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khansana |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Dec, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Dec 2012, 7:05pm |
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 Afraid of pain
Hello, I am 21 years old and i am getting married after a month. I am really very much afraid of the first sexual intercourse. I know it's painful because the hymen is ruptured and the vaginal walls stretch. Can anyone please suggest me any ways to manage the pain?Any better position for me or whatever. I have very little tolerance for pain and i don't want to shout or cry or act foolishly infront of him. I am not sure how to be comfortable with him, stopping him too also sounds really bad to me. I will really appreciate answers from women who have experienced this thing. |
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alirajput |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Mar, 2012 Topic: 5 Post: 539 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Dec 2012, 8:11pm |
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Best way is to act
Natural, honest, without any acting. |
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Einstein |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jul, 2012 Topic: 13 Post: 489 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2012, 1:13am |
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Alirajput What do you mean by 'act'?i think you are suggesting to cooperate with husband.
Mairy khial main agar foreplay sahi tarha kia jai to pain bohat kum hoti hai |
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khansana |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Dec, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2012, 1:47pm |
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alirajput I don't want to fake it either :) And i do want to co operate that is why i have come up with this question... |
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Einstein |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jul, 2012 Topic: 13 Post: 489 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2012, 1:51pm |
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Dear khansana If you did'nt cooperated with your husband to phir woh aap sai nafrat kernai lagain gai |
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khansana |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Dec, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2012, 2:10pm |
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ali8765 Aray??? I said i want to co operate. Mene kab kaha k i dont want to??? |
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Duwa07 |
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2012, 2:22pm |
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Khan sana Khan sana, pain ka I think itna masla nahi hoga, masla kapry otaarny ka hy ya ya kiasy hoga, pain tu tora sa hoga wo berdasht ho jay ga, lakin nangi hona koch mushkil lag raha hy, ap ka kiay khayal hay?
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Duwa07 |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Dec, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 36 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2012, 2:26pm |
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oiling wase mainy ik friend se souna ta k agar first time sex kerty waqat penis or vagina k oiling ki jay tu itna dard nahi hota phir, Khansana ap yahee tareeqa apna k dekh loo , phir humein batna humhein bi help mil jay ga |
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khansana |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Dec, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2012, 2:30pm |
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Duwa07 Dekha jaye tou mushkil tou waki it is but that will happen some how, matlab all you have to do is sit quietly and let him do whatever he is doing, i know i know bht shyness feel hoti hai soch k bhi but somehow you can control it leken agar pain hoga tou its natural k u will stop him, jo bht ghalat baat hojayegi :/
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myrizvi |
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| Posted on:28th Dec 2012, 5:03am |
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khansana being a medical student u shud realise k yeh aik natural activity hai. rozanah saiNkRouN nahi balkay hazarouN laRkiyaaN iss 1st night phase say hansi khushi guzar jaati haiN... aisa rare hi hota hai k kissi laRki ko etna pain ho k woh apnay husband ko stop karna paray.iss baray main zaroorat say zeyadah nahi sochna chahiyeh. Allah nay kissi ki istetaa'at say baRh kar oss par koi mushkil nahi daalta. just Allah par bharosa karaiN... piyaar mohabbat mai to waisay hi real takleef bhi feel nahi hoti... jaisay zulekha yousuf AS k deedaar k piyaar hi maiN etni magan hogayee thi k apni finger apnay haathouN say knife say cut kar baiThi aur ossay takleef ka pata nah chalaa... jabkay knife say finger ko cut lagay to takleef to laazman hoti hai... husband -wife meeting Allah k hukm say hoti hai aur jab donouN aik doosray ko piyaar mohabbat ki nagaah say dekhtay haiN to donoun par Allah ki rahmat ka nazool hota hai... jismani aur zehni sakoon /enjoyment milta hai... aisay maiN bila wajah ki soni sonayee so called pain k baray maiN khauf zadah hona fazool aur ahmaqanah see baat hai.
