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| Prince4 |
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| Posted on:3rd Apr 2010, 6:20pm |
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 How Could Be Maintain Best Relations With Fiancée ?
A-o-Ao Mera ap sb friends sy ek problem discuss krna chahta hn..mera engagment mere cozn sy hue thee lasts year...hmara relation bht lovly & friendly hai. kuch dinoo sy hm dono ek dsray sy naraz hian..Prob ye hai k ek din hm baat kr re thay( net py chatting) k us k sister k husbnd ke call ai ussay kisi kaam sy..mgy is baat py bht gussa aya k is tim us ke call kiun ai hai..kiun k us tim raat k 2bjnay walay thay..mgy pta chala k wo phly b aksar late nite call krta hai.. may ny is baat py apni feonci ko khub sunaii & sakhti sy mna kia k ussya mna kro ya may khud ussay call kr k mna krn ga.. She said wo meray bhai jaiasy hain & i dont think koi prob hone chahiay mgy.. mgy is baat py aur gussay aya & may ny bht baatin sunain ussay.. is bata py us ny mgy kha k "ap bht NARROW MINDED ho" Hm ab 1 week sy ek dsray sy baat ni kr re.. NOW U GUYS tell me plz...May galat hn ya wo??kya koi husbnd ye brdash kr skta hai k us ke wife ko late nite us k sister k husbnd ke call aye.. wo chahti hai may ussay manaoo ab k may ny ussay gussay may bata ke thee BUT ye kaam mgy krna chahiay ya ussay??? im sure k mere koi galti ni hai.... aur i kno k hmari society may is bata ko koi b pasand ni kray ga k KOI B us ke wife ko late nite call kray.. NOW U ALL BROTHERS & SISTERS HELP ME IN THIS TO SAVE MY RELATIONSHIP.....What should i do???
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| H/dr_Qasim |
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| Posted on:3rd Apr 2010, 7:49pm |
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prince4
ap munaa ni kurin apni .Mungatur ko he keh dayin k wo osy sukhti say muna kur day k osy es tura cal ni keya kury
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| Diplomate |
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| Posted on:3rd Apr 2010, 8:26pm |
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 prince4
aur i kno k hmari society may is bata ko koi b pasand ni kray ga k KOI B us ke wife ko late nite call kray..
haan hamari society main aysa hey k aik wife apny husband ko kisi ghair larrki sy aur aik husband apni wife ko kisi ghair larrky sy batain karta nahi daikh sakty aur na hi bardasht kar sakty hain...chahy ghair female ghair male sy aur ghair male ghair female sy behan bhai k rishtey sy hi baat q na kar rehy hoon....!!!
laiken dear prince4 abi aap ki shadi nahi hoi hey aur abi tak aap ko wo haq nahi mila jo nikah k baad husband ka wife pr hota hey ...abi to aap b apni fiancee k liye namehram hi hain..iss liye aap ka to yeh haq b nahi banta k aap apni mangaiter sy baat tak karain che jey k aap ussy kissi aur sy baat karta daikh nahi saktey..
beharhaal aap ki fiancee ny agar yeh kaha hey k wo apny behnoie sy behan ban kar aur uss ka behnoie uss sy bhai k rishtey sy baat karta hey to iss baat ko aap man-o-ann maan lejiye...agar aap ki zindgi main abi sy shakook-o-shubhaat ny jaga ly li to phir sari zindgi aik sath akathey guzarana nihayet hi mushkal hoo ga....
doosri baat yeh b hey k agar aap apni fiancee ko uss k behnoi sy baat karny sy mana kar rehy hain sirf iss liye k aap ki ghairat guwara nahi karti to phir zara sochye k kal kalan ko agar app ki saas ya susar ko yeh baat naguwaar guzrti hey k unn ka hony wala damad unn ki baiti sy raat geye tak nikah sy pehly batain q karta hey...to tab aap kia karain gy |
| Prince4 |
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| Posted on:4th Apr 2010, 1:38am |
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TO DIPLOMATE.... TO DIPLOMATE....
