski is galti ka zimadar kon hai ?? yes u mr. bewakoof ..

naik logo ko har koi naik nahi kehta,, kuchh naik log apni naiki k jurm mai bohat bari bari museebaton mai paray huey hain., kuchh par jhootay ilzam lag jatay hain or wo badnaam ho jatay hain or Allah k siva har koi unko bura hi samajhta hai... jail mai hazaro log aisa hain jo bina kisi jurm k jailo mai band paray hain isi tara bohat si examples hain, explore yourself.

masha-allah ap bhi agree karte hai

Khoob seerat preffered

RE shadi k liye sahi intakhaab

salam to all members

kehte hain shadi kerna bhi ek JOA hay yani aap jab tak shadi k baad saath na rahain aap ko maloom nahi ho sakta k doosra banda kis tarah ka hay is liye is mamle ko Allah pe chour dena chaheyye aur dua kerni chaheyye k Allah hum ko naik bivi de

jitna hum kuch kar sakte hain tu ye k  jis k refrence se rishta ho raha hay us se un loogon k kisi qareebi family ka pooch k kisi 3rd person se pochwa liya jaye k kesay hain loog is main bhi ek problem hai ager wo family un kee khair khaoh hoi tu tareef ker de gee aur against hoi tu beja burai bhi ker sakti hay

lekin ye k muhallay k 2 , 4 acchay gharoon se larke ya larki k baray main poochwa sakte hain

ager koi Allah na karay ziyada badnaam hota /hoti hay tu pata chal jata hay baqi Allah janta hay hum kisi k baray na tu us ka MAATHA dekh k andaza laga sakte hain aur na hee us se dirct pooch sakte hain k aap naik aur bad

aur faisee ye "t" aur "f" k achakkar ye hai k ye aksar loogon ne  ANGREZ  k bolne k lejay  ko  type kerna shorw ker diya hai wo "think "bolte hain tu samajh aata hay" fink" aur have bolte tu samajh aata" ev "tu baaz loogon ko pasand aata hay shayad buhat tu wo chatting main ye likhne main use kerne lagte hain kion k jitni english acchi kar lo aap angrez lab o lehjay main bol tu nahi sakte tu likh hee letay hain(ye main kisi kee insult k liye nahi likha  bata raha hoon k ye f   aur fink kia hay don't mind it kion k chatting ,main kafi loogon ko is tarah likhte hoye dekha hay ) 

Khoob-Serat YA Khoob-Surat

Jore Asmanoun per bante hein

Khoob-Serat YA Khoob-Surat

Naik Mardoun Ke Liye Naik Biwian Aur Bure Mardoun ke liye Bure biwian

faisee,bewaqoof n all

salam 2 all

  sab say pehlay to faisee im sorie apnay kaha k main F itna use kyo karti hoon maira acsnt british hay bt so sorie agar mairi waja say kisi ko mairi baat samjhny main mushkil hoi vl try my best k poora word likhoon n fink meanz THINK newayz sorie again

   n i dnt rememba kis nay apni post main yeh likha tha k agar parents larki pasand karain jaisa k usualy hamari society main hota hay to kaisay pata chalay ga bout wife

 to maira khayal hay jab ap Allah k baad apnay parents pay trust kartay hain to itminan rakhain parents kabhi bhi apny bachoon k liye galat faisla nai kartay har maa ki yehi khwaish hoti hay k uski daughtr in law har lehaz say achi ho to wo soch samjh kar he larki chooz karain gay yahan par to sawal he nai uthta kisi tension ka

jab parents pay trust hay to unki choic par bhi trust hona chahiye

   aur hamaisha achay ki umeed rakhni chahiye

 aur bewaqoof jo baat apny ki mujay kafi heerangi hui k ap aisi baat kaisay kar saktay ho ksharif aur sachi larki ankhain mila kar baat karti hay

hum pakistan main rehtay hain aur yahan par Allah k fazal say sharam khatam nai hui to yeh baat apki galat hay k jo larki ankh mila kar baat karay wo sharif ho ge

      God bless u all

 thnx