Malkiyat: Family Problem.

Aoa. I hope all of you will be fine. i need your help.

My sister was married with my cousion in 2001. He was nice man, but Allah gave him short life (39 year) and he died in 2005. before his death he suffered parallise (Falij). My sister cared him alot. even every one (his brothers) tried to keep far from him.

At the time, they married, the family was combined. so they put gold (jahiz) to my sister in form of two seats and 6 bangles (chorian). about 15 tola.

The house where families live is 20 marla, divided in to 5 marla for each son (my anty have 4 sons including my brother in law). but these 5 marlas are not rigistered to any son. still registered to my uncle name.

My sister had spent about 1,50,000 (sister salary, she is a teacher)on his portion as making new room after marry.

Now they are demanding the gold which they put to my sister, after 4 year death of my cousion. they said that u have right of only 1/8th from it. they said they will pay money as u spend on the construction. but not any from property, as it is in the name of my uncle, as orally they said it is the portion of that son. even other sons who are live enjoying there right.

please let me know what are the rights accoding to islam. total gold was put to my sister. I want follow islam. even we loss any thing. we sure Allah give her reward evne she has left her all. They are famous in family that they are big follower of islam.

Pray for my family , regard

  imran

Malkit 1

Sorry to mentioned that, on this gold my sister has paid zakat regularly. even when my brother in law was lived , my sister paid zakat on it. she thought it is her malkiat.

bye

pakiyaar bhai

shadi k waqt jo gold larki ko diya jata hae woh usi ka hota hae , agar kisi se waqti lekar nahi pehnaya gaya tou . woh is ki zakaat bhi deti rahi hain .betay ki death k baad iasa karna nahyat hi afsosnak baat hae . aap ko myrizvi is baray main detailed reply karaingay .

aap ki behan ka haq mehar kitna tha aur kiya woh paid hae ?

un k kitnay kids hain ? bachon ka dada ki property pe haq hota hae ?

rizvi bhai plz is ka bhi answer karain

very sad story

Allah apki sister ko sabray jameel ataa karay.aur apsab ko yeh mushkil ghaRi say jald az jald nijaat day. aameen yeh sab Allah ki taraf say aazmaish hoti haiN. Allah yeh dekhna chaahta hai k oski bheji howi aazmaish k bawajood kaun hai jo mujh Alah say jura rahta hai, sabr karta hai takay maiN ossay behtar ajar douN.

ab aatay hain apkay haqay milkiyat ki taraf.

1. apki sister ko jo gold shadi par mila thaa...woh saray ka saraa oski milkiyat hai. oss gold par kissi aur ka ki haq nahi. agar yeh gold apki sister k qabzay main hain aur apki sister hanooz susral walay ghar main rahti hai to ossay chhaiyeh k apnay zewraat ko mahfooz karlay..bank lockers yaa maikah main rakhwa day...takay koi dhokay /chori say cheen nah sakay.

2. ghar ka portion agar apkay brother-in-law k naam par nahi to zaahir see baat hai k phir iska maalik qanooni taur par apki bahan ka susar hai...agar woh zulman issay apnay marhoom beTay k turkay main shamil nahi kartaa to Alah oss say zaroor poochega. magar qanooni taur par ap yeh jaidaad hasil nahi karsakti, if they are not willing to give ur sister.

3. iss portion par apki sister nay apni kamayee say jo kharch kia hai, agar woh raqam apki bahan k susraal walay denay par tayyar hain to kam az kam woh zaroor lay laiN...baad main woh iss say bhi mokar saktay haiN.

4. apnay yeh nahi batlayaa k apki sister ki 4 salah azdawaji zindagi main koi aulaad bhi howi yaa nahi.... agar aulaad maujood hai aur apki sister apnay aulaad k hamraah ossi susraal walay ghar main rahnaa chahti hai aur susraal walay ghar say nikaalnay ka nahi kah rahay to apnay bachoun k saath ossay waheeN rahna chhaiyeh... iss tarah bachay apnay dada dadi aur chachaa k saath palay barhengay aur jab woh baRay baaligh hojayengay to apna HAQ bhi easily hasil karsakengay. iss bharay ghar maiN onki parwarish bhi behtar hogi. apki sister to already job karti hai. ossay paalnay maiN koi diqqat nahi hogi.

5. agar koi aulaad nah ho to phir behtar yehi hogaa k ap log oski doosri shadi ki fikar karaiN... jaidaad ki nahi.... Allah ossay behtar shauher /ghar ataa karegaa.

2.

dada ki property maiN potay ka hissa

1. dada k inteqaal k baad dada ki property maiN (yateem) potay ka koi hissah nahi hotaa....... agar dada nay apni property maiN say apnay marhoom beTay ko oska haq oski zindagi maiN nahi dia to dada ko chhaiyeh k woh apni zindagi maiN hi apnay marhoom betay ka hissa apnay yateem potay ko day day. k insaaaf yehi hai. apni zindagi main koi shakhs kissi ko bhi kuch bhi day sakta hai (bah shartekay iss say kissi ki haq talfi nah ho)... magar oskay marnay k baad oski property maiN oskay yateem potay ka islamically koi hissah nahi hotaa...meray khayaal say..

