scorpioasa agar ap muslims hain to ye yad rkhein k saas ki khidmat krna islami ni ikhlaqi frz sa samjhy.... bcz baron ki tazem khdmat krny sy hamari izat ni ghati.... ap kbi b apny mathay py baal ni lana na koi maeeil ly k ana saas k bary mein.. ap ka kirdaar serat aesi ho ... k kal ko khud ap ko apny amal py tajub na ho k ikhlaqan ap ny wrng kiya.... baki apni taraf sy ikhlas krn / naiki krn baki ALLAH py chor dain us ki lathi by awaz hy ... kbi b saas k liye bura na chahna... Ap ALLAH sy dua krn un k liye.... un ki hidayat k liye.... baki maaal mata hasab o nasab, surat ki base py shadi krna Muslims ki talemaat mein ni.... Muslims to deen dari dekhty hain... Serat dekhty hain..... ap ki serat aesi ho k ap k husband n sab rltve koi b ap k bary mein bura image na banae.... Surat k kami .... etc... ko achi serat pura kr skti hy.... but serat ki kami ko achi surat kbi ni pura kr skti.... surat/ maal mata ka kiya bharosa aaj hy kal na ho... koi hadsaat e itifakiya ho jae... to.... bt serat, kirdaar, ikhlaaq to apny sath hi hy..... na... aesi surat wali b hain jin sy sahdi krny ka mksd surat thi bt ksi hadsy / bemari ki wjha sy surat ni rahi to ab who unseat b ni rahi un mein... aesi b hain jin sy shadi ka mksd just maal o maata tha afsos who ankhon mein tab chubny lagi fmly k jab k un k prnts ka maal o maata na raha.... Mean to say k asal ap ki serat, kirdar, ikhlaq hy,,, agr ye bhtr hoon to ap sab k dil jeet sakti hain.... n fatha hamesha sach, haq ki hoti hy .... apny har kam mein ikhlas rakhein tama just ALLAH sy..... apny husband ki baat ko sab py mukadam rkhna.... n ap Quran ki eik ayat b hy ap woh prha krn....... n nmz dua azkaar ki pabandi krn.... apni naiki ko barbaad na kr dena gusa mein a k... kidhr kuch keh na dain... kabhi zehar ka piyala sharbat samjh k pena prta hy.... mhtrma.... Mazlllom ki ALLAH sunata hy us ki dua mein koi hijab ni hota..... sabar sy kaam lena.... wt abt ur husbnd relation with u....n husbnd ap k hoty kahan hain.... wts his age
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