Group: Members Joined: 04th Mar, 2011 Topic: 11 Post: 1228 Age:
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Posted on:6th Sep 2011, 7:04pm
Zoya Ali:
The active ingredient in mosquito repellants is a chemical called DEET. Exposure to DEET on broken skin or the inside surfaces ( like vagina) may cause some irritation or burning. But if you did not insert your finger in the vagina and just did the masturbation externally then there should be no harm ( even if you did insert your finger but didn't feel any burning etc as you said, then you should be OK).
I don't think you have caused any physical harm to your system, but being laden with guilt, as you may recall from our previous conversations, predisposes to depression.
salam,dr. how are u?thnx alotzzzzzzzzzzzz for all ur rplies,,,,simply wana to ask something,shayad aapko lagay k mein aik hi question bar bar pochti hun,but i seriously cant tell u me kitni disturb hun mentally,as u knw very well that i have left the sin of masturbation but very very very unfortunately recently i was doing some work on my laptop nd was searching songs videos on youtube and a video related to sex comes on side nd i by mistake or by fault click on that and thn start watching such videos with much curiosity altough kindly trust me i dont watch such sort of dust,watching such videos i cnt get control over myself and again masturbate after a long time,,,,even when i got that lust i keep on doing again and again in extreme guilt nd depression,,,,,,,for abt 30 mins......and agin feel that abdominal pain,,,,,and now again tnzzzzz abot myself,,,,about my sexual and reproductive ability.....i jst do it externally....kindly kindly kindly....guide me...i promise u i wont watch such dirt agin and i 'll try my level best not to do this shameful act again.....plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
kindly understand my psychy.....guide me,help me.....i want ur help as u r a dr.....tell me clearly...kindly trust me i really wana get rid of this sin.....cz u dnt knw jb se ye act meri life mai aya hay,,,,,me kitni disturb hun,i cant even tell u,help me,plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....u r a nice person,i hope u wont misunderstand me.....
Group: Members Joined: 04th Mar, 2011 Topic: 11 Post: 1228 Age:
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Posted on:21st Oct 2011, 12:51am
Zoya Ali:
Walaikum Salam,
You are welcome.
We are all humans and we all make mistakes. What you did was wrong, no doubt, but the good thing is that you regret your sin and vow not to do it again.
Loading your system with excessive guilt and doubt is not going to help you. The symptoms that you described do not point towards anything serious, but your excessive concern about those symptoms is not beneficial for your psyche. Something that may help you in overcoming these negative intrusive thoughts is to work on replacing these thoughts with more positive and constructive thoughts.
thnx dr. but hw will u define the situation that whenevr i think something sexual r listen abt or wacth even the closeness of two sexually opposite people.....a feeling like a wave arose in me nd somethimes or mostly followed by abdominal pain that makes me tnz actually most of the time i have constipation problem so i sometimes intermix the two pains....like i cnt differenciate...is it all normal?as the pain vanishes after sometime.
kindlyyyyyyyy.....satisfy me with ur true answer,as u always do.
Group: Members Joined: 04th Mar, 2011 Topic: 11 Post: 1228 Age:
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Posted on:2nd Nov 2011, 11:16pm
Zoya Ali:
Your symptoms, as I have mentioned to you before as well, are entirely normal. However, because of your excessive anxiety, you tend to misinterpret your symptoms and start to believe that your symptoms suggest something rather serious. This is called catastrophic thinking, and this way of thinking is not very healthy. As I have mentioned to you before, our thoughts impact our feelings. Positive and realistic thoughts bring out feelings of harmony, and negative, catastrophic thoughts bring out feelings of worries and anxiety. Try to replace your negative thoughts with more appropriate and positive thoughts, and you would start feeling better immediately.
salam,hw r u dr. i need another suggestion of urs....
actually i was feeling burning in urination for more thn one week but i ws jst ignoring it nd ws drinking more water to avoid that burning...as it often happens tht whn i drink plenty of water it just goes away but this time even after drinking much water i was feeling burning smtimes bfr and smtimes aftr urination and also during urination in almost every attempt of urination,,,,2 dys before i feel much pain in my lower abdomin,finally i consult a doctor(general physician),he asks for a urine test nd finally found it as urinary tract infection...in my report every thng was normal except some Ep. cells whoes normal range is 0-10 nd mine was 15-20......he prescribe me sm medicines nd said u ll be oaky within 5 days,InshaAllah....i ask him to gv sm medicine as i ws feeling much abdominal pain,he said u ll have pain for 2 days thn it will be ok....its the 1 nd half day,i have taken three doses of medicine.....i didnt feel burning since i take the 1st dose of medicine but continously frm the day i feel abdominal pain till now m having continously pain in abdomin ,,,,,,smtimes mild but smtimes much,,,like ryt nw m feeling much pain.......
i wana ask why m having this pain?
nd is the infection mild or much?
aftr taking med i ll be perfectly alryt naa?
is UTI dangerous?
does it have any realtion with our reproductive sys?
why do UTI happens?
kindlyyyy.....answer me hnstly nd humbly....as u always do....
i hope u nw better understand ma psychy of askin such questionzzz....as u better knw ma history.....
i want u to satisfy me by ur fair nd humblly gvn answers,,,,
Group: Members Joined: 04th Mar, 2011 Topic: 11 Post: 1228 Age:
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Posted on:3rd Dec 2011, 11:03pm
Zoya Ali:
Walaikum Salam,
I'm fine thanks, how about you?
UTI is very frequent in young women, and is very easily treated with antibiotics.
You mentioned that your urine showed only increased epithelial cells, generally with UTI, urine would show increased bacteria, increased WBC and nitrite positive as well.
It seems like you are getting atleast some benefit from the medication that you are currently taking, that's good. Keep taking it as the doctor recommended.
Regarding abdominal pain, where exactly is the pain?
As I mentioned above most UTIs are very easily treatable and do not cause any problems. However, as you may remember from my previous replies, you have a tendency to over catastrophize ( thinking about the worst possible scenario in any given situation), and because of this you are predisposed to getting very anxious ( I'm not blaming you but just trying to help you understand how your thoughts are causing you to feel overly anxious).
A more beneficial way of thinking would be to assess any situation with a more realistic thought process, thinking about what if someone else had the same physical problem (like UTI etc), and if they asked you for advice what advise would you give them, and then give yourself the same advice that you would give them. We tend to catastrophize more when we ourselves are facing a problem and generally have a more realistic view of things when someone else is facing the same problem.
I hope you understand what I just explained to you, and I hope you feel better.
salam main bht upset hun i have read all topc bt us main mry problem ka solution ni hay sb apni finger say krtay bt mainy aisa khuch b ni kia hua mgr mjy vagina main khuch feel hota tha just py applying pressure on it.agr main ab na b krun tb b neend main kbi kbi khud say ho jata hay r meri ankh khul jaty hay plz tell me ye sb kia hay/
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Zoya Ali:
zoya ali
sameee prbbb :(