Dear mera nikkah ho chuka hia telephone py...but baqaida shadi kuch months tk hoge...isliya may us k liya Namehrm ni hn...i m her Husbnd ...as v did nikkah som montsh agoo |
| Diplomate |
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| Posted on:4th Apr 2010, 9:51am |
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Re:How To create Best understanding Between Feoncy mera engagment mere cozn sy hue thee lasts year...hmara relation bht lovly & friendly hai.
main ny pehly aap ki di gaye iss statement k khawaly sy answer kiya tha..laiken abi aap ki staement yeh hogeye hey...
Dear Prince4.....!!!!
Dear mera nikkah ho chuka hia telephone py...but baqaida shadi kuch months tk hoge
lehaza ab iss soorat-e-haal main aap ko yeh mashwara diya jata hey k aap uss larrki sy baat karny ki bajaye uss k parents sy baat karain..aur wo b direct nahi bulky apny waldain k through
q k aap k barry yaqeena'an aap ki behtri ko sochtey howey iss mu'amly ko achi trah sy hi tackle aur solove krain gy...q k aap ki age abi jazbati marhley main hey aur hosakta hey aap masley ko sudharney ki bajaye ussy mazeed bigaarr dain..
iss liye behtar yehi hey k aap k waldain ya guardians uss larrki k waldain ya guardians sy baat karain..!!! |
| Prince4 |
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| Posted on:4th Apr 2010, 12:09pm |
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To DIPOMATE dear mera Nikkah fone py hoa thaa isliya may ny ye baat ni ke phly...
but ap ny jo baat ke hai may pori koshish krn ga ye krnay ke...i will in form her parentss.but us sy phly may ek br phr baat krn ga apni wife sy... |
| Khurram844 |
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| Posted on:21st Apr 2010, 1:08am |
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Wah wah wah bahoot achay 1 or maslay kooo falsafay or bila waja kay mashwaro ki nazer kerdia gaya .. ! aray 1 banda pareshan haay oski mangeter ho ya wife hoo ager osko 2 bajay call ai hay or osko fitri tor per bora lagra hay ... to olta osko sikha rahay hainnn .. pata nahi konsay sadi kay log hain .. mangeter ho ya bv hooo iski isko nahi pasand koi or isko phone karay woh bhi raat ko 2 bajay ... saman to isi ka hay na ... woh yehan islamiat perhnay nahi aya hay .. jo her koi molana ban ker sharo ho jata haay .. !
prince .. tum nay os say pochaa .. phone kion aya thaa.. koi emergency thi ya koi messege tha zaroriiii jo raat kay 2 bajay dena zarori thaa .. ! or sirf tumhari mangeter ko hi dia ja sakta thaa oskay walid ko nahi to phir dost tum berdasht karoo ... ager baat yeh hay kay woh timepass or batainn kernay kay lyeh phone kia thaa too phir tumhara naraz hona jaez haay .. eent say eent baja dalooo
larki ko pyar say samjha dooo kay mujhaay yeh 2 bajay wali call pasand nahi chahay woh tumhara bahii hoo yaa behan hoiii osko kaam hay koi tumharay baap ko phone kia karay raat kay 2bajay call nahi kia karay .. samajhdaar hogi too man jaeygii .. nahi mantii to phirr direct oskiii behan ko phone karoo 2 bajay raat ko. jab woh pochayyy kion phone kiaa to bolna tumhara mia tumhari behan ko 2 bajay call kerta haay dil lagi kay ley too mainay sochaa app say pochoo app kia gher per nahiii hotii hoo raat kooo .. ager hotii ho too zara is say pochoo raat 2 bajay tumhari behan say iska kia kaam haay .. ! khood sara mamla band hojaeyga .. !
or jo baki log bol rahay hainnnn tobah karoo yeh karo woh karoo tum sirf chat ker rahay hooo koi oskay sath zina nahii kham khaa molvi ban nay ajatay hainn khooood pata nahi kitnaaay pani may hongaayy .. ! khaiiir
ager woh nahi mantii hay too tum bhiii 2 bajay kay time boldoo kay meri freind ka phone aya haay may oska phone attend ker raha hon .. or chatting say log out ho jaaooo simple .. phir dekhnaa seedhi hojaeygii inshallah .. !