2. marhoom shakhs k naam par agar koi property /raqam etc hai to woh bhi werasat main taqseem hogi.... marhoom k wirsay main oskay baap, maaN, biwi aur bachouN ka hissah hogaa...... sahih %ge k liyeh kissi bhi book say dekh laiN yaa qareebi kissi aalim say maloom kar laiN.

3, haqay mahar agar paid nahi to yeh marhoom ki daulat say sab say pahlay lia jayegaa. agar marhoomnay kuch chora ho to.... agar marhoom nay kuch nahi choraaaur haqay mahar paid ahi to biwi oss par ehsaan kartay howay haqay mahar maaf karsakti hai.... agar maaf nah karay to rozay hashar marhoom ko biwi ka yeh haq dena paRegaa.

3. "asal maslah" pakiyaar bhai ki sister ka nahi balkay onkay susraal waloun ka hai k woh islamically apni bahoo k saath kia salook kartay haiN... ehsaan ka yaa zulm kaa... aur zulm ki soorat main onki bewah bahan qanoon say kis had tak help lay sakti hai. chouNkay bewah ka rehaishy portion oskay husband k naam par nahi hai lehaza woh qanoonan to issay hasil nahi karsakti. albattah susraal walouN say kah sakti hai ... lekin woh agar etay achay hotay to zewar ka motaalebah nah kartay....

Allah bewah k haal par raham karay. onhaiN iss aazmaish ki ghaRi main imaan ki salamti k saath behtar mustaqbil ko yaqeeni banaa.ay. aameen

lalach

Myrizvi and Maryam sister

Thanks for replay.

1. Haq mahar was 500 rs. which they paid at time of nakkah.

2. she dont get babies. as he had kidney stones. so dr, suggested this is main problem.

3. she spend till now most of time in his husband house. as his parents are my relatives (mother elder sister family). from two months she come back in parents house.

4. they say they will pay the money which she spend on construction and she borrow (50 thousand) them after death of my cousion, only if she give them gold.

5. he had small shop. in that shop he did have own money. as my sister gave him money to start business. as after his illness his brother seprated from business and they got nothing. shop was in loss. my sister gave him 2 lakh and at time on his death shop goods was in 1.8 lakh. so at that time my sister loss 20 thousands.

My family dont want any gold and share from property. they dont want hurt any one. But i think if they can go to such a limit why not we demand own right. sab sa ziada my sister na problem face ki hian. before my cousion death, he remained in falij for 1.5 years. she cared him in the way, no body can imagine. most of time i went with him for medical checkup. all of his brother showed they are busy too much. they had age gap of 12 years. No doubt he was nice man and he loved her alot.   

regards  

pakiyaar

ab aplog kia chaahtay haiN?

1. sisterr walay portion ki jaqay milkiyat? chouNkay yeh hissah marhoom k naam nahi lehaza legally issay hasil karna taqreeban naa.mumkin hai. albattah baRay buzurgouN ko darmayaan maiN daal kar yeh hissa hasil kia jasakta hai, agar woh day daiN to.

2.agar apki family kuch nahi chaahti to behtar hai k ab wahaan say ki talluq hi nah rakhaiN...aur nah hi apnay gold /zewraat ko kissi bhi soorat main wapis karaiN.

3. bay.shak aplog hurt howay haiN. iska ajar to Allah k zimmay hai.apki bahan nay husband ki jo khidmat ki hai, iska ajar bhi aakherat maiN zaroor milega. insha Allah

4. agar woh gold /zewraat ki wapsi k liyeh koi zore daaltay haiN /tang kartay haiN to jawaban aplog koi legal notice onhaiN bhej saktay hain k zewar to milega nahi a;battah marhoom wala portion ki milkiyat hamaiN dee jaa.ay. yaa onpar jo kharch howa hai woh dia jaa.ay...aisaa mahaz qanooni dhamki /pressure hi hoga. iss say haasil kuch honay ka imkaan kam hi hai..........aisay moqadmay saalouN chaltay haiN. wakeel dounouN taraf say maalsamaiT.tay rahtay haiN....... ap sirf aik notice day kar bhool jayaiN

5. behtar yehi hoga k ap log apni sister ki doosri shadi karnay ki koshish karaiN. aur yeh koi zeyadah mushkil kaam nahi k apki sister ki age abhi zeyadah nahi, doosray koi aulaad nahi, teesray woh job bhi karti hai aur onki aik shop bhi hai.......aisay maiN to koi kanwarah rishtah bhi miljata hai...lekin agar koi jawaan rishtah aisaa mil jaa.ay jiski biwi wafaat paachuki ho, osay chor chuki ho aur oskay 1/2 bachay bhi houN..... to phir apki sister k liyeh aisa rishtah acha rahega. oski apni koi aulaad to nahi hosakti...agar woh apnay 2nd husband ki aulaad ki parwarish karegi to ajar bhi milegaa aur zindagi bhi asaan hojayegi...old age maiN