Allah apko married life ki sachi khushiyaaN ataa karay aameen
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myrizvi |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 111 Post: 6482 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Dec 2012, 5:04am |
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khansana being a medical student u shud realise k yeh aik natural activity hai. rozanah saiNkRouN nahi balkay hazarouN laRkiyaaN iss 1st night phase say hansi khushi guzar jaati haiN... aisa rare hi hota hai k kissi laRki ko etna pain ho k woh apnay husband ko stop karna paray.iss baray main zaroorat say zeyadah nahi sochna chahiyeh. Allah nay kissi ki istetaa'at say baRh kar oss par koi mushkil nahi daalta. just Allah par bharosa karaiN... piyaar mohabbat mai to waisay hi real takleef bhi feel nahi hoti... jaisay zulekha yousuf AS k deedaar k piyaar hi maiN etni magan hogayee thi k apni finger apnay haathouN say knife say cut kar baiThi aur ossay takleef ka pata nah chalaa... jabkay knife say finger ko cut lagay to takleef to laazman hoti hai... husband -wife meeting Allah k hukm say hoti hai aur jab donouN aik doosray ko piyaar mohabbat ki nagaah say dekhtay haiN to donoun par Allah ki rahmat ka nazool hota hai... jismani aur zehni sakoon /enjoyment milta hai... aisay maiN bila wajah ki soni sonayee so called pain k baray maiN khauf zadah hona fazool aur ahmaqanah see baat hai.
Allah apko married life ki sachi khushiyaaN ataa karay aameen
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Duwa07 |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Dec, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 36 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Dec 2012, 1:26pm |
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khan sana cahloo ap try karo phir mujhy bi batna , ap ka experience, mera bi kam ajayga kisi din, wase oil zaror laga lena oss se maybe penis smoothly ander chala jay or dard na ho, try it then tell me, zaror batana |
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khansana |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Dec, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Dec 2012, 8:21pm |
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myrizvi You have got a very beautiful way of explaining things :) I got so relaxed after reading your post :) Thankyou so much. I just hope sab thek rahay. And thanks for all the good wishes.
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khansana |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Dec, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Dec 2012, 8:28pm |
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Duwa07 Sure i ll let you know but you abhi tou i havent experienced it either. And i dont know if can go with that oil thing or not because i cant ask him to use oil and i dont think i will carry an oil bottle in my purse :D Tou pata nahi kia halaat hon kia moka ho, and parlour mai hi tou i cant do the oiling warna mera pora bridal dress kharab hojayega and ghar akar i dont know pata nahi larki ko akele chance milta bhi hoga ya nahi.. Pata nahi there is so much to think about k kia hota hoga kia nahi..but dekha jayega jab ayega ......I just hope koi mera hairstyle khol day. lol :D |
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BismaFA |
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| Posted on:29th Dec 2012, 3:54am |
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KhanSana & Dua Tention ki koi baat nai hay... pahli baat kaa pain iss liyay mahssos ziada nai hoota kiyo ka forplay kaa baad vigaina lips swell ker jatay hain and open ho jatay hain and wet bhi jiss ka matlab hay ka you are ready.. or thora pain zaroor hota hay hymen rapture kaa lakin huby sath hota hay so no tension.. handle ho jata hay.. dont worry romance main itna ziada nai maloom perhta...
Dua kapron ka issue iss liyay nai hoota kiyo kaa.. light close hoti hay jiss ki wajah say female ko himat milti hay to do soo.. and kuch dinno ka baad ap use to ho jati hoo to light onn bhi ker sakti hoo jis main ap ko itni sharam nai ayay gee...
in both cases just coorporate and go with the flow and enjoy....
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Rehankkhan |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Jan, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Jan 2013, 5:54am |
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Hairstyle :D KhanSana, ye acha tareeka hai tum apny hairstyle bachany me uljhi rehna aur wo apna kam ker lyga ... dard ka pata nahi chalyga :D .... tm larkian bhi khub ho HAIRSTYLE :p |
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Rehankkhan |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Jan, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Jan 2013, 6:02am |
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Hairstyle :D KhanSana, ye acha tareeka hai tum apny hairstyle bachany me uljhi rehna aur wo apna kam ker lyga ... dard ka pata nahi chalyga :D .... tm larkian bhi khub ho HAIRSTYLE :p |
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Einstein |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jul, 2012 Topic: 13 Post: 489 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Jan 2013, 8:00am |
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Hairstyle Agar insan hais style hi thek kerta rahe to sex ko enjoy kaisy kare ga? |
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Einstein |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jul, 2012 Topic: 13 Post: 489 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Jan 2013, 8:01am |
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Hairstyle Agar insan hais style hi thek kerta rahe to sex ko enjoy kaisy kare ga? |
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heroo 70 |
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| Posted on:23rd Jan 2013, 12:27am |
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Qurbani Dunya may mzay aise nhe miltay kuch qurbani deni perti hay.han to pir kia ho thora drd bear kar kay mazay lanay me kia herj hay ap ko? |
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