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| hasna |
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| Posted on:27th Apr 2010, 1:17pm |
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prince yha sab males ne jawab dia hai apko aur apki preshani km nhi hui ziada hogai hai.................:)sabse pehel ye k wo apki wife hai apka farz bnta hai k ap usko hud samjhaye parents tk baat nhi le kr jaye isse apki ainda life me preshani hogi kio k jb baat bro me jati hai to wo chuti nhi hai aur apki wife ye b samjh sakti hai k apne us per shak kia hai..............wife k parents b samjh sakte he k ap shaki mizaaj k he.dono surto me apka bura haal hona isliye apni bv ko samjhaye k wo apne behnoi se km baat kre jb uski sister hai waha to usko apni sister se baat krni chhye. abhi ap apni wife k pass nhi thy k usko kiski call ayi hai aur usne kitni dair baat kri hai......apki wife k dil me kuch aisa waisa hota to apko btati b nhi k call ayi wo ye b keh sakti thi k sister ki call hai na k nehnoi ki hai aur apky is rawaiye se hosakta hai k ainda chupane lg jaye isse apka nuqsaan hai.............abhi to ap usko pyar se samjha sakte he aur jo baat pyar se samjhai jati hai gusee se aur garam joshi me kbhi b samjh me nhi ati hai.
ap apni bv se rabita kre aur usko mna kre k baat nhi kre apko acha nhi lgta hai aur dosra hal ye hai k ap b apni wife ki sister ko raat k 2bjy call kre taky usky hubby ko b apni ghalti ka ehsaas ho...............wo kisko puchy ga jbky wo hud aise krta jb wo apki wife ko raat k 2bjy call krsakta ap apni sali ko kro...............wo soi hai ya jaag rhi hai apko pta chly ga aur agy apni wife ko samjhaye k sister k soty huye call ka kia maqsad aur jaag rhi hai to befiqar hojaye.
husband wife ka rishta pyaar ka rishta hai aitbaar ka isko tootnay nhi daina jb wo apky pass ajaye gi koi b ho apki mrzi k bghair na usse baat kr saky ga aur na hi jurat kre ga. |
| sunehri76 |
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| Posted on:30th Apr 2010, 4:44am |
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agreed with hasna´s replay..
behnoi aur sali ka rishta aisa hota hai ke jisme understanding bhi hoti hai aur phir bhi ek lehaaz hota hai.....
apko apni wife se rabta karna chahye,aur unhe araam se samjhana chahye..apna point of view bhi aur unka bhi sunye..kyoonke apke rawaye se wo yehi sochengi ke ap shaki mizaaj hain,aur iske nuksanat bhi hain...
dusri taraf sab se eham bat ye hai ,ke apne upar likha hai ke apki wife ka ye bhi kehna hai ke wo aksar use call karte hain... agar wo aksar isi time call karte hain,to i think ye bat thik nahi hai... rat ke do baje wo aise kaunse zaroori kam ke lye use fone kar rahe the..ye bat mai soch rahi hun..to apka aisa sochna ek zahiri si bat hai...
barhal apko ye mamla samajhdari se handel karna chahye..apni biwi ko aitmad me le kar,use yaqeen dilayen ke ainda ap is tarah ghussa nahi karenge ,aur uske bad ap apna point of view unhe samjhayen..
meri khud mere behnoi se bohat ziada understanding hai..unke sath bohat ziada mazaak hai..unse fone bhi bat hoti hai,...mai unse billa jhijak kuch bhi mang leti hun...lekin phir bhi itni understanding ke bawjood kabhi zaroorat nahi padi ke special calls ayen....lekin agar wo mujhse apni koi problem koi pareshani share karna chahain to phir mai unki call ka bura nahi manungi..but ye bhi is bat pe depend karta hai ke unhe problem kya hai.. |
| Prince4 |
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| Posted on:3rd May 2010, 12:19pm |
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THANKS GUYS Thanks alot DIPLOMAT, KHURRUM, HASNA& SUNEHRI.......ap sb ka shukria ap k comments ka...
ap sb sy ek aur baat share krn ag k mere wife abi k mg sy Naraz hai k may ny ussay us raat ko etna danta kiun thaa....aur mgy is baat py gussa hai k ussay Hmaray relation sy zayada us sy baat krna impt thaa us k liay jo abi tk us baat ko lay k bethe hai...may ny ussay kha b may tmhari sis ko call krn ga raat ko to tme sb pta chal jai ga k kn sai hai n kn galat to us ka jawab thaa k "kr k dekh lena un ke soch ap ke tarah ni hai"
ab ap log mgy batain k is baat sy mna krnay may kya Narro minded ho jata hn??ap k khayl may agr may apni wife ko raat ko apni sis k husbnd sy baat krnay dia krn to kya ye achi baat hai??
July may hmari baqaida Shadi hai..(abi just nikkah hua hai) tb kya jb raat ko may apni wife k stah hoa krn ga to wo ussay call kray to kya ye thek hoga??
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| Khurram844 |
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| Posted on:7th May 2010, 5:44pm |
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haha
1 baat to sahi ki nahi tumnay parrot jo is banday kay kaam ajaye .. bas kham ki haa hoshyari jhaar rahay hooo ... bv ho ya mangeter mard thora possesive ho jata hay larki ko le ker ... ab tum boloo dekho bhi nahi too tum jaisay taliban dimag jahil muslims se Allah bachaye .. !!
@prince ... !
tum sirf 1 baat poch ker batao osko kaam kia thaa .... ager woh nahi bataye to oskay behan oi ko pakroo or thora karak baaat karoo kay kia kaam tha tujhaay jo 2 bajay call kerta haay ager abhi se step nahi liaa to agay chal ker shadi kharab honay ka andesha haaay ... iska behan hoi akal mand hoga too khood samajh jayega nahi karegaa .. bv to tumhari thori bacha dimag lag rahi haay ... ! phir bhi baaat na banay to direct apni sali say dostii kerna or free hona sharo kerdoo kabhi kahinn bethoo ho too ziada dihan sali per doo na ke apni bv per .. bv ko esa kerdoo jasiay 2 kori ki hoo .. or tumhara dihan sirf tumhari sali per hona chayeh .. jab sali bolay kay app kion tina be takaluf ho rahay hain too bolo tumhara miaan bhi too 2 bajay call kerta haay mainay too bora nahi manaya app narrow mind mat banoo ... sali adhi gherwali hoti haay phir dekhnaa yeh loog khoood raste per ajeygay ... phir bhi inko akal nahi atii haay may to kahongaa dil may mat rakhooo boldoo saaf saaf
phir bhalay bv lagta hay shaki hoo narrow mind hoo ya zidi ho.. jo bhi hoo oskay husband hooo or tumhara hak banta haay os ko kaisay kia kerwana hay kia nahi kerwana .. ! ager woh hak tumnay abhi nahi liaa to kabhi nahi milayga hameshaa shak kertay or bora manatay reh jaogay .. ! zindagi bhar ka pashtana acha ya abhi baat clear kerna achaa soch loooo !! or daro nahii mard banoo naraaz ho ya bora lagay tumko yeh harkat pasand nahi tooo samnay moo per ja ker bolooo sab kooo yeh kia herkat ho rahi haay mainay isko samjhaya too olta mujhay shaki or narrow mind bol rahiii haay !! baat clear ho gi ya tension say jan choot jaeygi ... !
good luck !
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| sunehri76 |
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| Posted on:7th May 2010, 6:38pm |
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Prince aksar mard Prossesiv ho jate hain ..apni biwi aur mangetar ko le kar..aur issi lye apko mashwara diya gaya hai ke is bat ka issue na banaye...
aksar ladkiyan apne behnoi se free hoti hain,ye koi ghair mamooli bat nahi hai..lekin agar apko ye feel ho ke wo aksar ek dusre se rat ke time fone pe bat karte hain to phir apka aitraz banta hai..!! |
| Khurram844 |
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| Posted on:8th May 2010, 6:11am |
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Sunehri aksar mard Prossesiv ho jate hain ..apni biwi aur mangetar ko le
kar..aur issi lye apko mashwara diya gaya hai ke is bat ka issue na
banaye...
sister issue kaisay nahi banayeh .. !! yehi baat ager isnay kerdi hotii too woh belan le ker isko manray agai hotii... husband kisi or larki say baat kerlay raat kay 2 bajay too larkia zameeen asman 1 kerdeti haay ... or jab khoood kisi ko mo bola bahi bana le yaa behan oi say free honay lagay tooo fashion ... hmm good .. !
isko pasand nahii kay koi phone keray woh bhi 2 bajay .. khatam hogai baat ... yeh kaisi larki haay jo olta jawab de rahi hay app narrow mind hooo ... samjhao sahi say samjhao patri per lao osko nahi la saktay to hamesha ke lyeh yeh berdasht karoo simple as that .. !!
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| SaadY |
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| Posted on:11th May 2010, 4:44am |
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I hope i will help for my brother prince4 Jahan tak main samajh paya hon meri tu sab say pahli galati apnay ya kerdi k ap nay apni honay wali wife ko danta jis ka apko gunnah b mil sakta ha..... dosri cheez ager apko samjhana he tha tu meray bhai thora piyar say or aram say samjhtay q apnay beech shaytan ko anay daytay hoo ap ....... ya shaytan ha mara bhai..... or jab b gussa ata ha tu wo shatan he hota ha q apnay rishtay or apnay apko shaytan ki taraf dhakeeltay ho bhai .... ok bro ap apnay apko ko b shaytan say door rakhoo or koshish keroo ka apnay rishtay ko pure rakhoo or her cheez say pak May ALLAH keep ur relation save and pure AAMEEN!
raha sawal k unk sis k husband ka k unko call itni late ayi tu zahir si bat ha shak hoga lakin ager ap ya bat zara piyar mohabat say kertay tu zaida acha hota or sister ko samajh b ati ......
Tu bahter ya he ha k ap un say ya kahein k bhi seedhi si bat ha k late night call kerna achi nahi or dorsi bat ager call kerni he ha tu din may ker legiya .... tu ager ay bat piyar say kisi ko samjhayi jayi tu INSHALLAH ALLAH madad keringay apki b or sab ki
May ALLAH forgive us AAMEEN! |
| Prince4 |
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| Posted on:13th May 2010, 6:32pm |
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@ SAADY Saddy Bhai us tim gussa aa e jata hai & cntrol krna thora mushkl ho ho jata hai & meray sy b cntrl ni hoa thaa & isliay may ny ussay kfi dant dia thaa...aur zayada gussa isi baat py thaa k may NARROw MINDED ho gia hn ye mna krnay sy....us tim py bht mushkl hota hai gussa cntrol krna but i kno u r riet k AGR payar sy smjaya hota to baat tb e khtm ho jati...
Mera to ye b dil thaa k direct us ek sis k husbnd ko cal kr k b sunaon thori c but phr baat zayada brh jani thee isliya may ny cntrl kai khud y...
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| s4u |
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| Posted on:14th May 2010, 7:31am |
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 rE:Prince
kia aap ki sulah hoi?
aap bilkul sahi h aur aap ne apni wife ko dant k kuch bura nahi kia.baqi sab ne bhot ache mashwarey die hain aapko.main kia likhon.chalin rehne deti hon.kuch nahi likhti |
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